Got an unsolicited message "Pay for play?" as why'all know we have to be careful to keep all communications legal. How best to tell her this?
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Got an unsolicited message "Pay for play?" as why'all know we have to be careful to keep all communications legal. How best to tell her this?
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;3449176]Just as we discuss SBs and sugaring in general here and specific SBs in various local fora are there similar fora for SBs to talk about us?!
If there are I would like to be a fly on the wall at these places![/QUOTE]I doubt you would want that. Most mongers have thin skins and couldn't handle a critique as told from the SB side.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;3450311]Got an unsolicited message "Pay for play?" as why'all know we have to be careful to keep all communications legal. How best to tell her this?[/QUOTE]The few times this happens to me, I usually respond by saying I never discuss details before meeting someone in person, and invite her out to coffee to see if there's a "genuine connection". "She" could be a 42 year old cop looking to make detective, or she could be a pro who got bumped off Craigslist and is looking for easy marks. Either case, it's best to think with the big head for as long as you can.
In any event, she may in fact be a 19 yo who's coming on a little too aggressively and could benefit from a clue or two. Send her to the [URL]letstalksugar.com[/URL] website, which seems to be run by SA, or at lease closely allied with it. I checked it out briefly this morning and it is almost as if they distilled our Clubhouse Journal and spun it as advice to new and prospective SBs! Pretty much everything on there, at least that I read, was sympathetic to the way we like it done in The Bowl. If new babies read that before setting up a profile, it will make things so much easier for us.
Cheers,
Scott.
Having spent the morning in the FC w / my 20 YO honor student baby, my heart rate has been up and down a few times today, but the last time was *not* pleasant. She booked a hotel for us on hotwire (great prices!) that was sorta in town, but I work out of town. As I am headed to my worksite but still near my homebase, the SO's cell pops up on my car's Bluetooth. I freeze, don't answer. She hardly calls anymore, usually texts. My mind races: 'could she be out and about and have seen me at the wrong time of day?' As I drive I concoct crazy excuses/scenarios to explain my presence in town. After arriving at work, I have the courage to look at my phone and there is a voicemail. Screwing up my courage further, I listen to it - she butt-dialed me - whew! Amazing relief!
The baby in question here is home from college for the summer, so it is but a fling - however, she absolutely loves to be pounded, and I am happy to oblige. Excellent oral skills as well, and nice. Cute tight body, her ass looks awesome in cutoffs. Another score 1/3 my age. Modest sugar too.
Never discount the possibility that some incredibly unfortunate stroke of luck like my first scenario could expose our bowl activities. However, danger passed, I can M&G w/ a 34YO model.
Happy Independence Day to all SDs on here - here's wishing you are independent enough to see your SBs often, but not being given your 'independence' by your SOs.
[QUOTE=FScott;3450543]The few times this happens to me, I usually respond by saying I never discuss details before meeting someone in person, and invite her out to coffee to see if there's a "genuine connection". "She" could be a 42 year old cop looking to make detective, or she could be a pro who got bumped off Craigslist and is looking for easy marks. Either case, it's best to think with the big head for as long as you can.
In any event, she may in fact be a 19 yo who's coming on a little too aggressively and could benefit from a clue or two. Send her to the [URL]letstalksugar.com[/URL] website, which seems to be run by SA, or at lease closely allied with it. I checked it out briefly this morning and it is almost as if they distilled our Clubhouse Journal and spun it as advice to new and prospective SBs! Pretty much everything on there, at least that I read, was sympathetic to the way we like it done in The Bowl. If new babies read that before setting up a profile, it will make things so much easier for us.
Cheers,
Scott.[/QUOTE]What Scott said. I never discuss gifts prior to meeting now. If a girl brings it up and won't let it go, I let her go.
I am much the same. I never discuss the amount of the allowance before we meet. I let them know the first meet is to see if we have a connection and want to pursue an arrangement. Allowance, begins when we agree to start an arrangement.
Any girl that has a problem with this is just showing they will be a problem later so I cut my losses and let them go then.
I also let them know, that although I don't like the transactional feel of a per meet allowance, it is the best way to start until we build trust and are confident we both want to continue.
I had one girl recently, who agree to meet, but let me know she is expected $4,000 on the first meet. I "lol'd" and asked if people are really that desperate and gullible. I wished her luck on her search and blocked her profile. I checked back recently and she is in the site almost every day still. Either she is a scammer or no one has taken the bait.
