"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3336654]LOL. Are you saying she responded after reading your Post here?[/QUOTE]No. Definitely not. But it was an interesting bit of timing. To that point she messaged again this morning addressing the specific shortcoming on her part. I am active on two locations, richmond (the SA godfather forum) and raleigh (my local bowl). I post my more philosophical thoughts on Richmond to facilitate thought provoking topics. I post on my local board to help with intel on POTS and to give advice on research techniques. My # 1 has only been on SA for a month, although she has been extremely active in the lifestyle for several years. It's technically possible she knows of the the usasg SA richmond forum, but unlikely. I personally have been promoting intel teamwork on the NC forum, including some active PMing among the brothers there. Every so often I wonder if we are being catfished by a SB. Especially when I see 0 posts, or even less than 5.

[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3336559]Isn't another option getting a hotel room?[/QUOTE]No question, getting a hotel is still an option. Last year I arranged an fmf about 5 times. Always in a nice hotel room (laquinta, sleep inn, comfort suites, etc), typically with my # 1 (at the time) and a POT who did not know us until the M & G immediately prior to the FC. Typically I would have been providing $$ to my # 1 but for the fmf play date would provide $. 5 to each SB. I now have two different SBs that I see weekly, both are bi-sexual and both host at their apt. One is a sub, the other is a fem domme. (I am not quite ready to put them together in the same FC yet). So at the moment I am looking at both the economics (two times 300 plus hotel expense per week equals almost 800 a week) and the more flexible timing during the day of the play date. I don't think I could really pull of two different fmf play dates every week but it is fascinating to know the number of bi-girls on the SA site who are down for it.

I have 2 POTs that I'm actively chatting with and would potentially be ready for FC date. But the challenge I'm facing is that they have night shift jobs and have limited availability during day time hours. Obviously I can't take them home LOL and usually, I book a hotel through a discount App such as Priceline or [URL]Hotels.com[/URL]. However, these are only available for check-in time of 3 pm or later. And, I don't think I should risk booking a day in advance and risk losing the money if the POT turns up to be a no show. I have also looked at some of the short-stay Notel options. In general they don't appear cool or rather look more shady and I wouldn't want to risk taking the POTs atleast during the first meet. I also checked out Apps suggested here such as Beewake and Hotelsbyday. Either the short-stay prices are as much as the full day price or don't have availability in the Chicago area where I'm looking at. I'm sure this topic must have been discussed here before and also feel some of the seniors might have figured out better solutions to this. Pl. Let me know if you think there are some other options that I may not have considered!

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3337126]I have 2 POTs that I'm actively chatting with and would potentially be ready for FC date. But the challenge I'm facing is that they have night shift jobs and have limited availability during day time hours. Obviously I can't take them home LOL and usually, I book a hotel through a discount App such as Priceline or [URL]Hotels.com[/URL]. However, these are only available for check-in time of 3 pm or later. And, I don't think I should risk booking a day in advance and risk losing the money if the POT turns up to be a no show. I have also looked at some of the short-stay Notel options. In general they don't appear cool or rather look more shady and I wouldn't want to risk taking the POTs atleast during the first meet. I also checked out Apps suggested here such as Beewake and Hotelsbyday. Either the short-stay prices are as much as the full day price or don't have availability in the Chicago area where I'm looking at. I'm sure this topic must have been discussed here before and also feel some of the seniors might have figured out better solutions to this. Pl. Let me know if you think there are some other options that I may not have considered![/QUOTE]Not everyone can make a schedule work so move on to the ones that do work for you. The other option is to ask if a certain notel is acceptable to them. Explain those are the only ones that will work with your schedules.

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3337126]I have 2 POTs that I'm actively chatting with and would potentially be ready for FC date. But the challenge I'm facing is that they have night shift jobs and have limited availability during day time hours. Obviously I can't take them home LOL and usually, I book a hotel through a discount App such as Priceline or [URL]Hotels.com[/URL]. However, these are only available for check-in time of 3 pm or later. And, I don't think I should risk booking a day in advance and risk losing the money if the POT turns up to be a no show. I have also looked at some of the short-stay Notel options. In general they don't appear cool or rather look more shady and I wouldn't want to risk taking the POTs atleast during the first meet. I also checked out Apps suggested here such as Beewake and Hotelsbyday. Either the short-stay prices are as much as the full day price or don't have availability in the Chicago area where I'm looking at. I'm sure this topic must have been discussed here before and also feel some of the seniors might have figured out better solutions to this. Pl. Let me know if you think there are some other options that I may not have considered![/QUOTE]I read this posted by someone else, but it's easier to just recall than to find it. I do this also. I get the price from [URL]hotels.com[/URL], but then call the hotel directly and ask for the internet rate, quoting the price I got online. That usually works. Then, I have the clerk on the phone and ask if I could also get early checkin. For chains I have used, Staybridge and Comfort, this has always been possible. I show up at 1, my SB (InlandRED, the smoking hot MILF) arrives shortly after, and we can boink until she has to pick her daughter up at school at 4.

