Feeling out outwardly legit therapists.
[QUOTE=Wetseeker; 1460754]I can only reply to question 1. Here are a few simple rules:
1. Be clean. That means showered, clean clothes and no vulgar language on your first visit.
2. If they have you take off all your clothes, that is a good sign.
3. If the lady leans into you on the massage see if you can rub your hand up and down her leg, this lets her know that you are interested in extras.
4. If she gets to the head of the table run your hands up her legs and gently squeeze her ass, this also lets her know that you want extras.
5. If she runs her hands up the inside of your legs when you are on your stomach, spread your legs more the higher she goes, making nice moans about how good that feels.
6. After 5 above she may do a nice finger tip massage, this is good, she will then ask you to flip.
7. Some ladies will go straight to the oil and your cock for a HJ, others may ask. Do some roaming see if they will take off any of their clothes.
8. Don't be vulgar use sex vs. F word, or you may not get, oral vs. Blow job. If you are a newbie, you may just end up with a fully clothed HJ the first time.
9. Don't haggle too much over price, Don't tell them the true amount of what you have in money. They may ask X you say Y and you might end settling on Z. Most ladies will negotiate down, but if you go to far down you may not get the same enthusiastic service.
10. Report back on this forum.
Wet[/QUOTE]This is indeed a great list. I fear that some CMTs will kick you out if they do not like #3 and 4, and you would miss out on a good legit massage. I've been thinking that maybe just let yourself get a hard on while on your front. After the flip, they will see it under the sheet. Legit CMTs will just have to ignore it. They can't say anything about it without breaking protocol. Our kind of CMTs, however, will probably end with something like "you want me to take care of that?" After that, you can openly discuss all possibilities. What do you guys think?
Ask a legit Masseuse the question. Do you feel lucky?
[QUOTE=Ampman44;1462778]This is indeed a great list. I fear that some CMTs will kick you out if they do not like #3 and 4, and you would miss out on a good legit massage. I've been thinking that maybe just let yourself get a hard on while on your front. After the flip, they will see it under the sheet. Legit CMTs will just have to ignore it. They can't say anything about it without breaking protocol. Our kind of CMTs, however, will probably end with something like "you want me to take care of that?" After that, you can openly discuss all possibilities. What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]Well stated reply to this awesome list.
"Our Kind of CMT's". Good point we know the type of "therapist" and the type of place to find.
I have been a forced hiatus due to finances and family circumstances. If money is tight for you experimentation is even tougher.
I have learned from past ecperiences to not fish where I won't get a good catch.
Go to a CMT if you seek a good massage.
That list of tips is good and I have used some of those techniques. Mostly in setting of "therapeutic AMP" settings. I ve gotten DIYs sometimes more but I couldn't imagine getting DIY's in most other therapeutic settings.
I have talked to legit licensed CMT's in the past. My sister had a good friend who was a CMT. She was also a trainer.
She was athletic and attractive too. I got a legit massage from her once.
But in the context of friendly chat with sis and her freinds about our jobs and we were asking her about her "hotness" and being a masseuse, how dealt with her male clients.
She also said the lure of "extra money " wasn't even a consideration to her or her other CMT friends.
Professional legit CMT's are not phased by a guy if he gets a woody or pitches a tent during a session. Experienced CMT's are aware that certain therapeutic "zones" can trigger erections and are not phased by it during a session if her male client respects her personal space and boundaries, plus she doesn't want him to feel embarrassed. Also she is still hoping for a nice "gratuity" still and repeat clientele.
I pitched a woody during a legit massage and I even told my masseuse I felt embarrassed and apologized. She told me I was far from the 1st guy that experienced that and not to sweat it. I even went back for follow up treatments because she was very professional about my reaction.
A legit CMT will terminate the session ASAP if any boundaries are challenged or threatened. Leaving you short on a massage and your money.
Cheers
Non. Asian Massage Parlor
[QUOTE=Mwooo;1466030]There are still at least 2 non-asian massage parlors operating in MA, reported on in this thread and / or in the Brockton thread.[/QUOTE]Mandala in newton is non-asian. I've heard mixed reviews, tried it and only got legit. But it was my first time so that may be why.
Heard of one from CL on the NH boarder. Planning on trying it soon, TOFTT.
Mapquested Simple Pleasures in RI, its pretty much on the border MA boarder. Again mixed reviews, but the idea of a lineup to choose from has me excited.