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[QUOTE=Smoky R Wood; 1349025]Guys, I've been thinking about this for a while. The past year has been pretty bad as far as the quality of service I've received from our local providers. I've had a few decent experiences, but for the most part, I've encountered bad attitude, rushed service, lurking pimps, the smell of smoke and even the asians wanting way too much money.

So, I've decided I'm going to take a year off from the hobby and save the $12k or so that I spend and do something else with the cash. I'm not trying to start a movement here, but just let ya'll know what's what. I mean who else will understand where I'm coming from if not you guys?

Comments?[/QUOTE]Smoky, I certanitly understand where you are coming from. A look back on the finances, shows how much money I've spent on this hobby. Crazy. I'm talking payoff debit kind of money! While I haven't decided to stop completely, I think a reassessment of the women I choose is in order.

Thanks for your thoughts, hope you stay on the board!

B

Wow!

I understand completely, I was thinking that maybe I have just gotten too picky and maybe expected too much.

I've been active in the hobby for many years and thought maybe I was bored with it and it had lost it's thrill for me.

Sounds like alot of you all have also felt the decline in service and overall sorry ass performance.

In the days prior to BP & CL in odds of getting a bad one were lower than having a great time, now it seems to have reversed?

Seems like the ladies would realize that it's so easy for us to share information about their performances that they'd be on top of there game nowadays, but more often than not it's like they give a shit less.

Don't know that I'll stop altogether, but had already decided weeks ago to be more selective and repeat with the few locals that I really enjoyed!

Happy New Years to all you fellow mongers.

[QUOTE=Smoky R Wood; 1349025]Guys, I've been thinking about this for a while. The past year has been pretty bad as far as the quality of service I've received from our local providers. I've had a few decent experiences, but for the most part, I've encountered bad attitude, rushed service, lurking pimps, the smell of smoke and even the asians wanting way too much money.

So, I've decided I'm going to take a year off from the hobby and save the $12k or so that I spend and do something else with the cash. I'm not trying to start a movement here, but just let ya'll know what's what. I mean who else will understand where I'm coming from if not you guys?

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[QUOTE=NC Transplant;1349050]I sure understand where you are coming from. I have wasted more than my fair share for lousy and disappointing service. You sure have to weed through them to find the decent ones and even my ATFs have seemed to slip in service. The way I see it, they need us more than we need them! Like where would they get their money if they weren't laying on their backs or on their knees?[/QUOTE]It's going to have to be someone spectacular, well reviewed, and reasonable $ before I partake. Looks like I'm taking some time off as well.

Dude, if you're spending 12K a year on these sl00tz and not found one or two faithful regulars that you like, then you're not doing it right brah. Not trying to be critical but damn that's a waste of money. Unless you're a millionaire or something.

[QUOTE=Smoky R Wood; 1349025]Guys, I've been thinking about this for a while. The past year has been pretty bad as far as the quality of service I've received from our local providers. I've had a few decent experiences, but for the most part, I've encountered bad attitude, rushed service, lurking pimps, the smell of smoke and even the asians wanting way too much money.

So, I've decided I'm going to take a year off from the hobby and save the $12k or so that I spend and do something else with the cash. I'm not trying to start a movement here, but just let ya'll know what's what. I mean who else will understand where I'm coming from if not you guys?

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"Fleshlight" and "porn"

Always does the trick, and in all honesty the Fleshlight feels better than 99% of the real thing. Best $125 I ever spent.

[QUOTE=HeadCrusher;1349496]Dude, if you're spending 12K a year on these sl00tz and not found one or two faithful regulars that you like, then you're not doing it right brah. Not trying to be critical but damn that's a waste of money. Unless you're a millionaire or something.[/QUOTE]You're right about the waste of money. I may find a decent one once in a while, but my need for something different keeps me constantly trying to find the next good one. I've become very cynical. I can look at an ad and tell by how the girl is posed or the expression on their face or the way the ad is worded if the service is going to suck (no pun intended). In the old days before these young girls were so casual about sex, it had some meaning, even to a hooker. I used to have some regulars when I was in Chicago back in the '80s who were REALLY into it. They were professionals in other fields and worked to make extra money, but they had standards. Most of them now are strung out and will do anything for a rock. It's like some formula when you see them and when you leave, the pimp or dealer arrives. I've had PM's from senior members here recommending different providers and even those have been crappy.

