Saint Louis Mo, Commo-Check?
Any fellow SDs in that area want to get a drink, swap some stories, brag a little, let me know. PM me actually. I'm meeting most of my dates around 7pm or later. I do have someone scheduled every night that I'm there, so it would definitely be a quick SD bonding moment before 7pm, LOL.
BT
365 days, but who's counting?
Gentlemen,
Well, it was a year ago today, the day after Father's Day, that my ATF and I split up. I am over it, mostly, but there are moments when I remember some little thing about her as if she were right in front of me.
There have been many babies since then, and some really outstanding times, but no one yet has truly taken her place. Yet.
Be careful about emotional involvement. It makes the experience so much more intense, but the heartache is real too.
In other news, I'm actively casting to several little fish from SA at the moment, too many actually, but when they are rising all around you, it's hard not to toss a fly their way.
Lunch today with a serious front-runner. This will be our third meeting, and I'm guessing we will be discussing the "arrangement", which will hopefully lead to POTF in the near future.
Wish me luck,
Scott
I admire your stamina, my brother!
[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1791618]MsFreakyLawStudent did not return my calls.
Had a quick lunch with MsParalegal, she is kinda distant, snobbish and stays on her phone when we are together. Texting, not talking.
My flyin hooked me up right before the game started.
TallnDeprived sent text and is ready to get it on when we meet.
The stl backup is primed and down for anything.
MsBigboobs has not contacted me, interesting.
MsCoolnFine the 9. 5 I mentioned is great. We tested and talked today. Very good chemistry, we will meet when I get back and will Skype this week.
I am thinking of sneaking out on my flyin to meet the backup. She sent a nice pic and it may be worth a lunch investment.[/QUOTE]Tigg,
Any way we could do a little blood doping? I want to have what you're having!
Good luck, and don't forget to write,
Scott
I might as well throw my post in
Hi guys, I first started as a hobbyist back when CL allowed erotic services. It was real easy back then, but when it got shut down and things moved to BP it was never the same, especially with the constant stings that go down.
One day when I was browsing CL, there was a young woman who was asking to be spoiled. Unbeknownst to me were females who were needing "assistance" who weren't actually pros. Ah yes, what a magnificent concept, and now the market seems to be booming for SD / SB relationships. She was my first sugarbaby, and I really skimped her. She was really hot. 18 and had a great body. After seeing her on and off for about a year, she went cold turkey on me. Let me tell you, getting cold turkey like that, I had bad withdrawals. She was my ATF and holds sentimental value to me when I look back. Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't have skimped her in the $ department. I was able to find another SB within a short amount of time, but there's nothing like your first. It's a learning experience I tell you.
I much prefer having a steady SB than picking up a random pro.
How do you feel about the emotional attachment?
Hotels and Visa Gift cards
My hotel karma is off to a pretty bad start. The first one didn't even as for a license, so just a name with no address recorded, that was good. The 2nd one ended up requiring my license twice (since they screwed up and rented my room out to someone else shortly after I left). Then there was the attempted pilfering of my baby's gift card. Oy.
So this time I tried a Holiday Inn, which had lots of rooms according to hotels. Com, and did a walk-in. I had unexpected evening shore leave, and planned to take full advantage. Should be easy, right?
Well, they were cool with just a name, no license, no address. I handed my Visa gift card over, which had plenty of funds. Which kept getting denied. The front desk lady called the 800 number, and the short story is that Visa (not the hotel, not the gift card issuer) was putting a $500 hold in addition to the room charge. Which of course the card couldn't handle. Now, I had just used this same card at another chain, and the credit card authorization was one of the few things that went smoothly. So, WTF?
The credit card issuer's response was that "due to the type of establishment" where I was booking a room, Visa insists on the $500 hold. This was just a middle-of-the-road Holiday Inn! Again, WTF?
Fortunately I had the cash to cover it, with the only restriction that I wouldn't be able to charge things against the room (no biggie!). Still never asked for official I'd, even when I switched to cash.
Anyone else run into this? Snafus like this are bad for my nerves. Fortunately my SB made me forget all about it in record time.
Look up "Nando 1" in Wikkepedia and this is what you get!
[QUOTE=BigTigger;1793250] ...she is now living out of her car, no real job and pressing me for funds.[/QUOTE]Tigg,
Wise move, my brother. Keep up the great field reports. I feel like I'm right there next to you, but not in an icky way!
Tally ho,
Scott
I come to you a boundless drop to a boundless ocean.
Hello all.
Today was my first day reading past threads. I started at year 2011 and am about half way through THAT year in catching up. Please welcome me to your thread. Today was one of those life altering moments when I stood at the intersection of Monger & Sugar Daddy. Today is day one.
Hello,
My name is Mathman and I'm a recovering monger.
New Ones And Some Losses (Supplemental report)
There is so much going on that I need to report on a more frequent basis at least for the time being. Or until I carry this too far. I guess when you have lived your life as a normal person with average access to pussy and then one day a door opens up to a candy shop of what seems like limitless quality pussy. There may be a slight tendency to overdo it. Either that or I am just out of control. Anyway the week is young and I have much to report.
