Philly Sugar

Lots of questions. But lots of answers in these forums. Start reading them in all cities. Thats how I learned a lot. The more you have to lose / risk in your lyfe the less SA makes the best sense as an option. Your going to have to take more risks and exposure (to make it really pay off and get your moneys worth out of it) than meeting a high end pro discretely at a 5 star hotel for an hour.

[QUOTE=DaveHebner;4614177]Getting tired of poor experiences in escort scene and thinking of transitioning to SA. Great forum very informative and just had a few questions for more experienced SA users.

Married and in professional world, so hesitant to give pictures or credit card. Are picture necessary for success on site? (Decently attractive, more concerned they get in wrong hands). Looks like some using visa gift cards, can you typically just buy at local target type store and they work internationally as site requires?

Can't host locally, do you find many on SA will host after a positive m&g off-site? Not a huge fan of car dates.

I see Lots of people getting banned. How do you make it clear you do not just want platonic while not going too far and being banned?[/QUOTE]

I'm married and been on seeking for about six years. I would add never give these women any personal info about yourself. I always use a fake name, and I use a texting app. TextFree is one. There are some sugar babies that can host, they are just hard to find. One was a college student in Gettysburg and she was cool with using her dorm. When I find these chicks it is such a bonus because I generally hate hotel rooms.

Anyway, don't be lazy on your profile. Fill it out because I think they do read them. Good advice on the photo. Not a bad idea to have some private photos, but most women will at least want to see your face.

Be genuine. And if you're cool, you may just get some free pussy. This past weekend I banged a 21 year old Romanian chick from the site, and all I bought her was gelato. That does happen if you have some game.

Good luck!

[QUOTE=Glhfddka;4614777]I believe you need a picture to be able to do some stuff on the site? I forget, its been a while since I was premium. But I just took a picture of myself, blurred out the face and stripped it of all potentially identifying info, and used that with no problem (I'm in decent shape though, and dress well IMO). Also for the picture make sure its one you're not using anywhere else. Even with blurring and modification, it might be possible for people to reverse image search it and link it to you.

I believe you can use anonymous credit cards to pay for it. There are some out there. I believe the ones you get from like Target and such do require you to register your personal info though, so they aren't completely anon. Not sure though.

Almost NO SBs on SA will host. They're either living w / family or roommates, and doing this for extra money, so they aren't usually in a place financially where they have a private place to host. So factor hotels into your costs. Car dates are not really a good idea, you're going to look stingy or poor, either way not what a SB is looking for, not to mention WTF are you going to do for a several hour date in a car? Also I'm single, and not super old, so discretion isn't as important for me, but if you're meeting up in public places, people you might know might see you around.[/QUOTE]

Guys, thanks for all the great advice and answers to my questions. Appreciate you taking the time to pass on lessons learned and saving me from making similar mistakes. I'll dig in to other state forums as suggested and get to work on figuring out how to blur my personal pictures!

[QUOTE=DaveHebner;4615690]Guys, thanks for all the great advice and answers to my questions. Appreciate you taking the time to pass on lessons learned and saving me from making similar mistakes. I'll dig in to other state forums as suggested and get to work on figuring out how to blur my personal pictures![/QUOTE]Its not that hard to blur. You can legit just go to microsoft paint and scribble over your face with the paintbrush tool. I think there's straight up a blur feature in there too, not sure. Also strip exif data, and also make sure to scan the picture to make sure nothing identifying is showing (name tags, mirror showing reflection of your face, street signs and addresses, things that might make your profession obvious, etc.).

Regarding fake info, yeah definitely give fake names I think if you want to be discreet. Otherwise a simple google search will tell them who you are. Also same w/ phone numbers - use a burner phone app, or at least google voice or something.

The problem w/ hosting in a dorm is, do ya really want to be doing the walk of shame in front of a bunch of 18-22 year old kids as a 30-60+ year old man?

Gingersnapp23 about 3 hours ago.

"Hey, I want to be honest about what I want and need. I want it to be honest and loyal. I'm putting myself through college which isn't cheap so I am needy with money, I do ask for a $5 Venmo payment to show your good faith. My Venmo is at redacted. My last arrangement was a man that wanted pictures and eroctica stories. He would pay me $250 a week for endless pictures and stories and flirting with the occasional date night. He would also send me new toys and lingerie to try out and show off to him in videos. But, I'm up for anything but I wouldn't be able to meet up for a couple weeks because of my schooling. I am a 23 year old that loves going on trips to the mountains, drinking wine and enjoying each other's company".

Blocked, LOL.

