[QUOTE=EricTheActor;5263497]Lucky! I wish I knew of a place. How about an independent provider?[/QUOTE]That's what she asked for but I don't want to spend so much. I might reconsider.
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[QUOTE=EricTheActor;5263497]Lucky! I wish I knew of a place. How about an independent provider?[/QUOTE]That's what she asked for but I don't want to spend so much. I might reconsider.
[QUOTE=BlueSkyBlue;5263496]Just walk in an ask before you pay the house fee.
Just ask.
All they can say is no but try it in a well reviewed place that isn't busy or in the evening and see if they wouldn't try.
Might ask for 2 houses fees for 2 people but I'm sure some wouldn't care.
I've asked and received "4 hand" full service because I asked and because I paid for it not really that different.[/QUOTE]This is great advice. We will try this. Thanks!
[QUOTE=Lion1;5264944]Just my opinion, but a newbie should start with an independent who is by appointment only and doesn't haggle over extras on the flip. If you're really only into Asians, that's a bit tougher, but if you like Latinas, search rubratings for Point Loma. There are several gals who work in the Midway area who provide a HE at 180-220 per hour. Alyson, Jessica, Reyna, Victoria, Lily, Izzabeli, Sabrina -all use real pics and won't rush you out.
Yes, much more than an AMP, but this is just to get your feet wet before walking in to a storefront and being asked to wait while the girl is finishing her last appointment, etc. Lots more in Mission Valley too, but you're more likely to get burned by fake pics and flakes ghosting you (IMHO). Now if you only want relatively cheap FS with an Asian under 40 yo, just ignore my above advice.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your advice -- will look into those.
I'm mainly looking to start with a good, rough back massage and a HE. I've gotten massages for years and thought a HE was the only thing missing from the experience. I think later down the line I'll start dabbling further than that. I've seen a few posts even as recently as this week that seem to meet those criteria.
I agree it can be challenging to get started. So here's my 2 cents. Dip your toe into the business.
Let's start with some Don'ts.
Don't start with FS. Those places are just a little bit to mechanical and challenging for a new person. Can also be really expensive. Wait until you know what you want.
Don't ask specifically for anything. You would be incriminating yourself and the girl.
Don't be overtly aggressive. Don't grab the girl and don't show yourself off. At least not until you get the obvious invitation.
Don't go to a Massage Envy. LOL.
And some dos:
Be relaxed. Be nice and be funny. Smile. Tell them your name. Ask her name. Look them in the eyes. Show real appreciation. She might ask you how to want your massage. I used to say "Start hard and finish soft and happy". It used to get a laugh. Try to become a regular at a place. That makes them comfortable with you and vice versa.
Learn some Chinese. Upload Google translate to communicate. Upload WeChat so you can trade contact information with the girl (if you make a connection).
I always ask for an hour. Because I enjoy the massage. Enjoy the massage. Don't worry about why she hasn't started anything yet. 99% of the time she will.
Be aware of pricing. If the girl pegs you as a newbie she'll try to overprice everything. If she wants $100 for a HE she's ripping you off. Frankly, I detest negotiations. In my book HE should be $40-60 unless a lot more is going on.
Now if you are serious about FS, then $100-!40. ALWAYS bring hats. Some things you can try: About 15 minutes into the hour massage, Offer to massage her. Gently help her remove some clothing. Nicely. Say something like these clothes are in the way. Another think you can try, is place the condoms on the table where she can see them. I always place 3 condoms on the table.
Now sometimes you get the vibe. One time, I came to a shop. Met the girl. Hugged her and said let's fuck. Don't know why I did it. Had never been to the place or met the girl. But sure enough, we stood embracing and taking each other's cloths off and went at it a couple times. BUT don't try that. It's just something you eventually get a sixth sense about.
Good luck. Report back. I'm sure there are a hundred guys who would be happy to offer advice.
Stay safe.
Bob.
