"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Me: (My first letter, I didn't ask for rate or anything in this.).

Her: That sounds good. My rate is $$ pv. But we can meet and see if we have chemistry. (woop we got a pro here folks).

Me: So I don't do anything more than $$. 5. If you are still interested lets meet to see if we have chemistry.

Her: (suggested a place and time).

Me: that sounds good!

Her: I do ask to be compensated for my time (Smh).

Me: I usually compensate of the gas which 20 -30.

Her: I have always gotten minimum of $. (In my head I am like I have done a lot more for $. 5 LOL).

Me: Sorry to offend you but I can't do that. Best of luck.

(profile blocked).

I just want to say thank you to all you guys. Without this forum I would have gladly paid the $ just to have a coffee with her. Any comments on how I handled this, I am newbie for I'd appreciate it.

Also is SD4 M worth paying? Are the profiles real or fake? I am in ATL.

This was from a recent interaction. I was not too attracted to the SB, as she was a 6 at best, so I played along to see where it went.

SB: Request to view your private photos.

SB: Hey there, check out my profile & let me know if we can meet can be a match?

SDX: I've just given you access to my private photos, go to my profile to view them.

SDX: Sure, are you able to meet this weekend?

SB: Yes, do you think you can meet my lifestyle budget?!

SB: 3,000-4,500 k monthly.

SDX: That equates to 36,000-54,000 per year, and I have no clue what exactly you are offering. I think I will pass and wish you good luck in your search.

SB: I'm offering to be your sugar baby! Do as you please when you please. I'm here to make your life easier, uplift & motivate you to be a better man. But good luck to you if you find anybody who will accept anything lower than $3000! I'm a woman of quality before anything so no good luck to you! Maybe you need to get on match.com where you don't need to make a arrangement we all know what this SA website is about. Dating guys who has big bucks $.

This was pretty funny. This SB thinks she deserves a sum of money greater than the average American worker brings home after taxes for just going on dates. There was no hint at all in her messages or profile that she was willing to be intimate. When they hit me with outrageous allowances, I put it in annual terms so hopefully they see how out of touch they are. Pretty funny that she thinks I can't find anyone willing to do less than 3 k per month. All of my arrangements were way below that, and most of my SB's were better looking!

SDX.

I found the Facebook page for a 23 yo that I am messaging. She seems very nice so far but her FB opening quote is "All men are scum except my BF. ".

I guess I don't need to charm her none to go out with her since I am already scum from the start!

Recently been talking to Southernclass65. She brings up price first by stating she has a $$ minimum. I explain $$ is my limit (and she expects you to provide Room.) She sticks with her price telling me "my pussy is worth more than that. " Well, at least she was good for a quick laugh. I had another SB lined up as backup anyway so I'll let you guys decide if her pussy is truly golden.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ec144717-6478-f0f4-37cd-414f37a8d93a[/URL]

[QUOTE=Grizzly383;3301392]Also is SD4M worth paying? Are the profiles real or fake? I am in ATL.[/QUOTE]I did a paid membership on SD4 M during the month of November 2016 and found it not to be worth it. Alot of the profiles were fake. Here is the summary I wrote up:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3174163&viewfull=1#post3174163.[/URL]

[QUOTE=Grizzly383;3301392]Me: (My first letter, I didn't ask for rate or anything in this.).

Her: That sounds good. My rate is $$ pv. But we can meet and see if we have chemistry. (woop we got a pro here folks).

Me: So I don't do anything more than $$. 5. If you are still interested lets meet to see if we have chemistry.

Her: (suggested a place and time).

Me: that sounds good!

Her: I do ask to be compensated for my time (Smh).

Me: I usually compensate of the gas which 20 -30.

Her: I have always gotten minimum of $. (In my head I am like I have done a lot more for $. 5 LOL).

Me: Sorry to offend you but I can't do that. Best of luck.

(profile blocked).

I just want to say thank you to all you guys. Without this forum I would have gladly paid the $ just to have a coffee with her. Any comments on how I handled this, I am newbie for I'd appreciate it.

Also is SD4 M worth paying? Are the profiles real or fake? I am in ATL.[/QUOTE]She said her rate was 500 pv.

New England, mid-sized town here. Anyone else having low ratio of girls in their market?

I've had moderate success over the past year but last few months it's getting tougher and tougher.