I may message her again to see how the search is going. Lol
[QUOTE=BikeRider;3452190]What Scott said. I never discuss gifts prior to meeting now. If a girl brings it up and won't let it go, I let her go.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dsprdo;3449319]I completely agree with this. Although I am not in the Richmond area, I never post pics even though I have a few nice ones. I'm single and have girls out to my place so the identity thing is moot, but I don't want to blow up a good thing because one of my friends stumbles across a pic of herself doing something she wouldn't want her mother to see![/QUOTE]I doubt that even her moma or her hubby would recognize her from this view. And. Since I don't share these with her, she probably would not either.
Ok so I know this is a national thread here but do we have any recommendations in Richmond and south towards the tri cities? Looking for a sexy white girl 25 & up. I am on SA but am only finding the drug addicts. I am iso one baby that is in the negotiable category. Thanks.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3452683]I am much the same. I never discuss the amount of the allowance before we meet.
...[/QUOTE]That there are POTs / SBs in your area that are willing to defer talk about $ until the M&G. In Raleigh-Durham NC women of all ages for the most part want to know what's in it for them before they agree to meet granted that the first personal meeting in theses cases happens in the FC! I guess M&Gs in my neck of the woods are virtual usually by text.
I'm sure if I pushed for the first meet in the FC, allowance would be discussed and agreed before hand. I ask for the first meet to be with no expectations. If we agree to pursue an arrangement than allowance would be provided. 50% of the time we go the FC on the first meet, but there is no guarantee.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;3455394]That there are POTs / SBs in your area that are willing to defer talk about $ until the M&G. In Raleigh-Durham NC women of all ages for the most part want to know what's in it for them before they agree to meet granted that the first personal meeting in theses cases happens in the FC! I guess M&Gs in my neck of the woods are virtual usually by text.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IbDaddy;3454113]Ok so I know this is a national thread here but do we have any recommendations in Richmond and south towards the tri cities? Looking for a sexy white girl 25 & up. I am on SA but am only finding the drug addicts. I am iso one baby that is in the negotiable category. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Checkout the Tri city, Knoxville, nova and tidewater SB threads. You will probably find your info faster there.
[QUOTE=FScott;3450543]The few times this happens to me, I usually respond by saying I never discuss details before meeting someone in person, and invite her out to coffee to see if there's a "genuine connection". "She" could be a 42 year old cop looking to make detective, or she could be a pro who got bumped off Craigslist and is looking for easy marks. Either case, it's best to think with the big head for as long as you can.
In any event, she may in fact be a 19 yo who's coming on a little too aggressively and could benefit from a clue or two. Send her to the [URL]letstalksugar.com[/URL] website, which seems to be run by SA, or at lease closely allied with it. I checked it out briefly this morning and it is almost as if they distilled our Clubhouse Journal and spun it as advice to new and prospective SBs! Pretty much everything on there, at least that I read, was sympathetic to the way we like it done in The Bowl. If new babies read that before setting up a profile, it will make things so much easier for us.
Cheers,
Scott.[/QUOTE]I completely agree with Scott. You need to treat this as if you were meeting someone you met on an online dating site like Match. Just think to yourself you are only looking to set up a meeting. Get her to meet you and keep the conversation clean and legal. If she pushes you say you just want to meet and get to know her. If she keeps pushing you to say something you shouldn't I woudln't meet her. Stay safe.
I'll be in town next week and am thinking about meeting PrinJazz2017. Curious if there's anyone who might have a review on her??
[QUOTE=Titleist2323;3458964]I'll be in town next week and am thinking about meeting PrinJazz2017. Curious if there's anyone who might have a review on her??[/QUOTE]No review but last time I messaged with her she wanted 500 per.
[QUOTE=Titleist2323;3458964]I'll be in town next week and am thinking about meeting PrinJazz2017. Curious if there's anyone who might have a review on her??[/QUOTE]Hey man,
She quoted me the same and ignored her for sometime and recently when she came back on the site settled for couple of hundred less. But she is hot but not as hot as what's in the pictures!!
I have another girl who is may ATF, still see her once in a while along with my regulars from the site, from the same part of the world. She is much more in to submissive and gets really wild in the bed.
On top of the hat she is good with me going hat less.