Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=ArchitexOne;4219223]I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?[/QUOTE]Personally, I don't do "very nice dinners" as meet and greets. I generally set up the M&G as a coffee date, but do my best to schedule it at a time where it's possible to evolve a quick cup of coffee into a cocktail and dinner and / or a sex date if things are going well. If the meet and greet ends after just coffee, I don't offer them any money at all. If the coffee date evolves into lunch or dinner, but doesn't end in sex (but I really do want to get to sex eventually), I may offer a small token of 30-50. If after dinner I am ambivalent about sex, I don't offer anything. Of course, since it is a "sugar date" I do pay for the meal (and choose a place at the price point I want).

I try not to discuss "sugar" at all, preferring to let the "date" evolve on its own, and then I just slip some money in her purse at the end, after sex. If she forces a negotiation, then I have to negotiate, but I NEVER give money before sex. I've been burned a couple times on that mistake.

Obviously I adjust tactics based on how the girl is feeling. Do I need to make it feel more like a date so she can rationalize that she's not really a prostitute? Does she just want to get to sex as soon as possible so she can get the money? Different girls are different.

[QUOTE=ArchitexOne;4219223]I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?[/QUOTE]I'm a bit of an asshole so I let them know dinner isn't a good idea for the first meeting before hand then give other options, if they persist I go through with it but I scrutinize everything. So far 6 women have been mortified by the words"separate checks" after the bill comes.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4219949]Personally, I don't do "very nice dinners" as meet and greets. I generally set up the M&G as a coffee date, but do my best to schedule it at a time where it's possible to evolve a quick cup of coffee into a cocktail and dinner and / or a sex date if things are going well. If the meet and greet ends after just coffee, I don't offer them any money at all. If the coffee date evolves into lunch or dinner, but doesn't end in sex (but I really do want to get to sex eventually), I may offer a small token of 30-50. If after dinner I am ambivalent about sex, I don't offer anything. Of course, since it is a "sugar date" I do pay for the meal (and choose a place at the price point I want).

I try not to discuss "sugar" at all, preferring to let the "date" evolve on its own, and then I just slip some money in her purse at the end, after sex. If she forces a negotiation, then I have to negotiate, but I NEVER give money before sex. I've been burned a couple times on that mistake.

Obviously I adjust tactics based on how the girl is feeling. Do I need to make it feel more like a date so she can rationalize that she's not really a prostitute? Does she just want to get to sex as soon as possible so she can get the money? Different girls are different.[/QUOTE]I try to avoid discussing allowances ahead of time before meeting. Big red flag and turn off if after messaging and talking about meeting, they ask, what is my allowance going to be? I tell them we can discuss that when we meet.

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Wants a "gift" before meeting. Was kinda persistent about it. Very annoying.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4219949]Personally, I don't do "very nice dinners" as meet and greets. I generally set up the M&G as a coffee date, but do my best to schedule it at a time where it's possible to evolve a quick cup of coffee into a cocktail and dinner and / or a sex date if things are going well. If the meet and greet ends after just coffee, I don't offer them any money at all. If the coffee date evolves into lunch or dinner, but doesn't end in sex (but I really do want to get to sex eventually), I may offer a small token of 30-50. If after dinner I am ambivalent about sex, I don't offer anything. Of course, since it is a "sugar date" I do pay for the meal (and choose a place at the price point I want).

I try not to discuss "sugar" at all, preferring to let the "date" evolve on its own, and then I just slip some money in her purse at the end, after sex. If she forces a negotiation, then I have to negotiate, but I NEVER give money before sex. I've been burned a couple times on that mistake.

Obviously I adjust tactics based on how the girl is feeling. Do I need to make it feel more like a date so she can rationalize that she's not really a prostitute? Does she just want to get to sex as soon as possible so she can get the money? Different girls are different.[/QUOTE]Can relate and agree with what you said. Would add that sometimes when I know we hitting it off during the texting phase, I do offer M&G as dinner but generally just do a chain place it affordable and lets you talk more than at a bar or Starbucks. The problem is that the girls who are dtf quickly usually are short term, and the nicer or prettier ones often chicken out on me.

[QUOTE=ArchitexOne;4219223]I have a meet and greet dinner date set up with a girl I met on SA. Since I am paying for a very nice dinner am I still expected to pay there rate?[/QUOTE]Just as a postscript to what I said earlier, I have been out with a total of eleven women from WYP, and have had sex, on the first date, with nine of them. One of them didn't want to, and one of them used pictures of herself from a different dimension so I said no. Want to fuck these ladies? Don't play the games these guys are writing about. Be straight with them. If I bid $100 for a date, which is my common bid, then that's what I give them. There is rarely any discussion for more money when sex is involved. Just treat it like a date. At the end of the meal I usually say something like "it's still early, do you live around here, or should we get a room. " I act as though the sex is implied, not a question. And off we go.

