[QUOTE=Grandea;5236385]Bro mentor me LOL, Pm me.[/QUOTE]Just be clear that you are looking for something organic and natural. You don't consider yourself a sugar daddy, but you are willing to hell out. They just don't want it to be transactional.
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[QUOTE=Grandea;5236385]Bro mentor me LOL, Pm me.[/QUOTE]Just be clear that you are looking for something organic and natural. You don't consider yourself a sugar daddy, but you are willing to hell out. They just don't want it to be transactional.
[QUOTE=WoodYee;5226478]I've off and on been on Seeking and have had some great success on there. You just need to sift through all the garbage that comes with the site too now which is a ton of flakes and women that just want to have online relationships but there's also a flood of people that are just needing arrangements and cash because of the economic climate right now. I've set up a few recently that are obviously "professional dancers" but are giving this a try to make ends meet for now. Just stick with it and you might have to cut and paste an opening E-mail to a bunch of them and start the conversation. Some women don't want to feel like they're trading money for sex or anything that would insinuate they're prostitutes so you just have to maybe play that up a little bit and then things fall into place. But definitely at some point you need to discuss, not on the site, money. Also be very careful of discussion of PPM (pay per meet) as this violates their TOS and they can ban you. Good luck!
-Woodyee.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info on Seeking. I just joined and am trying to figure out the best strategy and how much I need to budget in "credits" to meet a decent sugarbaby. Also, I really don't want to constantly take these girls out or take them on trips! Is it possible to just hookup? Or maybe dinner and then hookup? Hate to sound lazy, but I'm not looking for a pretend girlfriend. Any advice would be appreciated!
[QUOTE=HeadHunter1969;5238242]Thanks for the info on Seeking. I just joined and am trying to figure out the best strategy and how much I need to budget in "credits" to meet a decent sugarbaby. Also, I really don't want to constantly take these girls out or take them on trips! Is it possible to just hookup? Or maybe dinner and then hookup? Hate to sound lazy, but I'm not looking for a pretend girlfriend. Any advice would be appreciated![/QUOTE]Not sure what you mean by credits, since seeking is a time based membership. 30/90/ yearly sub.
If you're just looking to fuck young (or old or whatever you prefer), then you can be up front about it.
When using their messaging system:
- Do not use terms that can get your profile locked out, like offering for PPM or agreeing for it.
- Obviously don't make an explicit offer for sex.
Most of the ladies will bring it up, since if they get booted, they just create a new profile.
Just be careful with your own response.
I just re-subbed recently and there's also a big influx (at least in my area) of girls looking for cash just for the M&G.
Don't do it.
I always tell them that there is no allowance without physical interaction.
Before COVID, the plan that I followed (and I also saw others here follow) was to set a M&G at a hotel restaurant or near a hotel.
If you like the girl and they agree, you can easily grab a room to consummate the arrangement.
Afterwards, your decision would be whether to repeat or to move on to the next one.
I remember one member who always offered 100, no matter what, and claimed he got hits.
In my area, it seems the standard request from the lady is 500.
Young or old, fat or model, it was usually 500.
A few asked for more, but I've learned to spot some of the GPS key phrases in the profile.
I avoid anyone looking for a luxury lifestyle or wants to be taken shopping.
Any of you stalwarts who can do 2. 5-3 K / mo for an exclusive, I have the girl for you. M&G yesterday. Absolutely gorgeous, tall, fashionably dressed, early 30's, hourglass figure, super nice, fairly smart, divorced, a kid or two. I made my play at 2 K, all I can afford, but she needed something more reliable. PM me for details.
Anyone seen her? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e04a01d7-471c-4215-9eb1-f3542857afbb[/URL] older lady which is what I like.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5240527]Any of you stalwarts who can do 2. 5-3 K / mo for an exclusive, I have the girl for you. M&G yesterday. Absolutely gorgeous, tall, fashionably dressed, early 30's, hourglass figure, super nice, fairly smart, divorced, a kid or two. I made my play at 2 K, all I can afford, but she needed something more reliable. PM me for details.[/QUOTE]My limit has been $2400 a month. Guess I'm out of the bidding. LOL.
Can I add digits to my profile pics. Say I upload three pics, and each one has some digits on it say on hat, or shirt etc. The digits would be P.S.'d on the pic. Would that work?
[QUOTE=JohnRichard;5258115]Can I add digits to my profile pics. Say I upload three pics, and each one has some digits on it say on hat, or shirt etc. The digits would be P.S.'d on the pic. Would that work?[/QUOTE]Tried it, when I didn't have a paid membership but there was just 1 special girl I really wanted to message. Keep in mind, the girl has to be smart enough to figure out what you're doing. Too many of them aren't. Anyway, the photos lasted on SA for less than 24 h before they were rejected, and I have never gotten any messages from this.
