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[QUOTE=Mhohu;4737976]

Today, I ran into a girl who won't take 'I changed my mind' for an answer. She blocked the door, sang the song, demanded 100 dollars from me. I respectfully said no, and tried to buy some time for her to calm down. My experience tells me if I take out my wallet right then to pay her $100 she will try to rob it. My plan is to offer her my usual poor you $60 when she calm down, and I regain control to the door. Too bad for my plan, she attacked me, tried to destroyed my glasses. So I had to dial 911 to force her let me out of the room or deal with the police.

So long story short, is it ok to make an appointment with the girl then change your mind (with a small compensation) ?[/QUOTE]To answer your question, the short answer is. YES!

That is OK, but the best approach is to do your homework and know which girls are likely to pull that stuff and avoid them. Also, while you don't ask for pictures, one should be looking at pics in the adverts and googling the pics and number, if you aren't already doing so. Collect as much info as possible and use it to avoid bad situations. Also, what many of the mongers don't realize is that many of the higher end girls network for safety and if you show up and change your mind and leave many times you could end up on a blacklist. A girl HAS set aside her time, potentially turned down other dates, showered, done make up, etc. All in anticipation of a payday, so a cancellation is a waste of her time. Often it is that "extended time" or opportunity cost that burns a girl and gets her upset.

So while one does have the right to change their mind, especially in a bait & switch situation or an unsafe situation, being respectful of a girl's time is critical. Offering a 'no thank you' donation is a good move. Sometimes one has to pay the fare the girl asks, for expediency and safety, and then chalk it up to lessons learned.

But it sounds like this is a more common occurrence? Do you often find it necessary to back out of a date? In any case, I would step back and do a root cause analysis: what are ALL of the contributing factors that lead you to back out of dates? This can be a hard look in the mirror, but if one can find what factors lead to these missteps then one can adapt and hopefully avoid them in the future.

Make some adjustments and carry on! Be safe.

[QUOTE=Mhohu;4739075]Her name is Danni, but there are quite a few Danni around in Delaware. So I don't think it would help.

Her ads on cityxguide said 38 DD italian something. [b] I couldn't find the ad now to link it.[/b][/QUOTE]You can't find the link? Just saying. One should have several links to several websites where a girl has posted ads. One finds those by Googling her number as part of research. Any girl with just adverts on CXG is a bit suspicious to me and generally with no other verifiable information I take a pass, especially if she is at premium rates $200.

Go find Ceph's rules for dating. Perhaps those can help sharpen your game?

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;4741949]To answer your question, the short answer is. YES!

That is OK, but the best approach is to do your homework and know which girls are likely to pull that stuff and avoid them. Also, while you don't ask for pictures, one should be looking at pics in the adverts and googling the pics and number, if you aren't already doing so. Collect as much info as possible and use it to avoid bad situations. Also, what many of the mongers don't realize is that many of the higher end girls network for safety and if you show up and change your mind and leave many times you could end up on a blacklist. A girl HAS set aside her time, potentially turned down other dates, showered, done make up, etc. All in anticipation of a payday, so a cancellation is a waste of her time. Often it is that "extended time" or opportunity cost that burns a girl and gets her upset.

So while one does have the right to change their mind, especially in a bait & switch situation or an unsafe situation, being respectful of a girl's time is critical. Offering a 'no thank you' donation is a good move. Sometimes one has to pay the fare the girl asks, for expediency and safety, and then chalk it up to lessons learned.

But it sounds like this is a more common occurrence? Do you often find it necessary to back out of a date? In any case, I would step back and do a root cause analysis: what are ALL of the contributing factors that lead you to back out of dates? This can be a hard look in the mirror, but if one can find what factors lead to these missteps then one can adapt and hopefully avoid them in the future.

Make some adjustments and carry on! Be safe.[/QUOTE]I have been in similar situations. In the case of bait and switch or safety concerns I smile and then suddenly look suprised and say, "damn, I forgot my wallet in my car. I'll be right back. Please wait by the door so I can get back in quick. ".

Never had a problem with this one. They don't want to do anything without money upfront. They don't want to fight you leaving "to grab money" as that's ultimately what they want up front.

[QUOTE=RugByMan;4743859]I have been in similar situations. In the case of bait and switch or safety concerns I smile and then suddenly look suprised and say, "damn, I forgot my wallet in my car. I'll be right back. Please wait by the door so I can get back in quick. ".

Never had a problem with this one. They don't want to do anything without money upfront. They don't want to fight you leaving "to grab money" as that's ultimately what they want up front.[/QUOTE]Dang, never thought of this. From now on I will leave wallet in car.

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;4741949]To answer your question, the short answer is. YES!

But it sounds like this is a more common occurrence? Do you often find it necessary to back out of a date? In any case, I would step back and do a root cause analysis: what are ALL of the contributing factors that lead you to back out of dates? This can be a hard look in the mirror, but if one can find what factors lead to these missteps then one can adapt and hopefully avoid them in the future.

Make some adjustments and carry on! Be safe.[/QUOTE]Looking back at my history then yeah. It look like I have to change mind quite a few times when I have to use web advert to look for girls. Usually I go to FS AMP in Philly since they are right where I work. And then there's X in Elkt. Too bad for X.

But idk what adjustment to make. Some girls will post pictures that were years ago. And I believe this hobby is about tries and errors. You see, you like, you remember. I think all I can do is take precautions, and stay safe.

[QUOTE=Mhohu;4744272]Dang, never thought of this. From now on I will leave wallet in car.[/QUOTE]This tactic wouldn't exactly be a stretch for me. (although, thankfully, I've never needed to USE it). But I ALWAYS leave my wallet in the car. Along with any other items that I would bring to a "trusted situation". Only thing I try to bring inside is the donation, and, perhaps "bit" extra. And the burner phone I used to contact.

