You can have my turn too!!
[QUOTE=HuntingStreets;4028084]I found her post hilarious and I'm finding this whole discussion hilarious. She's getting bashed to hell and back for saying publicly what I'm guessing 90% of Escort's are thinking privately, especially if they are carrying a habit or in a precarious spot financially. Of course they despise us. The hotter the body, the more attractive they are, the more likely they are to despise us. Very very few hot twenty somethings are remotely turned on by a fat 50 something grey haired monger. For most of them I'm sure we ARE about as exciting as watching paint dry. We are a necessary evil to feed their habit or get by financially. Guess what? I've known that for many, many years and I don't care. This is about me getting my nut, not worrying about what they think of me or if they got their nut. I could care less about either.
Now don't get me wrong, a minimal amount of involvement and interest is always nice, throw in a little grunt or moan here or there, but I have no need for the theatrics of a yelling thrashing fake orgasm or three or ten. If anyone thinks it's not easy for them to fake it I suggest rewatching the restaraunt scene from When Harry Met Sally lmao. Jesus, many of us not only saw but repeated with Ari and Miss Kay even though they were 2 of the deadest fucks around because their bodies were just smoking hot.
Her only sin here is stating publicly what almost all are thinking privately. Want real interaction and orgasms from your partner, get a girlfriend. Want to get your nut and go home with no strings quit worrying about what they think about you. I'm pretty tempted now to go see her now just because the one thing everyone agrees on is what a hot little body she has and how tight she is.
HS.[/QUOTE]H. S. You have forgotten more than I will ever learn about this hobby. You are the man. But on her we will have to agree to disagree. Have you checked out Mila's GPS rates?? $140/30 and $280/60. For that, you can have a comatose fuck of a partner who isn't GFE. CFS except for the BJ. Not to brag, but I have 2 SA ladies who are very pretty, GFE and tight as a virgin!! And BBFS too. I know Mila, I'm a pig and proud of it!! Oh, and about $80 less than what your Mila charges. To each their own. Peace out.
Mila's manifesto. Worth the long read!
Here's everything you guys are dying to know.
Since I'm not deleting my account which would be pointless anyway, and I'm sure I will continue to sustain traffic to my posts whether it be curious civilians on reddit or USASG there are a few things I'd like to say re: USASG and there isn't any place for me to put it other than here. I'm going to explain the background story to provide some insight into how I went forming my opinion.
1. First of all, the first few months I had no knowledge of what USASG is, and there's a good chance I still wouldn't know what it was, if it weren't for the actions of a few members on there that decided they needed to mention it and bring certain things to my attention.
My first introduction to USASG was through an actual client that I saw a few months into escorting. He was a younger guy who seemed normal / ok enough at first, but a bit aggressive and overbearing. After the intimate part of the session we were having a conversation and he mentioned USASG by name and told me that he used it. He then proceeded to say basically "You know you really shouldn't be doing this, you need to find a REAL job. " Even though prior I had told him that in fact that I had a regular job. He ignored that and continued lecturing me about how I need a job and shouldn't be escorting. It's kind of ironic / hypocritical for a client to tell me how I shouldn't escort when he himself uses the services of escorts. To date he's actually (luckily!) the only client I've had that came out and blatantly made a statement like that. So, that wasn't a good introduction.
2. My next exposure was some member who texted me multiple times over the span of a few months claiming to know all about my performance and value as an escort, using screenshots from reviews off USASG as his proof. This is one of you off the local board, someone I've never met before (obviously). He'd proceed to give me an unsolicited speech about how I needed to step up my performance and lower my rates and then maybe he'd bestow me with the honor of booking an appointment. He contacted me out of the blue at least 3 times just to say this. He didn't consider for a second whether I gave a fuck about his feedback or having him as a client, and that maybe it was for me to decide what kind of activities I'm comfortable doing with a client. Another guy did a similar thing not too long ago.
3. Then there were the reviews submitted on me. Some of them were (fairly) honest, others either embellished things or added in new details as seen fit, and a few just dogged me saying things about me that either aren't true, or that everyone else failed to notice.
I don't have any issue with acknowledging that in the first few months that I started doing this, I probably wasn't a good escort. A good number of you came and visited me during that period and were very underwhelmed by the experience, especially if you are habitual "mongers" and have been doing this for quite some time. I can understand that and I'm sorry that I didn't deliver. When I started I thought this would be a temporary thing and as such I didn't put a lot of thought / effort into the kind of service I provided. I was fairly green and still nervous around clients, but I don't think at any point was I rude or unwelcoming.
