Yes, somebody moved the cheese
Sadly, everything you have typed is true.
You have not mentioned the other dynamic of all the UTR becoming SA / SB sugar babies, and getting GPS.
Combine that with covid squashing new imports.
Leaving STG and similar sites to have mostly scams and a few desperate IV users.
Be careful out there.
[QUOTE=RLStern;5499070]Lurked backpage whenever I suspected I was being cheated on and started mongering in January 2017 after getting cheated on.
That 1 year and 4 months from January 2017-April 2018 was heaven.
Variety of women, low prices (MAX) for everything included (BBBJ, GFE etc.), no games, no fakes, etc.
Then Sesta / Fosta hit and we were made to rely on forums such as this one, adultsearch, listcrawler, cityxguide, escortindex etc.
Then cityxguide was taken down to which meant automatically escortindex became useless as it relied on it.
Adultsearch started having too many fakes and thereby worthless.
But the biggest problem. Even before the pandemic was the price hikes, now $$$ is normal.
The pandemic hit the prices went even more absurd.
Now bedpage is even worthless.
Sure there's one or two girls who are fair but it's hard to look.
The only sites I use are adultsearch and listcrawler and I feel like I'm going in circles, refreshing, rechecking, scrolling, page turning etc.
You know when you are hungry and keep looking in the fridge, as if the next time you look that maybe there will be something you can find to eat?
That's exactly how I feel with mongering now.
Too many listings for women who I wouldn't see charging absurd rates, same listings over and over again.
I'm asking for help here, if anyone has any other site that I can use other than those two, that's not premiums like Tyrst or Eros, please PM me.[/QUOTE]
We are in a different era.
[QUOTE=RLStern;5499070]Lurked backpage whenever I suspected I was being cheated on and started mongering in January 2017 after getting cheated on.
That 1 year and 4 months from January 2017-April 2018 was heaven.
Variety of women, low prices (MAX) for everything included (BBBJ, GFE etc.), no games, no fakes, etc.
Then Sesta / Fosta hit and we were made to rely on forums such as this one, adultsearch, listcrawler, cityxguide, escortindex etc.
Then cityxguide was taken down to which meant automatically escortindex became useless as it relied on it.
Adultsearch started having too many fakes and thereby worthless.
But the biggest problem. Even before the pandemic was the price hikes, now $$$ is normal.
The pandemic hit the prices went even more absurd.
Now bedpage is even worthless.
Sure there's one or two girls who are fair but it's hard to look.
The only sites I use are adultsearch and listcrawler and I feel like I'm going in circles, refreshing, rechecking, scrolling, page turning etc.
You know when you are hungry and keep looking in the fridge, as if the next time you look that maybe there will be something you can find to eat?
That's exactly how I feel with mongering now.
Too many listings for women who I wouldn't see charging absurd rates, same listings over and over again.
I'm asking for help here, if anyone has any other site that I can use other than those two, that's not premiums like Tyrst or Eros, please PM me.[/QUOTE]I started mongering in 2009. And everything you said is correct. We are in a new era. I would say the biggest difference now and back when I started is there arent as many UTR women. There was always career escorts on craigslist, backpage, cityxguide. But up until cragislist personals got shut down there was a decent amount of UTR women in the ecosystem across the sites. Those UTR would make ads then after getting a couple regulars would stop advertising and only see those regulars. If you were fortunate to get in before they stopped advertising you could get some amazing deals. Because they would then text you and drop prices or add extras no charge. If you turned them down. So many times a provider went from 150/ hh to 60-80/ hh with whatever extra I wanted as long as I saw them that day. Yea some of them were from homeless shelters, or drug addicts, but so many were the type you'd see on Tryst nowadays. I'd say the balance was 50/50 UTR to career escorts back then.
Nowadays that balance is closer to 99% career escorts who make ads every day and 1% UTR. Basically if you see an escort ad on any site she has probably made ads for months by now so they already have their regulars and since there are less providers they can afford to reject you if you don't like their price or no list. Also nowadays I haven't had a provider ever hit me up out of the blue asking to meet this happened all the time in the craiglist days with the UTR. Which was basically the UTR going I'd rather ask you to see me then make an ad. The career escorts are opposite they make the ad and never contact you if you don't contact them.