Do you guys tell the truth in profile and also in person? How do you guy usually handle this when asked by SB?
[QUOTE=LukeOC;5267146]Do you guys tell the truth in profile and also in person? How do you guy usually handle this when asked by SB?[/QUOTE]I understand like about 40% of guys on the site are married, have no idea how many put that on the profile. I do say Married but Looking. I have a great sugar story that goes with it though. That doesn't matter to some girls, they just don't want someone married, and I don't press it, just block those profiles. This also enables me to get them into the mode of needing to meet during the day. If they work a 9-5, they are a rule out for me. I have two bowl buddies who are married, they don't list it, but tell the girl at the M&G.
I've encountered the same thing with some that are pretty adamant about not meeting with married guys but as FarFarAway says a lot of these women just want to minimize their own guilt. Personally if you just have a good enough back story most of them won't really press too much. I just state that day time is best for me as I do a lot of overseas business in the evenings and it's harder for me to meet at night.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5267519]I understand like about 40% of guys on the site are married, have no idea how many put that on the profile. I do say Married but Looking. I have a great sugar story that goes with it though. That doesn't matter to some girls, they just don't want someone married, and I don't press it, just block those profiles. This also enables me to get them into the mode of needing to meet during the day. If they work a 9-5, they are a rule out for me. I have two bowl buddies who are married, they don't list it, but tell the girl at the M&G.[/QUOTE]
This profile.
57 e800 e0-faad-433X-8 d7 e-5 fda3 e7 d7 caa.
I saw her a time or two. PM if you'd like to know more. Of course, she can't know I referred you.
I got this 20 yr old SB, wow she is a machine, no more agencies for me, I retired officially. SB are way better, 1. 5 k monthly which I can offered, she was my second choice, the first one wanted 4 K-5 k monthly. LOL they are crazy. At that point I might as well be homeless LOL.
[QUOTE=Grandea;5270583]I got this 20 yr old SB, wow she is a machine, no more agencies for me, I retired officially. SB are way better, 1. 5 k monthly which I can offered, she was my second choice, the first one wanted 4 K-5 k monthly. LOL they are crazy. At that point I might as well be homeless LOL.[/QUOTE]Wow that's pretty good. How often do you meet?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5267519]I understand like about 40% of guys on the site are married, have no idea how many put that on the profile. I do say Married but Looking. I have a great sugar story that goes with it though. That doesn't matter to some girls, they just don't want someone married, and I don't press it, just block those profiles. This also enables me to get them into the mode of needing to meet during the day. If they work a 9-5, they are a rule out for me. I have two bowl buddies who are married, they don't list it, but tell the girl at the M&G.[/QUOTE]I set marital status to 'open relationship'. In the first place, when I share my time constraints, some things become clearer. If the question come up during MG, state the facts clearly. I also set expectations around discretion, timings, texting / messaging unnecessarily etc. So she usually gets the idea.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5269268]This profile.
57 e800 e0-faad-433X-8 d7 e-5 fda3 e7 d7 caa.
I saw her a time or two. PM if you'd like to know more. Of course, she can't know I referred you.[/QUOTE]Thanks, that came up as Profile not available. Could she have blocked me? Maybe you could pm the profile name in case I contacted her in the past?
[QUOTE=JohnRichard;5289427]Thanks, that came up as Profile not available. Could she have blocked me? Maybe you could pm the profile name in case I contacted her in the past?[/QUOTE]They change those profile names, though. She could just have deactivated. You'll just have to wait for her to come back.
Just got into this a couple months now and tonight's the first time I ever have sugar at the start of our meeting with a new girl. She was already at my place. Suddenly her mom calls and she takes it outside my door I check on her after a minute and poof she's gone. I hear her car zooming down the street. Lesson learned luckily it was only 1. So financially not to bad but the ego took the brunt of the hit.
Is the site SDM viable in this area?
Any info? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/46821ccc-be10-4af9-8123-f7619cea7a39[/URL].
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f3f1d908-5a2f-412b-a7df-9d8d021b94a8[/URL]
Anyone got leads on good SBs? It has been difficult to find any, have a week left on the site.
