Philly Sugar

[QUOTE=Kingmaletx;6148073]I get on seeking every once in a while and joined a couple of months ago and back then, talked to about 5 girls who looked promising. When it finally came down to meeting, it was exactly the same line, "My car is in the shop, you need to uber me to you." As I avoid leaving any "trail", I usually move on, but found it really odd that in a period of 2 weeks, this excuse and request came up so frequently. Car broken, uber me to you. I then say, i can come pick you up, and they all said, i feel safer in an uber since we havent'met. How does this scam work? Once they said uber, I just blocked them, but then i thought about it, do these girls want money sent to them so they can uber? Anybody gone through this whole uber thing?[/QUOTE]I hear this all the time. First if they don't at least have a car or even host and they 25 and up. They tend to be desperate. Which might be a good thing. I am sure some are legit. But the ones with car problems or can't drive. Seem to be the most trouble. If they won't let me pick them up, I don't bother with them. One girl was really hot was willing to meet up for like 2. For atleast 2 and a half weeks. I tried to pick her up. But she would say she fell asleep or her phone only has wifi and she was confused as to the time and place. So later she asked me to send her money for uber. I told her I don't have the Uber app or wanted on my phone and that I would reimburse her. But she said no. So I just gave up and move on and met a girl with her own spot.

In that situation I usually have some good back-and-forth conversation to at least get a feel. I would never send cash for them to get an Uber but I have on occasion sent an Uber to pick her up and meet me at a restaurant. It takes some trust on both parts and at least the most I can lose is a couple of bucks for a canceled Uber ride. Personally I think it might be a little too creepy to offer to pick her up the first time. If drinks / dinner go well typically we will go back to my place and then Uber her home. For me, a lot of this comes down to making sure she at least has some kind of a decent head on her shoulders. Anytime I've skipped that due diligence vetting I've ended up with some version of a desperate crackhead.

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;6150101]I hear this all the time. First if they don't at least have a car or even host and they 25 and up. They tend to be desperate. Which might be a good thing. I am sure some are legit. But the ones with car problems or can't drive. Seem to be the most trouble. If they won't let me pick them up, I don't bother with them. One girl was really hot was willing to meet up for like 2. For atleast 2 and a half weeks. I tried to pick her up. But she would say she fell asleep or her phone only has wifi and she was confused as to the time and place. So later she asked me to send her money for uber. I told her I don't have the Uber app or wanted on my phone and that I would reimburse her. But she said no. So I just gave up and move on and met a girl with her own spot.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Runner8;6150747]In that situation I usually have some good back-and-forth conversation to at least get a feel. I would never send cash for them to get an Uber but I have on occasion sent an Uber to pick her up and meet me at a restaurant. It takes some trust on both parts and at least the most I can lose is a couple of bucks for a canceled Uber ride. Personally I think it might be a little too creepy to offer to pick her up the first time. If drinks / dinner go well typically we will go back to my place and then Uber her home. For me, a lot of this comes down to making sure she at least has some kind of a decent head on her shoulders. Anytime I've skipped that due diligence vetting I've ended up with some version of a desperate crackhead.[/QUOTE]Definitely both sides need some type of trust for it to work. Unfortunately I don't have that much trust. So I wouldn't even want a new girl at my place, unless we had at least a few dates and had zero issues. These girl can get back with boyfriends or develop drug issues. She could decide to pay you a visit with said boyfriend or maybe its just him and a bunch of his drugged out friends. You never know.

As for picking her up. Wouldn't expect her to give me her address. Infact if she's new. I tell her she shouldn't trust anyone. To many wackos in philly. Period We can meet at a restaurant, bar or coffee shop or even a wawa. If the neighborhood is really bad its just a no go for me. Its better to be safe than sorry. And I am actually from Kensington. Its alot different nowadays.

The bottom line is how much risk in all this stuff you to want to leverage.. I have too many people in my life that count on me. Personally I prefer to try to limit it as much as possible.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6146246]Scam Alert!

Met this lady for a meet and greet. She looks like her pic but older. Probably early 30's. Vibe was good at the coffee shop. So we agreed to move to a hotel. We get to the room. I drop the envelope on the dresser so she knows I am legit and I go into the bathroom. We are talking throughout. I suddenly hear the hotel room door slam. She bailed with the money. By the time I get to the hallway she is gone.

I've been in the game a long time. Never had that happen before.

Careful with this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03263cae-a57e-4021-b23f-c3f29dc685f1[/URL][/QUOTE]Most of us got ripped off at least once. That's fine but if one doesn't learn from it then it's stupidity. One rule is never give money up front! If they don't like it then tell them they can leave. If worse comes to worse and they get hysterical and abusive and threatening that they will accuse you of something and start screaming or say their thug boyfriend is on the way, then just give them a small amount by saying here's a little for your time and gas to get them to leave. Even if you paid for the hotel it's sunk cost. No use risking losing a few hundred more. You can show them you have it but don't give it to them until the end. And never leave it alone in the room with them. They will go through your things looking for it.

