NoVA SugarBabies

[QUOTE=PRMan12;6929260]Read my previous posts, sensing a little animosity, which will just make me post little; genuinely trying to get more out of the board. The more that share, the more will share. And just met with 2 more since last post and 3 more in the next 5 lined up.

Not all have led to FC, bailed on 1, 2 met and wasn't into, sent home with hugs; 2 wanted 2nd date, one which we had and was great, the other planned for later this week.

One was not good but FC anyway, should have bailed. Its about the adventure. And no one on the DC board cares about fla. All good my man.[/QUOTE]If you really want to help people, give the link to profile on the sugar site, or take a screenshot of it and post it, and then give comments on the girl and what happened to you. Especially, the ones that can be discarded are very helpful to know about. And I am not in DC, I am not even on that coast, but I read sugar threads broadly. I would not benefit from anything you say, but the other readers of this board would.

[QUOTE=PRMan12;6929245]I'll have to humbly disagree. I have a few go to spots, where I like to meet, feel these women out, and if over an $60-$80 dinner, its a no go, then move on. I usually get there early, so if its a complete catfish situation, you can bail, and just let the waitress know. Like I said I have a good system, but who really wants to meet at Starbucks??[/QUOTE]That's great that you have a system that works for you. Personally, shelling out $60 - $80 seems excessive for a first meet. It's not that I can't afford it. But as another member pointed out earlier, some women just want a free meal with zero intention of going through a future arrangement. I don't run a charity. Just like most women don't offer play without pay, they've got to realize that it works both ways. I won't supplement their lifestyle without getting something in return. And contrary to what they (or anyone else) says, a SB's time is not more valuable than mine. If they really believe that, then they need to stop using the line "mutually beneficial. ".

Hence why Starbucks (or some other similar coffee joint) has worked well for me thus far. I also make it more convenient by offering to meet at the closest one to their place. This not only makes it easier for them to say yes, but it also increases the chances of heading back to their place instead of mine. Coffee isn't that expensive, and you will have gotten the chance to see if they truly look like their pictures, can carry a decent conversation, and easily negotiate the arrangement. Also, there's no concern about leaving if the situation calls for it (no wait staff nor bill to pay, after all).

[QUOTE=PRMan12;6929279]Bro, not trying to be argumentative at all and I appreciate your lengthy response; but I thought I had a decent post not too long ago, and just trying to get the board active again, thanks for your post on the Baltimore girl, that was a good contribution.[/QUOTE]In hindsight, I can see how my earlier response came across as harsh, and I apologize. It's not my intent to make you feel like you can't share your experiences. My only issue is when guys come to these forums, toot their horn about how awesome they are in the hobby, then ask a bunch of questions without offering much intel in return. I won't say the user's name here who first comes to mind, but I think most seniors know who I'm talking about (allegedly frequents SBs in New York, claims most women should be paying him, and conveniently leaves out links or any useful intel more often than not).

When I first started out here, I made sure to share the good, the bad, and the ugly in detailed reports (sometimes excessively so). Started out with the various Asian agencies, visited a few massage parlors, avoided the streetwalking scene, dabbled in the odd strip club or two, and then finally stumbled my way into the Seeking game. Like I mentioned before, there were some women whom I chose not to report on simply because I wanted a repeat performance or keep them sorta UTR. Everyone does that, and it's understandable.

But if someone writes about those great experiences the majority of the time with minimal useful details, then that gets old quick. Hence why you see reports here of SBs who ask too much, ghost, or try to run a scam. We're trying to save each other's time and money by avoiding duds. And on the rare occasion, it could save you from getting jumped & mugged (like what happened a couple years back when some random ***** at a World Market in Reston got some guy friends to help her rob johns in parking lots). So feel free to share whatever you're comfortable with, including the bad experiences. If you're 100% positive that you're done seeing a SB, write about it here or in a PM.

