A day in he life of a monger
There could be many places to post this; I've not posted in awhile so thought I'd recap a recent day or so. I had joined Seeking Arrangement about 10 days ago. I'm so so meh on SA. Like being in school. Those that I'm not interested in are chasing, and those that I could be interested in over-estimate their 'worth'. I have had some positive conversations with several nice ladies, and progressed quite nicely with one in South Bend area. Quite hot. I finally made an offer, 2. 5 for 2 hours, plus a hotel room, wine, etc. She countered with she has never been on a date for less than 4. 0, and wouldn't be fair to herself to go for less. And she wanted to stay (2. 5 hours yet) in a 1. 5 hotel. Add gas, wine, snacks, whatever, and I'm exceeding 6. I dropped all conversation. She tried 3 or 4 times to get me to respond; I did not. IMHO, too many of these girls expect to make a big hit $$$ out the gate. They have not business sense of not being greedy, build the relationship, and then go for a bonus. I figured I'd go 1. 0 tip if it was good. And I expected to spend about. 8 for hotel. But her push, particularly for an expensive hotel, was a total turn off.
So instead I spent the morning of the next day (last Friday) perusing the normal websites. Trying to make a hit with something more than the AMP (which is my standard). Time was marching on, so I decided to go to Crystal. I've been there probably 25+ times over the years. A few poor experiences; and quite a few great experiences. Developed several 'friends' there, and always sorry when they moved on and did not return. That day I got 'eye'. I should have immediately turned her down, but I failed on my quick assessment. She was probably 45+. She did have a nice body. But no kissing. No DATY. No playing with the kitty. No massaging her. And her massage was TERRIBLE. Rough, dry rub. BAD. Oh yes, she said her price was 2. 2, when I offered her 2. 0. That should have been my initial sign to walk. It's always been 2. 0. Hell, East Chicago was 2. 0 20 years ago; go figure. It was a quick her on top, then me on top. And I faked the big O. I'm older, and if there is nothing there mentally / emotionally, I lose the stiff willie. But when it is there, I'm still like I'm 35. Rock hard.
Crystal was in fact so terrible, that upon leaving I called Mamasan and btchd. Have never done that before. She was unsympathetic, and she knows me. Told me to come again, be better next time. I told her it was last time I'd be in Crystal.
So I left there, and still needed the release. So I decided to go to one of my standby's in Palos area. Shower, great massage, and lot's of great mutual play. Pretty much everything but DATY and home run. Good time. . 60 + . 80. (Yeah, I hear the grumbles, I'm setting the scale too high. But it was worth every cent.).
So I was then at 3. 6 for the day. I try to keep around 1. 5 to 2 max / week. Sometimes I'll get on a run of 1. 2 total at one of my favorites in SB, IN. That helps get the budget back on track after doing that for 6 weeks or so.
Do I regret not going for the blonde hottie in SB for 4. 0+? No. I saw nothing but greed coming from that.
But it still leaves me on my quest to find a massage girl / lady that preferably works out of her home, gives a great massage, and some extras might be on the menu. Don't need a full menu. Finding one that is not greedy as sin, and understands this is a business transaction at the core, is a continuing goal for me.
I've run across a well rated girl just west of Peoria. It's a long haul; 3 hours. But it might be on my schedule for this Friday. Depends on several things, including work. Fortunately a great majority of my work can be done remotely while driving with phone, computer and internet.
If questions, PM from seniors only. But I will not be precise on place in Palos area. I've built a good friend there, and won't betray her.