Sounds like you've got a potential keeper there, sub. Even if not, sounds like you had an incredibly enjoyable adventure.
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Sounds like you've got a potential keeper there, sub. Even if not, sounds like you had an incredibly enjoyable adventure.
Hi guys,
I hope you are all having a wonderful weekend. I'm back from my trip over to see The Doctor and it was absolutely perfect! I should have given him a little more credit though. Before he even had me completely undressed he goes,"This is to make me realize how stupid I was for trying to send you away isn't it?" YUP! Time to do homework but I'll get a posting with more details up on my blog within in the next couple days.
There will be certainly more trips to The Doctor to write about.
Night!
Mandy
Like the idea of a M&G present. Any thoughts on what it should be?
Flash message received in the SBCC (Sugar Baby Command Center). SB1 reports that she is not happy with the sugar she received. She was hoping for more. The Cmdr wants to know how much more? SB1 does not know but indicates that she just wanted me to be aware that she was not happy. Fair enough. Plans are made to rendezvous at the Party Pad in a week.
Flash message received in the SBCC. SB1 has had a bad day. Wants to know if we can meet for coffee so we can talk. Not a problem. The Cmdr extends an invitation to the party pad. SB1 declines. Meeting occurs. Coffee is consumed. Inane conversation is had. Party Pad rendezvous is confirmed for next week. SB1 leaves to have some work done on her car.
Flash message received in the SBCC. SB1 has an auto repair bill that will leave her with low funds. Requests sugar assistance. The Cmdr once again requests that SB1 meet in at the Party Pad. SB1 rejects the request. Demands immediate sugar assistance. The Cmdr advises SB1 that would be a violation of General Orders of SB Management. General Order #1 states: Sugar shall only be dispersed after through inspection of the party favors and successful delivery of the moisture seeking weapon system on target. Sonar reports contact with SB1 has been lost.
Chief of the boat. Rig for silent running. The Cmdr is on the hunt once again.
[QUOTE=Bondo500;1421018]Like the idea of a M&G present. Any thoughts on what it should be?[/QUOTE]Probably my favorite suggestion is a small box of Godiva chocolates. ITunes or Starbucks gift cards are good as well.
Mandy
Well, after exploring the SB world for a few weeks, I think it's time to cut SB1 loose. I've enjoyed my time with her; she's smart, funny, and has her own place. But she also smokes like a chimney (not that I care, but going home smelling like an ashtray creates obvious problems), is unemployed, and has seriously screwed up family and friends. We were to get together today (on my day off), and she just texted to tell me she was in a fight with her "friend's ex-wife" and "lost a bit of hair."
I can't handle the drama. If there's one thing I've learned from you fellows, it's to steer clear of the disasters. This girl isn't quite a disaster, but I don't want to get to know her so well that she eventually drags me down with her. Obviously, I hope for the best for her, but I don't want to wait around and see what happens.
Luckily, there's another potential SB still texting me to meet. I've committed to lunch today with SB1, and after that, I think I'll just let things fizzle out. No need for an ugly confrontation.
As always, this has been a learning experience. Just wanted to share for those who, like me, observe mostly from the sidelines. I'm sure you senior members have been here a few times.
Regards,
Joe
Joe,
You are definitely playing it smart. I'm assuming a lot of us have been in the position of seeing someone maybe just because they were available, cheap, or whatever and lived to regret it. What few successes I've had in this little pastime of ours have been with ladies who were at one time in decent shape but due to circumstances, usually divorce or loss of employment, have ventured into the SB world. Your SB1 appears to be a Nando Class 1, which we all should strive to avoid. It just isn't worth it as I've learned the hard way. I find if one is a little closer in socio-economic to the SB, or at least where they used to be, that things work out much better, even if the sugar is a little bit more.
Best of luck in your continued search and keep posting!
[QUOTE=SubCmdr; 1421031]Flash message received in the SBCC (Sugar Baby Command Center). SB1 reports that she is not happy with the sugar she received. She was hoping for more. The Cmdr wants to know how much more? SB1 does not know but indicates that she just wanted me to be aware that she was not happy. Fair enough. Plans are made to rendezvous at the Party Pad in a week.
Flash message received in the SBCC. SB1 has had a bad day. Wants to know if we can meet for coffee so we can talk. Not a problem. The Cmdr extends an invitation to the party pad. SB1 declines. Meeting occurs. Coffee is consumed. Inane conversation is had. Party Pad rendezvous is confirmed for next week. SB1 leaves to have some work done on her car.
Flash message received in the SBCC. SB1 has an auto repair bill that will leave her with low funds. Requests sugar assistance. The Cmdr once again requests that SB1 meet in at the Party Pad. SB1 rejects the request. Demands immediate sugar assistance. The Cmdr advises SB1 that would be a violation of General Orders of SB Management. General Order #1 states: Sugar shall only be dispersed after through inspection of the party favors and successful delivery of the moisture seeking weapon system on target. Sonar reports contact with SB1 has been lost.
Chief of the boat. Rig for silent running. The Cmdr is on the hunt once again.[/QUOTE]Commander,
Hilarious report! Kudos to you, although too bad about losing sonar contact with SB1. It's all for the best, I want to assure you. Scroll back through this thread and refamiliarize yourself with Nando's excellent levels of SBs. Level 1's are to be avoided at all costs.
Keep on silent running, if that is how you say that. I'm more familiar with fly fishing than nuclear submarines.
Scott
[QUOTE=JoesParty; 1421237] she just texted to tell me she was in a fight with her "friend's ex-wife" and "lost a bit of hair."[/QUOTE]Joe, your vision on this one is crystal clear. Who does this happen to except guests on Jerry Springer? Time to move on.
