See No one without refs or can validate
Abby:
Very very wise! My suggestion to you would build a stable of trusted regulars and then keep within that stable. I don't want to see anything happen to you, because from what I have heard your very bright!
Keep doing homework keep up the good work! I am always amazed to find girls who have done their homework as well as you!
C.
[QUOTE=AbbyAmour; 1126442]What was the point of coming to the forums to QQ about this?
I have been contacted by Rusty the main vice aka "David Webb" ("SeeYaSoon" on e. Com)
After being shot down, I've seen him view my profile from time to time; who knows what other stunts he's trying to pull. Do you feel I am being unreasonable? I am not sure what the point of your post was. [/QUOTE]
Struck out with Abby A (At least Ichthus was aiming high.)
[QUOTE=Ichthus;1124484](edit delete) I did not have any references she would accept (because mostly using BP up until now). I asked for another way to verify (edit delete) She just explained that she has to be careful. While I respect that, I wish she would also respect that I have to be careful too (edit delete) Unfortunately she just said sorry and ended the text conversation rather than offering to accept another form of verification (others have used recent pay-stubs or bringing my work I'd card, both of which I am ok with) [/QUOTE]Sorry friend Ichthus, but Abby A is respecting your situation, being unable to provide her with the screening she needs. She respects you by not coming on the board and complaining about you.
Smart girls know a guy offering to bring his pay stub or employment ID card to the appointment is screening that comes too late. Screening is worthless unless it happens before the guy knows her location.
If her ad is on an escort message board or site, if he responds to her ad, if they agree to meet, if he shows up and she is there, she is made if the guy turns out to be a Boy in Blue. She doesn't have to actually agree to do anything more, she agreed enough when she agreed to the appointment under the "escort circumstances," and she showed up. Merely being there was in furtherance of that agreement and identifies her as the girl behind the website, behind the ad, as the girl in the email exchange agreeing to meet the guy, and she is there to prove it all. The game is over. Bring out the handcuffs and let's go downtown.
If you have any doubt about what I'm saying, Ichthus, run the same scenario through your head again but pretend you learned of Abby A on a Christian Singles website, at a basketball game, at a Tea Party Rally, anywhere other than a freck'in escort message board with pics of naked girls and reviews for crying out loud.
For screening to be effective the girl must have the guy screened before he knows her location. That some girls unknowingly take this chance does not mean all girls will take this chance. It sounds to me like Abby A is both smart and respectful of your situation. She can't see you and moved on.
I agree it is a Catch-22 proposition getting references when one does not have references to get references, but all of us have faced this problem and solved it one way or the other. You can, too.
I got my first reference with no problem. Looking back I cannot believe how easy it was. I did it by not making the typical mistakes. You can, too. Keep trying. Or PM me and I'll give you some hints. (This offer is good for my friend Ichthus only.) Good luck.
I just had to offer this up to FreckleFreak and Desciples
I am traveling back east this week and wanted to make a stop through Ohio. My research turned up this number and I immeadiately thought of this board's fascination for irregular pigmentation spread.
Its not a thing of mine per se, but this little hottie looks wonderful.
G
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