Welcome to our hobby. Ya know, it's interesting you ask how we know they aren't cops, because honestly, how do we know you aren't a cop looking to find ways to hide yourself from us in order to arrest us? In the end, you make a decision and leap or don't.
Recently, I found a girl on STG. It's a site mentioned on here a lot. Her rates were really low, and she was happy to talk about explicit things via text message. She was likely legit, but that sketched me out, because most girls won't discuss anything explicit over the phone or in texts.
In Indiana, the crime is in the agreement. What this means is that it doesn't matter if the act happens or not, if you agree to do it, trade favors for anything, you have committed a crime, so pigs can lock you up for the messages alone.
She likely didn't know this, but I was sketched out anyway. You also run in to guys who pose as girls to rob you, but honestly, the women I've ran in to here in town are all legit.
Remember, if she replies right away and the speech is weird, her rates are really low, and of course, if you have to send money up front via paypal or Cash App, that's a scam. I have talked to one girl who was legit and asked for a deposit, but she had reviews on another site.
I remember my first time though. It was in 2017, back in the backpage days. I kind of felt sorry for this girl, because she was so so skinny. I'm blind, but I felt her. She was definitly strung out on drugs. I hate to see that man.
If Anyone remembers her, she was Diamond. I remember meeting with her, and I was thinking, I just hope I don't get robbed or arrested. Even today, if I meet with a new girl, there's always that risk unless she has reviews on here or another site. Usually, I end-up happy I took the risk, but knock on wood. I'd hate to do it one more time and either end-up in jail or getting robbed.
Honestly, it might be embarrassing to get caught by pigs, but I'd hate to get robbed worse, because I don't know what those moreons will do. They might take my money and kill me anyway.
I wasn't doing the hobby when I was in a relationship, but my gf at the time worked with a guy who got killed over on E Missouri St. It was right in Jiimtown. He got stabbed by this woman, and her roommate went to jail for lieing to cops, so I don't know what that was about, but I can only imagine it was him trying to get some, and maybe she was paranoid on meth or something. I don't know, but she cut him, and he ran out in the street yelling for help. He bled to death. I'd rather go to jail, but either way, there are ways to try to negate the risk.
If the rates are too low, they seem eager to have you come over, if you call, and a dude answeres, I don't care if he claims to be her friend helping her out, there are a lot of things that stand out from other ads, and if too many of them pop up, look for reviews, maybe ask the rest of us, but if it comes down to it, just get with someone who's been reviewed. Even if she has bad reviews, at least you know she's legit.
[QUOTE=NewMan1995;5109663]Howdy everyone new to this whole thing looking for my first a little nervous tho don't really know how to go about it looking for any advice how do I know if they are cops or not?[/QUOTE].
