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[QUOTE=Hapcj7;5438553]How about when you go on the site you get all these new girls instantly favoriting you from a ll over the world!![/QUOTE]Correct! Further, look at your 'viewed me' area. They fave you without ever looking at your profile. Those are the scammers regardless of their location.
If they are premium members they can hide that they viewed you just like we can. It's a feature in settings. You can also set a filter to move any incoming message to kinda a spam section by distance from your listed location. Better yet just hide your profile and message girls you are interested in. Problem solved.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5439145]Correct! Further, look at your 'viewed me' area. They fave you without ever looking at your profile. Those are the scammers regardless of their location.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5439249]If they are premium members they can hide that they viewed you just like we can. It's a feature in settings. You can also set a filter to move any incoming message to kinda a spam section by distance from your listed location. Better yet just hide your profile and message girls you are interested in. Problem solved.[/QUOTE]Female Premium members are not the problem.
Is it just my luck or have you all noticed a decline in the selection of girls on SA? I've used the site on and off for years. I always pay the month, make some contacts, then cancel. Sure, maybe only 1 out of every 20 or so conversations goes anywhere, but it wasn't difficult to find a somewhat normal girl on there. I use the site like a dating app. I try to connect with these girls, spend some time chatting. Get them to actually know and like me and vice versa. Makes it seem less transactional and I often get better prices as a result.
But after taking a long break and trying again, all I get is spammers from far away lands, straight up hookers, and girls who think Jeff Bezos $$$ is on there. Also, far too many women who would have to pay me! (victims of the ugly stick, sloppy fat, or just plain too old).
Has anyone used a traditional dating site discreetly with success? Like made a profile with no face pic and been clear you are essentially looking for a side girl?
Anyway, hope you all are having better luck than me.
[QUOTE=DadBod78;5442029]Is it just my luck or have you all noticed a decline in the selection of girls on SA? I've used the site on and off for years. I always pay the month, make some contacts, then cancel. Sure, maybe only 1 out of every 20 or so conversations goes anywhere, but it wasn't difficult to find a somewhat normal girl on there. I use the site like a dating app. I try to connect with these girls, spend some time chatting. Get them to actually know and like me and vice versa. Makes it seem less transactional and I often get better prices as a result.
But after taking a long break and trying again, all I get is spammers from far away lands, straight up hookers, and girls who think Jeff Bezos $$$ is on there. Also, far too many women who would have to pay me! (victims of the ugly stick, sloppy fat, or just plain too old).
Has anyone used a traditional dating site discreetly with success? Like made a profile with no face pic and been clear you are essentially looking for a side girl?
Anyway, hope you all are having better luck than me.[/QUOTE]It's not just you, there certainly has been a decline on good young ladies on SA. I joined 3 years ago and it was a bit better then. I had hooked up with few young girls for very reasonable prices. I even managed to meet a couple of girls who were straight up grand slam home runs when it came to looks, service, and overall expenses.
The website always required a lot of patience and ability to know how to communicate to these girls. If you treat them with respect and don't be a creep you would be surprised how many of them stay in touch and are willing to please.
I've met a few girls from there who have shown me their accounts and there are like a 100 guys for every 1 girl. The ratio is utterly insane. These girls are getting a million messages and offers.
From time to time if you remain diligent and patient you can strike gold. It's a lot more rare now though.
[QUOTE=MasterLink;5442920]It's not just you, there certainly has been a decline on good young ladies on SA. I joined 3 years ago and it was a bit better then. I had hooked up with few young girls for very reasonable prices. I even managed to meet a couple of girls who were straight up grand slam home runs when it came to looks, service, and overall expenses.
The website always required a lot of patience and ability to know how to communicate to these girls. If you treat them with respect and don't be a creep you would be surprised how many of them stay in touch and are willing to please.