Has anyone has the pleasure?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f2cd2c5-a4e7-4205-bfad-97014fe864ac[/URL]

I will be curious.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4619084]Has anyone has the pleasure?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f2cd2c5-a4e7-4205-bfad-97014fe864ac[/URL][/QUOTE]

Has anyone taken the plunge.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c284e08-4d7d-4129-8104-405a21479946?[/URL]

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4620894]Has anyone taken the plunge.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c284e08-4d7d-4129-8104-405a21479946?[/URL][/QUOTE]Her profile says she's looking for platonic. Doesn't necessarily mean you can't convince her otherwise, but I usually don't bother in those situations to make the effort.

I had conversations with her but she indicated she wants to start off platonic yada yada yada so I didn't pursue any further or push her.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4620894]Has anyone taken the plunge.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0c284e08-4d7d-4129-8104-405a21479946?[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;4621283]I had conversations with her but she indicated she wants to start off platonic yada yada yada so I didn't pursue any further or push her.

Be Safe.[/QUOTE]I had to drag it out of her but, I finally confirmed it's a platonic waste of time and money with some promise of some future progress. Hard Pass.

She wouldn't answer until I pressed her on it. I guess she knows that most guys our age don't need a 20 something year old friend.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4622461]I had to drag it out of her but, I finally confirmed it's a platonic waste of time and money with some promise of some future progress. Hard Pass.

She wouldn't answer until I pressed her on it. I guess she knows that most guys our age don't need a 20 something year old friend.[/QUOTE]I had been on SA on and off for about a year. It can and is a lot of work especially weeding thru the girls who think a conversation and a date night makes a SD / SB arrangement. I had one 20 year old that I met that had told her mom she was on it but assured her that it was just for going to dinner or a movie occasionally. When I told her that most guys are looking for something physical she was completely shocked.

Getting past these girls who think this way is work but you can find some diamonds in the rough.

I've found there's so many without the Platonic only on their profile that including them in my search is a waste.

It sucks when they don't use that tag in their post and they say that after you start chatting. I got lucky when a girl message me and we started a good conversation before I realized she had that in her tags. But when I asked her, she said she had left it on there without realizing and she was open to more than that. So I wouldn't recommend going after ones with that tag, there are some outliers.

Pics and Videos.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/951b12bc-3c46-45cb-ba73-80a11d02faf2[/URL]

I have a meet and greet scheduled with this lady. She feels very much like a pro. My guts says the pics are old. Any of you gents have info about her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/168023d0-38ee-4d30-8291-dcaccccdf650[/URL]

Came across this one yesterday and went back and forth sounded very promising except she of course has no money in her bank account for an Uber to a public meeting spot near her. She requested money to her cash app or Venmo (I know, big red flag) so she could put in on her credit card to then afford an Uber. I provided alternatives to her but she was not budging, just curious if anybody has experience with her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4b794452-c5c8-4c19-8345-e1613f0d7373[/URL]

Thanks and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;4628437]Came across this one yesterday and went back and forth sounded very promising except she of course has no money in her bank account for an Uber to a public meeting spot near her. She requested money to her cash app or Venmo (I know, big red flag) so she could put in on her credit card to then afford an Uber. I provided alternatives to her but she was not budging, just curious if anybody has experience with her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4b794452-c5c8-4c19-8345-e1613f0d7373[/URL]

Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]This is a well known scam. On seeking it's an epidemic.

I had a text conversation with this one:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f10f7969-fc72-4dcb-8926-e1829713413c[/URL]

It was past midnight and she wanted to hook up.

Further conversation revealed she was a nursing student at Temple University.

She said lived alone but wanted to come up by me. I balked by saying I am working on my place and things are out of place.

So she said tomorrow would fine but she's hungry and hasn't eaten much. She wanted to know if I could put some $ on her card.

I offered to take her to a diner. I asked where is a safe place I can meet her so we can meet.

No answer. I called her. Two rings and was disconnected.

I thought this could be a guy scamming.

The website is full of scammers.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;4627975]I have a meet and greet scheduled with this lady. She feels very much like a pro. My guts says the pics are old. Any of you gents have info about her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/168023d0-38ee-4d30-8291-dcaccccdf650[/URL][/QUOTE]She ghosted on the meet and greet.

Thanks for the feedback. I have definitely noticed an uptick of scams but this one was a first. I'm addition so many ladies are unwilling to meet and only want to send pics and stuff. Maybe it is the time of the year, but getting more difficult to find the willing ladies.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=JohnLongDong;4628623]This is a well known scam. On seeking it's an epidemic.

I had a text conversation with this one:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f10f7969-fc72-4dcb-8926-e1829713413c[/URL]

It was past midnight and she wanted to hook up.

Further conversation revealed she was a nursing student at Temple University.

She said lived alone but wanted to come up by me. I balked by saying I am working on my place and things are out of place.

So she said tomorrow would fine but she's hungry and hasn't eaten much. She wanted to know if I could put some $ on her card.

