"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=ShavedIsBest;3773621]I'm not sure if this is a warning or request. She hit me up asking for money straight away because she has no food for her kids and her lights are about to be turned off. I am of course not willing to just send money, but I told her that I would buy her food if she met me at a grocery store. (Legit offer, too. I will always do that for anyone that needs food.) Anyway, then she went quiet on me. Anyone else get hit up by her? She's very cute, and I wouldn't mind seeing her, but the desperation is a turn off.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/df473cb9-9e2e-476e-9e75-9a77a371e09d[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, same initial experience here. A Hi, how are you sort of thing was met with I need money for food and the power bill. Can you help? If she's legit looking to provide something in return, it sure isn't how she comes off. I dropped the conversation.

[QUOTE=Harley32;3775552]You've linked the message in your inbox.[/QUOTE]Damn, I was trying to be careful not to do that too.

Let's try again and I will try to get the other post deleted:

I mentioned this one earlier I sent her a message and she replied with her #, and said she was in a hotel in Doraville with her friend and I should come by. But then she quickly got very business like. Which is ok sometimes, but also a few red flags with her attitude, so I think I'm going to pass. From my experience if they have a bad attitude on the phone or via SMS, then really going to be bad in person. There are occasional exceptions though. Anyway, not recommending her or dissuading anyone. Just sharing my limited experience.

Littlered2281

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/37481dfe-c1c2-49bc-83f9-8bec2477bedb[/URL]

Almost certainly a BP girl. I remember seeing her photo somewhere before, but never contacted her. We'll probably see quite a bit of providers shifting to SA.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3775560]Damn, I was trying to be careful not to do that too.

Let's try again and I will try to get the other post deleted:

I mentioned this one earlier I sent her a message and she replied with her #, and said she was in a hotel in Doraville with her friend and I should come by. But then she quickly got very business like. Which is ok sometimes, but also a few red flags with her attitude, so I think I'm going to pass. From my experience if they have a bad attitude on the phone or via SMS, then really going to be bad in person. There are occasional exceptions though. Anyway, not recommending her or dissuading anyone. Just sharing my limited experience.

Littlered2281

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/37481dfe-c1c2-49bc-83f9-8bec2477bedb[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;3774470]I was poking around on [URL]predatorsalerts.com[/URL] and it appears they are no longer using Imgur to host their images. The one image I checked seemed to link directly back to SA. If you need to have an image taken down and the link is an SA link then you will need to alert SA and get them to block direct linking. I'm kind of surprised they don't have blocks in place for this already given what the site is for, but clearly their only real concern is taking our money. If you needed another reason not to put anything on that site that could link back to you, here is a really big one. SA clearly cannot be trusted with your personal information.[/QUOTE]Don't really care, when I google search my name or number it doesn't return the site in my results. How do I determine where the image is hosted or linked to have it taken down? I right click on the image and then what do I click "copy image address", "copy link address" ? When I click on either I don't really see anything that identifies that. Just:[URL]http://predatorsalerts.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/xxxxxx.jpg[/URL] where xxxxx is my SA screenname.

Maybe I should just upload photos of every SB that I've met with the caption offers pussy for money LOL.

[QUOTE=RedThunder;3776169]Don't really care, when I google search my name or number it doesn't return the site in my results. How do I determine where the image is hosted or linked to have it taken down? I right click on the image and then what do I click "copy image address", "copy link address" ? When I click on either I don't really see anything that identifies that. Just:[URL]http://predatorsalerts.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/xxxxxx.jpg[/URL] where xxxxx is my SA screenname.

Maybe I should just upload photos of every SB that I've met with the caption offers pussy for money LOL.[/QUOTE]The link you gave would mean that the image is being hosted directly on [URL]predatorsalerts.com[/URL]. Assuming that is the case, there really isn't anything you can do. When I found mine they were using Imgur to host the image and I got Imgur to take it down. Looks like they have had to change their strategy now.

Hopefully you have removed the image from SA now?

[QUOTE=ShavedIsBest;3775626]Almost certainly a BP girl. I remember seeing her photo somewhere before, but never contacted her. We'll probably see quite a bit of providers shifting to SA.[/QUOTE]I didn't mind it at first, but I got on SA to get away from so many thieving, scamming wh*res and now been running into more and more of them. I had a bad experience meeting a woman from SA today and didn't realize until later that she is a pro with ad on preferred 911 and multiple reviews on The OthER site.

It is all starting to sour me on SA, but will just have to screen better and pay better attention to red flags. I really do not want to get together with an SA woman and be faced with CBJ only or "I don't take off my shirt" or other rules that many providers have. Or being rushed or scammed, etc,

The reality is that we won't be able to avoid all of this, but can minimize the damage.