[B]I've met a few girls from there who have shown me their accounts and there are like a 100 guys for every 1 girl. The ratio is utterly insane. These girls are getting a million messages and offers.[/B]
From time to time if you remain diligent and patient you can strike gold. It's a lot more rare now though.[/QUOTE]Good Lord! I was led to believe that the ration was the opposite, in our favor. It now makes sense.
Idk bro. I've been hearing these complaints all through the years that I've been on there and have enjoyed 100+ successes. I was going like gangbusters when I stopped due to the pandemic in Mar. 2020 and I haven't signed back up yet. Huge investment of time though, in order to keep the investment of money low and your success rate high.
[QUOTE=DadBod78;5442029]Is it just my luck or have you all noticed a decline in the selection of girls on SA? I've used the site on and off for years. I always pay the month, make some contacts, then cancel. Sure, maybe only 1 out of every 20 or so conversations goes anywhere, but it wasn't difficult to find a somewhat normal girl on there. I use the site like a dating app. I try to connect with these girls, spend some time chatting. Get them to actually know and like me and vice versa. Makes it seem less transactional and I often get better prices as a result.
But after taking a long break and trying again, all I get is spammers from far away lands, straight up hookers, and girls who think Jeff Bezos $$$ is on there. Also, far too many women who would have to pay me! (victims of the ugly stick, sloppy fat, or just plain too old).
Has anyone used a traditional dating site discreetly with success? Like made a profile with no face pic and been clear you are essentially looking for a side girl?
Anyway, hope you all are having better luck than me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;5442986]Idk bro. I've been hearing these complaints all through the years that I've been on there and have enjoyed 100+ successes. I was going like gangbusters when I stopped due to the pandemic in Mar. 2020 and I haven't signed back up yet. Huge investment of time though, in order to keep the investment of money low and your success rate high.[/QUOTE]Things have changed greatly on SA and WYP. The weeds are taller and thicker now. I'm noticing women still there from 2-3 years ago and they were marginal at best for me. New, real women are not joining in larger numbers as in the past. The spammers and scammers are still there in greater numbers which makes weeding more time consuming.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7cd6676e-3029-4cb5-b4a9-9670094ac251[/URL]
This one is super cute and real.
She just wants to meet up and bone but there was a caveat. She seems all business and that is not what I wanted so happy hunting!
[QUOTE=Uncountable;5442975]Good Lord! I was led to believe that the ration was the opposite, in our favor. It now makes sense.[/QUOTE]While what he said might be true for some ladies.
Most of the ones I talk to say that the majority of the messages they get are scams and of the "real" measages the majority of the "real" guys are scum bags.
So yeah, maybe they got 3 offers for 500 but every single one of them is trying to steal their bank account numbers or worse.
Came out of the room running with half the money.
First time happens to me and should have followed my gut. First time a girl asks to count the money right away. Big giveaway which you guys have stated before.
Be safe out there! Also, she without makeup is hideous but nice body.
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5444961]Came out of the room running with half the money.
First time happens to me and should have followed my gut. First time a girl asks to count the money right away. Big giveaway which you guys have stated before.
Be safe out there! Also, she without makeup is hideous but nice body.[/QUOTE]That sucks she walked off. Lots of balls. What a smoke show though.
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/nataliaadefilio/?hl=en[/URL]
I did about 10 years ago when I was muscular without sagging tits. I got tons of hits but they all asked why I was hiding my face. 9 out of 10 dropped off when I told them why. Of the remaining 10% most wanted some kind of relationship. I banged 2 before deciding it wasn't worth it.
[QUOTE=DadBod78;5442029]Has anyone used a traditional dating site discreetly with success? Like made a profile with no face pic and been clear you are essentially looking for a side girl?
Anyway, hope you all are having better luck than me.[/QUOTE]
Please see post 13707 in Htfd escorts. She's a STG visitor who was spending spending her last day in Htfd.
https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/downtown-real-tall-tattooed-fu/478122047297
She's now moved to Htfd and on WYP. Don't be fooled or fooled with.