I offered to take her to a diner. I asked where is a safe place I can meet her so we can meet.

No answer. I called her. Two rings and was disconnected.

I thought this could be a guy scamming.

The website is full of scammers.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e10898dd-c793-4d21-89b7-823167671bdb[/URL]

I have been messaging her the last few weeks, can't get her to reply. If you do, please share she appears cute.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4629885][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e10898dd-c793-4d21-89b7-823167671bdb[/URL][/QUOTE]

Apparently you can get banned on SA for saying you don't want platonic. According to them it's soliciting for money.

[QUOTE=FrenchAy;4630397]Apparently you can get banned on SA for saying you don't want platonic. According to them it's soliciting for money.[/QUOTE]Wow. The lady obviously reported you as you must have annoyed her. The sad part is you also must have used some trigger words in your reply. I've said I'm not looking for platonic to quite a few ladies with no repercussions. Now the hard part will be getting back on. First use a VPN. Then, a new email address and payment method. Also, new pics not from the same phone unless you strip the info off of them.

Ugh, that's a new one, I politely decline platonic all the time. I guess I need to change tactics yet again.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=FrenchAy;4630397]Apparently you can get banned on SA for saying you don't want platonic. According to them it's soliciting for money.[/QUOTE]

Henry,

Let me know how yours goes as I passed on her as she wanted 1 k initially then I talked her down to 5 bens but that's still to high for me based on what else is available at the 200-400 range. Good luck and please report back.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;4627975]I have a meet and greet scheduled with this lady. She feels very much like a pro. My guts says the pics are old. Any of you gents have info about her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/168023d0-38ee-4d30-8291-dcaccccdf650[/URL][/QUOTE]

Hey guys, just a quick question. So I've tried SA on three separate occasions with limited results and last time I got randomly banned for no reason. Want to give it one more try and already signed up again and got my profile, pic, etc approved but now I got to pay the $90 again. Can I use the same cc I used before or do I have to use a different one? I'm using a different vpn this time and I only have one cc, don't want to get a new card just for this obviously. Thanks.

[QUOTE=YoshiRed;4637210]Hey guys, just a quick question. So I've tried SA on three separate occasions with limited results and last time I got randomly banned for no reason. Want to give it one more try and already signed up again and got my profile, pic, etc approved but now I got to pay the $90 again. Can I use the same cc I used before or do I have to use a different one? I'm using a different vpn this time and I only have one cc, don't want to get a new card just for this obviously. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Get a TD Bank gift card for the 90. Register it in your profile name with a fake address. Then pay for your membership. The same card you used for the banned account will be a problem. They will block the new account once it processes.

I am not an expert but if you are using a vpn, your IP address should be different and you should be able to use the same card. However, when I was banned, I just used a different card along with a vpn. The card has to be able to be used internationally now as they changed that a while ago. The vanilla visas were my go to but I use my bank refillable visas now and register them under a fake name and address.

Good luck and Be Safe.

[QUOTE=YoshiRed;4637210]Hey guys, just a quick question. So I've tried SA on three separate occasions with limited results and last time I got randomly banned for no reason. Want to give it one more try and already signed up again and got my profile, pic, etc approved but now I got to pay the $90 again. Can I use the same cc I used before or do I have to use a different one? I'm using a different vpn this time and I only have one cc, don't want to get a new card just for this obviously. Thanks.[/QUOTE]

Fellow SB Enthusiasts.

Has anybody enjoyed time with this one? I have been talking with her for a couple of weeks and she seems like fun, however, she is on the high side of the SB bowl. She is asking for 500 for several hours of companionship and 300 for an hour. The second part gave me pause as she is coming off as a pro or semipro so I thought I would reach before taking the plunge. Appreciate any feedback.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6519b9a7-07b7-4a28-aac5-0cc0b979e772[/URL]

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;4639192]Fellow SB Enthusiasts.

Has anybody enjoyed time with this one? I have been talking with her for a couple of weeks and she seems like fun, however, she is on the high side of the SB bowl. She is asking for 500 for several hours of companionship and 300 for an hour. The second part gave me pause as she is coming off as a pro or semipro so I thought I would reach before taking the plunge. Appreciate any feedback.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6519b9a7-07b7-4a28-aac5-0cc0b979e772[/URL][/QUOTE]A lot of the girls on the site have done their homework so her throwing those numbers out doesn't make her a pro. Plus there's guys out there throwing out numbers like that so she could be just relaying what's she been told.

She looks pretty good. She says she's in college. The premium level is free for girls if they use their college email so I would be curious why she isn't.

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;4639192]Fellow SB Enthusiasts.