Scott
I really am beginning to wonder if the time / money / effort sunk into the whole SB scene has been a total waste. SB#2, who had sounded like she wanted another meeting to discuss more "intimate" relations between us, has gone silent. No warning, no nothing, just no replies, period. Worse, out of several messages sent in hopes of drawing a nibble, none have drawn any success since the one to her (barring the 'semi-pro' who offered to arrange a threesome).
Meanwhile, I've been approached by one local SB who can't seem to figure out that I'm not willing to provide the level of sugar she seems set on getting, and another who seems to think I've got the free time to jet down to Miami just to meet up with her.
I'd ask "WTF!", but at this point, I don't think I'd get an answer that made sense.
[minor venting complete, we now return to our regularly scheduled programming]
[QUOTE=Castlerae; 1421642]I really am beginning to wonder if the time / money / effort sunk into the whole SB scene has been a total waste. SB#2, who had sounded like she wanted another meeting to discuss more "intimate" relations between us, has gone silent. No warning, no nothing, just no replies, period. Worse, out of several messages sent in hopes of drawing a nibble, none have drawn any success since the one to her (barring the 'semi-pro' who offered to arrange a threesome).
Meanwhile, I've been approached by one local SB who can't seem to figure out that I'm not willing to provide the level of sugar she seems set on getting, and another who seems to think I've got the free time to jet down to Miami just to meet up with her.
I'd ask "WTF!", but at this point, I don't think I'd get an answer that made sense.
[minor venting complete, we now return to our regularly scheduled programming][/QUOTE]Castle,
How long have you had your profile up? It took me about three months of emails, contacts, M&Gs and so forth before I finally hit my stride. Take a look at your profile text, and try and read it as if you were an SB. Is it interesting, funny, witty, and distinctive? Remember, these babies get hundreds of contacts a week, so you need to make your first message to them interesting and distinctive, and then your profile text needs to continue to tell the tale that you are someone worth getting to know.
If I'm not overstepping, maybe ask Mandy to take a look at it and give you some pointers. She helped me that way, and her suggestions were spot on.
Have patience, my brother. Success doesn't happen overnight, and you will have a few false starts and dead ends along the way.
Keep on,
Scott
[QUOTE=F Scott;1422040]If I'm not overstepping, maybe ask Mandy to take a look at it and give you some pointers.[/QUOTE]I've worked with SD's and SB's on their profiles, initial communications etc. And actually, that offer stands for anyone reading this. I still have a profile on SA (although it's hidden at the moment). If you're on there, you can pm me your account number and I can look you up or you can just send me all of the text. Also, something else to think about but, if your'e comfortable with this I'm happy to send you my e-mail so I can give advice on pictures. So many guys blow it here.
Mandy
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1422040]Castle,
How long have you had your profile up? It took me about three months of emails, contacts, M&Gs and so forth before I finally hit my stride. Take a look at your profile text, and try and read it as if you were an SB. Is it interesting, funny, witty, and distinctive? Remember, these babies get hundreds of contacts a week, so you need to make your first message to them interesting and distinctive, and then your profile text needs to continue to tell the tale that you are someone worth getting to know.
If I'm not overstepping, maybe ask Mandy to take a look at it and give you some pointers. She helped me that way, and her suggestions were spot on.
Have patience, my brother. Success doesn't happen overnight, and you will have a few false starts and dead ends along the way.
Keep on,
Scott[/QUOTE]No offence Master Scott, but the thing that disturbed me most wasn't so much the lack of responses from SB's (I know the ratio is probably heavily in favour of the SB's and against the SD's) , but in the sudden reversalin communications. It's like she went from giving all the indications of strong interest in something more between us to total silence. I mean, is she playing me, has she found a better deal (though we'd only met once and never even got to the point of discussing the finer details of a possible arrangement) , or what? I don't know, and while I appreciate the offer from SBabyblog for advice, it's not something I'm going to dump in her lap in hopes of a magical solution.
I don't know, think I might give this crap another month, then pull the plug if the strike out string continues.
I just got off the phone with The Doctor. We chatted for a little bit and he shared a surprise vacation he's working on for us. Ok, I know it's not THAT much of a surprise if he told me. But I'm not that patient and coaxed it out of him.
Later in the conversation he said he wished I was with him now. And then asked what I was doing this weekend. We're now in the process of making plans to see each other AGAIN this weekend! We've NEVER seen each other two weekends in a row. In fact, we've NEVER seen each other two weekends within one month! Between his lecture / travel schedule and time with his daughter there has never been a lot of time for me, and I've been ok with that. But now, I'm am SO excited!
Keep your fingers crossed for me. There just might be two weekends in a row with The Doctor!
Mandy
Things are looking up, friends. Just a day after I decided that SB1 was in serious danger of sliding into Nanado1 territory, I managed to set a M&G with SB2. Well, I think it went about as well as it could have (without, of course, a visit to a private location for some indoor fun, though I don't expect that on the first interview). We laughed, we drank, we had a good time. She's late-30s (a few years older than me but could pass for 10 years younger) , has a stable, full-time job, and seems to be drama free. And did I mention beautiful? Yeah, beautiful. I am hopeful a second interview will be equally successful. I need to start planning. And she really appreciated the small but nice box of chocolates I gave her (thanks for the idea, Mandy!).
And Mandy, could you share with all of us some of your suggestions for photos? You say most guys blow it there. What, exactly do you mean? I, for one, do not include ANY pictures on the site. I know that is a risk, but I cannot take the chance that a family friend sees my pic there and tells the landlord. I would be evicted immediately, do not pass go, do not collect $200. I will, however, e-mail a pic to a prospect if she asks, and so far, that has worked just fine.
Regards,
Joe