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After some back and forth for a couple days agreed to a meet up at a hotel. She showed up an hour late and drunk. Much heavier than the pictures. I think the ones with the dark hair and black outfit are photo shopped. That said it started nice with some slap and tickle, light make out session, and a bit of mutual groping. When it got down to business all I got was a lackluster (to say the least) BJ and ended up using the hotel lotion in the crack of her ass to get myself off.

Even at the $100 we negotiated will not repeat.

[QUOTE=Troutman;4221050]Just as a postscript to what I said earlier, I have been out with a total of eleven women from WYP, and have had sex, on the first date, with nine of them. One of them didn't want to, and one of them used pictures of herself from a different dimension so I said no. Want to fuck these ladies? Don't play the games these guys are writing about. Be straight with them. If I bid $100 for a date, which is my common bid, then that's what I give them. There is rarely any discussion for more money when sex is involved. Just treat it like a date. At the end of the meal I usually say something like "it's still early, do you live around here, or should we get a room. " I act as though the sex is implied, not a question. And off we go.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info, I haven't tried WYP yet but I've had plenty of offers. Just curious:

1) Do they contact you or do you contact them?

2) Do you get away with it being only $100 or sometimes does it go higher in your after dinner conversation?

3) Do they ding you for a fancy dinner and expensive drinks?

4) Are you getting repeats for the $100?

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4221800]Thanks for the info, I haven't tried WYP yet but I've had plenty of offers. Just curious:

1) Do they contact you or do you contact them?

2) Do you get away with it being only $100 or sometimes does it go higher in your after dinner conversation?

3) Do they ding you for a fancy dinner and expensive drinks?

4) Are you getting repeats for the $100?[/QUOTE]1) after I make the offer and they accept it, I initiate contact. Keep contact very simple, offer to meet over lunch, dinner, drinks, whatever.

2) my opening offer is always $100.90% of the time that is accepted. Sometimes they counter higher, say $200, then I come back with $150. Always accepted.

3) no, they are all more interested in making sure your breath is fresh, you have no open sores, and you're no out to cheat them. I have NEVER been ripped off by one of these girls.

4) most of the repeats are at NO ADDITIONAL CHARGE. Some of them want to maintain an ongoing financial arrangement, but most of them seem to be happy with my desire to help them explore a woman's limitless capacity for orgasm.

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Stripper trying to drive business into Electric Blue.

Spent the day chatting with a few here's a list of don't waste your time Heiti and the duo out of new haven heiti wants 1 k per meet and the duo 3 k for the love of god where do they come up with these numbers. Meeting 2 this week will report back.

Signed up for WYP to see what it's all about. Watch out for this one. She is on SB and we seemed to hit if off. Every time I tried to set something up she said she couldn't but then one day texted me frantic asking if I could send her paypal for nudes. I said no. She said she really needed the cash asap to pay some debts and would do some extra special stuff when we met. I said no, I don't send money online at all. Only in person. She stopped texting me. Scammer.

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Stripper trying to drive business into Electric Blue.[/QUOTE]I was chatting with her on SA. Gave my number and at first would not text. As you said, she wants to meet at EB. I told her no and that I was looking for private fun.

She's been texting all day / night Sunday asking when was I coming to the club.

She texted me a few photos of her which don't match the one on SA. Pass. Next!

I also got an offer of 100 from a Meriden babe which I accepted but I'm not a member there.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4223015]I was chatting with her on SA. Gave my number and at first would not text. As you said, she wants to meet at EB. I told her no and that I was looking for private fun.

She's been texting all day / night Sunday asking when was I coming to the club.

She texted me a few photos of her which don't match the one on SA. Pass. Next!

I also got an offer of 100 from a Meriden babe which I accepted but I'm not a member there.

BMD.[/QUOTE]Altho EB dancers might be a bit more likely to meet outside club, found that 99% of dancers just trying to get you in there for LD or CR. Just easier $ for them and probable just as much as private encounter.

[QUOTE=Tomb8871;4223407]Altho EB dancers might be a bit more likely to meet outside club, found that 99% of dancers just trying to get you in there for LD or CR. Just easier $ for them and probable just as much as private encounter.[/QUOTE]I generally avoid seeing the dancers in the clubs. Their private rates tend to be more inflated than their bolt-ons.

If the going non-dancer rate is 200-300, the dancer take out can easily be doubled. Finding the gem odds are too low.

I've been lucky on SA so my focus there rather than STG and other website.

BMD.