This is a really sweet young woman with whom I have met and enjoyed some fun several times. BBFS CIP on the menu, everything is on the menu (but she's VERY inexperienced). She's smart, shy, funny, and has a lot of drama in her life that she does NOT bring into the bedroom. She works two jobs, has a young daughter, and just needs extra money. NO, I will not share her name or contact number, please don't ask me. And PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not tell her you read a review -- I am probably the only one she's met and done anything with. Knowing there's a review site would freak her out and end the possibilities. Just approach her normally. NOTE: She doesn't drive, she's really available only in the Reading area. When we were meeting she paid for her own Uber, she's not seeking every dime. But THREE bills gets the job done.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1066896a-0538-4360-a880-8be764f14169[/URL]

ETA: Her pics are 100% REAL. And she has others as well. She doesn't sell them, this is a REAL, hot, sweet Latina -- treat her with respect, please!

Things were moving along well with this lady until we went to texting. Then she's wanting cash at the meet and greet.

Nope.

Once a chick ASKS for money for a meet and greet she's a What's your price girl. There's no desire to move to an arrangement. Just book as many meet and greets as possible and never touch an old man.

Next!!

She's looking for online. Won't meet in person. Next!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d5ac21ca-6444-4c17-ad72-edd1d1515da9[/URL]

OMFG. Scam Alert!!

Just got a call from my friend JQ. He met this chick for a meet and greet at a Starbucks in South Philly. They agreed to move to a hotel. He drove them both to the hotel in his car. When they got to the room he put the envelope down and hit the bathroom. He was in the shower and she bolted with the money. When he heard the door shut he got out of the shower threw on his clothes and took the stairs instead of the elevator down. Chick was gone.

In my case, the chick drove to the hotel herself. She had a car to bolt. In this case, there must of been a boyfriend or someone following them to the hotel so she could get away quickly. This is crazy!

Her phone is 267-393-0713. My chick had blonde hair. This chick had light brown hair. Pic in the profile is close but not her actual pic

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6d8a6210-e1d4-4c9b-86c3-56542b23df0f[/URL]

Dude gave me her actual pic

Was texting with this lady. Says she just ended a 2 year sugar relationship. She wants $600 ppm. Wants to be paid for the meet and greet. I said no thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2fc00335-ef9e-4517-8ebf-5f6e7817b8b1[/URL]

Has anyone seen this girl? I started taking to her couple weeks ago. She cancelled on me at the last min when we were suppose to meet last week. She is asking to meet this week and I wanted to get some feedback if anyone has seen her.

[QUOTE=SeekingFun215;6162348]Has anyone seen this girl? I started taking to her couple weeks ago. She cancelled on me at the last min when we were suppose to meet last week. She is asking to meet this week and I wanted to get some feedback if anyone has seen her.[/QUOTE]Sorry. Never spoke with her.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6161007]OMFG. Scam Alert!!

Just got a call from my friend JQ. He met this chick for a meet and greet at a Starbucks in South Philly. They agreed to move to a hotel. He drove them both to the hotel in his car. When they got to the room he put the envelope down and hit the bathroom. He was in the shower and she bolted with the money. When he heard the door shut he got out of the shower threw on his clothes and took the stairs instead of the elevator down. Chick was gone.

In my case, the chick drove to the hotel herself. She had a car to bolt. In this case, there must of been a boyfriend or someone following them to the hotel so she could get away quickly. This is crazy!

Her phone is 267-393-0713. My chick had blonde hair. This chick had light brown hair. Pic in the profile is close but not her actual pic

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6d8a6210-e1d4-4c9b-86c3-56542b23df0f[/URL]

Dude gave me her actual pic[/QUOTE]I wonder if these girls realize what a dangerous game they are playing?

[QUOTE=HenryT458;6160613]Things were moving along well with this lady until we went to texting. Then she's wanting cash at the meet and greet.

Nope.

Once a chick ASKS for money for a meet and greet she's a What's your price girl. There's no desire to move to an arrangement. Just book as many meet and greets as possible and never touch an old man.

Next!![/QUOTE]100% next every one of them immediately. I've had some backtrack after I've said no and I still won't budge. It's a huge red flag for me.

Had a meet and greet with this lady in Cherry Hill. Her pics are old. She now has a 5 yo child so these pics are prebaby. She's not unattractive. But much thicker now. I prefer leaner. But being a horny old man. We moved to a hotel. Her fake tits are well done. Her bedroom skills are average at best. She can't cum without her vibrator. That's a big disappointment for me. Obviously, I'm not interested in continuing. She was asking for 600 settled for 400. Still not worth it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4e34d470-5fa5-4186-9967-98ca54fda11c[/URL]

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;6164499]I wonder if these girls realize what a dangerous game they are playing?[/QUOTE]They are likely drug addicts. Criminal behavior is a symptom of their addiction. That is the more dangerous game, addiction. These thieves will either overdose and end up in the hospital or dead.