Obligitory posts from a provider after a monger's review
Am I the only one who finds the back and forth love chatter posts between monger & provider after a session a little sappy, mushy, gooey, maudlin, cheesy, etc? Do we really need to read that? I hope you guys are getting a discount? You all know what I mean.
I'll never understand this
[QUOTE=Josh88;2144002]Am I the only one who finds the back and forth love chatter posts between monger & provider after a session a little sappy, mushy, gooey, maudlin, cheesy, etc? Do we really need to read that? I hope you guys are getting a discount? You all know what I mean.[/QUOTE]Dude, if you don't like what somebody posts then just fucking ignore them. Why is it that the guys that like to complain always find something new to complain about and just fucking HATE it when people are having a good time.
Click their names, click "Add to Ignore List" problem fucking solved.
It works to our advantage
[QUOTE=Josh88;2144002]Am I the only one who finds the back and forth love chatter posts between monger & provider after a session a little sappy, mushy, gooey, maudlin, cheesy, etc? Do we really need to read that? I hope you guys are getting a discount? You all know what I mean.[/QUOTE]When a provider responds to a positive post / review posted by a monger. For one thing it lets other ladies feel comfortable in knowing you are legitimate. Anyone can post a review of a lady, favorable or otherwise, but is it legit or LEO trolling looking for verification? When a lady puts her rubber stamp on it, if you will, it at the very least lets other ladies know you are legitimate and perhaps a gentleman if she's inclined to wax poetically.
Just my. 02 worth.
Luv.
Thank you very much, I appreciate the time and thought.
[QUOTE=GoneTM;2144511]A few thoughts on the new classified site:
Pix:
Yes, the "force to fit" preview is annoying and downright unflattering to some of our fair providers. This will be remedied by the more tech savvvy providers by making sure their pics fit the new format, and if they don't, they'll add "bling" to the pictures to make it proportion correctly.
Clicking on each picture opens a new tab rather than a floating box. This is cumbersome and should have a previous / next function. Plus, the pictures themselves are a bit small (I shouldn't need to constantly zoom in and out, it's annoying).[/QUOTE][BLUE]This is on the list of stuff to develop. I agree, we need a pop up box. What we are going to do until we have that is screw around with the divs and set the photos to display full size on the left. 100% agreed that it's cumbersome right now.[/BLUE]
[QUOTE]I no longer need to log in to see the pictures. Not sure how I feel on this one as I come here 3-6 times a week, but only log in to see pics from time to time.
Policies:
I understand the "Prices or Acts" policy from a CYA basis, but it does somewhat hamper both the providers as well as members. "Greek is $X extra" theoretically can't be stated as it's both an act and money. What about providers who offer massage at one rate and GFE at another? BnG now has to have a new euphemism of "Short Stay," so is that a BJ, BBBJ, BBBJCIM or a quickie? For the amount of money spent, can I expect the whole alphabet of services? Some girls don't allow MPOPS, etc and that factors into a member's decision. Contacting each one is a waste of my time and theirs.[/QUOTE][BLUE]Sorry there's no way around this. Their reviews will still be here so you will have a way to check, but you're correct, it won't be in the ad unless something drastic changes up there.[/BLUE]
[QUOTE]Contact:
I like the ability to contact them quickly via form, but I should have to be logged in to do so. This will waste much more time for the girls I think from phony email addresses, but I could be wrong. PMs work similarly already for certain verification. EMail is one of the worst ways to communicate with a provider as it "feels" more permanent / traceable and is far easier to subpoena, and so on.[/QUOTE][BLUE]We are going to add (hopefully in the next day or so) an option on the form to send via email or PM here[/BLUE]
[QUOTE]Misc Improvements:
If this is the route you're going to take, then Provider Profiles seem to be a natural progression. This would be like the ECCIE Showcase (delete the name before if you don't want a reference to a competing site, though it doesn't exist in Cincy) showing services, "standard (non-special, not inflated)" rates, part of town, in / out call, etc.[/QUOTE][BLUE]More on this later[/BLUE]
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Other Thoughts:
It looks to me like you made Cincy your beta before it should have been. This could have been more thought out and by bifurcating your client base into two sites, I'm not sure if the gamble will pay off or divide your clientele too much. We now have to bounce back and forth to see reviews, chat among each other and see ads, and so forth. I personally don't like it.[/QUOTE][BLUE]You are correct, we needed to beta test it and I choose Sincy because I talk to a lot of both the girls and guys here. I'm not going to apologize for that one, we had to do it somewhere, I chose you guys because I knew you would do stuff like this. Sorry for the pain in the ass, seriously I am, but considering how long and how free this site has been I figured we had the right for a big ask. I'm not trying to be a dick, I mean that.[/BLUE]
[QUOTE]There should be provider names / handles at the top or in a corner or something. It's a bit too jumbled. I'm looking at providers I know I'm not interested in while looking for ones I want to see if they're running specials, etc.[/QUOTE][BLUE]Great minds think alike, the Russians are working on this as we speak.[/BLUE]
[QUOTE]Oh yeah, and when you first go to the site, the title in the HTML (shows in the tab on browsers) is still "USA Sex Guide" - FYI
Okay, I think I'm done (but likely not) for now. YMMV, Just my 0. 02, Ya get what'cha pay for, blah blah blah.[/QUOTE][BLUE]I really do appreciate you taking the time to write this. Most of this stuff are things we have already seen and agree about. The no log in thing isn't directed at guys like you, but rather new guys we hope to attract. I'll fix the USA Sex Guide in the tab. I hadn't seen that, thanks.