My experiences with "regular girls" on SA has mostly been good, so will just try to focus on that and find some more in that category.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3776561]I didn't mind it at first, but I got on SA to get away from so many thieving, scamming wh*res and now been running into more and more of them. I had a bad experience meeting a woman from SA today and didn't realize until later that she is a pro with ad on preferred 911 and multiple reviews on The OthER site.

It is all starting to sour me on SA, but will just have to screen better and pay better attention to red flags. I really do not want to get together with an SA woman and be faced with CBJ only or "I don't take off my shirt" or other rules that many providers have. Or being rushed or scammed, etc,

The reality is that we won't be able to avoid all of this, but can minimize the damage.

My experiences with "regular girls" on SA has mostly been good, so will just try to focus on that and find some more in that category.[/QUOTE]Anyone got a way to scout out the regular girls and weed out the pros? Tips, tricks, things to look for that might indicate a girl next door as opposed to the pros.

Thanks everyone. Happy Hunting.

Yes, this has been my experience.

1) The normal girls all vary. As I mentioned in an earlier post. The only normal girls that are hard to discern from escorts are the ones we all like, the straight up $ for sex normal girls. Since I don't know what type of normal girl I'm talking to, and want to weed out Pro's, I keep with the normal chat / texting for a day or two first. I've found the Pro's will weed themselves out. They don't want to text / chat for a bit. BUT, the normal girls who just want to $ for sex WILL. This is win-win-win for me. I weed out pro's, The straight up $ for fuck chicks are good, and the girls who are dillusional about the transactional element are not scared away.

The girls SA profile helps too. The normal girls that are cool with fucking for cash, usually have NSA, need rent paid, or something along that line. My #1 go to girl did throw me at first though. She was very blunt. She has an expensive hobby, likes to fuck, and found this works for her. I only saw her after the below recommendation found her FB profile. God Damn I'm glad I followed through with her too.

2) When you get a phone number, enter the number like so XXX-XXX-XXXX into the facebook search bar. ALL but one normal girl I've hooked up with returned with a Facebook profile. This is almost full proof. Every Pro I've run into, I don't find anything on the facebook phone search. This is an excellent first step! You can pay a few bucks for a phone search too, but FB is pretty bullet proof.

[QUOTE=WheresMyMule;3776806]Anyone got a way to scout out the regular girls and weed out the pros? Tips, tricks, things to look for that might indicate a girl next door as opposed to the pros.

Thanks everyone. Happy Hunting.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NGASugarMan;3776864]Yes, this has been my experience.

1) The normal girls all vary. As I mentioned in an earlier post. The only normal girls that are hard to discern from escorts are the ones we all like, the straight up $ for sex normal girls. Since I don't know what type of normal girl I'm talking to, and want to weed out Pro's, I keep with the normal chat / texting for a day or two first. I've found the Pro's will weed themselves out. They don't want to text / chat for a bit. BUT, the normal girls who just want to $ for sex WILL. This is win-win-win for me. I weed out pro's, The straight up $ for fuck chicks are good, and the girls who are dillusional about the transactional element are not scared away.

The girls SA profile helps too. The normal girls that are cool with fucking for cash, usually have NSA, need rent paid, or something along that line. My #1 go to girl did throw me at first though. She was very blunt. She has an expensive hobby, likes to fuck, and found this works for her. I only saw her after the below recommendation found her FB profile. God Damn I'm glad I followed through with her too.

2) When you get a phone number, enter the number like so XXX-XXX-XXXX into the facebook search bar. ALL but one normal girl I've hooked up with returned with a Facebook profile. This is almost full proof. Every Pro I've run into, I don't find anything on the facebook phone search. This is an excellent first step! You can pay a few bucks for a phone search too, but FB is pretty bullet proof.[/QUOTE]Good tips and you are right that the Pro's will not want to text much and have normal conversation. One of them from SA told me recently, "so be sure when you're ready and quit calling me until then". And I hadn't called her and was just texting. But she was obvious. Also, if you talk to them for a couple of days, likely they will not be able to keep up their normal girl facade the entire time, and you will see they are stone cold ho.

Another thing you can do is go meet them in person for lunch or whatever, make it clearly that you don't necessarily plan on banging them that same day. That will be seen as a major waste of time by a many (but not all) Pro's, while a regular girl will like that idea to get to know you better and feel more comfortable with the entire situation.