Hope this clears a few things up. I wish you (and others here) the best this summer, stay safe, and enjoy life to the fullest. Cheers!

Not even a day passes after telling someone to avoid sending money upfront before meeting--and my dumbass just ignored my own goddamn advice. That's the problem with thinking with the little head instead of the bigger one above shoulders. Lesson learned, and I hope this serves as a warning to everyone!

Gloria, Washington D. C. ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c3e45256-2b0a-4e62-9068-058c37525944[/URL]).

Reached out earlier today & she readily offered her Snap (feel free to DM for that info since I can't share publicly). Talked pretty dirty & sent a few great pics with some NSFW. At some point in the convo, it all felt too good to be true, particularly after she asked for an advance via CashApp. So I asked for a pic of her holding up three fingers. She obliged, and she looked as advertised. Against my better judgment, I sent the 30. We then made tentative plans to meet next week for 300 PPM.

After more dirty talk & pics, she then asked for another 10! I shot back that 30 was already a compromise & that I normally never send a penny without meeting in-person. While she pleaded for that extra 10, I received an alert from CashApp saying it had [U]refunded my 30 due to suspicious activity with the recipient.[/U] Immediately, I blocked her on all platforms then shook my head in disbelief. I really just fucking fell for that nonsense like a total noob. How could I have been such a careless dupe?

So again, [U]do not send an advance of any kind until you've at least met in-person.[/U] And no, video calls do not count. You probably shouldn't send any money until you're both in the FC anyway, but I get that some will disagree. Also, big shoutout to CashApp for that lightning-quick refund & looking out for me. God knows I didn't deserve it!

Thanks for the heads up. Another big red flag was only one pic and no profile description. I have learnt that 99% of these are scammers as they cannot take couple of minutes to write about themselves.

[QUOTE=Shinshi;6930218]Not even a day passes after telling someone to avoid sending money upfront before meeting--and my dumbass just ignored my own goddamn advice. That's the problem with thinking with the little head instead of the bigger one above shoulders. Lesson learned, and I hope this serves as a warning to everyone!

Gloria, Washington D. C. ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c3e45256-2b0a-4e62-9068-058c37525944[/URL]).

Reached out earlier today & she readily offered her Snap (feel free to DM for that info since I can't share publicly). Talked pretty dirty & sent a few great pics with some NSFW. At some point in the convo, it all felt too good to be true, particularly after she asked for an advance via CashApp. So I asked for a pic of her holding up three fingers. She obliged, and she looked as advertised. Against my better judgment, I sent the 30. We then made tentative plans to meet next week for 300 PPM.

After more dirty talk & pics, she then asked for another 10! I shot back that 30 was already a compromise & that I normally never send a penny without meeting in-person. While she pleaded for that extra 10, I received an alert from CashApp saying it had [U]refunded my 30 due to suspicious activity with the recipient.[/U] Immediately, I blocked her on all platforms then shook my head in disbelief. I really just fucking fell for that nonsense like a total noob. How could I have been such a careless dupe?

So again, [U]do not send an advance of any kind until you've at least met in-person.[/U] And no, video calls do not count. You probably shouldn't send any money until you're both in the FC anyway, but I get that some will disagree. Also, big shoutout to CashApp for that lightning-quick refund & looking out for me. God knows I didn't deserve it![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Joe1278;6930325]Thanks for the heads up. Another big red flag was only one pic and no profile description. I have learnt that 99% of these are scammers as they cannot take couple of minutes to write about themselves.[/QUOTE]People like you send $.

For gods sake, stop sending money to the internet!

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;6930407]People like you send $.

For gods sake, stop sending money to the internet![/QUOTE]Add this to your profile now.

" Note: Not looking to buy content, and don't send $ to those I have never met in person. ".

And stick to it.

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;6930414]Add this to your profile now.

" Note: Not looking to buy content, and don't send $ to those I have never met in person. ".

And stick to it.[/QUOTE]Don't send gifts, don't send anything, including Uber gift certificates. NOTHING!

