Massage Parlor Reports

Bob your posts are education in itself. There's a lot to learn from them. Thanks! On another note, while its a good idea to save little details about the providers in our phone notes or in contacts directory sometimes I worry the worst. What if something happens to us and our family get to discover it. What are your thoughts on it?

[QUOTE=Bob521;2658911]I think RD summed it up pretty well. For what its worth, I'm 63 and have diabetes ED, use viagra, am married, and by no means am I a stud. I do pay a lot of attention to these women. I probably have a "type" that I go for. 40-50 year old (non-pro) divorced Chinese women, and a few 30 year olds. I don't deliberately pick them, but these are the ones that I seem to click with. For me 50 year old is "young", haha. Several of them speak little English, although over time, all are learning. In fact, I am teaching English to two right now. (Naked English lessons.) I also let two others practice driving using my car. I meet most of the women in foot spas, so they do not normally give hand-jobs to guys. These are all lonely women with no transportation, few friends, separated from their families. Also, it turns out, they have not had sex in quite a while. Until they meet me.

The real common theme is: Relationships. Not transactions. I actually care about them. Hopefully, it shows. For example, we posted about Island Spa. The current woman is probably 60. Scared to death of the police because she saw another woman arrested. It turns out this poor woman is putting her son through college in England. It breaks my heart to see the sacrifices these women make for their family. She's married, so I know sex is off the table.

I always get the name. And their Chinese name. Get to know where they are from in China. I memorize this shit. So when I see them again, I can ask about their mother, or son, or whatever. I save all this information in WeChat and my Google Contacts, along with the geocoordinates of where they live and work. I spend quite a bit of time. Hours - WeChatting with these people. So we truly have relationships and they all know I care about them. I buy presents. I learned about 100 Chinese words. And they love teaching me Chinese while I teach them English.

In a massage session, (sometimes even in a Foot Spa) I massage the woman, usually about 10 minutes into the hour. (Never ever get half hour).

So last Wednesday, for example, the woman I posted about was a legit masseuse, I've known for a couple years. WeChat contacts and many sessions at a foot spa. She's now at a conventional spa. (which shall go nameless to protect her). I went into the room with her, and asked her to stay. I took of my clothes in front of her. Then faced her and embraced her and kissed her. I happened to kiss her neck and she shudders and moaned and her knees sort of buckled. (Made a mental note to remember that "move").

I will digress to say, that since these women are non-pros, the whole idea is to give them pleasure first. They always reciprocate. And like I said, it's never about the money. Its about kindness, affection, and a good orgasm. A common theme in life. If you know how to give a girl a great orgasm, she will remember you.

So I went to the table laid down and asked her to lie next to me. Took all her clothes off, and made out. Whenever I did something that caused a moan or reaction, I filed that away and continued. By the way, oral sex is pretty uncommon in China, especially DATY. So each woman was initially afraid, but at the same time, tremendously aroused, since she probably never got it before. When we finished, she actually said, "I needed that". I felt good that I could give her that pleasure. I am certain, future sessions will be just as good. When I see her on her day off, I know there will be no charge. After all, she is not a prostitute. She's a woman who enjoys spending time with me and having sex.

The point here is not to talk about my session or my women. But rather to say it's just a mindset. Pick a few women you connect with. And make sure you take care of your partner, emotionally, and physically.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;2660451]I meet most of the women in foot spas, so they do not normally give hand-jobs to guys. These are all lonely women with no transportation, few friends, separated from their families. Also, it turns out, they have not had sex in quite a while.

Perhaps that's a big part of it. Meeting these women in a (mostly) non-sexual context, I. E. A foot spa. Somewhere where sex is neither provided or expected. Where it is not a part of the overall equation from the start.

Maybe that's key. Maybe the reason that relationships rarely grow out of a routine massage parlor scenario is because the women working there know that it's a job that there is little opportunity or reason for attachment (though I'm sure it does still happen from time to time). They know what men are there for, and they know what THEY are there for (money) and that limits the potential.

A couple of years ago, I met a girl at a strip club. We have remained close friends, but she has made it fairly clear that there will never be more than that between us, since she knows where we met and believes that this would prevent us from ever being in a relationship, since I'll always remember her in that context, and she fears that it could be brought us and used against her during a future argument. Also, she knows why I was there, so let's be honest about that, too LOL! The whole working girl / monger dichotomy, preventing any future serious entanglements between anyone meeting under those circumstances.

But, if you meet in a non-directly sexual situation, you can perhaps grow it into some more. Maybe much more.

And yes. Being nice I'm sure helps, too.

HH.[/QUOTE]Yes non directly, is the key if looking for relationship, I play it this way I meet AMP girls or independents make friends with and like Bob said always give them massage too, once you know them, be nice show them you care. Now I have girls I can see for massage, make out with, FS, bareback, for free or just door fee, or half price, extended time. All different arrangements, just trying to get more Bang for my buck.

I use Google Voice and Gmail and Google Contacts. Have about 2,000 contacts, mostly business, not social. In some cases I also disguise the names. So it's a needle in the haystack, so to speak. I do not put incriminating details in there. Just contact info. I also use WeChat, and keep that app clean of all history, and hidden. Bob.

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2661040]Bob your posts are education in itself. There's a lot to learn from them. Thanks! On another note, while its a good idea to save little details about the providers in our phone notes or in contacts directory sometimes I worry the worst. What if something happens to us and our family get to discover it. What are your thoughts on it?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lebruno;2661040]Bob your posts are education in itself. There's a lot to learn from them. Thanks! On another note, while its a good idea to save little details about the providers in our phone notes or in contacts directory sometimes I worry the worst. What if something happens to us and our family get to discover it. What are your thoughts on it?[/QUOTE]There was actually a movie made about "cleansing" a client's home of "incriminating" details of his private life.

