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I am new to this game and have messaged with a few. Came across her and she seems very cool. However before we even meet, she came up a few stories of needing me to send her $ urgently due to some unexpected events in her life. Just a heads up bro!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a93dcb9d-c0e4-4744-b52f-ff0575006c0c[/URL]
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4124593]Todays M&G's.
All of these girls agreed to the $ offer. Pic one was a slam dunk, but she is older and far away. Pic 2 and 3 want to check me out at an M&G first. Saturday is basically my one day off, maybe I'll try to meet both of them today? Both are very close by, I would love to get the girl in pic 2.
Pic 4... the happy couple... going on 9 months.
Pic 5... just popped into my inbox while I was posting. A cute latina.
Also.. got catfished at an M&G a couple days ago... it happens. Wish she would stop txting me.[/QUOTE]$100 offer for intimacy too or just to meet and hang out? The lowest I have been able to get it $300. I am not sure where you boys are getting it for 100-200. Need to step up my game!
[QUOTE=CitySlicker;4127086]$100 offer for intimacy too or just to meet and hang out? The lowest I have been able to get it $300. I am not sure where you boys are getting it for 100-200. Need to step up my game![/QUOTE]I don't pay any girl just to meet and hangout. All my play dates are $. Black, white, hispanic, mixed, asian or alien.
Been seeing her a few times lately. The issue is that she is a bit far from me and doesn't have a reliable way to get around. I either have to pick her up or order her an uber. But, she does give an amazing head game and game for anything. She's 18 going on 19 and has quite the daddy issues.
[QUOTE=Tipisil;4127922]Been seeing her a few times lately. The issue is that she is a bit far from me and doesn't have a reliable way to get around. I either have to pick her up or order her an uber. But, she does give an amazing head game and game for anything. She's 18 going on 19 and has quite the daddy issues.[/QUOTE]Its definitely all in the Daddy issues. The greater the issues... the greater the need to please & obey (and the lower the allowance).
The intel and formula you have created are priceless. Too bad Learning Annex doesn't allow for you to teach and be paid on the methods of Hollywood Guy, Cheers! BTW not a dog in the bunch!
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4124593]Todays M&G's.
All of these girls agreed to the $ offer. Pic one was a slam dunk, but she is older and far away. Pic 2 and 3 want to check me out at an M&G first. Saturday is basically my one day off, maybe I'll try to meet both of them today? Both are very close by, I would love to get the girl in pic 2.
Pic 4... the happy couple... going on 9 months.
Pic 5... just popped into my inbox while I was posting. A cute latina.
Also.. got catfished at an M&G a couple days ago... it happens. Wish she would stop txting me.[/QUOTE]
I've heard guys getting ban from the site. Do you know or can you see if you've been reported or not? All of a sudden I am not getting response like I used to but I dnt think I have done anything wrong. Maybe a few discussions with the females and we've not completed the transaction after they quote me really high rates.
Cityslicker. AKA newbie to SA game!
[QUOTE=CitySlicker;4129975]I've heard guys getting ban from the site. Do you know or can you see if you've been reported or not? All of a sudden I am not getting response like I used to but I dnt think I have done anything wrong. Maybe a few discussions with the females and we've not completed the transaction after they quote me really high rates.
Cityslicker. AKA newbie to SA game![/QUOTE]I gotten banned before.
If you still have access to the site your ok.
But once you can't log in anymore it's a hassle to get back on.
[QUOTE=DJwezzy;4130618]I gotten banned before.
If you still have access to the site your ok.
But once you can't log in anymore it's a hassle to get back on.[/QUOTE]Stop blatantly offering cash for sex. Just say "I pay $100 a date once we decide to start an arrangement (for an hour or more of your time)". There are very few girls that won't catch your drift. If they wanna know more, put them on email or txt to spell it out more clearly.
I never seem to tire of the petite spinners. 5'2" Supposed to see her tomorrow night.