Had an awesome time with a 30 yr old cutie. Had a few more pounds than her pics but not bad at all or big. Met around 5 pm for drinks and some food. We stayed there until about 9 pm. To my surprise, she invited me to her apartment instead of getting a room, which was the plan. Ended up having some amazing fun and staying the night with some more fun in the morning. Might end up seeing her a few times a month.
They are out there! If you are having issues, either you are doing it wrong, don't put in the time or don't want to spend more than 150-200. The market is what it is right now and either you bump up to 3 and sometimes 4 for the hotties or you might as well hit STG because it's going to be really hard on seeking to find the real women!
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5379438]I was suppose to pick her up today but I ran into some stuff.
She said she was going to go out tonight but was upset with it how much they were offering her.[/QUOTE]She must be getting it every 5 min. Because she can't even get a response in less than 1/2 a day. Will be on STG shortly.
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5444961]Came out of the room running with half the money.
First time happens to me and should have followed my gut. First time a girl asks to count the money right away. Big giveaway which you guys have stated before.
Be safe out there! Also, she without makeup is hideous but nice body.[/QUOTE]That ***** is a Thieving ****!
Sooner or later, that kind of activity is going to catch up with her, Big Time.
It never ends well.
[QUOTE=TSmithers24;5454578]Had an awesome time with a 30 yr old cutie. Had a few more pounds than her pics but not bad at all or big. Met around 5 pm for drinks and some food. We stayed there until about 9 pm. To my surprise, she invited me to her apartment instead of getting a room, which was the plan. Ended up having some amazing fun and staying the night with some more fun in the morning. Might end up seeing her a few times a month.
They are out there! If you are having issues, either you are doing it wrong, don't put in the time or don't want to spend more than 150-200. The market is what it is right now and either you bump up to 3 and sometimes 4 for the hotties or you might as well hit STG because it's going to be really hard on seeking to find the real women![/QUOTE]Any links?
https://www.seeking.com/member/0e938691-bd0d-42cf-affe-009fb3acbea7
Seeking 1 k + uber for now, not in my budget or taste.
[QUOTE=ArtOf;5457472][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/53677dde-eb28-4036-adfb-4ea7aeb41c59[/URL]
Seeking 1 k + uber for now, not in my budget or taste.[/QUOTE]I was supposed to meet her last week. She wanted to meet asap. Wanted to meet in Storrs. Doesn't have a car. Was asking 1000 and then said 800. I said thanks, better girls come at 300.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/279e9159-56a4-406e-ba5f-f7cefd37f104[/URL]
Did anyone try this one. I am planning to meet her. She has her own car and can travel. Asking 3. Approached on her own, rare stuff that girls approch on their own and insist so much.
[QUOTE=ArtOf;5457472]https://www.seeking.com/member/0e938691-bd0d-42cf-affe-009fb3acbea7
Seeking 1 k + uber for now, not in my budget or taste.[/QUOTE]Funny. Exact same exchange with me. Proves they just fish around for a high dollar dumb asses. There are not that many as she keeps on trying.
Smoking body though. I said 300 also. Maybe she will get the message. Bet she is not that GFE and CBJ probably.
[QUOTE=Steve99;5457959]Funny. Exact same exchange with me. Proves they just fish around for a high dollar dumb asses. There are not that many as she keeps on trying.
Smoking body though. I said 300 also. Maybe she will get the message. Bet she is not that GFE and CBJ probably.[/QUOTE]Same for me. I asked her how much she was getting in her previous arrangement and she replied that she used to get 1k per meet weekly. I declined and after that exchange I just deleted my account LOL. Will sign up again late fall / winter. Things are pretty slow on there but I'll give you guys a couple freebies. Just search for them on SA. Dallasmc 20 Y.o. from Milford, veebug 25 y.o. from Stratford.
