Nature / bait switch, what the f*
Bros, Don't go to nature / I called for Sommie / soda, they said she was working. While waiting for Soomie / Soda, I was watching the Monitor that they have in the room and SOME FOOL HOPPED THE COUNTER AND LURKS AROUND, AND HAS THE BALLS TO COME BACK IN AS A CUSTOMER, WTF!! I WANTED TO leave, but then money hungry MASSUES said" oh, wait, wait,. JUST WAIT. . OK, THEN waited and came in some fat chick, what a Joke that was, , no turn on at all,. Just went with the flow. No Soomie that I saw in the house. Fuck it, I'll go to Right Spa next time. Did i go to the correct place where Soomie was working???
Thank you for answering every question
[QUOTE=CarlosD3;6905945]Soomi would probably be the hottest chick at Right Spa by a half mile. But at least for me she barely kissed and did not show the incredible enthusiasm of the RS ladies, notably that she didn't suggest we get married or that she loved me. So service for me would go RS but Soomi is now in the top 5 hottest chicks I've ever boned lifetime.
So don't choose, just go for it. And I don't see why she wouldn't do an hour, just get there early or on a weekend when it's slower. She's here for 10 days she said.[/QUOTE]Appreciate your info.
You sold me LOL.
Reason why I was considering is because OC is a drive for me. I'd have to go out of my way. But if it's truly worth it, the adventure is worth it.
If I lived in OC, my financial situation would be a lot more volatile LOL you guys have it great over here. My dumbass is still in LA, maybe for the best LOL.
Advice to Newer African American Mongers
[QUOTE=Hellfyreclub901;6902707]So my other experiences of getting turned away haven't been at AMPs (I'm still new to this, going to Right Spa would've been just my 4th AMP visit ever). They've been with sex workers on the internet who say "No African Americans" after I say my race or sex workers on Beach who see me and immediately look away.[/QUOTE]Hey, usual lurker here because I don't usually have any seasoned input, but this is a topic I can definitely provide some help with as I happen to be black. So here is some advice from a new monger (I've only been to about 17 different places), to newer mongers or guys who want to try it out and are black but don't know how it will affect them.
While OC Amper is 100% right that a few bad apples can ruin it for everyone especially in OC considering we are about 2% of the resident population. While that MAY cause you to get turned down, there are lots of things you can do to prevent this and receive service whenever you go out. As someone who's never been turned down, with the worst I've gotten being initial refusal when I asked for "bang bang" and then eventual agreement after making it clear that is the only service I would pay for (this happened once), it is 90% presentation and 10% location selection.
-Try to get a shower in if you hadn't that morning or the night before.
-Wear something nice. Not saying it has to be formal, I always go in street clothes, but instead of the hoodie, sweats, and vans opt for say the Nike, Gymshark, or any other nice name brand, some jeans / pajama pants, and Air Forces.
-Brush your teeth or at least get some gum in (obviously).
-Don't act jittery or aggressive, just relax and everyone else will too.
-A smile never hurt.
-When it gets down to it do not be rough, unless they ask / want you to.
-Being chatty is always a plus with these ladies.
-Try to cover any large tattoos initially, once they have taken you in there is no chance they will turn you down after they begin and finally notice them.
-Try to avoid VERY popular places, as the more popular, the more likely they have had a bad apple before and that won't help your chances. Stick with low volume to only relatively popular places (on and off days).
This is a compilation of all the general bad things black friends of mine have done while being turned down, and general advice they have given me. I am 5'10, bulky, and have dreads so if these tips have worked so well for me, there is no reason they shouldn't work for you. When it comes to escorts and hookers that's a whole different ball game, I'd need another post for that.
Good luck.
Gems that you don't like sharing
How many of you have found gems, but don't like to share because you don't want them to be overrun like Right and Nature? So, the last few months I've had a lot of free time and extra money from business, so I've been visiting 3-5 AMPs per week. I found a few lower traffic spas that had girls just as attractive and willing as the popular ones. However, I've also run into crappy ones with a few bad experiences.
Getting repetitive but made a promise
I envy you all who are strong enough to resist jumping on the bandwagon. My first visit to Right Spa was as good as I had imagined from reading all the posts. First I was greeted by Jojo. Perky, enthusiastic, grabbing my shoulder and giving me compliments. Starts with an ok massage that put some good pressure where I needed, and before I knew it she was teasing my balls in a way that I didn't know I needed haha. She lightly stroked her finger across my asshole (next time I'll see about asking for more there but I was sucked up in the moment). Transitions into nuru massage with her breasts rubbing ever so gently against my back. Gets up and asks if I want to eat her pussy. Although I'm new to AMPs I've always been pretty freaky so I don't really care what else has been in there earlier in the day (of course I know it's risky in terms of diseases and I make sure to get tested at least every 3 months, plus I'm on PrEP). We 69 for a good while. She is very aggressive with her head, which I actually didn't mind because it kept me from releasing too quickly. The next part was my favorite. Cowgirl where she's jumping up and down on her feet. Box was tight and felt amazing. Finished with her legs up in missionary. The day was slow (Saturday afternoon) and at the end, she brings out the entire lineup to seduce me into going for 2 or more girls next time. They are all bubbly, dancing, and they even gave me a preview of what having 2 girls kissing / giving me a BJ would be like. All in all amazing stuff, easily the best value I've found so far. Go see Jojo and the rest of the girls if you haven't already.
Soomi Nature / Green sign
Thanks to the homies who let us know Soomi is back at Nature on North Tustin. Same import model good looks as when she was known as "Soda. " Beautiful face, enhanced D-cups, got some booty too. Personality is cool though she may've been a little overbooked when I saw her. Didn't matter though. A fine chick like that who knows how to please and my experience was top notch. She's in town through the end of May. Peace!
Any good places in Laguna Hills and westminster
A body plus used to do He.
Looking for new places to try. There's a place off of Moulton and lake forest.
By the storage center.
$180 FS. Cute younger Chinese girls.
It's low key office type of area.
Oh yah. Muirlands and et road
Victoria spa offers younger girls.
There's like 4 Nuru places in there too.
Victoria offers FS. Total $190. Decent girls.
Melody spa. No FS. Tit play and jerk off $110.
Isn't this the medical building
[QUOTE=Iislali938;6903629]Good GFE with Braulia. The Victoria Spa on El Toro and Raton Dr in Lake Forest. About 30 ish years. Average in looks but made up in service and making things feel a bit more intimate. Instead of just giving some template on the message, she kept seeking some feedback from me which was great. After the flip the bbj was uh quite enthusiastic to say the least. A lot of drooling and gagging while staying locked in with my eyes. That alone really put me over the edge.[/QUOTE]They have like 5 Nuru places.
Kind of agree about not tipping upfront
[QUOTE=Doctorz;5347969]How can you improve your mileage? Don' t tip first and don't negotiate! Once the money is in hand there is no reason to perform. You have already paid. My take is that you treat a *** like a *** and a lady like a lady. That said, I will tip generously for good service. When I get rushed, jack hammered, left waiting while my masseuse answers the door or leaves the room for whatever during my time, I tip her with advice. That is it.[/QUOTE]You wrote the above three years ago. Do you still not tip upfront?