[QUOTE=Leon3798;5413347]1. Some are age based but nobody is checking your I'd. Money talks. If you can pay MOST providers really don't care. Unfortunately most young guys are rude, immature etc and they don't want to deal with that mess. Also young guys have lasting power and even-though you're paying most providers don't want to do the deed the ENTIRE time. Just like any other lady they like warm up, foreplay, deed, cool down WITHIN the time limit. Know yourself and pay for what you need. Don't be an immature cock-bag and your age will be forgotten.
2. I used to carry when I did incalls because places are super sketch. I honestly never said anything just kept it in my cargo pocket. Just look like you belong there and act normal. Unless your date is at decent or high end place unfortunately folks know why men show up. Just a fact. Be safe at all times.
3. No not really. As long as you are clean and don't walk around like pig-pen from peanuts most providers are used to some mongers not being 'studs'.
For newbs and first timers try to stick to higher end providers, they're more expensive but they're SAFE, nice hotels, no pimps etc. And they're typically all in the 8-10 on the attractiveness scale. Also they're more apt to be sensitive to your situation. If you can't afford or need to see the STG or Listcrawler ladies just be smart and if you don't feel safe or your hairs are standing up, LISTEN to it. Walk away. Watching porn is better than being robbed or caught in a sting. Both of these are rare but real. Hope this helps. As always be safe.[/QUOTE]Follow what Leon said -- and I'll just add:
DEFINITELY go for a higher-end (EROS-listed and reviewed) lady. You DO NOT want your first time to be with 95% of what's on the other boards.
In fact, you should be (almost) as brutally honest when contacting a higher-end provider as you were with us. My guess is that if you tell them it's your first time, most will think it's pretty sweet and go the extra mile to make sure you have a memorable experience.
(Perhaps someone on this board can recommend a specific provider with an extremely sweet disposition towards younger guys?
Plus, at a safe hotel with a reviewed provider, there's no need to carry inside. No pimps / hangers-on to worry about, etc. Leave it in the car so you don't spook a higher-end lady, IMO.
(This makes me think of the old bits Howard Stern used to do where he'd set up a virgin with a porn star on a paid date and then have them back to discuss it. So, if you do pull the trigger be sure to come back and tell us all about it. LOL).
But, seriously, RELAX and check out some Eros and Tryst ads and contact some providers and explain the situation. Someone will give you a good vibe and then go for it.
Oh. I'd recommend you "buy American" the first go around. The Asian and Brazilian agencies are well-reviewed and seem to provide attractive ladies, but you don't want things to get lost in translation until you get a feel for how things are played in this world and you don't want to be rushed.
I'm sure some other members can chime in with other suggestions.
Have fun, my man, and stay safe.