[QUOTE=DaReal86;5458026]Same for me. I asked her how much she was getting in her previous arrangement and she replied that she used to get 1k per meet weekly. I declined and after that exchange I just deleted my account LOL. Will sign up again late fall / winter. Things are pretty slow on there but I'll give you guys a couple freebies. Just search for them on SA. Dallasmc 20 Y.o. from Milford, veebug 25 y.o. from Stratford.[/QUOTE]There is something fishy about her, she keeps saying different locations. I think its some scam or has a muscle that will rough you up.
[QUOTE=ArtOf;5457472]https://www.seeking.com/member/0e938691-bd0d-42cf-affe-009fb3acbea7
Seeking 1 k + uber for now, not in my budget or taste.[/QUOTE]So this one contacted me again and tried to meet. Again haggled on rates. Went ahead and reported me to SA and SA banned me for lifetime. WTF, crazy thing to happen. I don't know what happens to the subscription in case they ban me.
[QUOTE=Techno2021;5458997]So this one contacted me again and tried to meet. Again haggled on rates. Went ahead and reported me to SA and SA banned me for lifetime. WTF, crazy thing to happen. I don't know what happens to the subscription in case they ban me.[/QUOTE]Damn. Did you do negotiations via text or on SA? I here the bitches can copy texts and report you. So be careful out there.
[QUOTE=Steve99;5459364]Damn. Did you do negotiations via text or on SA? I here the bitches can copy texts and report you. So be careful out there.[/QUOTE]She posted rate on chat in sa. I thought chats are not monitored. Then I mentioned that Eros and Olita gals come at 400 and way better. I told her I can do 300 with her. After that she might have reported me. Bloody *****.
[QUOTE=Techno2021;5459392]She posted rate on chat in sa. I thought chats are not monitored. Then I mentioned that Eros and Olita gals come at 400 and way better. I told her I can do 300 with her. After that she might have reported me. Bloody *****.[/QUOTE]Sa chats are 100% monitored, I'm positive of that, and very closely I might add. I think some computer software monitors the site. Do not use $ numbers or anything else that resembles you are paying. Sa also tracts / traces us very tightly. They make it extremely difficult to set up another account, for us, that is. Girls can almost do anything they want, except "dumb" stuff.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f261b5f-27b0-4b8d-905f-8e1f6fe7c7b5[/URL]
She used to be on seeking as Audii. I did see her a few years ago when she was on STG near the airport. She was hot, but was into dark arts. I remember the donation was under 120 for bare Qv. The only problem she didn't know she was on her period, which ended up all over me. She disappeared after that week. Anyone get a chance to see her lately?
[QUOTE=RamDogging;5460043][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f261b5f-27b0-4b8d-905f-8e1f6fe7c7b5[/URL]
She used to be on seeking as Audii. I did see her a few years ago when she was on STG near the airport. She was hot, but was into dark arts. I remember the donation was under 120 for bare Qv. The only problem she didn't know she was on her period, which ended up all over me. She disappeared after that week. Anyone get a chance to see her lately?[/QUOTE]I was supposed to see her last night for dinner in Newington. We were going to talk about doing something after dinner when we met. I got a text from her saying she didn't have a ride there and she lives in East Windsor. I was coming up from having lunch with some friends down in Fairfield County and it was just too much to go pick her up at that hour so ended up cancelling. I'm hoping to get together with her soon. She's a little flaky, and texting is sporadic.
Blue.
[QUOTE=RamDogging;5460043][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f261b5f-27b0-4b8d-905f-8e1f6fe7c7b5[/URL]
She used to be on seeking as Audii. I did see her a few years ago when she was on STG near the airport. She was hot, but was into dark arts. I remember the donation was under 120 for bare Qv. The only problem she didn't know she was on her period, which ended up all over me. She disappeared after that week. Anyone get a chance to see her lately?[/QUOTE]She is straight up working quoting 300 per hour open East Windsor. I was a little disappointed when I found out as I was hoping to scoop her as a little side piece sugar baby. She is there for the buying. If you need a number she is available day or night. I "think" she is doing this full time. I passed.