That's a great idea with the phone number in FB. I think I was vaguely aware of this before, but rarely did it and just entered a bunch of my contacts in there and most of them came up. These girls are so dumb to essentially be giving out their FB profiles. I am cool, but a lot of dudes (and women) are not. I keep a low profile with SA women myself. Fake name and disposable number, etc. You can't be too careful. I already had one threaten me recently, just because I figured out she was psycho and I politely said we weren't a good match.

Along the lines of who's a pro, this one likely is, or at the least is delusional about what people will pay for: [URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/7cd9c7d1-c2de-487e-8bb6-a06bdcc9e674[/URL].

She's attractive, mid-30's. Her profile seems straight to the point (NSA and no AA screams pro), but her messages weren't, at first. She was friendly and talked about a couple of personal things, etc. Then she asks to meet and how much allowance am I willing to give. I said let's meet for coffee first, and she asked how much allowance for that meet. She clarified she wanted money to meet for coffee, then more money for anything else later. Do men actually pay to sit and have a hot beverage with someone for 20 minutes? I passed, of course.

[QUOTE=WheresMyMule;3776806]Anyone got a way to scout out the regular girls and weed out the pros? Tips, tricks, things to look for that might indicate a girl next door as opposed to the pros.

Thanks everyone. Happy Hunting.[/QUOTE]The only sure fire method to weed them out is thru messaging and even then it can be hard to spot a pro. Personally I don't mind getting a REAL pro (vs. A BP skank) for a bargain price and multiple hours.

The 3 profiles listed here contain 2 pros, see if you can spot them. I was able to find the pros thru image search.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8bf222b9-2447-aa41-ed4f-fdf8e4f60c75[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2c8233b4-abf1-c6d2-19f3-a73c2dbf941d[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fa8afd12-1213-1e85-22c3-9b223e02d5fa[/URL]

MistyG773.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b5f8d90b-8154-408d-b28c-3b862607da54[/URL]

It's fairly obvious from this one's profile and I messaged on her on SA and she didn't try to hide it. So little doubt there. Seems like 1. 6 for hh or 2 for hr. We texted some and she wasn't shy about answering questions about services. Apparently she can do BBBJ. She wasn't super friendly via SMS, but didn't seem bitchy either.

I think I will pass, because trying to save my hobbying funds for true SBs unless it's a great dea. Or at least for girls who act more like a SB, even if clear they are P4 P.

If someone else sees her, please let us know how it goes. I found a few short reviews of her online, but they are mixed. Also found this..


https://independent.com.atlanta.listcrawler.com/post/25684523/#

And her phone # pulls up her FB too....crazy how these girls do that.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3777539]MistyG773.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b5f8d90b-8154-408d-b28c-3b862607da54[/URL]

It's fairly obvious from this one's profile and I messaged on her on SA and she didn't try to hide it. So little doubt there. Seems like 1. 6 for hh or 2 for hr. We texted some and she wasn't shy about answering questions about services. Apparently she can do BBBJ. She wasn't super friendly via SMS, but didn't seem bitchy either.

I think I will pass, because trying to save my hobbying funds for true SBs unless it's a great dea. Or at least for girls who act more like a SB, even if clear they are P4 P.

If someone else sees her, please let us know how it goes. I found a few short reviews of her online, but they are mixed. Also found this..


https://independent.com.atlanta.listcrawler.com/post/25684523/#

And her phone # pulls up her FB too....crazy how these girls do that.[/QUOTE]She's nothing more than a BP girl would be my best guess, never seen her pic anywhere else. If they have the phrase "my time is valuable" or if they make ANY reference in messages to seeing them by the hour for "allowance" I will not discuss things further, only pros discuss specific amounts of time.

I stumbled on the Facebook number search by accident. I think it boils down to two things:

1) You have to have a Phone number when signing up for your Facebook account. Most people did that along time ago and forgot. Even if you delete your number, I think it's still searchable.

2) You actually have to go into security settings and say "Don't be searchable by phone number" or lock it down to friends only.

[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3777539]MistyG773.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b5f8d90b-8154-408d-b28c-3b862607da54[/URL]

It's fairly obvious from this one's profile and I messaged on her on SA and she didn't try to hide it. So little doubt there. Seems like 1. 6 for hh or 2 for hr. We texted some and she wasn't shy about answering questions about services. Apparently she can do BBBJ. She wasn't super friendly via SMS, but didn't seem bitchy either.

I think I will pass, because trying to save my hobbying funds for true SBs unless it's a great dea. Or at least for girls who act more like a SB, even if clear they are P4 P.

If someone else sees her, please let us know how it goes. I found a few short reviews of her online, but they are mixed. Also found this..


https://independent.com.atlanta.listcrawler.com/post/25684523/#

And her phone # pulls up her FB too....crazy how these girls do that.[/QUOTE]

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