In the AMP's, maybe a good one comes along, like Monica, but even with her, I know before hand exactly what she is going to do and when; there is nothing new, nothing to wonder about. In other words, it gets boring. If you think the other girls working there will give good service as well, but maybe do things a bit differently to change it up, you tend to get let down.

I do have a couple of regulars that I really like, but I need more than that. When I see something that looks promising, thinking "this time will be better," I'm usually disappointed in the end. Hence, we come to my reason for taking some time off. I'm bored with the hobby, tired of the 99% who are terrible and maybe some time off will do me good.

[QUOTE=Smoky R Wood; 1349754]You're right about the waste of money. I may find a decent one once in a while, but my need for something different keeps me constantly trying to find the next good one. I've become very cynical. I can look at an ad and tell by how the girl is posed or the expression on their face or the way the ad is worded if the service is going to suck (no pun intended). In the old days before these young girls were so casual about sex, it had some meaning, even to a hooker. I used to have some regulars when I was in Chicago back in the '80s who were REALLY into it. They were professionals in other fields and worked to make extra money, but they had standards. Most of them now are strung out and will do anything for a rock. It's like some formula when you see them and when you leave, the pimp or dealer arrives. I've had PM's from senior members here recommending different providers and even those have been crappy.

In the AMP's, maybe a good one comes along, like Monica, but even with her, I know before hand exactly what she is going to do and when; there is nothing new, nothing to wonder about. In other words, it gets boring. If you think the other girls working there will give good service as well, but maybe do things a bit differently to change it up, you tend to get let down.

I do have a couple of regulars that I really like, but I need more than that. When I see something that looks promising, thinking "this time will be better," I'm usually disappointed in the end. Hence, we come to my reason for taking some time off. I'm bored with the hobby, tired of the 99% who are terrible and maybe some time off will do me good.[/QUOTE]Wow Smokey, maybe you should take some time off, LOL! I can relate to what you are saying. When it all feels scripted it def. Loses its appeal. Thats what I enjoyed about the AMP is it put some adventure back into it. I didn't know if she would or wouldn't, but now its lost some of its fun. I took some time off last year and it did a lot of good. Not sure what caliber of women you "see", but I'm seriously thinking of starting to see the higher end gals. You know the ones who think their kitty is lined in gold!

After being informed by a member on this board, Ashley Banks contacted me about an earlier posting regarding her photos and weather they are current or not. Here is her response; a direct quote from our communications to clear up any issue that there may be regarding their acuracy.

" I saw you in April & my new pics were done January. My pictures werent old & I have always been in shape as you can see by my current pics I stay in shape. I go out of my way to treat everyone good & take new pics every 6 months, so people know that I am legit. I stick to a diet to stay in the shape you see in all my pictures."

B

[QUOTE=Smoky R Wood; 1349025]Guys, I've been thinking about this for a while. The past year has been pretty bad as far as the quality of service I've received from our local providers. I've had a few decent experiences, but for the most part, I've encountered bad attitude, rushed service, lurking pimps, the smell of smoke and even the asians wanting way too much money.

So, I've decided I'm going to take a year off from the hobby and save the $12k or so that I spend and do something else with the cash. I'm not trying to start a movement here, but just let ya'll know what's what. I mean who else will understand where I'm coming from if not you guys?

Comments?[/QUOTE]That's why I tell people that I am a creature of habit. If I find a decent / reliable provider I tend to stick with that until I need to start looking again. Luckily my tastes are relatively simple. Halfway decent massage, pretend to be interested in the handshake, don't rush too much, and don't massage my face after the HE.

