[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3433228]So whatever became of the man that started all of this?[/QUOTE]Don't think he started it. His last post is around 12/26/13 so Mia quite awhile.
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[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3433228]So whatever became of the man that started all of this?[/QUOTE]Don't think he started it. His last post is around 12/26/13 so Mia quite awhile.
[QUOTE=FScott;3433351]The phrase "never gamble more than you can afford to lose" just came into my head, so I thought I'd pass it along. I have no idea what a sunset dinner cruise in LA costs, but if you can write it off as a loss, then go for it.
Still hungry,
Scott.[/QUOTE]I explained why a dinner cruise didn't work for me logistically, w / an SO and all, and proposed happy hour at a very upscale place (and promised a Kruggerand in the FC). She asked to schedule. It's still alive (the dream). If she's all that, she's likely going to expect something nice at the M&G. I'm open to your suggestions.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3433788]I explained why a dinner cruise didn't work for me logistically, w / an SO and all, and proposed happy hour at a very upscale place (and promised a Kruggerand in the FC). She asked to schedule. It's still alive (the dream). If she's all that, she's likely going to expect something nice at the M&G. I'm open to your suggestions.[/QUOTE]What kruggerand worth? For some girls a beautiful bouquet works m&g, what touches her heart? Simple stuff.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3433788]I explained why a dinner cruise didn't work for me logistically, w / an SO and all, and proposed happy hour at a very upscale place (and promised a Kruggerand in the FC). She asked to schedule. It's still alive (the dream). If she's all that, she's likely going to expect something nice at the M&G. I'm open to your suggestions.[/QUOTE]I, like others, have a strong sense that the lady is going to turn out to be something other than what she claims. If your plan is to have an M&G and then decide on a visit to the FC at a second meeting, all you have to be out is the price of drinks if she exaggerated her appeal, which is no big deal. If the plan is to follow the M&G immediately with a trip to the FC, then it's a little more awkward if you decide she's somewhat disappointing but "do-able. " You've promised her the Krugerrand already, so the price is already set high (which will be hard to lower in the future). If you're able easily simply to say, "Thanks for meeting with me. I'm sorry, though, you just don't do it for me," I guess it's not a problem. I have a hard time being so honest in person, so I might be inclined to go to the FC this one time, rather than telling her to her face that I don't find her that attractive (or worth the money).
Most of my M&Gs have been explicitly on the assumption that we will meet for coffee or lunch, and if we decide to go forward, we'll do it on a different day. That way, neither party has to reject the other in person. I like it that way, for the reason suggested above.
As for her expecting something nice at the M&G, she's getting your company and drinks at a very upscale place. That seems all that she's entitled to expect. I usually bring a bottle of Champagne and a box of chocolates to the M&G and give them to her even if I know that we're not a match. I usually don't bring it in to the M&G, but tell her as we're leaving that I have something in my car for her. I have a reasonably nice car -- one that will favorably impress most of the girls I meet -- and I figure that helps establish that I'm a "solid" guy. (I know that some people don't like the POT or even their SB to know their car, out of concern that they might trace it through the license number, but I figure that the benefits outweigh the risk.) I often leave a keycard on my car seat, so that my SB can use a side entrance to the hotel rather than having to walk by the desk. Some like that; some don't care.
I really would not give an expensive gift (or money) at an M&G, even if the POT has conveyed a very high opinion of her self-worth. (Frankly, I pass over profiles of women who seem as taken with themselves as yours does, but that's just me.).
This is a totally different POT. 21 YO, hippy-dippy, jeweled nose ring. We spoke by phone, seemed reasonable. I arrive 10 min early for the M&G and pull in to park. Dead ahead I see a van, like Shaggy's, complete w / fringe over the windshield. In it, a girl w / nose ring, next to her, Shaggy himself. Scooby DOO! Could have been harmless, self-protection for her, but I didn't need to hang around to find out.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3433788]I explained why a dinner cruise didn't work for me logistically, w / an SO and all, and proposed happy hour at a very upscale place (and promised a Kruggerand in the FC). She asked to schedule. It's still alive (the dream). If she's all that, she's likely going to expect something nice at the M&G. I'm open to your suggestions.[/QUOTE]It sounds like your little head is thinking here. A krugerand is running about $1. 3 k right now. That's expensive pussy. If she turns into a starfish (and my experience is that most 10's are unless they're into you more than you are them), you'll be regretting it.
Anyone done a SB trip to the DR? I'm on the rocks with my SO. She wants me gone. Her kids want me to stay. I'm not sure how it is going to work out yet, but I received a message from a beauty in the DR and it made me start to think.
[QUOTE=BikeRider;3436004]It sounds like your little head is thinking here. A krugerand is running about $1. 3 k right now. That's expensive pussy. If she turns into a starfish (and my experience is that most 10's are unless they're into you more than you are them), you'll be regretting it.[/QUOTE]No argument there. Yet, I've M&G w / some pretty amazing women around here, bucket list in terms of looks / body, of course can't tell about skills. All of those in that class were seeking $ something in that range. I think you've related that you have a SB who is the kept woman of some super rich dude. I am guessing this girl is the same. I think she is using SA and $ as a filter for the class of guy she wants, and her real issues are boredom and interest in kink. I could see this turning into something amazing, with some time. If she's just ordinary GPS, I walk away w / my coins in my pocket. I haven't pulled the trigger on any $ yet. I've got M&G Tuesday. Wish me luck.
