Not really a "classy" way
[QUOTE=FlowIndigo;4301840]+1, would like to hear how others handle this.[/QUOTE]Not really a "classy" way Of telling someone you haven't met you want to blast a load in them. On the other hand, this is seeking arrangements and they should know what the deal is. The safety factor is tough to discuss ahead of time on its own. I usually start down a path of what they like sexually and them weave it in to the conversation. You can tell the slutty ones pretty quick but the best ones are the ones that you start covered and end up getting asked just to go without later on. But they also take the most work.
Happy hunting!