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She has messaged me as well and seems to be always busy.
[QUOTE=Fubar69;3595574]He guys recently got back into the bowl and got hit up by this one but she talks like a pro. Any of you guys had any dealings with her? I've asked for a pic several times and she still hasn't sent me one. The one on her profile looks like she is in a notel.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2d8ee73b-d910-404e-bbb3-4bda6f26141e[/URL][/QUOTE]
Wow I just joined SA one more time and all I can find is GPS! Wow crazy.
[QUOTE=Luvyounger;3598025]Wow I just joined SA one more time and all I can find is GPS! Wow crazy.[/QUOTE]Similar in my region. All these average girls, who don't have two dollars to rub together, think that a couple of hundreds is too little to bother getting out of the house. Are there that many lonely, sad, desperate guys joining the site throwing money around like candy? Plain, plump girls asking $4-500 a meet. Come on.
I am not a SA member right now and don't really plan to go back on, so am trying some other ways to find them. Searching on CL for girls selling their panties, I have been contacting them and saying I was interested, but also that they ought to consider the sugar bowl. I don't waste time on a girl who is only interested in mailing them to you. Anyone else have experience with this, or pointers? I do have some replies so far, but haven't gotten any to agree to meet. I have a couple of fish on the line I am trying to reel in who posted looking for modeling gigs, or just posted for a job, w / a hot photo. That is in the resumes section of CL.
[QUOTE=BigTigger;1676526]I reported a while back, that once, when with a SB I had spent considerable time with, I checked out the hotel early, she stayed. I made sure to pick up the receipt on the way out. When she came down for breakfast, they ran her down and gave her a copy of bill. If I had known better I would have called and got somebody fired. At that point, she had all my info. In that case it was cool, but later when I had drama with her, I had to play my cards differently because she had my info.
Secondly, with many of the hotels, when you check in. Right before you get the key, let them know you want to change the name on the reservation. If they ask why, you can say, I prefer to have a pseudo when I stay at hotels. Or you can say, I got the room for a friend and want their name on it and not mine. I've even been proactive at check-in, saying I'm getting this room for my friend, but all expenses will be on my card. So I'm going to check-in, give you my card for incidentals and give him / her the key. Most will do it, I had one Hilton that would not do it. This is double effective if you are using Hotwire, because if they slide the bill under the door, it will have the fake name and some general address associated with Hotwire. Many hotels lately have not been sliding the Hotwire bills under the door if you don't have room service.
The most full-proof way, especially with someone you have seen on the regular, is to give her the money and have her get the room. The good ones will offer this upfront.
This is a good one, I completely forgot about the registration. That may be how she got my info. I'll keep that thing locked for now on.[/QUOTE]At check in, ask to have a pseudo-name on your room for security purposes. Celebrities do it all the time. You can use the excuse of hiding from relatives, estranged spouse, ex, etc.
I met up with a SB last week at a restaurant / bar who was very nosy, trying to figure out my real identity. I was prepared. I used Opentable under my sugar alias and burn phone to book the reservation because sometimes places get completely full on the weekends. When the SB and I got to the hostess stand, I told them I had a reservation for 5 pm. They said, "Mr. (sugar alias)?" I replied, "Yes.".
I usually pay for anything around a SB with cash. My credit card company was giving me cash back if I ate at this particular restaurant, so I made the rare choice of paying with the plastic. When the waitress came back, with the two receipts to be signed, the SB was trying to look at the receipts to see if my name was printed on them, even grabbing them at one point. Now, some restaurants will print your name and the last four digits of your credit card on all copies of the receipt. This particular restaurant only had the last four digits of the credit card, which was nice. I made sure to make a little show of signing the receipt with my sugar alias fairly large and pronounced like John Hancock did on the Declaration of Independence.
Another thing I did was make up a fake bill with my sugar alias and leave it on my passenger side car seat. Basically, I threw a bunch of chum in the water for this shark, and she took the bait. This nosy SB thinks she found out who I really am, thus alleviating her worries. In reality, all she found out was a fake identity. I even have a fake Facebook account set up with my sugar alias and sugar phone number for when she goes home and tries to dig up dirt on me. Through experience I've found a lot of these SB's are trying to get intelligence on us to see if we are safe and decent guys to be in a NSA arrangement with or sometimes even to blackmail. If they feel like they have "figured you out", they become much more comfortable spreading their legs for daddy.