I've been lucky, haven't had a bait and switch to the extent that I needed to bail, but seems like good tactics, both, the "leave a donation" and the " got to grab my wallet".

[QUOTE=PPJones;4744594]This tactic wouldn't exactly be a stretch for me. (although, thankfully, I've never needed to USE it). But I ALWAYS leave my wallet in the car. Along with any other items that I would bring to a "trusted situation". Only thing I try to bring inside is the donation, and, perhaps "bit" extra. And the burner phone I used to contact.

I've been lucky, haven't had a bait and switch to the extent that I needed to bail, but seems like good tactics, both, the "leave a donation" and the " got to grab my wallet".[/QUOTE]Agreed. Burner phone. Donation. Keys. Cover. All else stays the car.

Haven't had any issues yet, but always play it safe, even with my longer-term UTRs, because you never know if a situation changes.

[QUOTE=InDelaware;4745497]Agreed. Burner phone. Donation. Keys. Cover. All else stays the car.

Haven't had any issues yet, but always play it safe, even with my longer-term UTRs, because you never know if a situation changes.[/QUOTE]Situations and expectations change that is a fact. I may see a girl a couple of times and then not see her for a year. By then drugs like meth have rotted out her teeth or some other dramatic change. In the 5-10 seconds after you meet face to face you have to be willing to walk away. I always keep a 20 in easy reach because if I pull the plug I want to say "Sorry something came up I got to go, here is something to help out" never had any blowback yet.

Has anyone seen either of the two girls in Pennsville?

I just can't hold out any longer.

I see Luna is in the area as well. Don't know what she is asking for down this way, but her prices over the past few months are over the top.

Thanks, stay safe.

Oh yeah, the other one, semi UTR by referral. Just off LA who disappeared due to boyfriend getting out of jail. He was due for an appointment on 4/13 but courts are shutdown, so it may be awhile before she resurfaces, if at all.

Unless others have heard from her??

[QUOTE=JRichard;4746573]Has anyone seen either of the two girls in Pennsville?

I just can't hold out any longer.

I see Luna is in the area as well. Don't know what she is asking for down this way, but her prices over the past few months are over the top.

Thanks, stay safe.

Oh yeah, the other one, semi UTR by referral. Just off LA who disappeared due to boyfriend getting out of jail. He was due for an appointment on 4/13 but courts are shutdown, so it may be awhile before she resurfaces, if at all.

Unless others have heard from her??[/QUOTE]2 girls in pennsville?

Got to be a little bit more specific than that.

A link maybe?

Has anyone seen this one? Looks TGTBT, but you never know.

[URL]https://eastern-shore.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/hi-my-names-angelica/047124760204[/URL]

Stay Safe.

[QUOTE=RugByMan;4743859]I have been in similar situations. In the case of bait and switch or safety concerns I smile and then suddenly look suprised and say, "damn, I forgot my wallet in my car. I'll be right back. Please wait by the door so I can get back in quick. ".

Never had a problem with this one. They don't want to do anything without money upfront. They don't want to fight you leaving "to grab money" as that's ultimately what they want up front.[/QUOTE]Forgetting your wallet is one approach and certainly gets one out of a situation. However, do that and you waste a girl's time and are likely to get banned.

What dudes don't seem to get is that women are more social and tend to trade info on the bad dudes. Build up a rep for shenanigans and it could become harder to get dates.

Leaving a small token for their time is a nice gesture. Only a few will turn ugly like the one mentioned previously.

[QUOTE=Fdisbbf;4747814]Has anyone seen this one? Looks TGTBT, but you never know.

[URL]https://eastern-shore.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/hi-my-names-angelica/047124760204[/URL]

Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]I have talked to her a few times. Got a real photo and she looks a little different but still worth the time. Easy to talk with by text. After this shit is over I do plan go see her. You may want to watch the eastern shore forum as well.

[QUOTE=Mhohu;4744318]Looking back at my history then yeah. It look like I have to change mind quite a few times when I have to use web advert to look for girls. Usually I go to FS AMP in Philly since they are right where I work. And then there's X in Elkt. Too bad for X.

But [b] idk what adjustment to make.[/b] Some girls will post pictures that were years ago. And I believe this hobby is about tries and errors. You see, you like, you remember. I think all I can do is take precautions, and stay safe.[/QUOTE]That is some of the most chilling text I have seen in ages of hobbying. No clue what to do and one is ripe to become a statistic. Anyone who has been around for a while knows that one is always learning. Without such, the hobby tends to bite you in the back side.

The rules are here:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]

Sure one can do trial and error or one can learn from the rules, do homework ahead of time and learn from others. A fatalistic approach or a lazy one will not turn out well. Shoot many thought it was OK to date with WHFT because there were so many posts here. That ended up getting their naked at ss on video. You got to use common sense, be skeptical and cautious. Who knows what the next issue will be, but without training.

Good luck hunting, stay safe!

[QUOTE=InDelaware;4745497]Agreed. [b]Burner phone.[/b] Donation. Keys. Cover. All else stays the car.

Haven't had any issues yet, but always play it safe, even with my longer-term UTRs, because you never know if a situation changes.[/QUOTE]Hey, I am just saying. Been following Ceph's rules for a while and always leave a phone in the car. If one is walking into a sting situation, you have brought the one device that can directly tie you to any texts or calls you made. If a ripoff situation by a "BF" then the dude has all of your contacts etc.

So play it however youse guys wish, I'll leave my burner at home or in the car.