[QUOTE=DateMikeCA;5264782]I've only been to one place out of country before, and I laugh at how awkward I felt communicating what I wanted and how much I paid for what I got. Been stalking here to dip my toes in the water so I appreciate everybody's reports. Still trying to decide where to try first.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PussyWorship;5265153]I went to Diamond yesterday after calling a few places. They kept texting me after asking if I was coming so I decided to give them a try. Was offered two different girls, picked the one who seemed friendly and had nice DDs. I didn't get her name but she had a noticeably more welcoming attitude and bigger tits. Paid 6 entrance and on flip negotiated 1. 4 for full service. She jumped on top and stroked my Johnson with her big tits, put on a condom and gave CG for a few minutes, then jumped down and asked for doggie. She rushed the whole time and after about 20 or so minutes (40 min into service) tried HJ but gave up after 5 and said she couldn't finish me. She wiped me down and left, telling me I have a "good heart and nice D" while grabbing my stick through my pants. Could have been great but won't come back since she didn't deliver. Also, she was on her phone a lot and speaking Chinese through an ear piece during the first 15 min which annoyed me. Looking for a place with Latinas and hopefully one my wife can watch inside. I hid my phone and streamed the show and my wife loved it.[/QUOTE]Nice on the cams!! Check out JW on mission gorge. Sophia is a decent Latina.
If you don't want to have a crowd then arrive early. Say 9 or 9:30 in the morning. Not nearly as busy. So there won't be as many distractions and interruptions. I know a guy who started f-ing the shop manager. Polish woman. His routine was to pre-arrange a meeting at 8 am. They had the place to themselves for an hour.
IF you are not sure how to find the places that deliver HE and more, read the forum and make notes. Also check out rub maps. You don't need to subscribe. Just look for the shops that have 10 or more reviews and recent reviews. There are some places with over 100 reviews. You can be certain those are FS places. There is a problem of sorts going to a 100 review FS place. If all you want is a good massage and a HE, those places are a bad choice. Girls at those places are happy to do FS as many times per day as possible. Now, I'm probably overstating the case, but (1) they won't even give more than a few minutes of lukewarm half hearted massage (2) they'll be pissed that they are wasting an hour on a HE and a $50 tip. (3) once you pop she'll send you on your way. Some places won't even agree to an hour massage. So to find the places that offer good massage check out the Yelp and Google reviews. Anyone with 4 stars and also gets mentioned here should be your go-to. Also, ask the question to the members here? Where can you get a good strong therapeutic massage.
[QUOTE=DateMikeCA;5265258]Thanks for your advice -- will look into those.
I'm mainly looking to start with a good, rough back massage and a HE. I've gotten massages for years and thought a HE was the only thing missing from the experience. I think later down the line I'll start dabbling further than that. I've seen a few posts even as recently as this week that seem to meet those criteria.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=WhoWantsToKnow;5261277]I appreciate the info. The most I ever got at any of the jamacha places was HE. Maybe I'm getting the wrong girls? Do you ever ask specifically for Amy or anyone else? Not sure if I'd pay $140 from a middle aged woman. I regularly see a 19 year old Filipina that will do it for less LOL.[/QUOTE]So I went to W spa finally after my 19 year old Filipina flaked out on me. I did get Amy and was very happy. So I take back what I said about paying for a middle aged woman. I got the $40 half hour massage. She did wear a red skirt but had leggings on too, I had her take it off. She wanted $100 for CBJ I told her I didn't have that. Went down to $70. Gave a nice CBJ with a little prostate massage then finished me off with a HJ. She said she only went down to $70 because it's a new spa. I said I'd be back for more. Highly recommended.
[QUOTE=MPPro;5265494]Nice on the cams!! Check out JW on mission gorge. Sophia is a decent Latina.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the intel brother. Can you describe Sophia? Age / size / tits? Is she eager? Does she rush you? Want a better experience than my last.
