"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=GoinDonkey;3323236]Anyone gotten anywhere with this one?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0a22717-150a-4bed-8853-3683fd4ff6c5[/URL]

From her profile it sounds like it should be pretty easy to set something up with her, but I've asked a few simple questions over the past few weeks that she reads but never replies to. And it doesn't show that she's ever viewed me so I don't think it's my profile that's the problem.[/QUOTE]Protip: If you've sent somebody a few messages over a few weeks and she's read them all but hasn't replied, it means she's not interested.

[QUOTE=GoinDonkey;3323236]Anyone gotten anywhere with this one?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0a22717-150a-4bed-8853-3683fd4ff6c5[/URL]

From her profile it sounds like it should be pretty easy to set something up with her, but I've asked a few simple questions over the past few weeks that she reads but never replies to. And it doesn't show that she's ever viewed me so I don't think it's my profile that's the problem.[/QUOTE]I messaged her a month ago. She agreed to go straight to the FC for $$. Gave me her number to text her to set it up. I texted her right away and she never replied Haven't heard from her since via text or message.

[QUOTE=GoinDonkey;3323231]My SA account is expiring soon and I don't plan to renew right now since I have a few I'm working on. I have it set now so I don't show up in searches. Will it stay that way once my subscription expires? I know that used to be a premium-only feature but I can't tell if it still is or not.

I want to delete my pics and change my profile text before my subscription runs out if it's going to suddenly start showing up in searches.[/QUOTE]You can set the Search / Dashboard slider to Hidden. The other 2 for location, last logon, etc cannot be changed. So anyone that you are messaging can still see you are using it by clicking on your pic in their message box.

Anyone else ever meet C Teal? I met her a few weeks ago and things moved pretty quickly. She was going to let Junior play without a coat on which startled me. I insisted junior always needs his coat. She gave me some story about some long relationshio she was in with a SD, and he gave her a huge allowance but he was abusive. Not sure if its real or not, she is smoking hot but seems risky.

Stay away from this scamming little wench. She tried to blackmail me.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/11386c74-fb44-46bd-9175-ab384aa22cc9[/URL]

Tech is an important part of the bowl. I have a POT who wants to 'meet' on Skype before actually meeting in person, even for the public M&G. I'm really into this girl, exotic and unusual, so I'd like to figure out how to do this. I use skype in my work sometimes and have an account, but obviously don't want to use that. Does anyone have any experience w / this? Can I just set up a new Skype username w / my sugar email address? Obviously, other precautions will also be important - I don't want her to see my diploma over my shoulder w/ my real name on it. lol.

"Will not hookup or sleep with you for more money, my companionship is worth more than your car. " . And of course she has "high" expectations. She's cute, maybe a 8 / 8. 5. I didn't reply. Just walked away. LOL.

I wish SA had a like / dislike option! Lol

[QUOTE=AddictedtotheP;3324080]Anyone else ever meet C Teal? I met her a few weeks ago and things moved pretty quickly. She was going to let Junior play without a coat on which startled me. I insisted junior always needs his coat. She gave me some story about some long relationshio she was in with a SD, and he gave her a huge allowance but he was abusive. Not sure if its real or not, she is smoking hot but seems risky.[/QUOTE]Post her SA profile, couldn't find her under C Teal. I don't usually remember user names.

[QUOTE=JustLonely;3323733]I messaged her a month ago. She agreed to go straight to the FC for $$. Gave me her number to text her to set it up. I texted her right away and she never replied Haven't heard from her since via text or message.[/QUOTE]Thanks for confirming that there's something weird about her. I knew that body was TGTBT. And thanks for letting me know the "hide from searches" will still work when my membership expires.

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;3250499]Consider it, but keep in mind that she might still have some other partners and even if not, she could still be carrying something she is asymptomatic for like Chlamydia or HPV. I think there's a direct relationship between girls that are less aware of such things and those that are willing to go bare.

I'm not saying no to the concept. Just be fully aware of the consequences.[/QUOTE]Took a hit last week when I decided to go to my local county public health dept for a routine STD test for chlamydia. 3 days later they called me to tell me I had tested positive. The fix through the public health dept is free and easy (2 pills) with a minimum of 7 days for the pills to do their thing.

Admittedly I am a big fan (addicted?) of bb and if I was only seeing one SB (which I was for Oct. Feb) then I could have just one conversation and deal with the consequences. But the bad news for me is in the past 6 weeks have set up an outstanding rotation of 4 SBs, the most recent being my ATF of all time. So now I have had to have the "conversation" with all four plus a 5th I brought in as a third two weeks ago. Obviously this creates a lot of anxiety on their part since probably all of them have had other recent partners and if they were bb also then they have to be contacted by the girl. Not good.

Anyone have any tips / willing to share a template of a good profile?

I feel like my profile is good, but it seems that I get a lot of views, but fewer replies than I would like. I'm not sure if it's my profile or something else?

And do you all list you lifestyle budget as "Negotiable. " And do you put in a Net Worth and Annual income figure?

[QUOTE=FScott;3318622]Good for you FarFar!

