VIP is very well reviewed. Surprised you were surprised
[QUOTE=TommyBoy61;3743471]While in town for business decided to call on VIP. Message was good, but let's be honest that wasn't the motivating factor to going. If your into a good message than this is the place to go in Wilmington! Thought the entire process was way to long, and no touching on my part was quite the downer! Don't get me wrong, it ended with a "happy ending" but not what I was looking for. Place was clean, very large, many rooms and if in a pinch would go back.[/QUOTE]When you type on a page, with no voice inflections or facial expressions, it is easy to be misunderstood (They say only about 40% of communication is the verbiage, and the rest is "non-verbal" communication through tone, inflection, smiles, voice level etc. , so it is very easy to be misunderstood, when we write and don't have a chance to speak face to face. First I want to say that nothing in this comment is meant to reflect on you and I hope it doesn't sound like a negative comment. It just seems like this is a very teachable moment. How many time has somebody reply "READ THE BOARD (they may even and an adjective. " But there are MANY reviews about VIP! And all most all of them state to expect. Your exact experience! Nearly every review sounds exactly like the experience outlined in your review. So I somewhat confused that your confused by the level of service or menu options. Many of us have stated there is no chance that YMMV. Everybody, well everyone that is not a jerk (I suppose you could be thrown out (Obviously you were not, so you weren't a jerk), I've never seen security, but given their level of patronage I suspect they have that covered) can expect exactly the level of service you described, "Nothing more, and short of being a jerk, nothing less. " You description sounds like every other review, with the exception that you were surprised there was nothing else. Many of us have given very factual reviews of VIP, because we care for the ladies there and don't want them to feel they disappointed a customer. And we don't want a customer to put them in a position where the lady herself feels like they are being put in and uncomfortable situation. I don't care where or what the situation is, even in this hobby, it is important that TWO, or more, consenting adults have a meeting of the minds and are both happy with the way the game is played. Yung won't insult you by saying anything nasty, but she will position her body in a way that indicates she is not a huge fan of, nor does she particularly appreciate roaming hand. Once the point is made, I think a gentleman doesn't continue to try and "force" his hand where they have been told they are not appreciated. After the first visit then you can vote with you dollars, as to whether or not you go back. But I think most of us regulars at VIP are very happy with the overall experience verses the cost of services. I fact I think most like myself would be very displeased if we found out any of those lady were being treated like anything other than a lady.