Sometimes I prowl the MILFs on SA, figuring I might discover one who would be low sugar or free. I hadn't mentioned this anywhere, but in my most recent pursuits, I came across someone who pretty quickly became apparent was famous (especially when she told me her name, Tawny). I realized it was Tawny Kitaen. She was trying to raise $ for plastic surgery, and way above my pay grade. However, sad news today:
[URL]https://www.tmz.com/2021/05/08/tawny-kitaen-dead-dies/[/URL]
I wouldn't have disclosed this if she was living.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5341058]Sometimes I prowl the MILFs on SA, figuring I might discover one who would be low sugar or free. I hadn't mentioned this anywhere, but in my most recent pursuits, I came across someone who pretty quickly became apparent was famous (especially when she told me her name, Tawny). I realized it was Tawny Kitaen. She was trying to raise $ for plastic surgery, and way above my pay grade. However, sad news today:
[URL]https://www.tmz.com/2021/05/08/tawny-kitaen-dead-dies/[/URL]
I wouldn't have disclosed this if she was living.[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear of this.
Curious if you have had any success in the MILF space.
I tried some older single moms ( 40+, teen+ kids). Felt like they were more interested in stable relationships and much more careful about my relation status. Or they are very hi gps. Either way, never worked out.
[QUOTE=JohnRichard;5342754]Sorry to hear of this.
Curious if you have had any success in the MILF space.
I tried some older single moms ( 40+, teen+ kids). Felt like they were more interested in stable relationships and much more careful about my relation status. Or they are very hi gps. Either way, never worked out.[/QUOTE]I've had a lot of success. Literally the first person I met on the site several years back was a single mom / ex Playboy model, absolutely gorgeous. Specifically not looking for a relationship, she had 3 bad divorces in the rear view. I got her for 2 K / mo to meet weekly. We stopped for logistical reasons only, she's still a very intermittent friend. She's not been on SA since, either, so not a 'pro' SB. But look you have to really dig to find nuggets like her.
What is the average around here? Been getting more and more women asking $$.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5346817]I've had a lot of success. Literally the first person I met on the site several years back was a single mom / ex Playboy model, absolutely gorgeous. Specifically not looking for a relationship, she had 3 bad divorces in the rear view. I got her for 2 K / mo to meet weekly. We stopped for logistical reasons only, she's still a very intermittent friend. She's not been on SA since, either, so not a 'pro' SB. But look you have to really dig to find nuggets like her.[/QUOTE]Bruh. Paying $2,000/ mo for an older single mom has-been, and you only see her weekly, so you're basically paying $500 a pop even while paying for a Costco bulk commitment? This is what is considered a nugget on this board?
Why wouldn't you rather pay $160-300 a pop to have sex with 8 different girls, all younger and hotter, instead of having no variety, half the sex, with someone twice the age. Ex Playboy doesn't mean shit, anyway, unless she's someone like Karen McDougal who is one of the rare few to retain her looks into middle age. Playboy has so many little side hustles and web content that thousands of women each year can say they were in it.
As a rule, these are women who are too stuck up to see themselves as **** even that's exactly what they are (because a real sugar baby is just a girlfriend who carries an implicit imbalance in age / looks that the couple evens out by "spoiling" her in general, without any direct quid pro quo), and they demand much higher prices than the real pros, because they think they're too good for sex work or something. It's weird. I don't know why anyone would bother.
[QUOTE=PewpHead;5355415]Bruh. Paying $2,000/ mo for an older single mom has-been, and you only see her weekly, so you're basically paying $500 a pop even while paying for a Costco bulk commitment? This is what is considered a nugget on this board?
Why wouldn't you rather pay $160-300 a pop to have sex with 8 different girls, all younger and hotter, instead of having no variety, half the sex, with someone twice the age. Ex Playboy doesn't mean shit, anyway, unless she's someone like Karen McDougal who is one of the rare few to retain her looks into middle age. Playboy has so many little side hustles and web content that thousands of women each year can say they were in it.
As a rule, these are women who are too stuck up to see themselves as **** even that's exactly what they are (because a real sugar baby is just a girlfriend who carries an implicit imbalance in age / looks that the couple evens out by "spoiling" her in general, without any direct quid pro quo), and they demand much higher prices than the real pros, because they think they're too good for sex work or something. It's weird. I don't know why anyone would bother.[/QUOTE]He thought it was a good deal, that's all that matters.
It's not always about age. It's obvious, he found her attractive. Maybe for $500/ wk, he got an overnight session, comes over, gets in a first round. Have a little dinner, goes for second round. Watch a little TV, third round. Goes to sleep and wakes up to a BJ for round 4. Have round 5 in the shower before he leaves.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5003a034-b2bb-48e5-a650-99aed3d26859[/URL]
Wants online only with scammer vibe.