I personally like to have a few more fish on the line than nights to spend with them right up to the end. Invariably one or two will get cold feet, need to go out of town suddenly or get into a "car crash" or some other tragedy that will prevent them from taking their panties off. I would say 5 POTS for 2 nights sounds about right. You can always meet one of them for breakfast!

As for how far to push the convo toward the FC is a personal and individual thing you just need to feel with each baby.

On my last trip to Nola, I was texting back and forth for several days in a playful, flirtatious manner, but she always ended her texts to me with something like "We'll just have to wait and see ", by which I took her to mean that there was less than 100% certainty that she would see things through, but a couple of days before I left she asked if I would get an STD test and show her the results. I told her I had just has one a week before, texted her a picture and got a reply "thanks, I'm good with that <3".

She ended up being one of the more spirited fucks I've had in a while, so you just never know.

As for sugar amounts, I've never had a Road Baby ask about a specific amount beforehand except the ones that turned out to be pros. Remember, you are offering a powerful fantasy to them as well as to yourself. A successful and relatively attractive stranger is coming into their town and wants to spend time with them at a nice restaurant or bar, focused exclusively on them. They can fuck you, their friends will never know, and chances are good they'll never see you again. A RB in North Carolina told me that is an extremely erotic fantasy for a lot of 20 somethings who are comfortable with their sexuality but don't what to get a reputation as a **** in their hometowns by fucking too many of their peers.

Tally ho, good luck, and don't forget to write!

Scott.[/QUOTE]I am halfway home, head to a large west coast city Friday, and I may have been too clever by half in following Scott's advice to 'carpet bomb'. For awhile I was getting no replies, I kept messaging, and now some of those old contacts are coming to life. I've only got two nites there, even if I could make it fit schedule-wise w / my business to do an afternooner, I don't know that I have the wood for that. I did try a phone call w / one who seemed like we would really be a good match, but even a few minutes were painful. She blocked me later that day. No harm no foul, it wasn't going to work anyway. I do have up to 10 real serious prospects at this point, aged 20-38. Some could be a little UTR (and good backups in case one of my real targets flakes) but they haven't asked for specific sugar yet. The POTs are smart businesswomen to cosmetologists, absolutely smoking bods to MILFs (actually, a connection seems to be developing w/ one of those).

This city has a large asian population, like much of the west coast, and something I am seeing is that they tend to be unwilling to see married men, the moreso the younger they are.

[QUOTE=Tomas247;3325408]Anyone have any tips / willing to share a template of a good profile?

I feel like my profile is good, but it seems that I get a lot of views, but fewer replies than I would like. I'm not sure if it's my profile or something else?

And do you all list you lifestyle budget as "Negotiable. " And do you put in a Net Worth and Annual income figure?[/QUOTE]Profiles can be tricky plus not sure of what bracket your trying to attract. I personally try to spell out exactly what I'm looking for. With this type profile you get only the girls with the same interests or the working girls. Then you have to weed them out. Your age also plays apart depending on what your looking for. I have been on a sd site since 2010 or 09 I forget and in that time I have had 2 SB's actually mention my income or net worth. Both stated they made as much or more than me so how could I be a sd. Most girls never look at your financial status. All they care about is can you meet whatever arrangements you figure out. With that being said don't go overboard with what your worth then try and negotiate girls down. If your posing as a sd with money it makes you look pretty cheap trying to get a discount. Hope that helps some.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3324638]Tech is an important part of the bowl. I have a POT who wants to 'meet' on Skype before actually meeting in person, even for the public M&G. I'm really into this girl, exotic and unusual, so I'd like to figure out how to do this. I use skype in my work sometimes and have an account, but obviously don't want to use that. Does anyone have any experience w / this? Can I just set up a new Skype username w / my sugar email address? Obviously, other precautions will also be important - I don't want her to see my diploma over my shoulder w/ my real name on it. lol.[/QUOTE]You can have multiple skype accounts, but you need to use your sugar email address. I WOULD NOT under any circumstances use a personal or work laptop for this. Microsoft is as bad or worse than Google now in tracking users. Deleting all traces of the new account will be difficult.

Your best case is to use a burner phone with a wifi connection some place other than work. If you don't have a burner, use an ipad (if you have one). Install Skype, use it and delete it. IOS is a nice OS for SD's because every app is self contained. You can delete and be done with it. NOTE: this does not take into account what info the app can dig up when it is installed and running.

You should create a separate Skype account for SB dealings. Also, you can tie the mongering Skype I'd to your fake email or a fake phone number. I actually picked up a Google Voice number and tied it to my fake (monger) email account. Also created a Skype I'd tied to the GV number. It would be best to use Skype on iPhone or iPad and delete the App when not in use. Also, you are better off to Skype your SB from the privacy of your car rather than your work desk.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3324638]Tech is an important part of the bowl. I have a POT who wants to 'meet' on Skype before actually meeting in person, even for the public M&G. I'm really into this girl, exotic and unusual, so I'd like to figure out how to do this. I use skype in my work sometimes and have an account, but obviously don't want to use that. Does anyone have any experience w / this? Can I just set up a new Skype username w / my sugar email address? Obviously, other precautions will also be important - I don't want her to see my diploma over my shoulder w/ my real name on it. lol.[/QUOTE]