"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;3500947]My College Bunny told me about a friend in need of some cash. I met her at a coffee shop. I got hard just looking at this cute little morsel and listening to her high pitched voice. For a reasonable donation she was willing to take a ride with me in my car and go dunking for apples. That was so hot that I offered a further donation to get a hotel room. This girl was one of the sweetest and hottest pieces of ass I have ever had! She would do anything I wanted, including holding her ankles while she gave my willy a sloppy DT.

Life IS very good my brothers![/QUOTE]PTG, I believe you need to hook us up with this sweetheart! PM me her contact information if you would like to. Thanks brother!

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;3500947]My College Bunny told me about a friend in need of some cash. I met her at a coffee shop. I got hard just looking at this cute little morsel and listening to her high pitched voice. For a reasonable donation she was willing to take a ride with me in my car and go dunking for apples. That was so hot that I offered a further donation to get a hotel room. This girl was one of the sweetest and hottest pieces of ass I have ever had! She would do anything I wanted, including holding her ankles while she gave my willy a sloppy DT.

Life IS very good my brothers![/QUOTE]This thread had incredibly valuable insights and knowledge, however what it had been missing for many years are some HOT pics of the sugar babes.

Thanks for sharing, bud.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;3506748]This thread had incredibly valuable insights and knowledge, however what it had been missing for many years are some HOT pics of the sugar babes.

Thanks for sharing, bud.[/QUOTE]We are looking through different glasses. For me a penthouse letter with no info other entertainment. Good story!

What is the etiquette about discussing SB? Do we ask the forum about a specific girl? Do we share the experiences? I met Wishcumtrue screen name. Anyone else try her out?

This has been a topic several times on this thread.

I see several reasons why someone might share information:

- Trading SB's.

- Bragging.

- Background check on a Pot.

- Sharing strategies or techniques so others benefit from your successes or mistakes.

Trading: I don't trade SB's, because the type of girl I pursue doesn't want to be treated like an escort, have her info shared and would not automatically spend time with anyone like a typical UTR or escorts. Some will argue there is no difference, but this is my opinion. Treating all girls like escorts scares many potential SB's away and runs the risk of the Sugar Daddy sites being shutdown like Craigslist or Backpage for illegal activity.

Bragging: It can be fun like a "Penthouse Forum" letter, but has limited value.

Background Check: Can be very useful if others have had experience with or can warn about a Pot (potential SB) you are pursuing.

Strategies and Techniques: Primarily what has been discussed on this board without mention to specific SBs. Primarily what I come here for.

Many boards in other cities actively share and trade SB information like escort or UTR reviews.
[QUOTE=VirginiaGuy;3512527]What is the etiquette about discussing SB? Do we ask the forum about a specific girl? Do we share the experiences? I met Wishcumtrue screen name. Anyone else try her out?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3513338]This has been a topic several times on this thread.

I see several reasons why someone might share information:

- Trading SB's.

- Bragging.

- Background check on a Pot.

- Sharing strategies or techniques so others benefit from your successes or mistakes.

Trading: I don't trade SB's, because the type of girl I pursue doesn't want to be treated like an escort, have her info shared and would not automatically spend time with anyone like a typical UTR or escorts. Some will argue there is no difference, but this is my opinion. Treating all girls like escorts scares many potential SB's away and runs the risk of the Sugar Daddy sites being shutdown like Craigslist or Backpage for illegal activity.

Bragging: It can be fun like a "Penthouse Forum" letter, but has limited value.

Background Check: Can be very useful if others have had experience with or can warn about a Pot (potential SB) you are pursuing.

Strategies and Techniques: Primarily what has been discussed on this board without mention to specific SBs. Primarily what I come here for.

Many boards in other cities actively share and trade SB information like escort or UTR reviews.[/QUOTE]Succinctly put, Max. As you all know, I've never been in favor of trading SB contact info on this site for the very reason that I believe they are, at least the ones I chase, emphatically NOT interested in fucking any SD who can come up with the right amount of cash. If they will, in my opinion they are not SBs, but rather UTRs or pros. I believe the reluctance on the part of the Brotherhood to publicly trade hard info on any SB, unless it is to out her for being a Bad Baby, is what has kept this particular thread at the higher level it occupies compared with some of the other regional threads, my own included.