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Thank you for the insight
[QUOTE=CurvyChristina;2144860]I've had to Come to DEPEND on provider replies, not only due to the lack of referral communication but also because in the past I "use to have" a client that was a retired detective, he told me so myna little tricks they use, and one very favorite trick they used was writing great reviews, he claimed that because a great review is " good advertising " that most providers see so many clients they don't remember their name, he said long as you never make up any fake details about conversation, or claim and positions etc. That you can get trusted by others to give personal info out thru PM, he said they use old reviews like if a girl got BAD reviews they would write a bad review or reply to that one agreeing to back the guy up, he said everyone likes being backed up so just that would get a guy talking to him, if writing a good review he said they read old good reviews and if it mentions a hair style Change or location change they will mention that info as it's already been said, he also said no provider is stupid enough to get on here and dispute a GOOD REVIEW so usually they just add to the member post count to get closer to being a Senior member. Because of that info, I always look to see if the girl actually replied, and I see if it sounds like a generic response or if she really remembered him. This is important IMO.
XOXOXO.[/QUOTE]Great discussion into the operations of these detectives. Thanks for the info. JG.
Disputing fake good reviews
Happens all of the time on other sites. Ladies have them removed even if they are glowing and great. Writing reviews grants free premium membership on other sites, and cheapskates try to play the system. LE can write fake reviews, but their objective is to infiltrate and bust the community.
Contraception Question for the Ladies
Is there a reason that almost all of the providers here who have sex multiple times a day for a living are NOT using birth control? Quite frankly, I'm dismayed by this commonality. Don't you know condoms can break? Please be safe in EVERY way, ladies!
Screen Names of Advertisers Would Be Nice
Thanks for initiating this discussion. I agree with you. Right now, some advertisers don't even include a name in the body of their ads making it that much more challenging to determine who they are, what their review history / post-count might be, if they're trying to rebrand themselves due to a poor history connected to an old username, or if they're a genuine newbie that we should entertain taking on for the team, etc.
What do others think? Would be great to see the new USA Adult Classifieds get off to a great start based on user feedback.
[blue]As I've said before, the Russians are working on this. We can't pressure them because they hack our social media and turn us in TV's every time we try that. We are all more than a little afraid of them and the Kolektive as they call it.
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[QUOTE=Mainstreet;2144889]I wish the classified section revealed the ladies screen name. I look at some of these new small pictures, if the lady doesn't post her name in the add it takes a minute or two to recognize her. I was just looking for one lady in particular and it took a few minutes to find her. I'm sure we will all get used to it.[/QUOTE]
Awareness and communal benefit
[QUOTE=GoBig;2145557]I would have to say that I too find the sappy exchanges annoying. I would back this up a bit more if it weren't coming from a member who has a very high post count without providing much in the way of useful intel very often.
I am intrigued by the notion of LE posting fake good reviews in order to infiltrate the site. It's one more thing to look out for I guess. It would be even more interesting to hear more about what this former detective could share about how they used this info.[/QUOTE]I see a contradiction here. In order to help prevent what happens in your second paragraph, you're going to have to put up with "sappy" exchanges. When a provider responds to a review in some detail (like what Christina was suggesting below) the whole community gets the benefit of increased legitimacy for the provider and the monger. It helps even more when both the provider and monger are well established here. I'd much prefer having that useful knowledge out in the forum rather than it being tucked away between two people via PM. A purely PM exchange doesn't do the community any good. Sure, sometimes I find the back and forth chatter a bit personal and maybe sappy but I feel safer in the end. That matters.
