Excellent Primer for Newbies
My most recent lasted three years, single mom who said if she was going to have sex with a guy she might as well get paid for it! After a "get-to-know-you" weekend at a boutique hotel on the coast (her suggestion after a few days of texting), I paid her rent, she gave me a key to the apartment and I spent 2-3 day weekends there every week. Fantastic sex. Definitely a unicorn. But definitely the exception.
Best advice is to ease into it until you figure out what your budget and schedule will accommodate. And NEVER hand over cash until the intimate date. I prefer at least a few days of casual texting, m / g over coffee or drinks, or late lunch at a sit-down restaurant when the crowd has gone back to work and you can have a semi-private conversation. PPM for each intimate "meeting" until you're satisfied she's not going to bolt when you giver her the first monthly allowance.
[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;6879551]The "arrangement" is whatever 2 consenting adults want it to be. For most people, that's dates plus sex for cash. For some, it's just straight up sex for cash. However, there are some girls and guys that use gifts / trips / fancy dinners instead of pure cash. The arrangement might be "I take you to 5 star restaurants and a shopping trip and we hook up afterwards. ".
I've had a few that just wanted to be "spoiled" occasionally in exchange for hooking up. About a year or so back I had a early 30's cutie who just wanted a mani / pedi / massage spa day once a month. If I paid for that for her once a month, she'd fuck my brains out every week. It was a pretty sweet deal, but not very common. I had one late last year that agreed to hook up with me if I would sub to her OnlyF*ns afterwards (I would never agree to beforehand). We met at a hotel, we fucked twice, I subbed to her OF right there on the spot for $15. Canceled it a couple of weeks later after she ghosted, but not before downloading all her material.
Most of my cash arrangements are 200 per intimate date, plus I pay for hotel, or if they can host, I'll do 300 for them per intimate date. If we meet for coffee or dinner I'll cover the tab as well.
When I first talk to a potential sugar baby (or POT) I get to know them first, standard online dating questions. Once we've been talking a few hours, or even a day or 2, I'll normally ask them if they want to talk about the "arrangement." I ask them what they are looking for, and try to get them to be the first to mention money, though some will play coy. If they do, I'll generally ask them if they prefer a cash allowance, gifts, or something else. Once they finally tell me what they are looking for, then I'll ask if they are willing to talk through the intimate details so we can make sure we have chemistry before figuring the specifics of the arrangement. At that point I point blank ask them what they enjoy sexually, and have a pretty detailed talk about what turns them on. If this goes well then our conversation will actually turn them on. If they're turned on enough, I can usually get nudes / vids at this point for free. Another bonus of turning them on is they actually will WANT to meet you, and are willing to see you for less than normal (since if theoretically if you turned them on here you could have just as easily turned them on through a standard dating site and they would've fucked you for free anyways). Once I feel like they really like me, I ask them specifically what they are looking for allowance/gift wise, and then negotiate from there.
It's not a 100% success rate but you can comb through my post history under this thread to see specific examples. When my SA sub is active, I can normally bag 4-5 different girls, usually in their early 20s - early 30s, maybe the occasional 19 year old, and never pay more than 300 per date. You have to be willing to pass on girls who have GPS (gold pussy syndrome), the girls who are wannabe instagram models or influencers who think a billionaire should pay them thousands a week. When someone is unreasonable or not willing to move come down to a reasonable arrangement, I tell them we're not a good fit and move on. Remember, there's a LOT more "average income" guys on the site than there are multi-millionaires, and as long as you're willing to say "no" to some very pretty girls, you'll find some real pretty ones that'll take great care of you, are grateful for the help you give them, and won't break the bank.[/QUOTE]
Got robbed. Beautyqueen1937
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I've been talking to her for weeks. Exchanging pics and just having normal conversation. Said her and her roommate needed money for rent. They offered a 3 way for $600. She gave me her address. I show up and they lead me to the bedroom. Everything checked out so far. As soon as I hand over the cash, a dude runs out asking what I'm doing in his house and kicks me out while pretending to yell at the girls for having me over. They run off and hide.
I'm deciding what I want to do since his house isn't far and her number isn't a burner. I use [URL]Spokeo.com[/URL] to find out all the info.
She has none of my info. I use a burner myself and leave my wallet in my vehicle anytime I meet someone.