As I see it, the ONLY reason to share an SBs hard info is to expose her as a scammer or dangerous individual to steer clear of.

Keep up the good work all!

Scott.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3513338]This has been a topic several times on this thread.

I see several reasons why someone might share information:

- Trading SB's.

- Bragging.

- Background check on a Pot.

- Sharing strategies or techniques so others benefit from your successes or mistakes.

Trading: I don't trade SB's, because the type of girl I pursue doesn't want to be treated like an escort, have her info shared and would not automatically spend time with anyone like a typical UTR or escorts. Some will argue there is no difference, but this is my opinion. Treating all girls like escorts scares many potential SB's away and runs the risk of the Sugar Daddy sites being shutdown like Craigslist or Backpage for illegal activity.

Bragging: It can be fun like a "Penthouse Forum" letter, but has limited value.

Background Check: Can be very useful if others have had experience with or can warn about a Pot (potential SB) you are pursuing.

Strategies and Techniques: Primarily what has been discussed on this board without mention to specific SBs. Primarily what I come here for.

Many boards in other cities actively share and trade SB information like escort or UTR reviews.[/QUOTE]Trading SBs? I agree with you. The SBs I recruit would not do a sexual transaction with just anybody at the right price. SWs and UTRs probably would and contact info could be traded. With a SB, the intangibles of charm, chemistry and the cultivation of a relationship of some sort is involved. You can't really "trade" that to a third party.

Bragging? Sure. Why not. Especially with photos. I like to do that if I have them. A picture is worth a thousand words and all that. It is an illustration of what is available out there and can be pruriently entertaining.

Info on POTs? Of course. It identifies the extreme gold diggers, headaches and time wasters.

Strategies and techniques? Absolutely!. Everyone comes to this with different experiences and tools and approaches that work. However, we can all learn a few new tricks and be reminded of that which is tried and true.

Who the hell trade SBs? It takes a lot of hard work to find a good SB. And if an SB is willing to be traded, or want to be traded, then she's a UTR at best.

For me, what makes an SB different than UTR's, escorts, street walkers, etc is choice. They can and do say no. LOL.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;3515187]Who the hell trade SBs? It takes a lot of hard work to find a good SB. And if an SB is willing to be traded, or want to be traded, then she's a UTR at best.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3515312]For me, what makes an SB different than UTR's, escorts, street walkers, etc is choice. They can and do say no. LOL.[/QUOTE]A true sb for me has only 1 daddy. She doesn't have a rotation and her profile is deactivated.

I know I'm a hypocrite, but I want my primary SB to be exclusive to me, but I still have side dishes. I understand my side dishes may have to see multiple daddy's because I don't provide for them like I do for my primary SB.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3515418]A true sb for me has only 1 daddy. She doesn't have a rotation and her profile is deactivated.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3515786]I know I'm a hypocrite, but I want my primary SB to be exclusive to me, but I still have side dishes. I understand my side dishes may have to see multiple daddy's because I don't provide for them like I do for my primary SB.[/QUOTE]Good theory but unless one is providing everything the girl needs most girls take your approach. Human nature takes over. If one provides x amount then a side sd or 2 brings in extra $$. If they don't deactivate profile they still looking plus you never know what civy guy is playing in your sandbox.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3515312]For me, what makes an SB different than UTR's, escorts, street walkers, etc is choice. They can and do say no. LOL.[/QUOTE]For me, there is not a black & white definition of an SB versus UTR or escort, just a sliding scale which indicates whether how close they are to the civy relationship side of the scale versus the professional sex worker. The middle of that scale can get blurry at times, and the indicator needle doesn't always remain fixed on one part of the scale for any one given girl.

The kind of sugar dating I do tends to be a little more on the civy side of the scale. No negotiating, no promises, and no guarantees of anything (what will take place sexually is unknown, as is the gift amount. Its all based on chemistry at the time).

