Some help much appreciated
Hi, I just flew in to Baltimore and I'm only staying for the night, I was wondering if possible can someone share digits with me in pm so I can have some company. I never post so I apologize for the newbie status and I understand if you don't want to share, from what I read now I completely understand. I appreciate the help.
Be safe
Yep, this forum is now full of clowns
[QUOTE=Cls9637; 1719261]I have always been generous with sharing numbers with qualified seniors, but I think that's over. I shared Jackii's with several people who I thought would be responsible with it, but I was apparently wrong. She called me yesterday to tell me about an experience she had. One of those "seniors" texted her several times around 3 AM the other morning, waking her up. She finally gave up and answered and agreed to meet him. They agreed on a cost and what was going to happen. When they got to Tim's he decided to only pay half up front, and wanted more than what they agreed on before he would give her they other half afterward.
I agree that with a girl you don't know that you find on the street that you never pay the whole amount up front. But this girl is known to many, has been recommended by many and is certainly not known as a rip-off girl. She is known as an easy-going girl who is a very good provider. In a case like this it's not necessary to withhold payment. Plus, when you agree on what she will provide you definitely shouldn't withhold payment and at the same time decide you want more than the two of you agreed but still for the same price.
Although she told me who it was I am considering the idea to just stop being so generous with anyone. This isn't the first time that a guy who got a number from me did something like this but it may be the last.[/QUOTE]Totally agree with Cls here. I've been too soft-hearted and helped out quite a few folks here in the forum hook up with some real nice gals out there and some of these clowns would then go around and snitch or be totally disrepectful to the ladies. From now on I would stop posting info on new gals and only share intel through pm. Those of you who got my pm know what I am talking about.
There's always an asshole in the bunch
[QUOTE=CEL123;1719272]Thanks CLS. I figured you already knew, you always seem to be up to speed on most things. And thanks for all your help in the past. Sorry to hear about the problem you ran into with Jackii. People always seem to mess things up for all of us. Be safe and take care.[/QUOTE]You have been helping people a long time. And a lot of us have really enjoyed your comments and pics, They have been pleasurable informative and entertaining. I am a long time monger and was a senior member and I had to change my name when I got this on the computer. I just couldn't log into the same name. Anyway keep up the good work guys.
It's the 5% problem everywhere you go.
Greetings,
Kim Park, CLS and others, I agree there is no question that this forum has its share of jerks. Some guys have taken advantage of the free flow of information found here and exploited some of the providers as well as the Seniors that have furnished the information. But to see this problem as something that only affects this site is IMHO, blind. For every 5 jerks who actually misuse the intel, there are probably 95 guys who behave like "honorable" mongers. Using and abusing others for selfish reasons is not a distinctively "monger" or for that matter a male trait, it is a human trait which most humans are able to resist. Just my observation, but it's no different at work or in your neighborhood in that there always seems to be about 5% jerks that muck it up for everyone else.
So I'm wondering if the same sort of thing that is done in other social arenas would work here. When these guys are identified, and you need to be certain, start isolating them. Share no information, don't respond to PMs, don't comment on their posts unless it's a brief dismissive comment like "RUBBISH" or BS. Can we close ranks and stop these jerks by excluding them without changing the tenor of this forum?
Uncle