[QUOTE=PeteCastillone;5510034]Name the last democratic president that did something spectacular![/QUOTE]Lets have Pete let us know when ANY President has done something "spectacular". Should be fascinating!!
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[QUOTE=PeteCastillone;5510034]Name the last democratic president that did something spectacular![/QUOTE]Lets have Pete let us know when ANY President has done something "spectacular". Should be fascinating!!
[QUOTE=BengalMan;5510498]Lets have Pete let us know when ANY President has done something "spectacular". Should be fascinating!![/QUOTE]I guess Pete's question stumped you BM! It stumped me as well.
[QUOTE=BengalMan;5510496]Pete proved my point.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BengalMan;5510498]Lets have Pete let us know when ANY President has done something "spectacular". Should be fascinating!![/QUOTE]More funny than his loony rants is how he keeps letting us know how well off he is. People that make a lot of money never say "six-digits" because we all know right away he's just making it over the $99 K line, which I thought was a lot of money many years ago. I doubt I'd get out of bed for what Peter makes nowadays.
It's bullshit that he gave up all this VA benefits. No one would do that just because they don't need them. He's a loony fuck for sure. Probably has cammies he puts on and jerks off every night. I'm beginning to doubt he was ever in the Army.
Iv been thinking about why * would ban the one thing that made them successful. It's obvious with the pandemic plus the rise of *subscriptions has drove providers to OF only or at least major price increases for meetings. Other women who potentially would have came into the game are going to * instead. Iv been against paying for * because it's detrimental to an already struggling hobby market. So I think iv figured out why they are banning porn. THE BANKERS like always run the show. I'm assuming that bankers and rich alike are noticing the decline in options and quality with escort providers. They realize that OF is hurting their game. So to force more to go into an actual provider role they need to disrupt their income. I support it, hopefully the hobby will recover.
[QUOTE=Cincy2015;5510731]Iv been thinking about why * would ban the one thing that made them successful. It's obvious with the pandemic plus the rise of *subscriptions has drove providers to OF only or at least major price increases for meetings. Other women who potentially would have came into the game are going to * instead. Iv been against paying for * because it's detrimental to an already struggling hobby market. So I think iv figured out why they are banning porn. THE BANKERS like always run the show. I'm assuming that bankers and rich alike are noticing the decline in options and quality with escort providers. They realize that OF is hurting their game. So to force more to go into an actual provider role they need to disrupt their income. I support it, hopefully the hobby will recover.[/QUOTE]It's not a theory. That's what they (OF) said in their announcement; "These changes are to comply with the requests of our banking partners and payout providers".
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5510684]More funny than his loony rants is how he keeps letting us know how well off he is. 😂
It's bullshit that he gave up all this VA benefits. No one would do that just because they don't need them. He's a loony fuck [/QUOTE]A person never "gives up" their VA benefits, they are forever. He may subvert them and use his employer insurance, but he could reinstate them any time.
[QUOTE=BengalMan;5510930]A person never "gives up" their VA benefits, they are forever. He may subvert them and use his employer insurance, but he could reinstate them any time.[/QUOTE]I still use my health benefits. I do not accept money for a substantial reason. When I turn 65 and can collect my pension. I will get paid. And I will collect the money. When the time comes. And be sitting nice when I retire. My current job. Pays for my bills and lifestyle. So no need to collect my full benefits now. At 3200 a month for 38 years. Is 465 months. 3200 x465=1,488,000. At age 65. Not a bad bonus for serving my country.