[QUOTE=GoBig;2145557]Let's just say there's one member in particular who seems to have serial cases where he sees a provider repeatedly then suddenly finds himself being ripped off, discovering she's a drug addict, realizing her incall location is scuzzy and that she's ugly as sin, often at the same time, as if the beer goggles had suddenly and miraculously been lifted from his eyes.[/QUOTE]I know who you are talking about and am sure I'm not the only one. And not just from posts; many of which are purely negative vitriol that doesn't come off as objective or rational. I've heard a couple complaints from providers too. The result is that I take no interest or useful intel from his posts. He might be smart enough to post the truth 60-70% of the time but that's not that hard to decipher. This person should learn that his credibility is at stake and that he should revisit the "boy who cried wolf" story. The community awareness is a greater "intelligence" than just the sum of the individuals here. That kind of behavior will be found out in due time.
I like the old one better too
[QUOTE=CMan5911;2146104]I hate the new site! Please bring back the old.[/QUOTE]But then again, I'm an old fart who doesn't like to change. So get off my lawn! LOL.
How again do we get on the new site to find the ladies
[QUOTE=MrNiceGuyCincy;2146132]But then again, I'm an old fart who doesn't like to change. So get off my lawn! LOL.[/QUOTE]I don't much like change but I am flexible if someone walks me through it. PT.
To all of you assholes complaining about the new site,
I do have a dog in this fight.
I am a realistic and no bullshit type guy.
First, the new site is just an evolution of the USA site, and I appreciate the fact that the owners care enough to try to make and keep the site profitable, as any responsible businessmen would do. I understand why the price of pussy is higher than it was (in some cases) 10 years ago, and that the cost of a case of pop has also risen. The cost of doing business rises each year. Management must do what it takes to ensure the viability of the business. I welcome that management here is creating a [B]value-added[/B] product.
Next, [B]the new site is a beta-version.[/B].
[B][u]AND[/u],[/B]
Although I agree with most of the suggestions for change, we should be appreciative that we here, in our great Queen City, are fortunate enough to be part and parcel of that change.
For those illiterates:
[B][red] You ungrateful assholes. It's a beta-version, it will change for the better, and we here in Cincinnati have been chosen to help mold the future.[/red][/B]
Keep the suggestions coming to make things better, quit complaining, and appreciate what we have!
Quite simply because some clients don't do homework by reading reviews
[QUOTE=BuyingSmiles;2146369]Why would any provider have input on this, or any list of providers and their ratings, good or bad? Unless they are paying to play with providers they shouldn't have any input. The only name a provider should worry about is their own. If their name is not on the list, their must be a reason. If it's not on the list and it does not belong on the list, hey she is the one that controls that. Step your game up lady! If her name belongs on the list and isn't, her many satisfied customers will speak up. If there is a poll, official or unofficial, public or private, or both, the names submitted by mongers are what should be considered.
My self, I'd prefer to see the data from privately submitted poll of mongers. I think a lot of people would be a little more honest in their criticism or praise when they knew they may not hurt someone's feelings or didn't fear the jealousy that does happen, admittedly or not, from some providers. (I said some not all). As I reflect over the reviews I have given in my time here, I can see I am guilty of playing softball on a couple reviews because I really liked the lady. I wasn't as blunt or harsh maybe as I should have been. Some of that I think is from being a green and wet behind the ears monger. What ever the reason, I believe a lot mongers would be a little more honest if their name was not signed at the bottom of a review or rating poll.
Of course that's just my humble opinion.
BuyingSmiles.[/QUOTE]And women talk to each other about what women do drugs, live in pig stys, do 4 to six clients a day drink like fish, and other things such as rarely post or try to over post. A number of ladies want to have a good place to come and meet clients who treat them right and think other ladies should be at the least semi regular posters on the boards to show interest. IT IS A BUSINESS and it tells us what they provide to see if it coincide with our likes and there is someone for everyone in general. I appreciate that when you gave reviews you considered the feelings of the lady but when ladies are sleeping in, waking up in the afternoon when some guys have limited windows of opportunity, are glassy eyed in their sessions or talk on the phones or in sessions with slurred speech and lack coherence are being given drugs by their handlers or have pimps does any guy really want this and more importantly don't guys want to know? Ladies if you treat them right weill tell you shit you need to know. Many have shared with me and will share with others. I respect your opinion but as I hve said before and so hve others when you get the trash off the board then only the quality will remain. Some of us have read so many fking lame assed excuses about where ladies hve been or why they missed appointments you could write a book Hell many of you have read where some providers do clients with their kids in the house or next room or with parents in the house they are staying at but still go to see them REALLY? What the list is all about. We say we want discretion and anonymity PT.