Was working on a rental property in El Cajon and needed to make a Home Depot run. As was driving down fletcher parkway out of the corner of my eye I peeped what looked to me like an MP. I decided to stop by after going to Home Depot as was a little sore from doing some labor and needed a massage. Walked in was greeted by two girls I guess it was Sophias turn so I drew her after quick temp check. Led to room standard setup and greeting "get comfortable" etc. Asked for a medium pressure. For some reason when I came In this place just gave off the FS vibes. But I really came for massage. Started off with a mediocre massage when after about ten minutes she asked what I wanted, I told her I wanted a massage. After a few minutes of going thru the motions and not really giving me anything but brushes across my back she asked me to flip. To my surprise she went straight to work on a CBJ not really being a fan I told her to stop. Laid her across the table for a mish session than a quick flip for K9 finish. Sophia I would say is late thirties maybe early forties looks ok. For all my El Cajon mongers why have you been holding out so long to report this place!? . this is just basically a brothel in east county. I didn't bring much to tip so handed her $ and she didn't say anything. I may go back again if in area and try other talent there.
[QUOTE=MrPedro;5263483]Chloe is great and I remember her from unique massage. My favorite from convoy massage was Yuki. She had incredible body and bitchy face that goes with it. I wonder were she is now?[/QUOTE]Yes, Yuki was hot! Loved her in her school girl dress or tennis like outfit. LOL. She stopped doing massages after the pandemic started. Maybe we'll see her back one day.
I was in the area and wanted to revisit a spot I hadn't been to in years, so I decided to visit L Amore on Clairemont Mesa Blvd. I wasn't looking for anyone or anything in particular other than a nice massage to relax my muscles. The only thing was I would only stay if my masseuse looked younger than 45. LOL.
I was greeted by Rose. She was dressed very conservatively, like someone who worked in an office setting. She looked okay under her mask, and appeared to have a nice body. She collected the $60/ hr HF and escorted me to my room. I laid on my stomach and had the sheets covering my butt. Rose came in and adjusted the sheets, but only covering my legs exposing my back and buttocks. She asked what pressure I wanted and I told her deep / hard around the shoulders and back. Her pressure was okay, and she worked out some of the kinks. About 20 minutes or so of working my shoulders and back, she removed the sheets completely and started on my legs. She didn't completely reached under for junior, but brushed up on the boys and junior's shaft with every strokes. After the 35 minutes mark she excused herself to get a warm towel to clean off the oil. After the flip she started working on the chest and spending time rubbing on my nipples which immediately got junior excited. After she noticed the sheets starting to pitch a tent she asked if it was okay to touch him, absolutely. LOL. Rose kept her mask on the entire time so I couldn't tell how she looked without it. Her HJ technique was nice and slow and felt great. Initially she kept a safe distance and was only okay with OTC touching of her legs. She commented on how much she liked how junior looked and came in closer along my my side. After I reached under her shirt (there were no resistance) and started playing with her nipples and breasts she got excited and was okay with me squeezing her butt and between her legs. Although she didn't removed any clothing, her breasts felt nice. Her stomach is not flat, but she was not fat either. Her breasts were probably Cs and felt natural. Her HJ technique was so nice and she knew I came close to exploding a couple of times so she backed off and worked on my legs or chest, then came back to junior. When it was just 10 minutes left she focused on junior and I exploded quickly after that. She did a quick wipe up with some tissue, then excused herself to go get warm towels for the final clean up.
Overall it was a decent massage and a good finish. I gave her a $50 tip and she was okay with it. Rose said there are usually 3-4 girls working each day, and invited me to go back. I may repeat.
You hit the nail on the head!
[QUOTE=Bob521;5265825]If you don't want to have a crowd then arrive early. Say 9 or 9:30 in the morning. Not nearly as busy. So there won't be as many distractions and interruptions. I know a guy who started f-ing the shop manager. Polish woman. His routine was to pre-arrange a meeting at 8 am. They had the place to themselves for an hour.