I look at it like this: If Neighbor-1 helps out Neighbor-2 by mowing his lawn every now and then while Neighbor-2 is out of town, and Neighbor-2 shows his appreciation to Neighbor-1 by inviting him over for filet mignon and top shelf liquor each time it happens, to what extent does that make Neighbor-1 a professional landscaper? Or Neighbor-2 a restaurant / bar operator? Even if Neighbor-2 gives Neighbor-1 a few 20 dollar bills instead, it does not make him a pro yard guy, even an under the radar one. Quid pro quo is a normal part of all human relationships, including civy dates, traditional marriages, etc.

For me, the selectivity of the SB is one of many factors that accept where she falls on the sliding scale, but is only one consideration. Some escorts are selective too. Specific preferences for client age or race can be found everywhere on BP ads.

Hunting for SBs at strip clubs is a little different in my mind because there is almost always negotiation that takes place. Striking up a deal for takeout with a professional dancer feels a bit more toward the pro side of the scale. But, what if the amount she needs is roughly equal to or less than she will probably make if she finishes her shift? And what if, on her next night off, she suggests taking you to some of her favorite nightspots in town, and bangs your balls loose later with no money exchanged (it doesn't happen as often as it should, but it happens). Is she still a pro or did the needle on the scale move?

[QUOTE=JZLizard;3517002]For me, there is not a black & white definition of an SB versus UTR or escort, just a sliding scale which indicates whether how close they are to the civy relationship side of the scale versus the professional sex worker. The middle of that scale can get blurry at times, and the indicator needle doesn't always remain fixed on one part of the scale for any one given girl.

The kind of sugar dating I do tends to be a little more on the civy side of the scale. No negotiating, no promises, and no guarantees of anything (what will take place sexually is unknown, as is the gift amount. Its all based on chemistry at the time).

I look at it like this: If Neighbor-1 helps out Neighbor-2 by mowing his lawn every now and then while Neighbor-2 is out of town, and Neighbor-2 shows his appreciation to Neighbor-1 by inviting him over for filet mignon and top shelf liquor each time it happens, to what extent does that make Neighbor-1 a professional landscaper? Or Neighbor-2 a restaurant / bar operator? Even if Neighbor-2 gives Neighbor-1 a few 20 dollar bills instead, it does not make him a pro yard guy, even an under the radar one. Quid pro quo is a normal part of all human relationships, including civy dates, traditional marriages, etc.

For me, the selectivity of the SB is one of many factors that accept where she falls on the sliding scale, but is only one consideration. Some escorts are selective too. Specific preferences for client age or race can be found everywhere on BP ads.

Hunting for SBs at strip clubs is a little different in my mind because there is almost always negotiation that takes place. Striking up a deal for takeout with a professional dancer feels a bit more toward the pro side of the scale. But, what if the amount she needs is roughly equal to or less than she will probably make if she finishes her shift? And what if, on her next night off, she suggests taking you to some of her favorite nightspots in town, and bangs your balls loose later with no money exchanged (it doesn't happen as often as it should, but it happens). Is she still a pro or did the needle on the scale move?[/QUOTE]Yeah that doesn't happen to often, about like hitting the lottery or being struck by lighting. They are pros, just because one gets lucky once doesn't change the fact you can find most on BP or the higher end girls at an agency or p411. Because they throw you a bone means you have probably been pretty generous and they are getting ready to put their hand back in your pocket. Your right on the account that very few people have the same definition of a sb.

I'm sorry your experience has been that bad. You seem very cynical.

If you have game, are still in decent shape and have a good sense of humor, you can do much better than typical BP girls...for less.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3517234]Yeah that doesn't happen to often, about like hitting the lottery or being struck by lighting. They are pros, just because one gets lucky once doesn't change the fact you can find most on BP or the higher end girls at an agency or p411. Because they throw you a bone means you have probably been pretty generous and they are getting ready to put their hand back in your pocket. Your right on the account that very few people have the same definition of a sb.[/QUOTE]