[QUOTE=GeorgeRichmond;3336236]I have all real names. And funny SBs gave me their real names. WOW. Can you share link for search? I went to VA court system sites but can't find a place to search.[/QUOTE]Google Va Court, click in case status and information, select District or Circuit Court case information. That takes you to a "type in the text you see" page. After that you will see a page with a drop down menu on left to select the county court you want. Select the county or city and then click "name search" under traffic / civil. That opens a page to enter name. PM me if you still need help.

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3337126]I have 2 POTs that I'm actively chatting with and would potentially be ready for FC date. But the challenge I'm facing is that they have night shift jobs and have limited availability during day time hours. Obviously I can't take them home LOL and usually, I book a hotel through a discount App such as Priceline or [URL]Hotels.com[/URL]. However, these are only available for check-in time of 3 pm or later. And, I don't think I should risk booking a day in advance and risk losing the money if the POT turns up to be a no show. I have also looked at some of the short-stay Notel options. In general they don't appear cool or rather look more shady and I wouldn't want to risk taking the POTs atleast during the first meet. I also checked out Apps suggested here such as Beewake and Hotelsbyday. Either the short-stay prices are as much as the full day price or don't have availability in the Chicago area where I'm looking at. I'm sure this topic must have been discussed here before and also feel some of the seniors might have figured out better solutions to this. Pl. Let me know if you think there are some other options that I may not have considered![/QUOTE]I have booked through hotwire and been able to check-in early. (noon a couple of times) I have also used [URL]entertainment.com[/URL], not that great of a discount, usually 10-20%, but you do know the hotel. I called one place and as long as a clean room available, you can get there early. Congrats on finding some POTs in the Chicago area, I am in a huge slump!

Thanks all for providing some great inputs. I'll try out Hotwire and Entertainment sites as well. Also, I think its a great idea to call the hotel directly and have them price match an online rate and also request for an early check-in. I would imagine that the Hotel management would happily do that. Once I booked a $49 rate for a milwaukee Marriott Residency Inn property on Priceline. The manager was shocked that it was offered so low. For comparison, the corporate discount rate that my Client was getting at that property was $113 which was about 20% cheaper than market rate. Guess how much the hotel was making on the Priceline deal. A mere $28 - I learned from the Manager. So it is obvious the Hotel would rather take the money directly from you instead of getting only about 50% of that from a online booking agency.

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3337126]I have 2 POTs that I'm actively chatting with and would potentially be ready for FC date. But the challenge I'm facing is that they have night shift jobs and have limited availability during day time hours. Obviously I can't take them home LOL and usually, I book a hotel through a discount App such as Priceline or [URL]Hotels.com[/URL]. However, these are only available for check-in time of 3 pm or later. And, I don't think I should risk booking a day in advance and risk losing the money if the POT turns up to be a no show. I have also looked at some of the short-stay Notel options. In general they don't appear cool or rather look more shady and I wouldn't want to risk taking the POTs atleast during the first meet. I also checked out Apps suggested here such as Beewake and Hotelsbyday. Either the short-stay prices are as much as the full day price or don't have availability in the Chicago area where I'm looking at. I'm sure this topic must have been discussed here before and also feel some of the seniors might have figured out better solutions to this. Pl. Let me know if you think there are some other options that I may not have considered![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3338045]Thanks all for providing some great inputs. I'll try out Hotwire and Entertainment sites as well. Also, I think its a great idea to call the hotel directly and have them price match an online rate and also request for an early check-in. I would imagine that the Hotel management would happily do that. Once I booked a $49 rate for a milwaukee Marriott Residency Inn property on Priceline. The manager was shocked that it was offered so low. For comparison, the corporate discount rate that my Client was getting at that property was $113 which was about 20% cheaper than market rate. Guess how much the hotel was making on the Priceline deal. A mere $28 - I learned from the Manager. So it is obvious the Hotel would rather take the money directly from you instead of getting only about 50% of that from a online booking agency.[/QUOTE]The problem w / Hotwire is the business of not knowing the specific place until after you are committed. For those of us w / SOs, knowing we are going to be able to book the room essentially anonymously is key. I can do that w / some locations of some chains, but not all. Experience at the particular hotel is more important than anything.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3338553]The problem w / Hotwire is the business of not knowing the specific place until after you are committed. For those of us w / SOs, knowing we are going to be able to book the room essentially anonymously is key. I can do that w / some locations of some chains, but not all. Experience at the particular hotel is more important than anything.[/QUOTE]Depending on what city you are dealing with, you can usually tell what hotel it is by the previous description and price from when you first got it booked. I have been getting a Sheraton now for a couple of months at $68 during the week if I book the day before. Two or more days out and it was $105. So last minute bookings are best. Only limited success the day of as rooms fill up and the hotel's quota of Hotwire rooms is filled. I only use Hotwire for women I have seen multiple times so I have some level of trust with them. I know, I know "trust no one".

