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[QUOTE=Skboy;1235418]Been there done that, everything this man said I can relate to, A lesson for everyone on this board to know, Good post.[/QUOTE]For softies like me, you forgot to mention that when you like one of those girls, watching them go down hill, and trying to help them in everyway you can, and it still does no good: breaks your heart.
[QUOTE=Bouinage;1235867]For softies like me, you forgot to mention that when you like one of those girls, watching them go down hill, and trying to help them in everyway you can, and it still does no good: breaks your heart.[/QUOTE]I did it too. Talk to her every day from prision and send money and visits. Hope she can stay clean when she gets out. She wants to change and I hope she does. If she does not I am done.
I think your being a little pessimistic, yes I have run into many girls that fit this description, but hardly every provider I have ever seen. Either your looking in the wrong places or your exxagerating a bit. Yes I have picked up my share of troubled girls, but have also run into many that other than their "job" were otherwise normal girls. No drugs, no stealing, clean hygene, again if EVERY girl you have ever paid for sex was a lying, drug addicted, thief, the blame is as much on you for not having better judgement when mongering.
[QUOTE=PeeWee2;1235787]Good post but frankly, all the characteristics above describe every girl I've ever paid for lovin'. I pitty the poor fool who thinks he can find a meaningful relationship with a working girl. These girls constantly lie about everything, even things that don't benefit them to lie about and are always on the look out for a chance to steal. All for the sake of any money at all to fund their drug problem. What a miserable life.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Solarmta;1236149]I did it too. Talk to her every day from prision and send money and visits. Hope she can stay clean when she gets out. She wants to change and I hope she does. If she does not I am done.[/QUOTE]I am a softie too. Became desensitized to all of the lying (which means I lost my common sense). I don't believe your girl will stay clean. I know mine won't. But it does break my heart to see her struggling on the street. Giving her more money just makes things worse for her. I guess I should just give her food. You have to cut it off with her sometime and move on. I'm thinking about going to Costa Rica.
CG: He may be talking about SWers? I would say he is generally right about the ho you pick up on the street, but with the economy the way it is a lot of them on BP are just trying to get some dough to pay the rent. There are certainly those on BP that fit into that description, but I would say there are plenty of otherwise normal girls on there too? What I have seen around Charlotte on the street the past several years seems to be mostly junkies and trash.
[QUOTE=ConcordGuy;1236614]I think your being a little pessimistic, yes I have run into many girls that fit this description, but hardly every provider I have ever seen. Either your looking in the wrong places or your exxagerating a bit. Yes I have picked up my share of troubled girls, but have also run into many that other than their "job" were otherwise normal girls. No drugs, no stealing, clean hygene, again if EVERY girl you have ever paid for sex was a lying, drug addicted, thief, the blame is as much on you for not having better judgement when mongering.[/QUOTE]
Good point, although I've been with plenty of both types, maybe my experinces have been different because I have been with more "escorts" than SW'ers, but he did say "every girl he ever paid for lovin"
[QUOTE=NC Transplant;1237157]CG: He may be talking about SWers? I would say he is generally right about the ho you pick up on the street, but with the economy the way it is a lot of them on BP are just trying to get some dough to pay the rent. There are certainly those on BP that fit into that description, but I would say there are plenty of otherwise normal girls on there too? What I have seen around Charlotte on the street the past several years seems to be mostly junkies and trash.[/QUOTE]
I will throw my story in. I actually pulled a low volume provider off of CL, I placed an ad hunting a girl that I could help with her phone bill, car payment, rent, whatever you know. You really have to sort through a bunch of spam and junk. You will get a real one every now and then, most get cold feet and back out, it sounds good to them at first, but the more they think about it, they back down. But I have pulled a few out over time, and 1 is a 30 year old former stripper. I won't drop her name here, because some would probably know her. But, she's clean. Drinks socially, has a nice family, kids, long time live in babys daddy, but not married. Theres a reason behind that, but its another story. So, she's going back to school for her degree in, wait for it, . Criminal justice. She still enjoys going out with friends and needs some extra money, but being a full time student and mom doesn't allow her to keep a regular job. So, every now and then, I have a great 3 hour session for $$$. I wish I could do it more, it is great. I do cover, I know a lot have strong feelings about bb, but doesn't make that much difference to me. All access, nothings off limits, unbelievable body, and no drama at all. So, no matter what the newbie who is throwing up posts about general topics instead of first hand informative accounts just to get his post numbers up thinks, they are not all bad.
