"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3618149]So I've used SA in the past to great success but recently it's been getting more and more difficult. After some looking into it, it's finally happened. There's way more SDs than SBs in my part of the world and it's making it very very tough. A cute girl is literally peppered with messages all from a more and more desperate large pool of guys. This leads to gps, flaking, and thinking that platonic is actually a real thing. I suspect once guys join the site they stay on and never really go away making the pool of guys bigger over time but the number of active girls is fairly constant.

Anyone else noticing this?[/QUOTE]The way to tell is set your search radius and see how many sb's it shows in that search. Then have a sb friend do the same for sd's. Compare the numbers, to see what the ratio is. Oh and really the guys numbers should be much less because your only in competition with premium guys. I doubt that the number of paying men is equal to the number of girls joining on a daily basis.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3618264]The way to tell is set your search radius and see how many sb's it shows in that search. Then have a sb friend do the same for sd's. Compare the numbers, to see what the ratio is. Oh and really the guys numbers should be much less because your only in competition with premium guys. I doubt that the number of paying men is equal to the number of girls joining on a daily basis.[/QUOTE]I did exactly that. In my 50 mile radius there's about 2-3 SD per active SB. Most SDs are not searchable anyway, they come out when they see a profile they like. This girl is super nice and although the public search shows 20 Premium SD in the radius, her mail box is overflowing with 50 local guys.

[QUOTE=Mes0623;3607481]AS anyone been in contact with Uncomplicated123 on SA. Was thinking about reaching out to her. Looks very hot![/QUOTE]I meet her for lunch, Decent looking but now she has gone silent.

So, are we forever giving up our chances to be elected to political office by being in the bowl? I mean, Moore is only accused of dating women half his age, whereas there are a few of us here (of course, we've reached an age where this is legal) who have reached the 'one third our age' milestone. LOL. Which part has everyone so up in arms? Just that he was so much older than those he dated? Trump is 30 years older than Melanie, right?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3620038]So, are we forever giving up our chances to be elected to political office by being in the bowl? I mean, Moore is only accused of dating women half his age, whereas there are a few of us here (of course, we've reached an age where this is legal) who have reached the 'one third our age' milestone. LOL. Which part has everyone so up in arms? Just that he was so much older than those he dated? Trump is 30 years older than Melanie, right?[/QUOTE]Allegations are that he was in his 30's and sexually harassing / assaulting / touching teenage girls under age 18, (15,16). He is in trouble for the legal claims he sexually messed w / underage girls, no crime with being older, but there is if girls are under 18.

So recently I had to swith teams and download the Text Now app since the Sideline app now requires a monthly fee to continue using the service. I was using the Text now app and was in the middle of a conversation with a sugar pot when I decided to text the SO on my real phone just to check in. Instead of sending a text, my phone ended up dialing and the phone rang while I was on the phone with a potential SB. Lucky the SO didn't answer and it went to vocemail. As if that wasn't enough, it happened a second time. My phone dialed again and it went straight to voicemail. I guess my question would be; If the SO had answered, would she be able to hear our conversation?

[QUOTE=FreeF;3620159]Allegations are that he was in his 30's and sexually harassing / assaulting / touching teenage girls under age 18, (15,16). He is in trouble for the legal claims he sexually messed w / underage girls, no crime with being older, but there is if girls are under 18.[/QUOTE]Well, IDK that there is anything sacrosanct about 18 - read some of the pages on the interweb about age of consent. In many states, it is 16. I believe that is what it was in Alabama when the offenses are alleged to have occurred. Amazingly, today even in liberal states like Massachusetts, with parental permission the age permitted for marriage is much lower than that.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3620562]Well, IDK that there is anything sacrosanct about 18 - read some of the pages on the interweb about age of consent. In many states, it is 16. I believe that is what it was in Alabama when the offenses are alleged to have occurred. Amazingly, today even in liberal states like Massachusetts, with parental permission the age permitted for marriage is much lower than that.[/QUOTE]May not be anything sacrosanct about 18, but definitely if it is non-consensual then there can be trouble, he is being alleged to have no consent from the girls at the time of his touching them whether they were below 18 or not.

[QUOTE=Rvaexec60;3610980]I meet her one time and had a nice dream withe her. Go the same text message from her mother. She partied a little too much with her friends and got something laced with something that as not too cool. She is okay for a good time.[/QUOTE]Thats her SA name.