That having been said, there were a few people, thankfully in the minority, that felt the need to just rip on me and say things that really aren't called for or are just not true. One guy said I had black feet and my genitals had a foul stench, interestingly and thankfully that hasn't been repeated. Another guy said I looked like a man. Like I'm aware I don't have a model-looking face and I certainly don't act like I do, but saying I look like a man is a stretch.
Then others just added in random details that weren't true / didn't happen. One guy complained how I was too tired for a certain position and wanted him to take over, because "WTF" the one paying and should be the one calling the shots. "Although to this day, I've never told a client during sex I was tired. Another guy went off about how I poured baby oil on myself when it was regular water-based lube. He insisted the odor of the "baby oil" STAYED FOR DAYS, interesting no one else mentioned that. These are inconsequential things, but it's like. Why?
To the people that wrote honest and critical reviews on me without feeling the need to insert insults or new details, thank you. I've tried to implement the feedback as things I need to improve on. I have no problem with acknowledging there are things I can improve on. I'm human after all and everyone has things they can improve on.
4. The other USASG issue is the one that I wrote about on my post. About how 90% of the posts are either saying so and so is a junkie or a review which includes a statement certifying that said provider is DEFINITELY a drug addict. Now 90% may be an exaggeration, but I don't think I need to get into this because most of you regularly read the posts and know that many of them are talking about how so & so is an addict. It's hard to believe these statements are made just as warnings to serve the good of the community, because many of the people who make them say they know the provider is an addict and they don't care they fuck them regardless. Then some people deliberately seek out troubled / drug-addicted providers like the guy who replied to my post, because they know that they'll be more likely to negotiate / provide riskier services like BBFS.
5. Finally do I regret making my post? No, I don't, although I'm probably guilty of going a bit too far, just like many do on USASG. I'm sure there are USASG members who are fairly decent people in their everyday lives and who use USASG because they enjoy the camaraderie with their fellow mongers. Just like us sexworkers do on the dedicated subreddits. However I do think many of you fail to realize / appreciate that the providers you visit are human beings like everyone else. Some of you go way overboard or off-topic in the reviews that you submit after having a brief 15-60 min encounter with someone.
Ultimately will I ever be a favorite on the local board? No I'm sure I wouldn't be, because there are other providers that are willing to do more and charge less and USASG is a community that primarily evaluates providers based on their pricepoint. That having been said, for those that do visit me, other than being reasonably attractive they can count on me to be welcoming, coherent, easy-going, punctual and safe. I work independently, I have a clean, safe incall and I don't rip people off or upsell. I enjoy sex and giving oral and while I'm not fake / theatrical I don't skimp on effort and do my best to please. I'm more polite and reserved instead of being a giddy chatterbox and some of you have mistaken that for me being cold / jaded. I've spent far more time in the professional world than I have escorting and that's affected my demeanor. That doesn't mean that I'm antisocial and unwelcoming and I've had plenty of nice extended conversations with clients on a variety of subjects. I'm just not going to spill on my personal life or my appointments with other clients especially when meeting someone for the first time. As far as the whole "mechanical" criticism, I find that difficult to really address because its' hard to make things seem organic / natural considering the circumstances of how we meet. Even the majority of porn doesn't appear natural or organic. Maybe with time I'll figure out a way to improve that.
This shouldn't even have to be said but I do not hate my clients or men in general. Most of the people who I meet in fact I find quite decent and I enjoy having the opportunity of getting to meet them and talk to them. Would I say that I'm genuinely into / attracted to most of them? Probably not but neither would just about any other escort. That doesn't mean that I can't still enjoy who they are as a person. If If I "CAN'T STAND" men / clients why the fuck would I be doing this? What I CAN'T STAND is ignorance, dishonesty and people that feel the need to denigrate and belittle someone who's done nothing wrong to them. A LOT of the kind of stuff that's seen on USASG. And some of the people citing my post history need to worry about their reading comprehension instead of talking about me, because it's pretty evident that it's failed them. At CumHere you're not particularly smart because you couldn't figure out my username and instead read the entire post history of someone else, cushla_macree who said she's a lesbian. She also said she's in NYC but I guess you failed to notice that. Congrats.