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3337126]I have 2 POTs that I'm actively chatting with and would potentially be ready for FC date. But the challenge I'm facing is that they have night shift jobs and have limited availability during day time hours. Obviously I can't take them home LOL and usually, I book a hotel through a discount App such as Priceline or [URL]Hotels.com[/URL]. However, these are only available for check-in time of 3 pm or later. And, I don't think I should risk booking a day in advance and risk losing the money if the POT turns up to be a no show. I have also looked at some of the short-stay Notel options. In general they don't appear cool or rather look more shady and I wouldn't want to risk taking the POTs atleast during the first meet. I also checked out Apps suggested here such as Beewake and Hotelsbyday. Either the short-stay prices are as much as the full day price or don't have availability in the Chicago area where I'm looking at. I'm sure this topic must have been discussed here before and also feel some of the seniors might have figured out better solutions to this. Pl. Let me know if you think there are some other options that I may not have considered![/QUOTE]All of my contacts are daytime visits, so I know the issues. I do a lot of morning meetings, so I will book the hotel and check in the day before and request a late checkout. They never deny that request. Usually if you ask about an early check in they are non-commital, they will do it if they have a clean room available. I have been left hanging in the lobby of a Hilton with a solid 10 swimsuit model because of this, so I am leary about setting a nooner or 1 pm meeting time. There are a couple scuzzier places, Days Inn type that the manager will find you a room any time of day if you show up with cash, but that is for a regular that isn't going to care that the room stinks or the carpet is dirty. Daytime meetings are doable.

I use Marriott hotels and the Marriott app. I can check in the day before as early as 8 or 9 AM. I do that frankly just to get away from time to time or get work done so not worried about wife questioning it. Can get great Rates on weekends -- Friday to Saturday is best because I can basically get all day Friday there and with a late checkout sometimes a Saturday as well. But it does sacrifice anonymity.

Is great for finding out what hotels are available on priceline and hotwire for different cities. Its been very accurate for me in the Boston and Providence area.

Agree. I plan on taking this approach as well for my regulars. However, for the first time meet 'Guyinthecorner's approach of booking a regular hotel like Marriott might work better as I believe they allow cancellation until 4 or 6 pm on the day of check-in. I believe even Priceline had this value-added feature on some of their instant booking hotels. This would be helpful if the POT ends up being a no-show.

[QUOTE=Beachesnole02;3338845]All of my contacts are daytime visits, so I know the issues. I do a lot of morning meetings, so I will book the hotel and check in the day before and request a late checkout. They never deny that request. Usually if you ask about an early check in they are non-commital, they will do it if they have a clean room available. I have been left hanging in the lobby of a Hilton with a solid 10 swimsuit model because of this, so I am leary about setting a nooner or 1 pm meeting time. There are a couple scuzzier places, Days Inn type that the manager will find you a room any time of day if you show up with cash, but that is for a regular that isn't going to care that the room stinks or the carpet is dirty. Daytime meetings are doable.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for posting this. I have read about this service before but had forgotten about its existence and usefulness!

[QUOTE=Rome400;3339362]Is great for finding out what hotels are available on priceline and hotwire for different cities. Its been very accurate for me in the Boston and Providence area.[/QUOTE]