[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5360198][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5003a034-b2bb-48e5-a650-99aed3d26859[/URL]
Wants online only with scammer vibe.[/QUOTE]Confirmed pic and video seller.
[QUOTE=PewpHead;5355415]Bruh. Paying $2,000/ mo for an older single mom has-been, and you only see her weekly, so you're basically paying $500 a pop even while paying for a Costco bulk commitment? This is what is considered a nugget on this board?
Why wouldn't you rather pay $160-300 a pop to have sex with 8 different girls, all younger and hotter, instead of having no variety, half the sex, with someone twice the age. Ex Playboy doesn't mean shit, anyway, unless she's someone like Karen McDougal who is one of the rare few to retain her looks into middle age. Playboy has so many little side hustles and web content that thousands of women each year can say they were in it.
As a rule, these are women who are too stuck up to see themselves as **** even that's exactly what they are (because a real sugar baby is just a girlfriend who carries an implicit imbalance in age / looks that the couple evens out by "spoiling" her in general, without any direct quid pro quo), and they demand much higher prices than the real pros, because they think they're too good for sex work or something. It's weird. I don't know why anyone would bother.[/QUOTE]You have zero information about that girl. I don't need to justify myself to anyone here. I just said gorgeous, and I wasn't kidding. As gorgeous as any movie star or girl you see in porn today. I've had 19 YOs from SA, BTW less than 1/3 my age. They weren't a better SB though. I personally saw my SBs Playboy photo spread from when she was 20. Not only that, she was extremely responsible and organized, getting our room, which was super helpful as I have a SO. Finally, she was an exclusive. I am sure you or someone else is going to hold forth about how they are all sluts and you can't rely on what she said. But I knew a whole lot about her life, and there was no way she had anyone else. Again, b / c I have a SO, this was a value for me. I won't detail how great she was in the sack, either.
My goal in life is to fuck as much high quality pussy as I can, and I've never had anyone better. I'd still be with her if there weren't security concerns with how our lives could mesh.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5361495]You have zero information about that girl. I don't need to justify myself to anyone here. I just said gorgeous, and I wasn't kidding. As gorgeous as any movie star or girl you see in porn today. I've had 19 YOs from SA, BTW less than 1/3 my age. They weren't a better SB though. I personally saw my SBs Playboy photo spread from when she was 20. Not only that, she was extremely responsible and organized, getting our room, which was super helpful as I have a SO. Finally, she was an exclusive. I am sure you or someone else is going to hold forth about how they are all sluts and you can't rely on what she said. But I knew a whole lot about her life, and there was no way she had anyone else. Again, b / c I have a SO, this was a value for me. I won't detail how great she was in the sack, either.
My goal in life is to fuck as much high quality pussy as I can, and I've never had anyone better. I'd still be with her if there weren't security concerns with how our lives could mesh.[/QUOTE]I totally feel ya. I have fucked many young, hot girls. But the best experience is this single musician who is almost 40. She works out and eats healthy, so her body is better than 18-year old. She is intelligent, beautiful and respectful. Sometimes it's the overall experience not just the sex.
It looks like SA is have a 25% off Memorial Day sales.
[QUOTE=JohnRichard;5342754]Sorry to hear of this.
Curious if you have had any success in the MILF space.
I tried some older single moms ( 40+, teen+ kids). Felt like they were more interested in stable relationships and much more careful about my relation status. Or they are very hi gps. Either way, never worked out.[/QUOTE]One of my SB is a single (widowed) Mom with 2 adult daughters. She's in her mid 40's but looks younger and has a very fit body from working out daily. Don't want to give out too much details because she prefer to be private and low volume, but we have a mutual attraction and she lets me do whatever I want intimately. Probably going to be seeing her tomorrow to reconnect.
Meeting a girl tomorrow. She chose a little local restaurant for us to eat dinner at. I messaged her SA account and she told me to text her #. We talk for couple minutes and then I asked her for face pictures for proof. Then, I asked her to send me a specific selfie with a peace sign and she did haha. She was saying she wants $100 to meet and have dinner tomorrow. I let her know it would be paid after our meet since I heard about girls taking the money and leaving. This will be my first time meeting a SB of any kind. Any tips? Is this a trap tomorrow?
So it's been over a year since I'm on SA, I have had everything from 19 years old to 35 years old, but each of them gave me different experience. I even flew some from other states it was crazy haha. But from experience, I found that SB from Tijuana are more wild and more cheaper to have fun with. They don't need to much attention either. Currently I two over there. I'm thinking of making a threesome soon with them, they agreed already, they never said no to me. But the point is I have both which would cost me for one in here. Luckily I can work in OC and San Diego, so I can do that, but I recommend it those who can speak Spanish and travel to Mexico. It's fun. Good luck why'll.