This is a novel of a post, but considering the original that I wrote lead to some people reading my entire reddit history, probably some of you will read it. I hope that reading it can give you some insight into my perspective and maybe even allow you to have more understanding / empathy for the sexworker community. In the end I'd really just like if there were a better understanding between providers and clients.
I'm sure someone will take the length of this post as an indication of me not having a better use of my time. 🤣 This post was formulated over many sittings. Bye now!
LMAO I think I hit a little bit too close to home.
[QUOTE=MilwaukeeTJ;4028570]Here's everything you guys are dying to know.
Since I'm not deleting my account which would be pointless anyway, and I'm sure I will continue to sustain traffic to my posts whether it be curious civilians on reddit or USASG there are a few things I'd like to say re: USASG and there isn't any place for me to put it other than here. I'm going to explain the background story to provide some insight into how I went forming my opinion.
1. First of all, the first few months I had no knowledge of what USASG is, and there's a good chance I still wouldn't know what it was, if it weren't for the actions of a few members on there that decided they needed to mention it and bring certain things to my attention.
My first introduction to USASG was through an actual client that I saw a few months into escorting. He was a younger guy who seemed normal / ok enough at first, but a bit aggressive and overbearing. After the intimate part of the session we were having a conversation and he mentioned USASG by name and told me that he used it. He then proceeded to say basically "You know you really shouldn't be doing this, you need to find a REAL job. " Even though prior I had told him that in fact that I had a regular job. He ignored that and continued lecturing me about how I need a job and shouldn't be escorting. It's kind of ironic / hypocritical for a client to tell me how I shouldn't escort when he himself uses the services of escorts. To date he's actually (luckily!) the only client I've had that came out and blatantly made a statement like that. So, that wasn't a good introduction.
2. My next exposure was some member who texted me multiple times over the span of a few months claiming to know all about my performance and value as an escort, using screenshots from reviews off USASG as his proof. This is one of you off the local board, someone I've never met before (obviously). He'd proceed to give me an unsolicited speech about how I needed to step up my performance and lower my rates and then maybe he'd bestow me with the honor of booking an appointment. He contacted me out of the blue at least 3 times just to say this. He didn't consider for a second whether I gave a fuck about his feedback or having him as a client, and that maybe it was for me to decide what kind of activities I'm comfortable doing with a client. Another guy did a similar thing not too long ago.
3. Then there were the reviews submitted on me. Some of them were (fairly) honest, others either embellished things or added in new details as seen fit, and a few just dogged me saying things about me that either aren't true, or that everyone else failed to notice.
I don't have any issue with acknowledging that in the first few months that I started doing this, I probably wasn't a good escort. A good number of you came and visited me during that period and were very underwhelmed by the experience, especially if you are habitual "mongers" and have been doing this for quite some time. I can understand that and I'm sorry that I didn't deliver. When I started I thought this would be a temporary thing and as such I didn't put a lot of thought / effort into the kind of service I provided. I was fairly green and still nervous around clients, but I don't think at any point was I rude or unwelcoming.
That having been said, there were a few people, thankfully in the minority, that felt the need to just rip on me and say things that really aren't called for or are just not true. One guy said I had black feet and my genitals had a foul stench, interestingly and thankfully that hasn't been repeated. Another guy said I looked like a man. Like I'm aware I don't have a model-looking face and I certainly don't act like I do, but saying I look like a man is a stretch.
Then others just added in random details that weren't true / didn't happen. One guy complained how I was too tired for a certain position and wanted him to take over, because "WTF" the one paying and should be the one calling the shots. "Although to this day, I've never told a client during sex I was tired. Another guy went off about how I poured baby oil on myself when it was regular water-based lube. He insisted the odor of the "baby oil" STAYED FOR DAYS, interesting no one else mentioned that. These are inconsequential things, but it's like. Why?
To the people that wrote honest and critical reviews on me without feeling the need to insert insults or new details, thank you. I've tried to implement the feedback as things I need to improve on. I have no problem with acknowledging there are things I can improve on. I'm human after all and everyone has things they can improve on.