Met her for lunch once then had her over to the house. All she wanted to do was get stoned but it didn't cost me anything.

Then I got that same text from her mother LOL. I got back in touch with her about a week after but haven't seen her. She is on SA every day so she is def active.

Brothers,

I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

All the rest, keep up the good work!

Scott.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4304c16d-0527-4cfe-a1fc-84c1fa4250db[/URL]

[QUOTE=FScott;3621371]Brothers,

I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

All the rest, keep up the good work!

Scott.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4304c16d-0527-4cfe-a1fc-84c1fa4250db[/URL][/QUOTE]I just looked a that profile and makes me throw up in my mouth a little, never meet, geez if there are any guys who have that much money and get off by being financially dominated, then your just stupid is all I got to say.

[QUOTE=JackCat58;3621627]I just looked a that profile and makes me throw up in my mouth a little, never meet, geez if there are any guys who have that much money and get off by being financially dominated, then your just stupid is all I got to say.[/QUOTE]Guess it falls in the category of each their own. Same for guys who have more $$$ to spend than most and spend it. Just the way of the world.

I love this thread and have gained valuable knowledge and the bowl has been good for me as I have experienced on average 19 to 25 yr old women and you can never tire of that. The recent bullshit lately though from these SBs is getting on my last nerve. Just last week in making arrangements for meetings this week: SB Yes Tuesday works, about 7:45, confirm over the weekend and she says yes as long as she can find someone to watch her dog. WTF?? Needless to say it's Tuesday and never heard back from her. Another SB: Yes Wednesday is great, look forward to meeting you! Gave me her # and we texted all afternoon one day and then try to co firm with her over the weekend. Crickets are still chirping! Yesterday, another SB: yes I can probably meet this evening for a bit. Me: Great, I can meet anytime after 7:30. Reads it in a few minutes after sent. Crickets there too! . Today is the Kicker. Going to meet 19 yr old at Starbucks at 6:30, messaged at 4 pm to set up, she says that works. Get there, 6:45 still no cute 19 yr old SB showing up, messaged her. SB Oh I at last minute went to dinner with my family, be back at my car soon. Then she asks are you there? Me: yes but if it's going to be a bit, let's do another day. SB I am so sorry. Me pissed and I proceed to ask why a message from her would not have been the nice thing to do to let me know what was going on so we could have met later or another day and basically told her I was tired of SB's crap. Then she says: honestly, I was real busy all day with lots to do and I forgot. I reminded her that she just confirmed at 4 pm and that was 2. 5 hours ago, not all day. Anyway, seems to be getting worse with many of them. It's a numbers game I know, just don't get how interested they are one minute then blow you off the next. Anyone else experiencing this?

[QUOTE=JackCat58;3621627]I just looked a that profile and makes me throw up in my mouth a little, never meet, geez if there are any guys who have that much money and get off by being financially dominated, then your just stupid is all I got to say.[/QUOTE]I've seen several saying the same thing but here is one in VA if any of the local guys want to be dominated. LOL, not my cup of tea.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9f2809dd-0b65-4e4a-8262-a1760601067e[/URL]

FinDom is a sad joke on stupid girls. It's an urban legend. And please don't point me to some internet article done by someone that gets paid pennies per piece to write click-bait all day.

Imagine that, a girl reads this crap and instantly thinks "I love to treat people like crap and I love money, cha ching". Doesn't it sound just too perfect for any vapid, talentless girl out there? It's almost as if someone sat down and thought "what could I come up with that would make any stupid girl giddy with excitement". There's a reason those girls never post for long: there's no takers for this non-sense. Think about it, these girls posting that stuff get all these messages saying "haha, you're dumb". If they even got a real 'findom pig' once in a while they would stick around for the payoff. But in the end all they get is mild abuse and eventually just go away.

[QUOTE=FScott;3621371]Brothers,

I am seeing more and more of this kind of thing. FinDom bullshit! Is it just wishful thinking on the SB's part, or is this a real perversion that is slowly going to spoil the Bowl? Any of you poor bastards out there who want to pay to be verbally humiliated, whatever you're quoted, I'll do it for half!

All the rest, keep up the good work!

Scott.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4304c16d-0527-4cfe-a1fc-84c1fa4250db[/URL][/QUOTE]