[QUOTE=Screamingsheep;1237162]I will throw my story in. I actually pulled a low volume provider off of CL, I placed an ad hunting a girl that I could help with her phone bill, car payment, rent, whatever you know. You really have to sort through a bunch of spam and junk. You will get a real one every now and then, most get cold feet and back out, it sounds good to them at first, but the more they think about it, they back down. But I have pulled a few out over time, and 1 is a 30 year old former stripper. I won't drop her name here, because some would probably know her. But, she's clean. Drinks socially, has a nice family, kids, long time live in babys daddy, but not married. Theres a reason behind that, but its another story. So, she's going back to school for her degree in, wait for it, . Criminal justice. She still enjoys going out with friends and needs some extra money, but being a full time student and mom doesn't allow her to keep a regular job. So, every now and then, I have a great 3 hour session for $$$. I wish I could do it more, it is great. I do cover, I know a lot have strong feelings about bb, but doesn't make that much difference to me. All access, nothings off limits, unbelievable body, and no drama at all. So, no matter what the newbie who is throwing up posts about general topics instead of first hand informative accounts just to get his post numbers up thinks, they are not all bad.[/QUOTE]Awesome! Is she open to new "help". LOL.
I find it funny (in a good way) that so many of the girls either go into the law / criminal justice field or nursing. Either way I think those fields can only benefit with the experience that these ladies will bring to their prospective careers!
I've been working hard on projects around the house which has tuckered me out. Needing rest, I fell asleep and had a nice sweet dream. In the dream, CoCo aka A Sweet Embrace, and I reconnected 5 years after our first visit. In the dream I said to myself, WTF have you been thinking?
CoCo was an epiphany of sensuality to the max, a total sex bomb. In this dream I burnt a bunch of energy handling a hot ebony lady, built like a shorter. 5'3" or 5'4" version of Serena Williams. Nothing on my menu was off of her menu, I saw the clocks in her room, but she apparently couldn't tell time. The dream was so real, I heard myself asking will it be 5 years before I connect with CoCo again? I knew if I could hold out 5 days it would be a miracle. Thoroughly refreshed I awoke to put the final touches on the last project.
PM if interested.
I think I know who you're referring to. Westside? I'm not sure if she's low volume though.
[QUOTE=Screamingsheep;1237162]I will throw my story in. I actually pulled a low volume provider off of CL, I placed an ad hunting a girl that I could help with her phone bill, car payment, rent, whatever you know. You really have to sort through a bunch of spam and junk. You will get a real one every now and then, most get cold feet and back out, it sounds good to them at first, but the more they think about it, they back down. But I have pulled a few out over time, and 1 is a 30 year old former stripper. I won't drop her name here, because some would probably know her. But, she's clean. Drinks socially, has a nice family, kids, long time live in babys daddy, but not married. Theres a reason behind that, but its another story. So, she's going back to school for her degree in, wait for it, . Criminal justice. She still enjoys going out with friends and needs some extra money, but being a full time student and mom doesn't allow her to keep a regular job. So, every now and then, I have a great 3 hour session for $$$. I wish I could do it more, it is great. I do cover, I know a lot have strong feelings about bb, but doesn't make that much difference to me. All access, nothings off limits, unbelievable body, and no drama at all. So, no matter what the newbie who is throwing up posts about general topics instead of first hand informative accounts just to get his post numbers up thinks, they are not all bad.[/QUOTE]
The lockouts almost over, do we have any other takers for the fantasy football league?
Hey guys we have 5 people who are joinign I would like to get at least 8 preferably 10.
PM me and I will send the league info, you can join anonomously if you wish.
[QUOTE=ConcordGuy;1239817]The lockouts almost over, do we have any other takers for the fantasy football league?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bouinage;1235867]For softies like me, you forgot to mention that when you like one of those girls, watching them go down hill, and trying to help them in everyway you can, and it still does no good: breaks your heart.[/QUOTE]Man I had one too! I took care of her, fed her, gave her rent money, bought food and clothes for her kids. Everytime she was in a jam, I got her out. All the advice, help and concern didn't do a bit of good. If you get tied up emotionally, your screwed because you should have known it would never be any different! You feel horrible, but you look at yourself in the mirror and you can't beleive that you were that stupid.
[QUOTE=ConcordGuy; 1240635]Hey guys we have 5 people who are joinign I would like to get at least 8 preferably 10.
PM me and I will send the league info, you can join anonomously if you wish.[/QUOTE]Hey concordguy. Send me the league info and I'll join in if you're still needing players.
Thanks man
BTW if any of you have never played before it's extremely fun and addictive; so if your real team is sucking half way through the season (ie Dallas last year) you can still enjoy the rest of the season.
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[QUOTE=Bdglfr2111;1248877]Man I had one too! I took care of her, fed her, gave her rent money, bought food and clothes for her kids. Everytime she was in a jam, I got her out. All the advice, help and concern didn't do a bit of good. If you get tied up emotionally, your screwed because you should have known it would never be any different! You feel horrible, but you look at yourself in the mirror and you can't beleive that you were that stupid.[/QUOTE]I like this board because now I know that I am not the only one to get this involved with a girl from the streets. And I still do things for her every day. Even tough she has been in prison for the last 7 months and has three more to go. I have been with her for over 11 years but more so the past year and a half. She says she wants to change her life. I hope she can break 20 years of addiction.