Careful guys. I know a couple of providers that use those rooms.

[url]http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2012/02/28/3052203/hotels-sit-at-interchange-of-drugs.html[/url]

[QUOTE=NC Transplant; 1392469]Careful guys. I know a couple of providers that use those rooms.

[url]http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2012/02/28/3052203/hotels-sit-at-interchange-of-drugs.html[/url][/QUOTE]Thanks for posting the link to that article. I would not have seen it otherwise. Fellow hobbyists should probably avoid that area for a while, I know I will. Of course that's why they published the article too. It's looks like there is a whole lot more dangerous stuff going on than just girls. Any of them could easily be part of a larger crime ring.

GB40

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40; 1392731]Thanks for posting the link to that article. I would not have seen it otherwise. Fellow hobbyists should probably avoid that area for a while, I know I will. Of course that's why they published the article too. It's looks like there is a whole lot more dangerous stuff going on than just girls. Any of them could easily be part of a larger crime ring.

GB40[/QUOTE]If you have been a hobbyist for any length of time in Charlotte and didn't have any idea as to what goes on in the SC environs, then you need to be very careful anywhere else you go. Mongers drive up and down the SC stroll and to not be cognizant of the individuals who are around the area all the time, says you should probably stick to the MPs. At least that's somewhat safe. If you do monger in this area, PLEASE pay attention or we will see your face posted on "mugshots" or some other site that blackmails unsuspecting hobbyists with blinders on. Just driving through the area and the "notels" should scream out what's there.

When you see a provider, in her room at her hotel, here's what you don't see:

- You don't see the boyfriend who just left the room before you arrived. He is waiting down the hall, or in the parking lot. But he's there.

- You don't see the drugs in her purse, or the syringe left in the bedside table or the closet.

And I'm sure there's more I missed.

On a recent visit with a local provider, both of those things above were noticed but I'm sure she thought I missed them.

It's OK when you don't see them, but it bothers me when I do see 'them.

Unfortunately, I think we are all taking more risks here than we want to.

GB40

Actually, the providers I was thinking of use the ones near Bill Grahmn and not sugar creek. Unless you go with the better BP Providers, most of these girls are going to be working in seedy areas. Some girls are working to make ends meet. Not all of them have a drug problem. There is a lot of trash in the Sugar Creek area. I used to ride through there every now and then. I don't mess with SWers anymore. You are really rolling the dice with them.

[QUOTE=Bdglfr2111;1392922]If you have been a hobbyist for any length of time in Charlotte and didn't have any idea as to what goes on in the SC environs, then you need to be very careful anywhere else you go. Mongers drive up and down the SC stroll and to not be cognizant of the individuals who are around the area all the time, says you should probably stick to the MPs. At least that's somewhat safe. If you do monger in this area, PLEASE pay attention or we will see your face posted on "mugshots" or some other site that blackmails unsuspecting hobbyists with blinders on. Just driving through the area and the "notels" should scream out what's there.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NC Transplant;1393183]Actually, the providers I was thinking of use the ones near Bill Grahmn and not sugar creek. Unless you go with the better BP Providers, most of these girls are going to be working in seedy areas. Some girls are working to make ends meet. Not all of them have a drug problem. There is a lot of trash in the Sugar Creek area. I used to ride through there every now and then. I don't mess with SWers anymore. You are really rolling the dice with them.[/QUOTE]isn't that funny how in one paticular area they all group in the same hotel? I've been to the same hotel at least 3-4x's in a row "seeing" different ladies. I've passed ladies in the hall only to realize a second later that it was a BP girl, I haven't seen yet.

I've seen the boyfriends leaving, I've smelled the 420, watched them get drunk (if I had to date me I would have to be drunk too LOL) , hell even had them pop pills right infront of me. Never seen needles.