With sites there just arent any outside of Skipthegames and escort alligator that get much traffic from the non-upscale provider group. sumosear.ch is the archive. COVID cases rising again isnt helping to inspire women to get into escorting either. I have already started to see providers say they are taking another break due to the Delta Variant.
Jersey visitor looking for CDP
Visiting queens later this week and would appreciate some spots for a quality CDP (other than DH which I have visited and enjoy, but want something new). I'm in north jersey and could trade some numbers and locations in the Paterson area, if you PM me. Used to have a 10/10 dreamgirl in Newark but once corona hit she disappeared, world hasn't been the same since.
How to use seeking arrangement?
[QUOTE=BrooklynMatt;5499523]You are 100% correct in what you're saying here and as far as I know there are no sites that are going to have what you're looking for. I used to meet tons of amazing women up until sesta / fosta hit. Now we're left with premium sites where the ladies think they're worth insane money and crappy sites loaded with fakes, junkies and mostly women I wouldn't touch. I have started to play around with Seeking Arrangement which seems like it could be promising as far as finding indy girls but we'll see. Right now my sidepiece is getting a lot more of my time then she used to!![/QUOTE]I keep hearing seeking arrangements but see it's a dating site, how do you use it for mongering and is there a premium to it?
I keep hearing about it but no clue how to use it.
Last hoorah before leaving town
Guys,
I had a great time in your city. NYC is awesome and Queens was a shining light on the hill of NYC for me personally. I learned a lot about the massage parlor scene in your town and hit a CDP (DH) too. I was missing something though. I wanted a good greek session or something else "premium". I promise that's the ONLY time I'll use the world "premium" for the rest of the post.
https://queens.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/ready-for-anythingreal-no-game/495771882368
I saw "bella". Coordination was simple. She was super responsive via text. Her pictures are accurate, but taken in a way that is very flattering. I think Bella accidentally sent me a text that was meant for someone else, it said "I need liquor". I didn't respond, because I wasn't about to offer to stop for that too. I was literally on my way to the airport. She's in a hotel in Jamaica that was more than a little shady to me. She said when I parked I could come to the 4th floor and she would tell me the room number. Well. Surprise. You can't go to another floor via the elevator if you aren't a guest. In the elevator is specifically said you have to have a room key to use it. HOWEVER, I'm no punk and don't give up that easily on Greek. So I checked the stairs and you can TOTALLY go up to the 4th floor that way.
I called her from the 4th floor and she let me into her room. It's literally a step away from the elevator. Out of one and into the other. Small room, usual drug dirty with shit all over the place. Bella was obviously drunk when I got there. She was very coherent and wasn't slurring or anything, but her other mannerisms suggested she got that liquor she wanted earlier. I had arranged for a HH with Greek and two pops for 180. She did a very lack luster BBBJ until I was hard. Because the BBBJ was pretty lousy, I wanted to hit it pretty quick, tossed on the cover and went to town. I started mish in the P. And she was all about that. She was moving with me and everything, very GFE about that at least. I wanted to hit that ass though, so I started to move down a hole and it just wouldn't go in.
This isn't the first time I've had this issue. Either the woman doesn't REALLY want to do greek, or is literally too tight and needs to be stretched out a touch. So I asked her if she was really into doing the Greek or if I should get a couple dollars back. She said very clearly she was into it and flipped over doggy. This was potentially the best part of the whole appointment. She let me finger her ass with first one, then two. Then three fingers. She was gaping and everything. I played with the pussy during that time too. When her ass was just too cute not to fuck and gaping ready for me. I would pound the butt for a few strokes then move to her pussy for a few strokes. Back and forth edging the whole time.
I told her I would offer to make it a single pop instead of two if she would suck it out of me and then take the facial. She was down for basically whatever I wanted to do. And that was all my imagination came up with. LOL.
All in all. For a 180. It was fun. She's not a great looker (5/10. With 2 of that 5 being because she has punk red hair I love) her attitude could have been better if she wasn't drunk, but again. She let me basically do whatever I wanted to.
It was fun!! I would do it again if I was local for sure!
I'll be back in a couple of months. I would really like to see her again, and if you guys know of anyone I should hit up when I'm there, please let me know.
Doe. Out. For now.