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My Thoughts
[QUOTE=IinTooDeep;3294865]I have a question for all you experienced mongers out there. Recently I got in touch with an reputable independent bodyrub provider, and after emailing back and forth over several days, we finally arranged to meet. On the appointed day she asked me for my name and phone number, which I gave. After some time she came back saying she wasn't able to verify my identity using them. I told her of course it was my burner phone and hobby name. She wanted my real name / phone to positively I'd me. She is a reputable provider and says she does it for her safety, but giving out my real identity is a big no no for me.
So my question is, does anyone actually give out their real name / phone number to a provider? I understand their safety is important too, but I am very careful about keeping the hobby world separate from my real world. Just WAY too much risk of things going wrong.
Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Anything connected with the hobby stays a secret. Trouble is easy enough to find without making it easier for anyone who so desires.
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[QUOTE=LatinHunt;3295532]I've never seen them try and negotiate the $140. I've seen one provider out of many, many visits ask for a tip but she had issues.
Don't you use the plastic pouch? If it's not readily visible it's usually in one of the drawers. Just ask for it. Put your valuables in the pouch and take it everywhere you go in the place.[/QUOTE]Thanks, Didn't know about the plastic pouch. Usually leave everything but $$ behind. I wondered about the negotiation because I've read other reports of people getting everything from HE to CBJ to FS. I don't really care either way as I go for FS and always bring the same.
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[QUOTE=LatinHunt;3295611]Okay you've got me confused. Is this a person that you are going to try and get FS from? Basically if FS is involved you are dealing with a sex worker. If that's the case then you shouldn't give out your real name or number. A FS provider that had my personal info tried to use it against me once.[/QUOTE]No FS, just a good bodyrub with HE.
In any case, FS or not, I am loathe to mixing hobby world with real world.
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[QUOTE=Bastardale;3295344]When you say reputable, do you mean someone who has a history of good reviews on this board (or boards like this), or do you mean is a non-sensual, non-sexual I. E. Legitimate massage provider? If it's the first option, don't give out any info no matter how reputable. If the second, give out any info you feel comfortable with.
Also, I think I know who you're talking about. PM me and I'll tell you how to get around her screening process.[/QUOTE]PM sent bud.
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[QUOTE=Ambrose;3295629]Anything connected with the hobby stays a secret. Trouble is easy enough to find without making it easier for anyone who so desires.[/QUOTE]Amen brother. It's just that she's got good reviews and I have been looking for a solid provider, but I can't just bring myself to give out my real info. Things change on a dime in the hobby world, and someone who is sweet and reliable one day might turn into a nasty vengeful blackmailer the next day. Not pointing fingers at anyone in particular, just a general concern.
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Far East
Read some reviews on here and decided to give it a try. So glad I did. She was young and sweet and an absolute doll. Sexy as could be. To me anyway. I love them petite. House fee was. 6. Started out with hot mat on my back as she walked and kneaded me out. Then to table shower. Lots of teasing. Loved that. Into the sauna for a few minutes then back to the room for an amazing time. Won't give her name on here but senior members can message me and I'd be happy to share. Go check this place out. I will def be going back.
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Don't do t
There are tons of ladies out there. Why?? Give out info? Bad enough they can trace your car!
[QUOTE=IinTooDeep;3294865]I have a question for all you experienced mongers out there. Recently I got in touch with an reputable independent bodyrub provider, and after emailing back and forth over several days, we finally arranged to meet. On the appointed day she asked me for my name and phone number, which I gave. After some time she came back saying she wasn't able to verify my identity using them. I told her of course it was my burner phone and hobby name. She wanted my real name / phone to positively I'd me. She is a reputable provider and says she does it for her safety, but giving out my real identity is a big no no for me.
So my question is, does anyone actually give out their real name / phone number to a provider? I understand their safety is important too, but I am very careful about keeping the hobby world separate from my real world. Just WAY too much risk of things going wrong.