The GUYS you are chatting with have a very low target for success. Get three dummies to send 25 bucks, and they tripled their income in bumfuck.

Wise up!

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;6930414]Add this to your profile now.

" Note: Not looking to buy content, and don't send $ to those I have never met in person. ".

And stick to it.[/QUOTE]Don't send gifts, don't send anything, including Uber gift certificates. NOTHING!

The GUYS you are chatting with have a very low target for success. Get three nubes to send 25 bucks, and they tripled their income in god knows where.

Wise up!

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;6930422]Don't send gifts, don't send anything, including Uber gift certificates. NOTHING!

The GUYS you are chatting with have a very low target for success. Get three nubes to send 25 bucks, and they tripled their income in god knows where.

Wise up![/QUOTE]If you think sending $ prior to meeting is somehow going to effect your success, I am living proof it is not.

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;6930414]Add this to your profile now.

" Note: Not looking to buy content, and don't send $ to those I have never met in person. ".

And stick to it.[/QUOTE]That's a great line, I have something similar I had already added a few weeks back.

Great BJ skills, overall she's a pleaser.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f2b6d7c3-6ce4-4c7b-b6f9-34f53d64011e[/URL]

Any info on gorgeousgeek.

Seems older than 31.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8b0b54fb-ae38-44ae-bf9d-59f27a4afd19[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dbe0668a-bd12-4112-8cf1-29725a4486cd[/URL]

Negotiated PPM was 400 and DTF. Decent convo. Have not pulled pulled the trigger yet and on sidelines.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6125e63f-348f-4cad-ac42-7c410abbe981[/URL]

Initial convo was good. No allowance discussed. She is always online maybe a BOT.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/66390b7e-1dd6-4906-b9d2-685c331a095c[/URL]

Looked like a cut and paste message for 1400 PPM. Didn't respond.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19c21679-5b4f-4d16-97db-2410a9e8c7c2[/URL]

Met her for 300. Average BBBJ. She said she dropped 40 Lbs. Lot of tummy. Wished I had not.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/4191e132-6733-4858-b45e-36af07c7a12b[/URL]

She blocked me suggesting she is not a escort after I suggested if intimacy was on the cards and if we could meet for drinks and move to a hotel.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/349741d8-7c6b-416e-bf1d-a8bdad01436b[/URL]

Older in Real life. Was 400. Decent experience.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/60a1b8aa-ff58-4c2f-9567-bb62aada9a44[/URL]

Good convo, planning to meet? Any inter, no ppm discussed yet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2f069428-4149-422c-b5b4-1b380f830939[/URL]

Messaging a bunch, haven't met yet. Seems definitely real.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/30851d75-a3d7-4092-b07a-1e16bf4a08e4[/URL]

Real, planning to meet but haven't pulled the trigger yet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/a69cb528-64eb-4454-a149-85d9a2648784[/URL]

Wants to video chat, wanted additional pictures, too many rules, haven't pulled the trigger.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ca3b53a-98b5-4712-9b8b-4a66082974ef[/URL]

Strange convos, can't tell if she is real or not yet.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35c5ab3d-c5c8-41e0-9d5c-4e90691e772f[/URL]

Good Convo planning to meet.

Hotgirlsummerforever.

Good Convo but additional pics not great.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dd6bb2bd-a403-4e08-9725-4f92a1f19c4f[/URL]

Seems like a scammer, wants $ upfront, did a video call so she is real, wants to move WhatsApp or Snap.

Happy hunting. Over and out.

[QUOTE=BuckNaked84;6930414]Add this to your profile now.

" Note: Not looking to buy content, and don't send $ to those I have never met in person. ".

And stick to it.[/QUOTE]The scammers are not reading your profile.

[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;6930901]The scammers are not reading your profile.[/QUOTE]They might be. I put something akin to this statement in my profile months ago and my rate of scammer contacts is nearing zero now.