REVVO_ATF: Almost no movement here. She is still traveling and will not be back until next week. And then she will most likely be on her period according to pmsbuddy. Com. So It may be another week until I see her. I do have a little concern since she is very hard to get a response from on text or phone. But you never know with any of these. On the other hand she has always expressed great fondness for me and desire for me. But this break has given me good opportunity to explore quite a few other POTs and find what could be some real gems.
REVVO_OLD_ATF: This one appears to be a problem. Again. This baby probably should have never been on the site. She is extremely independent and hard to pin down. She was my favorite and left me and then came back. Since then there has only been a few visits. Both of us traveling a lot. But the problem is deeper. I think she has a real problem with what she is doing and with her own future. In addition she is a person that is never still. She is always socializing, visiting, going on adventures. Problem is we had a great time when we are together but she does not make time for me. This tells me two things. She is either going to leave again or she found another man. I know she is not on the site and I am pretty sure she is not having sex with anyone else. But she may be dating someone else. Either way I am having problems with this. It may be that I just like her too much. There is quite a bit of talk on this site lately about E. Involvment, and I have to plead guilty to this one. I have met a lot of women and had a lot of first class pussy but this one is different. And this troubles me. It troubles me when I have her. And it troubles me when I don't. Someone asked me if I am having fun. And I have to say. Not so much with this one. I have bright shining moments of incredible fun and then long periods of discontent. I am probably going to have to cut her loose. She cancelled on me this week and the excuse was not acceptable. And I am concerned about further issues. May be better to just start moving away now. Not what I wanted and certainly does not make me happy. Now what I do about this? I am proud to say that within 1 hour of making my decision. I had two FC sessions set up with two eastern European babies for that night and the next afternoon. Their reports are below. It is good to have options. But I must say this helps but does not erase my feelings for this really awesome woman.
REVVO_POT1: Nothing happening here. I just don't have the time. I would love to fuck her but I am concerned she is too mercenary and that she may be a UTR, or a semi pro. I have her on the back burner. But she will probably be in the wind if I don't do anything within another week.
REVVO_POT2: She is now REVVO_SB5.
REVVO_POT5: She is now REVVO_SB6.
REVVO_SB1: So finally going to see my little cute blond on Friday. I was worried it had been too long since she got some dick from me. But she was ready to go. I Like this one. She is a sweetie and very orgasmic. These MILFS in the upper 20s and into their 30's are the sweet spot for me. They know how to fuck and know how to please. Much easier to play with than the really young babies. But I do have a report on one of those also below.
REVVO_SB2: Well I fear that this one is gone. I gave her too little sugar 150 and it appears she has gotten insulted. She is cute and nice thick body. In the good way. First class pussy all the way around. But she is not returning my calls or texts. And she really liked the FC session we had she told me several times. And she came several times. But someone is going to have to go. I did learn something from this. Don't give a high quality woman 150 for a fuck.
REVVO_SB3: Moved away, off the list.
REVVO_SB4: Not going to do her any more. It was an experience.
REVVO_SB5: So this young MILF is from eastern Europe and is sweet as can be. And she is truly as armature as can be. If you are in this game to fuck armatures this one really qualifies. Met today and had lunch and then to the fuck chamber. Sweet as candy. Huge blue eyes, slender size 0/2 body with small cute breasts. Had to really take it slow but I was able to calm her nerves and get her to get into it. Got a good orgasm out of the way and from then on she was much more responsive and affectionate. Very flexible. Twisted her up like a pretzel. I am holding my rating of her at 8/8/9. Great girl. Another one that it would be hard to see her go. It was a really great fuck. I must say I came harder and better with her than most. She was up there with my ATF in getting better and more nuts out of me. I think it has a lot to do with them being into me also. You just feel it. Their bodies literally communicate it to you.
REVVO_SB6: This is probably the most beautiful one on the list other than REVVO_OLD_ATF. She is also from eastern Europe and was a lot easier to get her to the FC than I thought. She is very young. My youngest baby ever. 21 YO White single, sexy little body with small breasts and an awesome face. She looks right through you with these incredible green eyes. Not a lot of friendliness and fun at first but I got her talking and laughing. And she loosened up. She had not problem going to the FC. Drinks and then on to get some real fucking done. Did her last night. And she wanted it quickly. Not nearly as nervous as SB5 above. But much more distant. She is in my other report about not wanting to kiss. I fully believe she will come around and warm up and get into the kissing. Either that or she will be gone. Too much quality pussy to keep her around and not have her completely. She has to have the prettiest pussy I have ever seen. It was like a work of art. And smelled great. And she was so juicy and wet, before I even did anything. The fuck was very good and she liked the sugar 200. I must say I don't know how you can beat that for a woman that can pass for a model like looks, and she is just fucking only you. She is easily a 10/9/7. And I expect to get her to raise that 7 up a bit. She dresses great very feminine and sexy, and she is very adventurous. We are scheduled to revisit the FC this Saturday.