It's what you'd expect with a bounty of potential SD: lower level of response, lots of flaking, they have a take or leave it attitude.

I went so far to look at premium SD's in my area and there are easily more of them than SB's.

Is this just my corner of the world or are others seeing this also?

[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;3302274]I did a paid membership on SD4 M during the month of November 2016 and found it not to be worth it. Alot of the profiles were fake. Here is the summary I wrote up:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3174163&viewfull=1#post3174163.[/URL][/QUOTE]I can second what SDX said. Totally useless site.

I am not from RVA but a couple hrs away. Just been reading the SB info and would like to move in that direction.

Thanks for input from the veterans! I just have to pony up for membership! Thinking of SA and Tinder.

If anybody needs info on Lynchburg, hit me up. AMPs here, but not much else! Cheers!

[QUOTE=SugarDaddyX;3302274]I did a paid membership on SD4 M during the month of November 2016 and found it not to be worth it. Alot of the profiles were fake. Here is the summary I wrote up:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3174163&viewfull=1#post3174163.[/URL][/QUOTE]I concur. I did a test one month. As I recall, of all the contact messages I sent, only 80% were read. Spot testing those profiles show they never logged back in after being created. Of the ones that were read, only half viewed me. Only about 3-4 actually messaged me. They all wanted to switch to email or text right away. None ever got to a MnG. A huge portion of the profiles are straight copies from profiles on SA and usually appear on SD4 Me a few days after they appear on SA. I assume the writers on SD4 Me are making their work easier by just doing a copy-paste from new profiles on SA. It might work some where but I have yet to read of anyone having any success there.

Bam.

[QUOTE=JZLizard;3298704]I would interpret that as: "I'd rather you lead this aspect of the discussion, because I'm not comfortable taking the lead".

In other words I wouldn't assume "open to anything" means anything in the sense that you might hope it means.[/QUOTE]Thanks. POT asked for place to meet! I asked if POT prefers outside or more indoor. POT said, if weather good then outside if not indoor because of cold. In the conversation she also says surprise me.

Now I am meeting with POT this weekend and for me this will be the best SB. I ever meet. How do I take it? I need to drive about an hour to meet but how to proceed? Should I just say. We can meet for coffee and then head to my room? Or have a dinner and then see where things go? Or ask her. If POT prefers more private / discrete type meet?

Super excited for this POT. And hoping to win this prize.

[QUOTE=BamBam;3302406]I concur. I did a test one month. As I recall, of all the contact messages I sent, only 80% were read. Spot testing those profiles show they never logged back in after being created. Of the ones that were read, only half viewed me. Only about 3-4 actually messaged me. They all wanted to switch to email or text right away. None ever got to a MnG. A huge portion of the profiles are straight copies from profiles on SA and usually appear on SD4 Me a few days after they appear on SA. I assume the writers on SD4 Me are making their work easier by just doing a copy-paste from new profiles on SA. It might work some where but I have yet to read of anyone having any success there.

Bam.[/QUOTE]SD4 ME at one time was what SA is now. I joined it back around 2009 and did fairley well. The only problem with it back then was they beat you to death on the reoccurring membership. Took an act of god to cancel it if you could. Anway today its basically a waist of time. You will find some girls have profiles on both but SA is the go to site for now.

[QUOTE=DCOutlaw;3302263]Recently been talking to Southernclass65. She brings up price first by stating she has a $$ minimum. I explain $$ is my limit (and she expects you to provide Room.) She sticks with her price telling me "my pussy is worth more than that. " Well, at least she was good for a quick laugh. I had another SB lined up as backup anyway so I'll let you guys decide if her pussy is truly golden.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ec144717-6478-f0f4-37cd-414f37a8d93a[/URL][/QUOTE]Her ask was 500 not 200.

Must be doing something wrong as it sounds like many on here regularly hit gold with this.

I've probably searched 100 or more images, have never had a single hit, always no result. I upload the photo, and that's always the answer. Am I dumb, missing something? How often do you normally get a hit with a photo you pull from one of these sites?

I have started referring to my SB as my daughter when out (restaurants, etc). It's plausible in this case as she is the right age and Caucasian- - it would be less so if she were another ethnicity. If I should happen to be seen by an acquaintance, I can use this and then say (reasonably) that she is a love child my current SO knows nothing about so I'd appreciate their discretion. Practice makes perfect, though - I slipped and said 'girlfriend ... daughter' today.