[QUOTE=NV606;5374857]Meeting a girl tomorrow. She chose a little local restaurant for us to eat dinner at. I messaged her SA account and she told me to text her #. We talk for couple minutes and then I asked her for face pictures for proof. Then, I asked her to send me a specific selfie with a peace sign and she did haha. She was saying she wants $100 to meet and have dinner tomorrow. I let her know it would be paid after our meet since I heard about girls taking the money and leaving. This will be my first time meeting a SB of any kind. Any tips? Is this a trap tomorrow?[/QUOTE]In my limited experience, you did the right thing by telling her she'd get the gift after your meeting. Do not budge on this.
Also, if she tries to pull a fast 1 on the day of about needing gas money, do NOT send her anything.
Offer to send for an Uber; if she counters that she doesn't want to send her address for the pickup, tell her to use an address two blocks away.
And under no circumstances, never ever send her an Uber gift card. I learned this the hard way.
As for the gift, after your meeting, walk her to her car / Uber outside the venue, & while you give her a parting hug, slip it in her back pocket or purse. It's a lot classier than just straight up handing her the gift.
I for one only agree to a meetup fee if she's local & if she's super hot.
This one for example, wanted to meet & at the last minute, demanded 100 to meet up. I had to pass.
Her profile already indicates she's a pro.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/71001d06-07fb-4a78-8cec-34cc1517d8fc[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/97a2cdf5-32f1-456f-8392-255b11909ce3[/URL]
Tall blond in south OC. Really nice to talk to but has gps. She wants 600 and ghosted me when I offer 300.
[QUOTE=FirstClass1;5352724]This hottie prides herself on her strong pelvic floor, my second experience with a girl who will grip me tight with her pussy as I pull out, milking out my cum. For laughs she even pushed my rock hard dick out with her pelvic muscles to prove her strength: it was funny and kinda hot to slip out of her juicy wet box, like a well greased piston.
Caveat emptor. She will take your creampies, but refuses to use birth control, as she doesn't want to disrupt her hormones (She's convinced her pelvic muscles are strong enough to push out all your seed.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e4536ed-30cf-4155-a373-b3d86f64ba14[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Livinitup;5362252]Too bad there is no way of posting video or even GIFs on this site, but was able to take screen shots of a spinner with the "gift of grip". She was able to grip my dick on the out stroke and yet relax so there was no resistance on the in stroke. Amazing bare back sensation made me drop a giant load.
She could push out anything that went into that magical place.[/QUOTE]These posts perfectly describe my current OC ebony sugar baby. Only 20 yo, and looks like the young Vanessa Williams. Model quality face, truly gorgeous. She's really kinky too. Orders me to eat her after I cum until she does, then she wants to DFK and share our combined juices in her watermelon mouth.
Amazing pussy control and certified kungfu grip Kegel kreampie hottie! She's not on BC but I ain't worried about producing any clones thanks to modern medicine LOL. Here are some pics from my creampie date at the FC last week. My cum is just oozing out of her sweet tight pussy.
I've met up with some stunners in their early 20's who love to play and are 400 ppm in the OC area. Anyone want to trade SBs?
I need to activate my premium membership again. How do you guys pay? I used to have a lot of credit cards so I would pay then cancel the card the month after to avoid leaving paper trail. But I don't have spare credit card anymore. Does prepaid Amex / Visa / Mastercard at Wal Greens / CVS work?
Did she ask for a dinner and picked a place? Did she ask for $100 for having dinner (without your suggestion)? If the answer is yes for both, she most likely is a professional M&G girl. There are girls just looking for newbies to have a good meal and getting paid. They have no intention of going further. If paying for a girl to have a dinner with you is your thing, I would say go ahead. But chances of you taking her to FC tomorrow (or even a later date) is close to zero. I would feel her our a bit more before meet up. Just my 2 cents.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
[QUOTE=NV606;5374857]Meeting a girl tomorrow. She chose a little local restaurant for us to eat dinner at. I messaged her SA account and she told me to text her #. We talk for couple minutes and then I asked her for face pictures for proof. Then, I asked her to send me a specific selfie with a peace sign and she did haha. She was saying she wants $100 to meet and have dinner tomorrow. I let her know it would be paid after our meet since I heard about girls taking the money and leaving. This will be my first time meeting a SB of any kind. Any tips? Is this a trap tomorrow?[/QUOTE]