Has anybody enjoyed time with this one? I have been talking with her for a couple of weeks and she seems like fun, however, she is on the high side of the SB bowl. She is asking for 500 for several hours of companionship and 300 for an hour. The second part gave me pause as she is coming off as a pro or semipro so I thought I would reach before taking the plunge. Appreciate any feedback.

Thanks and Be Safe.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6519b9a7-07b7-4a28-aac5-0cc0b979e772[/URL][/QUOTE]She looks really cute. If you end up seeing her, please share. Thanks.

[QUOTE=VjUtt;4639604]She looks really cute. If you end up seeing her, please share. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I had a brief conversation with her where she was rude and incoherent. She seemed drunk. Good luck!

I have been fortunate to find so many lovely ladies on SA, I thought I would share some of my research with those that are no longer members, those that have inquiring minds, and those looking for something different. Some I have experienced, others I have not but I have chatted with them and they are DTF based on my conversations and for the right price.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/57b0108b-1cdc-48ca-abc7-00e6bf36de7f[/URL]

Wants 400 but I got her down to 300 for 2-3 hours, cover required but not for oral.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ffe90a71-b28d-4e23-bf93-6dfd9c34b1b4[/URL]

300, seems sexually flexible but requires a cover for everything but reserves the right to remove cover fir oral based on the vibe she feels.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fb5f73e5-d3da-4649-b170-822b8a33306b[/URL]

This one is odd, wants 400, requires a condom for vaginal sex, but you can fuck her in the ass sans condom and blast away. No condom for oral.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1e62c1a0-e962-4c20-9cb8-ffe3872ad332[/URL]

300 but is willing to negotiate, no cover required but no trips to Greece. You can blast away any where. She comes to you. Saw her 3-4 times but I have stopped because she is pretty ghetto and starting to go downhill.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/18fb3512-b631-4e01-be67-57a0b5284a89[/URL]

Only was with this one twice for car date, 150, covered sex, no cover for oral, swallowed. She seemed fine then went ghost on me. Hope you have better luck.

Good luck with the above, I have contact info but all of these ladies gave up their number very easily. NO WHITE KNIGHTS!

Be Safe.

Just wondering if anyone has had any experience with this one. She offers to host but she is very flaky and goes dark for a few days before she responds. Also, get the voodoo vibes that she has a boyfriend and going to rob me at her place. Has anyone had any experience? Menu? Seems like she is a little thicker than her pictures suggest.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/97b1308e-4b7f-444c-86d5-62aa909bfecf[/URL]

Just wondering if anyone has taken the plunge with this one yet. She answers every few days and I finally managed to set up a meet up. She offers to host but I get the vibes something is off like she has a bf and may try and rob me. Anyone had the pleasure of meeting her? Is she real? Pics accurate? Menu?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/97b1308e-4b7f-444c-86d5-62aa909bfecf[/URL]

I've noticed more seeking profiles with two girls in the Philly area than most places.

Anyone on here taken the plunge? Not asking for the specific profile or anything, just curious as to the prospects of any of them.

All of the doubles I have contacted want an obscene amount of money for their company or they are platonic. I find it easier to ask a SB who I have developed a comfortable arrangement with to identify one of her friends to join the fun. I have been successful in negotiating a reduced amount for each lady than normal as sometimes I have found them to be double the price and have the fun. YMMV.

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=Mongerian;4644365]I've noticed more seeking profiles with two girls in the Philly area than most places.

Anyone on here taken the plunge? Not asking for the specific profile or anything, just curious as to the prospects of any of them.[/QUOTE]

I concur. All too greedy or platonic.

Burbs Monger preaches a better way.

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;4644688]All of the doubles I have contacted want an obscene amount of money for their company or they are platonic. I find it easier to ask a SB who I have developed a comfortable arrangement with to identify one of her friends to join the fun. I have been successful in negotiating a reduced amount for each lady than normal as sometimes I have found them to be double the price and have the fun. YMMV.

Be Safe.[/QUOTE]

On my favorite list but haven't yet had the pleasure.

[QUOTE=YellowLuvin;4644321]Just wondering if anyone has taken the plunge with this one yet. She answers every few days and I finally managed to set up a meet up. She offers to host but I get the vibes something is off like she has a bf and may try and rob me. Anyone had the pleasure of meeting her? Is she real? Pics accurate? Menu?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/97b1308e-4b7f-444c-86d5-62aa909bfecf[/URL][/QUOTE]

I should have edited my post, it should read " double the price and half the fun".

Be Safe.

[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;4644688]All of the doubles I have contacted want an obscene amount of money for their company or they are platonic. I find it easier to ask a SB who I have developed a comfortable arrangement with to identify one of her friends to join the fun. I have been successful in negotiating a reduced amount for each lady than normal as sometimes I have found them to be double the price and have the fun. YMMV.

Be Safe.[/QUOTE]