Poo.
[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5461000]She is straight up working quoting 300 per hour open East Windsor. I was a little disappointed when I found out as I was hoping to scoop her as a little side piece sugar baby. She is there for the buying. If you need a number she is available day or night. I "think" she is doing this full time. I passed.
Poo.[/QUOTE]Thanks, Poo for the input. I was really disappointed that I missed connecting with her last night. I knew she was hot to trot, but I was buying onto her SA profile.
I think I am going to pass too. On the way home from Newington I hit the loop on Waterbury and picked up a new one for me that cost far less. I'll post a report in the Waterbury forum later.
Blue.
[QUOTE=RamDogging;5460043][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f261b5f-27b0-4b8d-905f-8e1f6fe7c7b5[/URL]
She used to be on seeking as Audii. I did see her a few years ago when she was on STG near the airport. She was hot, but was into dark arts. I remember the donation was under 120 for bare Qv. The only problem she didn't know she was on her period, which ended up all over me. She disappeared after that week. Anyone get a chance to see her lately?[/QUOTE]More interested in the next fix than providing service. Dark arts are the priority. If you give it a try no need to negotiate fee up front, just leave behind what you think is fair.
Not sure I'd take this one on a dinner date. Don't think she can clean up well enough.
She seemed nice, sweet and innocent online. She finally asked for my number. Was start pro after I told her what I was looking for. 4 bills for an hour. No bandage or anal. Everything cover and one shot on the goal. Wants money upfront and will leave when I'm done. LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/403889c1-7984-496d-82ff-dd5be1f1ed6d[/URL]
[QUOTE=ArmyStrong;5463785]She seemed nice, sweet and innocent online. She finally asked for my number. Was start pro after I told her what I was looking for. 4 bills for an hour. No bandage or anal. Everything cover and one shot on the goal. Wants money upfront and will leave when I'm done. LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/403889c1-7984-496d-82ff-dd5be1f1ed6d[/URL][/QUOTE]Whether from a girl friend or a pro, I hope you invited her to have sex with herself, to phrase it mildly.
BMD.
Hit that a few times a couple years back. Always covered and was like 100 qv. She's def into the dark arts and some were warning of gifts that keep giving.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5460293]I was supposed to see her last night for dinner in Newington. We were going to talk about doing something after dinner when we met. I got a text from her saying she didn't have a ride there and she lives in East Windsor. I was coming up from having lunch with some friends down in Fairfield County and it was just too much to go pick her up at that hour so ended up cancelling. I'm hoping to get together with her soon. She's a little flaky, and texting is sporadic.
Blue.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Techno2021;5457826][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/279e9159-56a4-406e-ba5f-f7cefd37f104[/URL]
Did anyone try this one. I am planning to meet her. She has her own car and can travel. Asking 3. Approached on her own, rare stuff that girls approch on their own and insist so much.[/QUOTE]She hit me up yesterday said she hasn't seen me in forever. I've never seen her before LOL.
[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;5468767]She hit me up yesterday said she hasn't seen me in forever. I've never seen her before LOL.[/QUOTE]I've been on WYP and SA for years and have see her type before. A wannabe princess, doctored pics to fix her face and slim her body, and loaded gift wishlist. She wants more than she's willing to give.
Pass on that one.
BMD.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cde3ec86-dc2f-4304-95c7-95da0495d016.[/URL] She would like 800 per meet. LOL.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5468808]I've been on WYP and SA for years and have see her type before. A wannabe princess, doctored pics to fix her face and slim her body, and loaded gift wishlist. She wants more than she's willing to give.
Pass on that one.
BMD.[/QUOTE]I asked for her real latest pics and after insisting she sent me few. She is old with big belly and saggy tits. Her make up and facial features hide that.