Thoughts?[/QUOTE]
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Business as usual
I've seen three different ladies since they've reopened and swapped out the crew. All of them were new to me and me to them so they were a little bit cautious to start.
If you go often enough for the new mama to get to know you that will be the easiest way. Each time I saw a new lady she would actually ask me BEFORE DOING SO if it was OK to wash my "private areas". So in other words face down on table and she has already washed most of me then asked of it was OK to wash my butt etc. Then after the flip asked if it was OK to wash junior. They also asked me if it was my first time there etc.
Back in the room, all gave decent massages and all made sure that I left happy. Mimi is an older (late 40's) short lady (about 4'9") and a little bit chunky BUT very nice, very skilled and my favorite so far out of the new ones but I will keep trying them all :)
[QUOTE=PokaDotCloud;3286051]Has anyone had any luck here since the incident? I really liked being able to get an actual hour soft and just be pampered to pieces without the disappointed looks of a FE or Harmony girl. Is there any thing else in the general area that would afford me a similar service at price?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]
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Smilers.
[QUOTE=HornyAsHell;3296827]I've seen three different ladies since they've reopened and swapped out the crew. All of them were new to me and me to them so they were a little bit cautious to start.
If you go often enough for the new mama to get to know you that will be the easiest way. Each time I saw a new lady she would actually ask me BEFORE DOING SO if it was OK to wash my "private areas". So in other words face down on table and she has already washed most of me then asked of it was OK to wash my butt etc. Then after the flip asked if it was OK to wash junior. They also asked me if it was my first time there etc.
Back in the room, all gave decent massages and all made sure that I left happy. Mimi is an older (late 40's) short lady (about 4'9") and a little bit chunky BUT very nice, very skilled and my favorite so far out of the new ones but I will keep trying them all :)[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info HAH. Haven't been since they reopened plus was away for a while. Will go back. Been going many years and had good report with Mama Lee. Never steered me wrong. Too bad she's gone. Will have to earn their trust back.
If your ever in Daytona Fl area can give you name of good Spa. Like an Admiral or NMS experience. Ex. Sunny, Angie or Nana quality.
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Uxbridge
I know, I know. Uxbridge isn't Providence. But it's not that far, and if you find yourself in the vicinity, I had a good time at Jade Spa. I had Nana, who was cute enough and very sweet. The massage was really great, if you like it hard -- I was sore in a couple places for days. I asked for it, though. She also does medium. HE was skillfully done, and PM was the cherry on top. Many other reviews can be found on the Worcester board.
It wouldn't be worth considering if we still had our own spas, but we don't. There is Smilers, but it's still too hot for me. I drove by as they were getting busted, and that put the fear of God in me, even though I don't usually worry about these things.
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[QUOTE=Existierende;3297995]I know, I know. Uxbridge isn't Providence. But it's not that far, and if you find yourself in the vicinity, I had a good time at Jade Spa. I had Nana, who was cute enough and very sweet. The massage was really great, if you like it hard -- I was sore in a couple places for days. I asked for it, though. She also does medium. HE was skillfully done, and PM was the cherry on top. Many other reviews can be found on the Worcester board.
It wouldn't be worth considering if we still had our own spas, but we don't. There is Smilers, but it's still too hot for me. I drove by as they were getting busted, and that put the fear of God in me, even though I don't usually worry about these things.[/QUOTE]PM? Don't know that one.
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PM = Prostate Massage
[QUOTE=Knight62;3298335]PM? Don't know that one.[/QUOTE]Pretty sure that is the case!
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Pm = prostate massage
Yep, sorry for the confusion.
[QUOTE=MattBr;3298350]Pretty sure that is the case![/QUOTE]
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Jade spa
Saw Nana today. Great massage, got the job done.
Bigstar1.
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Jade
[QUOTE=BigStar1;3301139]Saw Nana today. Great massage, got the job done.
Bigstar1.[/QUOTE]Is this a new spa in Rhode Island or is this Uxbridge?