For as long as I have been keeping records, I don't think I've ever seen anyone more than 12 times in a month, even my last long term ATF. I would consider twice a week a lot for any girl. Broke that record with 16 trips to the FC with my current SB / GF / ATF this month. The total damage including all expenses was 8 benjis. The downside is having any time or energy left over for anyone else. Just completed month 10 with her.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4132562]For as long as I have been keeping records, I don't think I've ever seen anyone more than 12 times in a month, even my last long term ATF. I would consider twice a week a lot for any girl. Broke that record with 16 trips to the FC with my current SB / GF / ATF this month. The total damage including all expenses was 8 benjis. The downside is having any time or energy left over for anyone else. Just completed month 10 with her.[/QUOTE]Damn what a body, and what a mound! I can see the source of your enthusiasm.
[QUOTE=Modar;4132917]Damn what a body, and what a mound! I can see the source of your enthusiasm.[/QUOTE]Not to mention her skills are first rate.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4133106]Not to mention her skills are first rate.[/QUOTE]Skills and chemistry are important as shit. I definitely have a type (and share your enthusiasm for AA girls) but can and have moved outside of that because, as they say in the vernacular of the day, we 'vibe'.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4132562]For as long as I have been keeping records, I don't think I've ever seen anyone more than 12 times in a month, even my last long term ATF. I would consider twice a week a lot for any girl. Broke that record with 16 trips to the FC with my current SB / GF / ATF this month. The total damage including all expenses was 8 benjis. The downside is having any time or energy left over for anyone else. Just completed month 10 with her.[/QUOTE]You can tell she is a non pro from the hair dye.
Good work.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4132562]For as long as I have been keeping records, I don't think I've ever seen anyone more than 12 times in a month, even my last long term ATF. I would consider twice a week a lot for any girl. Broke that record with 16 trips to the FC with my current SB / GF / ATF this month. The total damage including all expenses was 8 benjis. The downside is having any time or energy left over for anyone else. Just completed month 10 with her.[/QUOTE]Damn with those lips and tight body and the pussy mound where do you begin? The Ass I and sure is in order! Nice enjoy!
[QUOTE=PriscillaM;4133499]You can tell she is a non pro from the hair dye.
Good work.[/QUOTE]She is a working SB. Her true NP status is basically gone at this point.
And she's got the rich SD's footing the bill, so I don't have to.
Fuck being an SD in the rain. I can see a regular... but meeting a new girl ? ... I don't think so.
So frustrated!!
40% of cooch in my last few months has been smelly. And they never fucking realize it. Even when pointed out they can't seem to smell it (before I point it out, I ask for a BJ to see if they notice the nasty smell on my cock). None of these girls are pro, a few UTR, but mostly plain old SBs (who remove their profiles after meeting me). Rarely had this issue in my old escort days.
AAAAAAHHHHHHH! Driving me bonkers. . . Railing a 22 year old babe that is all but perfect, and out oozes that smell. . . Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
"do you want to do me in the ass?" she asks. . . . "no thanks" I say as I'm thinking "fuck no, I want to keep stay missionary and keep my head well past yours so I don't have to smell that nasty. . . Fuck, I'm going to have to change the sheets before the next girl in a few hours".
8 year civvy relationship and that only happened once, ex warden was properly diagnosed at the time with a yeast infection, took antiobiotics and no problem thereafter.
How can it be that so many can't smell their own nasty?
[QUOTE=RanManCan;4135150]So frustrated!!
40% of cooch in my last few months has been smelly. And they never fucking realize it. Even when pointed out they can't seem to smell it (before I point it out, I ask for a BJ to see if they notice the nasty smell on my cock). None of these girls are pro, a few UTR, but mostly plain old SBs (who remove their profiles after meeting me). Rarely had this issue in my old escort days.
AAAAAAHHHHHHH! Driving me bonkers. . . Railing a 22 year old babe that is all but perfect, and out oozes that smell. . . Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
"do you want to do me in the ass?" she asks. . . . "no thanks" I say as I'm thinking "fuck no, I want to keep stay missionary and keep my head well past yours so I don't have to smell that nasty. . . Fuck, I'm going to have to change the sheets before the next girl in a few hours".
8 year civvy relationship and that only happened once, ex warden was properly diagnosed at the time with a yeast infection, took antiobiotics and no problem thereafter.
How can it be that so many can't smell their own nasty?[/QUOTE]Were these girls black? I had one that was like that. Total boner killer!
