Wasted time on Sammie Mae
Well I made contact yesterday morning and she did in fact say she was still in the biz, told me she was available, tried to make plans and got crickets. So using my little brain tried again today, scheduled for 1 and she said she would text me her location when she got there. 1 came and went with no word, and finally she blamed me by saying I should have texted her close to scheduled time. I advised that was not what was discussed in which she replies well I can't keep up and remember every little thing. WOW is all I could think!! Talking about a bad case of GPS!! But to each their own right. Stay safe my friends!!
Go easy. She could have been talking to 10 other guys about 5 other appointments.
[QUOTE=UtrLvr41;3616793]Well I made contact yesterday morning and she did in fact say she was still in the biz, told me she was available, tried to make plans and got crickets. So using my little brain tried again today, scheduled for 1 and she said she would text me her location when she got there. 1 came and went with no word, and finally she blamed me by saying I should have texted her close to scheduled time. I advised that was not what was discussed in which she replies well I can't keep up and remember every little thing. WOW is all I could think!! Talking about a bad case of GPS!! But to each their own right. Stay safe my friends!![/QUOTE]Just remember these gals are juggling a lot of stuff. Sometimes kids, a crappy second job, bill collectors, the ex bf and the 5-10 other guys who want to play "here kitty kitty". It can be challenging to any provider to deal with the onslaught of a phone blowing up cause someone wants your pussy cat. Its the life she choose and the lives we choose. Try to think about getting into there listening and you might find they respond to you with more clarity. In other words listen for the places they might be distracted or occupied (like a lazer mouse) and respond to them as if they need a little guidance. That might get them into the blankets quicker and keep them out of the litter box. As long as they are not on some extraneous mind altering " Kat Nip" substance. Then xxxx your on your own there man.
I have clients with huge companies that have to be treated the same way.
Enabling that behavior is crazy!!
[QUOTE=Ruavol2;3617639]Just remember these gals are juggling a lot of stuff. Sometimes kids, a crappy second job, bill collectors, the ex bf and the 5-10 other guys who want to play "here kitty kitty". It can be challenging to any provider to deal with the onslaught of a phone blowing up cause someone wants your pussy cat. Its the life she choose and the lives we choose. Try to think about getting into there listening and you might find they respond to you with more clarity. In other words listen for the places they might be distracted or occupied (like a lazer mouse) and respond to them as if they need a little guidance. That might get them into the blankets quicker and keep them out of the litter box. As long as they are not on some extraneous mind altering " Kat Nip" substance. Then xxxx your on your own there man.
I have clients with huge companies that have to be treated the same way.[/QUOTE]No offense but absolutely not!! They don't get a hall pass on flaky and unreliable behavior just simply because they become popular. If it's random chit chat that's one thing, but to schedule someone, flake on the appointment, then blame the guy is simply unacceptable!! The problem now is to few of them are actually held accountable so they think they can just get away with whatever they want. However had she been somewhat apologetic then maybe, but to get an attitude and act like she is entitled then heck no, there is no taking it easy on them when they pull that crap.