Hey guys. This board has taught me a lot when it comes to various forms of mongering and I'll be forever grateful for the knowledge I've gained from all of you. That said, I'm trying to work on some personal aspects of my life, and if I'm being honest with myself, the hobby is a crutch that I need to learn to not rely on. Its prevented me from advancing my ability in pursuing and engaging non-working women. I shoot my shot, but I'm not hitting with the women I really want and that's pretty much always been the case. I'm pretty sure its more of a confidence thing, and overthinking, honestly, but that's not what I'm here for today. If possible, I'd really appreciate any tips in finding regular ladies. Where should I go and what should I be doing to be around them? Parks, gym, library, bar? If you got any good ideas I'm all ears, and I don't really want to hang out at the banks, but if I have to I will. Also, any general conversation tips, or how to engage in small talk? Tips on how to start those conversations with strangers and keep them going for a bit? I feel like when I was younger it was easier to just approach girls in different forms and basically tell them they're cute, be funny / weird for a bit then get their number. When I come across younger girls (21-25 ish) this is generally still pretty easy but I'm trying to go after more established women in their later 20's and early 30's. I've got a decent amount of shit going for me (job, car, house, reasonable appearance, etc.) but I really need to work on my social skills to be successful. More recently, I've been going to bars, etc., but I put down the heavier / more frequent drinking in the past and now I feel like I'm going to have to turn into an alcoholic or something if I have to hit the bars every night to socialize. Appreciate the help. As an aside, I am not my username. Thanks.
[QUOTE=IMAcrossdressingTVAskmeanything;5511408]Hey guys. This board has taught me a lot when it comes to various forms of mongering and I'll be forever grateful for the knowledge I've gained from all of you. That said, I'm trying to work on some personal aspects of my life, and if I'm being honest with myself, the hobby is a crutch that I need to learn to not rely on. Its prevented me from advancing my ability in pursuing and engaging non-working women. I shoot my shot, but I'm not hitting with the women I really want and that's pretty much always been the case. I'm pretty sure its more of a confidence thing, and overthinking, honestly, but that's not what I'm here for today. If possible, I'd really appreciate any tips in finding regular ladies. Where should I go and what should I be doing to be around them? Parks, gym, library, bar? If you got any good ideas I'm all ears, and I don't really want to hang out at the banks, but if I have to I will. Also, any general conversation tips, or how to engage in small talk? Tips on how to start those conversations with strangers and keep them going for a bit? I feel like when I was younger it was easier to just approach girls in different forms and basically tell them they're cute, be funny / weird for a bit then get their number. When I come across younger girls (21-25 ish) this is generally still pretty easy but I'm trying to go after more established women in their later 20's and early 30's. I've got a decent amount of shit going for me (job, car, house, reasonable appearance, etc.) but I really need to work on my social skills to be successful. More recently, I've been going to bars, etc., but I put down the heavier / more frequent drinking in the past and now I feel like I'm going to have to turn into an alcoholic or something if I have to hit the bars every night to socialize. Appreciate the help. As an aside, I am not my username. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Be careful dude. A guy with his financial shit together is a prime target for the age range of ladies you say you're looking for. We peak later and for longer than the ladies. Their early to mid 20's is when the world is at their feet, everybody wanting to fuck them. By their late 20's to early 30's they start realizing they can't party forever and the baby clock is running out, or they need help raising kids they've already had with other guys. Add to that all the psychological damage from their previous bad relationship choices, and the 'I don't want to play games anymore' mantra really means she's going to try to make you wait and pay more in every way now, for the same shit guys used to get from her when she was hotter and less damaged. Fuck that. Know your worth.
And the legal system is still setup to favor women like they're helpless, one of those convenient inequalities they don't mind because it benefits them. Read up on divorce and co-habitation law in whatever state you live in. Until you're ready to have kids get a vasectomy, they're reversible. And if you don't want to have kids, marriage these days is a risk not worth taking for men. Don't be thinking you got to do that shit because "its what people do. ".
Stop looking at women as targets. Women can tell if they're being sized up as a prize to be had. So even if they are open to a relationship, it's not going to be you.
Desperation is a hard smell to wash off. Don't be that guy.
Those are the tips on what not to do.
As for what you should do. Chill. Don't let "meeting the one" be your goal every time you go out, but just let social situations develop. Women open to relationships will be open to approaches and conversation, but they will bolt at the first sign you're forcing the issue. Nowadays, the advice women give other women is "let things develop organically". That should also be your guide.