Starred the late, great, Marilyn Chambers as the mother of a "client". It's hysterical!

[URL]http://www.jaybonansinga.com/stash-film[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChineseDragon;2613215]Her name is Lily big boobs natural great massage.

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.[/QUOTE]What's so special about Lily? She hardly that attractive. Where's the hot latina's around $.

[QUOTE=RonM;2660493]Been there done that. This has never worked for me. In fact it's more trouble than it's worth. For me meeting ladies the old fashoned traditional way is a waste. I want to have fun now, not in ten years. LOL. At least with a pro you know what to expect.[/QUOTE]I don't want to forget how exciting it is the first time a non pro sticks her hand down my pants. All the chess moves it took to get to that point, flirting, dinner, interactions, etc.

Which leads to another story. I used to meet and greet providers and mongers at places like the living room in Lombard, set up by Mr Tony Soprano and I enjoyed putting names to faces and being able to see ladies at discounts to their advertised rates and not having to be screened cause we already had met, it became odd cause as you talked and joked with girls, they wanted what women want, good guy house, white picket fence but they guys they see are mostly married so it was hard for them to say I want that but what is 'that' cause will my guy go see some Internet hoochie also.

I would also say to the ladies being married means you can't spend $1,000 on a purse knowing that your about to make $2,000 over the weekend cause now you're married. If your man says no, can you handle that or are you going to want to go suck some dick to get that $1,000. If your hubby comes in late on a Friday, are you going to 20 question him about why he didn't answer the phone or are you just going to hit him in the head with a frying pan. What if he knew what you did before you got married and he 20 questions you when you're hanging out with the girls but his mind races and he envisions you on your knees sucking dick.

The wired one is a laugh riot at parties. LOL.

Bottom line is human non pro relationships are complicated but I enjoy the game.

[QUOTE=Bob521;2661842]I use Google Voice and Gmail and Google Contacts. Have about 2,000 contacts, mostly business, not social. In some cases I also disguise the names. So it's a needle in the haystack, so to speak. I do not put incriminating details in there. Just contact info. I also use WeChat, and keep that app clean of all history, and hidden. Bob.[/QUOTE]I guess like with everything else there are no short-cuts. One will need to practice the craft with enough discipline and dedication. Perhaps, one will perfect the art when it will become like second nature over time. I'm still learning the ropes and at times I worry that I had unintentionally left some clues leading to me. LOL.

[QUOTE=Truthfu11;2661860]There was actually a movie made about "cleansing" a client's home of "incriminating" details of his private life.

Starred the late, great, Marilyn Chambers as the mother of a "client". It's hysterical!

[URL]http://www.jaybonansinga.com/stash-film[/URL][/QUOTE]Didn't know that Netflix has the Stash. I'll make a note to watch it. Thanks.

I dreamt had a new provider at an old (not that old) spot in the loop yesterday. She asked for my number. I gave her the wrong number because it didn't feel right.

I walked in on a break from work. Just as I was undressing, work called and said they needed me back early. So she came in and I said I only have a little time (10 minutes). So I lay on my back and she says "oh". Grabs oil and gets down to business. She starts fast then I tell her to slow down. She says, "okay, I go slow long as you want, just let me know, I know you short on time". I asked her to whisper in my ear, she misunderstood me and started licking my earlobe. Then ask for extra for that. I gave her. 6 instead of. 4.

Now back to the number. Is this odd? Do you guys have providers do this? I kept second guessing myself because it would be nice to have something on the side outside of AMP. She wouldn't let me touch her outside of rubbing her leg.

Thoughts?

She wants your number so she can bug you about coming to see her at the spa.

[QUOTE=Snowmadics;2663497]I dreamt had a new provider at an old (not that old) spot in the loop yesterday. She asked for my number. I gave her the wrong number because it didn't feel right.

I walked in on a break from work. Just as I was undressing, work called and said they needed me back early. So she came in and I said I only have a little time (10 minutes). So I lay on my back and she says "oh". Grabs oil and gets down to business. She starts fast then I tell her to slow down. She says, "okay, I go slow long as you want, just let me know, I know you short on time". I asked her to whisper in my ear, she misunderstood me and started licking my earlobe. Then ask for extra for that. I gave her. 6 instead of. 4.

Now back to the number. Is this odd? Do you guys have providers do this? I kept second guessing myself because it would be nice to have something on the side outside of AMP. She wouldn't let me touch her outside of rubbing her leg.

Thoughts?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DMichaels69;2663779]She wants your number so she can bug you about coming to see her at the spa.[/QUOTE]Thanks for giving her MY number instead. She starting texting and my wife called the number and now I'm in deep shit.

Next time, just tell her you don't give your number out. You know where to find her etc. Trust me they completely understand.

And, no it's not odd. If they see a sucker, they will solicit business. Some may get a number for extra circular activity away from the spa, but it doesn't.

Sound like she was looking for that.

I will be traveling to Schaumburg next week. Want to find a good place to go. Would prefer table shower and of course to leave happy.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdWYXwjJhAU[/URL]

[QUOTE=NotSneaky;2664062]I will be traveling to Schaumburg next week. Want to find a good place to go. Would prefer table shower and of course to leave happy.[/QUOTE]Enough said. Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;2664186]Enough said. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the help. Have RTFF, wanted to get some actual suggestions.