[QUOTE=Mankopako;4136469]Were these girls black? I had one that was like that. Total boner killer![/QUOTE]Only one of many, mostly white. Smelly doesn't seem to have a racial preference.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;4137051]Only one of many, mostly white. Smelly doesn't seem to have a racial preference.[/QUOTE](racial preference?) Not at all. Most of my girls are AA and they seem to go out of their way to adhere to the highest standards of coochie (and every other form) of cleanliness. They also spend more time on their makeup, hair (omg), clothes, etc.. than girls of other races I have dated. Its actually the white girls that are the fishiest. Could just be my experience. And the asian girls I have known were coochie cleanly crazy. lol . I dont go down on every girl I date, as some are tastier that others. But I have found you can never predict which ones those are gonna be. A girl from the projects might taste like cherry pie, and a so called classy college coed from the burbs might need a little something whispered in her ear.
It's impossible for me to use Seeking, I get banned every time I make an account there no matter what. Even if I didn't write anything yet in my profile or even contact anyone I always get banned within a few days. Support is garbage, they never explain why I'm banned, they refuse to even open a dialog with me and then they tell me not to even bother contacting them again because they will just ignore my support ticket anyway. That is so fucking stupid, I've wasted so much time and I lost a ton of progress from all the memebers who sent me PMs.
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4138182]It's impossible for me to use Seeking, I get banned every time I make an account there no matter what. Even if I didn't write anything yet in my profile or even contact anyone I always get banned within a few days. Support is garbage, they never explain why I'm banned, they refuse to even open a dialog with me and then they tell me not to even bother contacting them again because they will just ignore my support ticket anyway. That is so fucking stupid, I've wasted so much time and I lost a ton of progress from all the memebers who sent me PMs.[/QUOTE]You may have some luck with secret benefits. I live in a much less populated region than LA and there are some girls available, esp around college areas.
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4138182]It's impossible for me to use Seeking, I get banned every time I make an account there no matter what. Even if I didn't write anything yet in my profile or even contact anyone I always get banned within a few days. Support is garbage, they never explain why I'm banned, they refuse to even open a dialog with me and then they tell me not to even bother contacting them again because they will just ignore my support ticket anyway. That is so fucking stupid, I've wasted so much time and I lost a ton of progress from all the memebers who sent me PMs.[/QUOTE]They are matching you based on information you are unaware that you are providing.
Use a VPN service to mask your IP.
Use Incognito Mode in your browser, Chrome or Firefox suggested, not IE / Edge / Safari.
Use a different (new) email address.
Use a Vanilla One card (can also use this same card to buy VPN services).
Use a different phone number, even in messages you send to other members (use a secondary phone app ontop of your phone or a burner phone).
*tracfone can be had for about $100 + $125 for a year of prepaid service OR a few dollars a month for a phone app.
Use a different name.
Use different photos (crop reverse, and rename existing photos so they can't match based on photo contents).
If you do all of the above, they can't match you.
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4138182]It's impossible for me to use Seeking, I get banned every time I make an account there no matter what. Even if I didn't write anything yet in my profile or even contact anyone I always get banned within a few days. Support is garbage, they never explain why I'm banned, they refuse to even open a dialog with me and then they tell me not to even bother contacting them again because they will just ignore my support ticket anyway. That is so fucking stupid, I've wasted so much time and I lost a ton of progress from all the members who sent me PMs.[/QUOTE]Can anyone provide a turn key solution to this? It seems like if you went to an internet cafe (then your IP would be cool). A no name credit card? I mean what else would you need to go anonymous? No pic and a completely different age and bio. I have never lost an account in 10 years, so I am no expert. There must be some IT guys on here that could help.
Also after checking on google adwords, there is no other site that gets any searches (like maybe 1% or less as many)
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4138182]It's impossible for me to use Seeking, I get banned every time I make an account there no matter what. Even if I didn't write anything yet in my profile or even contact anyone I always get banned within a few days. Support is garbage, they never explain why I'm banned, they refuse to even open a dialog with me and then they tell me not to even bother contacting them again because they will just ignore my support ticket anyway. That is so fucking stupid, I've wasted so much time and I lost a ton of progress from all the memebers who sent me PMs.[/QUOTE]Secret Benefits worked for me but had to put a lot of effort and $, made around 70 contacts in Memphis and cities within 150 miles. Purchased membership 3 times to be able to communicate with SBs, even if they texted me I could not read their message until I used 10 credits. I'd say out of the 70 I met in person with 8 want to be SB, 7 were good meaning after a date or 2 they were ready for intimacy. Going to checkout Seeking and compare results.