[QUOTE=IMAcrossdressingTVAskmeanything;5511408]Hey guys. This board has taught me a lot when it comes to various forms of mongering and I'll be forever grateful for the knowledge I've gained from all of you. That said, I'm trying to work on some personal aspects of my life, and if I'm being honest with myself, the hobby is a crutch that I need to learn to not rely on. Its prevented me from advancing my ability in pursuing and engaging non-working women. I shoot my shot, but I'm not hitting with the women I really want and that's pretty much always been the case. I'm pretty sure its more of a confidence thing, and overthinking, honestly, but that's not what I'm here for today. If possible, I'd really appreciate any tips in finding regular ladies. Where should I go and what should I be doing to be around them? Parks, gym, library, bar? If you got small talk? Tips on how to start those conversations with strangers and keep them going for a bit? I feel like when I was younger it was easier to just approach girls in different forms and... . As an aside, I am not my username. Thanks.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=IMAcrossdressingTVAskmeanything;5511408]Hey guys. This board has taught me a lot when it comes to various forms of mongering and I'll be forever grateful for the knowledge I've gained from all of you. That said, I'm trying to work on some personal aspects of my life, and if I'm being honest with myself, the hobby is a crutch that I need to learn to not rely on. Its prevented me from advancing my ability in pursuing and engaging non-working women. I shoot my shot, but I'm not hitting with the women I really want and that's pretty much always been the case. I'm pretty sure its more of a confidence thing, and overthinking, honestly, but that's not what I'm here for today. If possible, I'd really appreciate any tips in finding regular ladies. Where should I go and what should I be doing to be around them? Parks, gym, library, bar? If you got any good ideas I'm all ears, and I don't really want to hang out at the banks, but if I have to I will. Also, any general conversation tips, or how to engage in small talk? Tips on how to start those conversations with strangers and keep them going for a bit? I feel like when I was younger it was easier to just approach girls in different forms and basically tell them they're cute, be funny / weird for a bit then get their number. When I come across younger girls (21-25 ish) this is generally still pretty easy but I'm trying to go after more established women in their later 20's and early 30's. I've got a decent amount of shit going for me (job, car, house, reasonable appearance, etc.) but I really need to work on my social skills to be successful. More recently, I've been going to bars, etc., but I put down the heavier / more frequent drinking in the past and now I feel like I'm going to have to turn into an alcoholic or something if I have to hit the bars every night to socialize. Appreciate the help. As an aside, I am not my username. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I certainly can't help you with your social skills since I don't know anything about you, other than what you post here, but a good place to look is a grocery store. Most of the women there will probably be "Moms" and married, but single women have to eat also. Go around 6-7 PM when they're getting off work.
[QUOTE=AlanDodson;5510812]So yesterday on lunch I went to my local haircut place. Chain store with the MVP scalp massage experience if you know which one I'm referring to. Went in and there were 2 girls, one took me back for the haircut and the other left out for lunch. The girl I got was rude and obviously on something and was rushing through my haircut to the point I almost got up and left. So we get back to the sink for the scalp massage, she puts the hot towel over my face, does an extremely lackluster head rub and then I can tell she left to go back up front. She goes all the way up front and then all the way to the back door, comes back up to me and puts her hand directly on my leg just to the left of the jewels. She asks me how much cash I have on me and me being dumbfounded I blurt out. 8 which was the truth. She doesn't say another word and immediately goes to town on a handshake that turns into a BBBJ. She tells me to let her know when and she catches it with one of those white towels. I just stare at her still in shock of the whole situation, she tosses me a towel to dry my hair with and clean up. I hand her the cash and she puts it in her pocket and just walks back to her haircut station. Still dumbfounded I wander out and ask if she needs me to sit down (as my hair was a mess and completely unstyled) she says very abruptly "no you're good you can go" I asked if she was available for haircuts outside the shop in the future and she cuts me off and says "no, we're done you can go" so I leave, without even paying for the actual haircut. Kind of a little paranoid because I checked in with my real name and I don't even know if their were cameras in there but the girl was pretty attractive and I wasn't really thinking or even prepared for the situation, and obviously had no clue going in that this would happen. Did I stumble across something that I had no clue existed, or did I just catch someone needing a quick buck for a quick fix?[/QUOTE]Hard to believe, did you read this in redbook or metropolitan LOL also you are new here, there was another guy that use to tell these wild and far fetched stories, turned out he said he use to write for pent house, not sure I believed anything he said.