Finally, please save me the trouble of hunting down the slang meaning of starfish.
[QUOTE=BikeRider;3436012]Anyone done a SB trip to the DR? I'm on the rocks with my SO. She wants me gone. Her kids want me to stay. I'm not sure how it is going to work out yet, but I received a message from a beauty in the DR and it made me start to think.[/QUOTE]There is a thread on medillin Columbia on the Florida / St Petersburg you might be interested.
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Finally, please save me the trouble of hunting down the slang meaning of starfish.[/QUOTE]The woman just lays there spread eagle and doesn't move like a starfish.
[QUOTE=BikeRider;3436012]Anyone done a SB trip to the DR? I'm on the rocks with my SO. She wants me gone. Her kids want me to stay. I'm not sure how it is going to work out yet, but I received a message from a beauty in the DR and it made me start to think.[/QUOTE]Take a week in Punta Cana all inclusive resort. You will be amazed. Pm if you want details.
My brothers,
I created a new profile on SA this morning with the tagline "Three is better than two" and wrote that what I was looking for was to find two babies who were interested in "being spoiled at the same time". I went on to broadly hint that I was looking to set up threesomes with babies who might not even know each other, but who were interested in or just curious about being with another girl, and OMG my inbox has been flooded with messages!
At current count I have 14 little fish on the line, 5 m&gs set up for the coming few days, and one gorgeous blonde baby who asked if I would mind if her equally beautiful brunette GF could be the third, since she is also on SA!
In terms of messages I've sent, I did not limit my contacts to those babies who said they were interested in women as well as men, although those were definitely a primary target. If a profile, or even a picture, caught my eye, I shot her my intro message, which I kept very polite, short and to the point, and I am stunned at how many of them replied that they've "always been interested" in trying it out with another girl but just didn't know how to go about finding one.
Of course it remains to be seen how many of these fish I can actually land, but looking to the horizon I am picturing a solid list of SBs who are into threesomes that I can mix and match as opportunity, and little Scottie, demand. I have to admit that the biggest turn on are those babies who have never done this before but have always wanted to try it.
I will keep you all up to date, of course, but wanted to share the details thus far. What a world!!
Keep up the good work.
Scott.
[QUOTE=FScott;3437101]My brothers,
I created a new profile on SA this morning with the tagline "Three is better than two" and wrote that what I was looking for was to find two babies who were interested in "being spoiled at the same time". I went on to broadly hint that I was looking to set up threesomes with babies who might not even know each other, but who were interested in or just curious about being with another girl, and OMG my inbox has been flooded with messages!
At current count I have 14 little fish on the line, 5 m&gs set up for the coming few days, and one gorgeous blonde baby who asked if I would mind if her equally beautiful brunette GF could be the third, since she is also on SA!
In terms of messages I've sent, I did not limit my contacts to those babies who said they were interested in women as well as men, although those were definitely a primary target. If a profile, or even a picture, caught my eye, I shot her my intro message, which I kept very polite, short and to the point, and I am stunned at how many of them replied that they've "always been interested" in trying it out with another girl but just didn't know how to go about finding one.
Of course it remains to be seen how many of these fish I can actually land, but looking to the horizon I am picturing a solid list of SBs who are into threesomes that I can mix and match as opportunity, and little Scottie, demand. I have to admit that the biggest turn on are those babies who have never done this before but have always wanted to try it.
I will keep you all up to date, of course, but wanted to share the details thus far. What a world!!
Keep up the good work.
Scott.[/QUOTE]Testing the bounds of what is possible in the bowl is always a good idea. We are grateful to you and look forward to your reports with much anticipation.
I can say from my own recent experience w / two different FF couples with a shared profile, what these POTs say they are interested in and what they will actually show up to a M&G for can be different.
[QUOTE=JackOhhhh;3437048]Take a week in Punta Cana all inclusive resort. You will be amazed. Pm if you want details.[/QUOTE]Your inbox is full.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3437616]Testing the bounds of what is possible in the bowl is always a good idea. We are grateful to you and look forward to your reports with much anticipation.
I can say from my own recent experience w / two different FF couples with a shared profile, what these POTs say they are interested in and what they will actually show up to a M&G for can be different.[/QUOTE]Far,
I hear what you say, and am taking this whole thing with a small grain of salt, but so far things look very promising. On my last trip to Nola I was able to set up a threesome with two babies who did not know each other previously, but both indicated in their profiles that they were looking for women as well as men, and it was a pretty mind-blowing experience. Currently, one of my two regular ATFs is out of state for a couple of months, so I have a little free time to play around with the concept and see what happens.
Just to be clear, the two babies who are on SA are on separately, not as a "couple". I agree, those "two for one" profiles are always more bluster than booty, and are often very cleverly worded to hint at, but not confirm, that there will be panties on the floor.
As a humorous aside, I got a message from a small, blonde but honestly not all that hot baby I had contacted who had indicated that she was into women as well as men that read, "I don't think you have the financial ability to interest me. I would want 1. 5 k for each of us, and a recent full panel std test from both of you. " My reply - "Good luck with that!" Honestly, where do they get these ideas? I've been seeing a handful of profiles saying the baby is into FinDom, which is when they squeeze a guy for all the money he has, and apparently that is the pleasure for him. Is that really a thing? Who the fuck would enjoy that?
Sometimes I do wonder!
Cheers,
Scott.