Supposed to see this one tomorrow. RN I have too many to choose from, not enough time or cash, and two regulars that basically eat up all my time.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/489b9a5f-5299-4512-96f2-826858d04399[/URL]
Hi.
I'm going to be upfront to save us time. I'm new here and don't want to waste either of our time. My ppm is 800. This is not to say if something were to continue and become a regular thing that we both enjoy but one does not know whether or not something is to continue until it happens so that's where I currently stand. Prior to now I wasn't being this upfront with people but I met someone today who wanted to do 300 for ppm and honestly it was a waste of time. As I'm not doing that. So just wanted to not waste your time.
Thank god she didn't waste my time. LOL.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4139033]Can anyone provide a turn key solution to this? It seems like if you went to an internet cafe (then your IP would be cool). A no name credit card? I mean what else would you need to go anonymous? No pic and a completely different age and bio. I have never lost an account in 10 years, so I am no expert. There must be some IT guys on here that could help.
Also after checking on google adwords, there is no other site that gets any searches (like maybe 1% or less as many)[/QUOTE]Download the EPIC browser (free) you can change the country location or the area of the USA, so it essentially spoofs your IP address. I have tested it and yes, it does change your IP. One Vanilla does not require you to register, you can just use it with a fake name for SA. Use fake address and NEW pictures (blur the face).
This will work.
GG.
A 31 yo fat girl wants 800? There's simply no words for that level of delusion. That's the thing, there's nothing stopping girls from asking for the moon on SA. No matter how many times they claim their time is valuable, in reality it's worth exactly what they get in their shitty jobs working at the mall or waitressing. And that's around minimum wage. So yeah, they can spend hours and hours wasting their time on SA. Why should they care? Their time is worth so little.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4139386][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/489b9a5f-5299-4512-96f2-826858d04399[/URL]
Hi.
I'm going to be upfront to save us time. I'm new here and don't want to waste either of our time. My ppm is 800. This is not to say if something were to continue and become a regular thing that we both enjoy but one does not know whether or not something is to continue until it happens so that's where I currently stand. Prior to now I wasn't being this upfront with people but I met someone today who wanted to do 300 for ppm and honestly it was a waste of time. As I'm not doing that. So just wanted to not waste your time.
Thank god she didn't waste my time. LOL.[/QUOTE]
My live-in likes to think of herself as a barbie doll. A lot of girls have this fantasy. Here is her latest incarnation.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;4138662]They are matching you based on information you are unaware that you are providing.
Use a VPN service to mask your IP.
Use Incognito Mode in your browser, Chrome or Firefox suggested, not IE / Edge / Safari.
Use a different (new) email address.
Use a Vanilla One card (can also use this same card to buy VPN services).
Use a different phone number, even in messages you send to other members (use a secondary phone app ontop of your phone or a burner phone).
*tracfone can be had for about $100 + $125 for a year of prepaid service OR a few dollars a month for a phone app.
Use a different name.
Use different photos (crop reverse, and rename existing photos so they can't match based on photo contents).
If you do all of the above, they can't match you.[/QUOTE]All of the above is good advice. There are some alternate browsers like Brave that block ads by default. I wouldn't suggest Chrome at this point as Google is tracking everything that you do regardless. Not that it would matter in this specific instance, they just aren't a good or transparent player when it comes to privacy. Don't use their email services, either. If you run Firefox, at a minimum install some privacy extensions like Ublock Origin (blocks ads), Privacy Badger (Stops internet trackers), HTTPS Everywhere (Tries to keep you on encrypted sites if they are available), DuckDuckGo has a good privacy advice plugin as well. Use the DuckDuckGo search engine as an alternative to Google / Bing / Yahoo when you can. Install Facebook Containers Plugin to keep their prying eyes out of your business. Remember that Instagram and Whatsapp all belong to Facebook. Hell, at this point I wouldn't even suggest an Android based phone. Go for an Iphone SE or a used iphone6. Apple is much more interested in preserving your privacy. I know Google Voice is convenient, but avoid it if you can.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4132514]I never seem to tire of the petite spinners. 5'2" Supposed to see her tomorrow night.[/QUOTE]Whatever happened with that one, did she flake out or did she go through with the date? If so what was the dmg on that?