IF you are not sure how to find the places that deliver HE and more, read the forum and make notes. Also check out rub maps. You don't need to subscribe. Just look for the shops that have 10 or more reviews and recent reviews. There are some places with over 100 reviews. You can be certain those are FS places. There is a problem of sorts going to a 100 review FS place. If all you want is a good massage and a HE, those places are a bad choice. Girls at those places are happy to do FS as many times per day as possible. Now, I'm probably overstating the case, but (1) they won't even give more than a few minutes of lukewarm half hearted massage (2) they'll be pissed that they are wasting an hour on a HE and a $50 tip. (3) once you pop she'll send you on your way. Some places won't even agree to an hour massage. So to find the places that offer good massage check out the Yelp and Google reviews. Anyone with 4 stars and also gets mentioned here should be your go-to. Also, ask the question to the members here? Where can you get a good strong therapeutic massage.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5266863]I was in the area and wanted to revisit a spot I hadn't been to in years, so I decided to visit L Amore on Clairemont Mesa Blvd. I wasn't looking for anyone or anything in particular other than a nice massage to relax my muscles. The only thing was I would only stay if my masseuse looked younger than 45. LOL.
I was greeted by Rose. She was dressed very conservatively, like someone who worked in an office setting. She looked okay under her mask, and appeared to have a nice body. She collected the $60/ hr HF and escorted me to my room. I laid on my stomach and had the sheets covering my butt. Rose came in and adjusted the sheets, but only covering my legs exposing my back and buttocks. She asked what pressure I wanted and I told her deep / hard around the shoulders and back. Her pressure was okay, and she worked out some of the kinks. About 20 minutes or so of working my shoulders and back, she removed the sheets completely and started on my legs. She didn't completely reached under for junior, but brushed up on the boys and junior's shaft with every strokes. After the 35 minutes mark she excused herself to get a warm towel to clean off the oil. After the flip she started working on the chest and spending time rubbing on my nipples which immediately got junior excited. After she noticed the sheets starting to pitch a tent she asked if it was okay to touch him, absolutely. LOL. Rose kept her mask on the entire time so I couldn't tell how she looked without it. Her HJ technique was nice and slow and felt great. Initially she kept a safe distance and was only okay with OTC touching of her legs. She commented on how much she liked how junior looked and came in closer along my my side. After I reached under her shirt (there were no resistance) and started playing with her nipples and breasts she got excited and was okay with me squeezing her butt and between her legs. Although she didn't removed any clothing, her breasts felt nice. Her stomach is not flat, but she was not fat either. Her breasts were probably Cs and felt natural. Her HJ technique was so nice and she knew I came close to exploding a couple of times so she backed off and worked on my legs or chest, then came back to junior. When it was just 10 minutes left she focused on junior and I exploded quickly after that. She did a quick wipe up with some tissue, then excused herself to go get warm towels for the final clean up.
Overall it was a decent massage and a good finish. I gave her a $50 tip and she was okay with it. Rose said there are usually 3-4 girls working each day, and invited me to go back. I may repeat.[/QUOTE]Nice! I haven't been here in awhile something about the AMP name LOL.
Hello, I'm DC based but will be in San Diego for work next week. I'm looking for a CMT level massage from an independent provider (prefer Caucasian or Latina). I prefer under the radar therapists who provide quality massages with a bit extra on the finish. I can offer a couple UTCs in the dc area if needed. Thanks.
[QUOTE=MPPro;5267245]Nice! I haven't been here in awhile something about the AMP name LOL.[/QUOTE]
LOL! I always thought the following AMP names were funny: Happy Head- been there once many years ago and the masseuse tuck the sheets around me like I was a mummy. LOL.
Golden Wood- seen reports this was / is a FS spot. Been there a couple of times when it was a different name and had a Latina once, and Korean another time.
Happy Land- is another one. Never been. Always seen reports of them having GILFs, and recent reports of them not changing out their sheets. No thanks. Too many places with decent looking girls and better service in the area too waste $$.