SDX.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3599002]Similar in my region. All these average girls, who don't have two dollars to rub together, think that a couple of hundreds is too little to bother getting out of the house. Are there that many lonely, sad, desperate guys joining the site throwing money around like candy? Plain, plump girls asking $4-500 a meet. Come on.[/QUOTE]
There are many guys who will promise girls large sums of money to get them to come out and meet, but few of those guys have the intention of ever actually paying those exorbitant promised amounts. I have heard a lot of stories from the ladies with whom I have met from the site. One girl was telling me how a guy promised her a thousand dollars, but then gave her nothing and essentially raped her. Another girl said a guy promised her $500, then wanted to do a car date for $40. Girls are constantly getting messaged by "fake" rich guys and guys making all sorts of promises. What drove them to the site in the first place, their greed, tends to make them overlook guys who might be more honest and less creepy.
SDX.
[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;3599794]There are many guys who will promise girls large sums of money to get them to come out and meet, but few of those guys have the intention of ever actually paying those exorbitant promised amounts. I have heard a lot of stories from the ladies with whom I have met from the site. One girl was telling me how a guy promised her a thousand dollars, but then gave her nothing and essentially raped her. Another girl said a guy promised her $500, then wanted to do a car date for $40. Girls are constantly getting messaged by "fake" rich guys and guys making all sorts of promises. What drove them to the site in the first place, their greed, tends to make them overlook guys who might be more honest and less creepy.
SDX.[/QUOTE]That's a real problem for the decent guys. The stand up guys that do what they say, the ones that makes sure to treat the ladies right, that try to be a positive for these girls. Those guys get overlooked because of fake promises and expectations. Once a girl has been burned once or twice she doesn't go looking for a nice guy, she just leaves the site and tells her friends it's filled with a-holes. I've come across stories like that in my area too (north east). It's an arms race. If you need to lie through your teeth to attract a girl, over time more and more guys will do it just to achieve some success. This will come to the detriment of the bowl for everyone (fewer girls).
There's not much to prevent this from happening (review of SDs? That's not happening). I just hope the positive keeps outweighing the negative and that the site can maintain its luster.
Although it's been mentioned before, never ever lend your tools or anything else for that matter, to a known SD. They *all* move out of town within 2 to 8 months of you meeting them.
I swear, if I started a moving company for SD's I'd be filthy rich.
Use code 33 halloween.
Usually I go month to month.
Let it expire till there is enough interesting to my inbox.
[QUOTE=NeoDude;3600515]Use code 33 halloween.
Usually I go month to month.
Let it expire till there is enough interesting to my inbox.[/QUOTE]I wish you would have told me about two weeks ago LOL I just signed up. IF this deal is still available by the end of my one month memberhsip I may sign up again.
She could easily copy your license plate and have someone get your info. Any thoughts on this?
Thanks CM.
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3601199]She could easily copy your license plate and have someone get your info. Any thoughts on this?
Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]I consider life in the bowl totally different than mongering.
Have had a SB once for 1+ years and currently into one for 8 months. Start out with burner phone, then first name etc. But at some point I switch over when trust is there. I know way more about them then they know about me. They will talk your ear off. I have taken one on an extended trip and even with small trips there are dozen ways your info will be known to them. I don't think it is possible to be anonymous for long. Yup, if they wanted they could f*ck up my life but if they are comfy with you and are getting what they want, they are smart enuf not to screw things up. Maybe helps that I am too damn old for them to get other thoughts. Treat them nice, but not too nice. And don't take any sh*t from them and life will be pretty good.
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3601199]She could easily copy your license plate and have someone get your info. Any thoughts on this?
Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Take whatever precaution you used on whatever mongering you have done. This isn't rocket science and guys tend to overthink this. Also there is all kinds of info on this subject in these threads covering all different approaches on this. Just need to take the time to look for it.
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3601199]She could easily copy your license plate and have someone get your info. Any thoughts on this?
Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Well, when I was active in the bowl, I had a license plate I bought off eBay I put on my car before seeing the baby. I also put black electrical tape over my VIN. It is true, I know a service (anonymous, online) where you can get the identity of the owner of a vehicle from the plate # for $40 - I have done this twice on SBs. Others have discussed that after a while the SB, if she really likes you, is very likely to get curious about your real identity. I have friends who have ongoing, 2+ year sugar relationships and have revealed their identity. It does depend on whether you have a SO or not. If you don't this is likely not a big deal, but my friend has a family. His SB is very special though. It is more like an affair between a 40 year old and a 22 YO coed.