So that is my supplemental report. Much going on. Once again a little too much. But I am getting as much sex as I can handle and spending way too much money. Someone will be going next week. And it is getting harder and harder to reduce the staff. But it will have to be done. I don't even go on the SDFORME site anymore, just too busy. Just while I have been writing this report. I have been contacted by a new POT, from a previous email I sent out, and if she looks anything like her pics. She is absolutely gorgeous. We are scheduled for a M&G Thursday afternoon. She looks very promising. And she may be adding to my dilemma. There may be even a genuine ATF replacement in this lineup. We shall see. Keep on writing boys. This is the real thing going on. I have to pinch myself sometimes.
Lets be careful out there.
REVVO
Things that turn on a SB, SO or any other non-goldigging girl
1. Knowing what day their time of the month is. (so they don't have to feel pressured for sex)
2. Knowing that you take care of your kids. (shows you really are a daddy)
3. Knowing you don"t hate your X. (shows compassion, something ALL SB's crave more than anything)
4. Always arriving freshly showered. (just sexy all around)
5. Knowing the name of the perfume they wear. (most guys don't)
6. Knowing their Bday. (I still can't remember my x wifes)
7. Getting them off first. (a no brainer)
8. Getting them a greendot even if they already have a CC or debit card. (good boyscout mentality)
9. Making sure they have enough makeup. (CVS, Riteaid or Walgreens is fine. Most young girls can stock up big-time for $50 to $100)
10. Txt them as soon as you wake up and before you go to sleep. (Don't worry about the daytime. You are a busy guy.)
Maybe you do all of these things already. If you do all of them you can't help but go to the top of their list.
Taking Pictures. The smart way
We've talked about this topic a little bit in the past but I wanted to revisit it.
So far in my Sugar Bowl career I've never taken a single picture of one of my babies in the bedroom or otherwise. I've been tempted but I always felt it was just too big of a risk of exposure having hard evidence of my activities in my possession. With just about every action I do in the Sugar Bowl, I try to make sure it's always backed up by "Reasonable Doubt". Meaning if I'm careless and a piece of evidence of my activities finds its way into the Warden's hands, I can explain it and cloud it with enough reasonable doubt so a state of blissful ignorance can be maintained. I try to avoid creating "Smoking Guns" at all costs. I can explain an errant hotel charge on a credit card (ie. My buddy got in a huge fight with his girlfriend and needed a place to crash or the card number must have been stolen and I'll report it immediately, and etc). But if there is a pic found in my possession of a young 20 year-old deep-throating my cock in POV style then there's no explaining that away. That's a career-ending torn ACL injury, you're out of the Bowl immediately and if you somehow manage to return, you'll never be the same.
That said.
I've some really good bedroom experiences lately and man oh man, I'd like to have a few photos / vids to re-live those moments since in some cases they might be just once in-lifetime type experiences. So I'm really tempted to break my own rule. I also recently got a new phone, so I'm thinking of using my old phone, which has no service at all, as my Sugar Cam. Since it's a known device, I wouldn't have to hide it discretely and I can pretty much leave it lying around in the periphery in the house. And since it's a dead phone, it's highly unlikely the Warden will go thumbing through it (It has a screen lock anyway). And with the phone being off the grid from a wireless provider, the only way pics are getting downloaded / sent is through a manual USB transfer.
So the chain of custody of my Sugar Pics would go like this:
1). Naked SB 2). Pull out Sugar Cam 3). *Click* 4). Sugar Pics on Sugar Cam 5). After quick review, Sugar Cam Phone stays locked indefinitely 6). Transfer Sugar Pics to secure device / computer to password protected folders 7). Wipe Sugar Cam of Sugar Pics.
What do you guys think of that? Those of you who take pictures how do you transfer and store them securely?
Why it pays to do due dilligence
My brothers,
I was communicating on SA this morning with a hot-looking baby, a little older than I like them, but still do-able, at least from her photos. I coaxed her over to my Sugar email account, where her message to me contained her real name in her email address. Things were going along nicely, and we were setting up an m&g for later today when I idly put her name into pipl. Not only did more recent, and skanky, pics come up, but an article about her boyfriend and father of her SIX children, who was sent to prison for burning her clothes and setting the house on fire in a drunken jealous rage over her cheating on him. Oh, and he also set her parents' house on fire, and attacked a police officer with a butcher knife. This was back in 2011, and he was sentenced to 2 1/2 years, meaning he is probably just getting out, if not free already! I can just see it now: "Hi honey, I'm home from prison! Who the FUCK is this?"
Needless to say, I am going to vanish on this one. Any bro in the Chicago area on SA, pm me and I'll give you her profile. Unless you live for danger, in which case, tall ho!
You can never be too careful in your initial screening process, I say, and any little bit of intel is helpful.
Peace,
Scott