[QUOTE=Modar;4139782]All of the above is good advice. There are some alternate browsers like Brave that block ads by default. I wouldn't suggest Chrome at this point as Google is tracking everything that you do regardless. Not that it would matter in this specific instance, they just aren't a good or transparent player when it comes to privacy. Don't use their email services, either. If you run Firefox, at a minimum install some privacy extensions like Ublock Origin (blocks ads), Privacy Badger (Stops internet trackers), HTTPS Everywhere (Tries to keep you on encrypted sites if they are available), DuckDuckGo has a good privacy advice plugin as well. Use the DuckDuckGo search engine as an alternative to Google / Bing / Yahoo when you can. Install Facebook Containers Plugin to keep their prying eyes out of your business. Remember that Instagram and Whatsapp all belong to Facebook. Hell, at this point I wouldn't even suggest an Android based phone. Go for an Iphone SE or a used iphone6. Apple is much more interested in preserving your privacy. I know Google Voice is convenient, but avoid it if you can.[/QUOTE]This is all super great advice in reply to my problem, thanks guys. I currently have implemented a private VPN and so far so good. Account was immediately approved in all areas so that's a good sign.
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4140325]Whatever happened with that one, did she flake out or did she go through with the date? If so what was the dmg on that?[/QUOTE]The agreed upon rate is a $ as usual. But she is not exactly next door to me and as a first time date I would need a room. So the bottom line. Due to the extra time and expense I have shined her on for now. She is a UTR... so she is not going anywhere. I can tap that ass anytime. And I would like to, but the girl in post 3668 is in my area and 5 years younger (18). I missed her today, but may try to see her tomorrow at least for an M&G. She is about as fresh as they come.
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4140329]This is all super great advice in reply to my problem, thanks guys. I currently have implemented a private VPN and so far so good. Account was immediately approved in all areas so that's a good sign.[/QUOTE]Awesome. Please keep us updated and quit being so bold online. Take these girls to email or txt when getting specific.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4140935]Awesome. Please keep us updated and quit being so bold online. Take these girls to email or txt when getting specific.[/QUOTE]Dude I swear literally I never even said anything to anybody. I never gave out any specifics I never did anything, I literally didn't even have a premium account yet so I couldn't even pm anyone. The staff who moderate SA seeking are a pack of monkeys swinging from trees and randomly banning people all over the place for no reason.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4140933]The agreed upon rate is a $ as usual. But she is not exactly next door to me and as a first time date I would need a room. So the bottom line. Due to the extra time and expense I have shined her on for now. She is a UTR... so she is not going anywhere. I can tap that ass anytime. And I would like to, but the girl in post 3668 is in my area and 5 years younger (18). I missed her today, but may try to see her tomorrow at least for an M&G. She is about as fresh as they come.[/QUOTE]Okay I have this one question that's really been burning in my mind. Suppose you set up the date and get the room, usually how much time do you get with the girl? Like are you still only getting an hour or is it more or what is usually implied by a "date"? The reason I ask is because I've only ever used pros and of course with them it's always a rate for a half hour or hour. I'm wondering if things are different when you have a SB?
[QUOTE=GoodBoy88;4141100]Okay I have this one question that's really been burning in my mind. Suppose you set up the date and get the room, usually how much time do you get with the girl? Like are you still only getting an hour or is it more or what is usually implied by a "date"? The reason I ask is because I've only ever used pros and of course with them it's always a rate for a half hour or hour. I'm wondering if things are different when you have a SB?[/QUOTE]The rooms I rent are for 2 hours. So I try to use up the the whole two hours. They may be UTR/pro or SB. The UTR/pro is going to go for an hour to 90 minutes. The SB usually the whole two hours. I like to get busy in minutes, so no time wasted. With a regular SB I will get a room for the night to ensure multiple (at least two romps in the sheets) Three if I can manage it.