4. The other USASG issue is the one that I wrote about on my post. About how 90% of the posts are either saying so and so is a junkie or a review which includes a statement certifying that said provider is DEFINITELY a drug addict. Now 90% may be an exaggeration, but I don't think I need to get into this because most of you regularly read the posts and know that many of them are talking about how so & so is an addict. It's hard to believe these statements are made just as warnings to serve the good of the community, because many of the people who make them say they know the provider is an addict and they don't care they fuck them regardless. Then some people deliberately seek out troubled / drug-addicted providers like the guy who replied to my post, because they know that they'll be more likely to negotiate / provide riskier services like BBFS.
5. Finally do I regret making my post? No, I don't, although I'm probably guilty of going a bit too far, just like many do on USASG. I'm sure there are USASG members who are fairly decent people in their everyday lives and who use USASG because they enjoy the camaraderie with their fellow mongers. Just like us sexworkers do on the dedicated subreddits. However I do think many of you fail to realize / appreciate that the providers you visit are human beings like everyone else. Some of you go way overboard or off-topic in the reviews that you submit after having a brief 15-60 min encounter with someone.
Ultimately will I ever be a favorite on the local board? No I'm sure I wouldn't be, because there are other providers that are willing to do more and charge less and USASG is a community that primarily evaluates providers based on their pricepoint. That having been said, for those that do visit me, other than being reasonably attractive they can count on me to be welcoming, coherent, easy-going, punctual and safe. I work independently, I have a clean, safe incall and I don't rip people off or upsell. I enjoy sex and giving oral and while I'm not fake / theatrical I don't skimp on effort and do my best to please. I'm more polite and reserved instead of being a giddy chatterbox and some of you have mistaken that for me being cold / jaded. I've spent far more time in the professional world than I have escorting and that's affected my demeanor. That doesn't mean that I'm antisocial and unwelcoming and I've had plenty of nice extended conversations with clients on a variety of subjects. I'm just not going to spill on my personal life or my appointments with other clients especially when meeting someone for the first time. As far as the whole "mechanical" criticism, I find that difficult to really address because its' hard to make things seem organic / natural considering the circumstances of how we meet. Even the majority of porn doesn't appear natural or organic. Maybe with time I'll figure out a way to improve that.
This shouldn't even have to be said but I do not hate my clients or men in general. Most of the people who I meet in fact I find quite decent and I enjoy having the opportunity of getting to meet them and talk to them. Would I say that I'm genuinely into / attracted to most of them? Probably not but neither would just about any other escort. That doesn't mean that I can't still enjoy who they are as a person. If If I "CAN'T STAND" men / clients why the fuck would I be doing this? What I CAN'T STAND is ignorance, dishonesty and people that feel the need to denigrate and belittle someone who's done nothing wrong to them. A LOT of the kind of stuff that's seen on USASG. And some of the people citing my post history need to worry about their reading comprehension instead of talking about me, because it's pretty evident that it's failed them. At CumHere you're not particularly smart because you couldn't figure out my username and instead read the entire post history of someone else, cushla_macree who said she's a lesbian. She also said she's in NYC but I guess you failed to notice that. Congrats.
This is a novel of a post, but considering the original that I wrote lead to some people reading my entire reddit history, probably some of you will read it. I hope that reading it can give you some insight into my perspective and maybe even allow you to have more understanding / empathy for the sexworker community. In the end I'd really just like if there were a better understanding between providers and clients.
I'm sure someone will take the length of this post as an indication of me not having a better use of my time. 🤣 This post was formulated over many sittings. Bye now![/QUOTE]Wow!! That's quite a rant there Mila / Milwaukee Tijuana / or whatever name or other identity you're going by. I never implied you're stupid and I'm not now. What I will say is what a lying BIATCH you are! I read all YOUR posts before you deleted them. And your" manifesto " actually proved my point by the length of your rant. I read ALL the nasty comments you wrote about your clients and the members of this board before you deleted them. If you now want to do your female Richard Nixon impression and poo-poo and diminish the contempt that you have for your clients and members of the board here; we both know what a F-ing liar you are. I never said you were a lesbian. Another lie. I said you preferred women and I don't have an issue with that either. But you can still prefer women and be an escort. The answer, Captain Obvious, is MONEY, honey!! And I was correct the reason you deleted your comments was to do damage control for your escorting. Pretty pathetic after reading how you really feel about your customers and mongers in general. If you're going to say the things you did Richard Nixon w / boobs, at least OWN IT!