[QUOTE=BengalMan;5510930]A person never "gives up" their VA benefits, they are forever. He may subvert them and use his employer insurance, but he could reinstate them any time.[/QUOTE]What a great country we live in! Those who have served our country and even been wounded do so for all Americans. They do so even with the knowledge that includes low life scum like you and your flaky pal Roger the Schmuck.
[QUOTE=DNut;5511674]Stop looking at women as targets. Women can tell if they're being sized up as a prize to be had. So even if they are open to a relationship, it's not going to be you.
Desperation is a hard smell to wash off. Don't be that guy.
Those are the tips on what not to do.
As for what you should do. Chill. Don't let "meeting the one" be your goal every time you go out, but just let social situations develop. Women open to relationships will be open to approaches and conversation, but they will bolt at the first sign you're forcing the issue. Nowadays, the advice women give other women is "let things develop organically". That should also be your guide.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Kenal1;5511746]I certainly can't help you with your social skills since I don't know anything about you, other than what you post here, but a good place to look is a grocery store. Most of the women there will probably be "Moms" and married, but single women have to eat also. Go around 6-7 PM when they're getting off work.[/QUOTE]I'd add, stay off those stupid "red pill" or "pickup artist" type websites. They're all just a bunch of loser misogynists that think they have to write manifestos to pick up women. Don't be a doormat, but be a decent, regular guy that's polite, holds doors open, and yeah: pay for fucking dinner. I can't tell you how many young women nowadays say guys don't do any of that shit. Sometimes I think I've gotten laid just because I pulled out their chair at a decent restaurant.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;5512282]I'd add, stay off those stupid "red pill" or "pickup artist" type websites. They're all just a bunch of loser misogynists that think they have to write manifestos to pick up women. Don't be a doormat, but be a decent, regular guy that's polite, holds doors open, and yeah: pay for fucking dinner. I can't tell you how many young women nowadays say guys don't do any of that shit. Sometimes I think I've gotten laid just because I pulled out their chair at a decent restaurant.[/QUOTE]Yea all the pickup artist stuff is BS, and that goes for most of what goes by 'red pill' as well. But when 'red pill' is being used to refer to how important parts of our evolutionary biology / psychology are being ignored or shamed by stupid ass social / cultural conventions, that's an area men need to pay attention to. Because they are increasingly being raised and portrayed as doormats. There's a reason opening a door helps to open a woman's legs, and it goes back to the evolved biological interdependency between men and women, how men protect and provide for women. And modern pampered societies have been trying to obliterate that by extending the political obsession with equality into every other sphere of life. Today's women want it both ways, party and play independent career woman until the last minute when they try to find a traditional guy to take care of them. And they end up raising the very idiots, usually in single parent households, that the next generation of women complain about. Ultimately its not sustainable, ever increasing govt welfare spending from shrinking tax bases, due to declining birthrates headed below replacement rate. And of those that are born, its more and more into broken families that just perpetuate the cycle.
As for "Letting it happen organically" Good god, if only I believed in a god. You know things are headed in the wrong direction when men have the luxury to talk and think like women. If modern times have proved anything, its that dating and putting women in charge of deciding who they marry has been a disaster. Romantic love needs to be removed as a pre-requisite for marriage. If it happens down the road consider yourselves lucky. We need to go back to families getting together and picking who their kids marry. Husbands should have their mistresses and prostitutes discreetly on the side. Assets and children should be raised and protected in a secure stable environment. Future generations will look back to us to help re-learn these truths again.