Kate is one of my all time favorites
[QUOTE=OlderFunGuy;2739002]Well everyone has their own likes and dislikes and opinions. In my mind, in regard to not so UTR Kate. Looks check body check personality check performance mechanical Provider of the Year? Nope.[/QUOTE]She's always been very nice with me and she's drop dead gorgeous. I wish our schedules meshed more. I would probably make it a point to see her twice a week if her menu added something. And not talking about the back door.
UTR's are like Fight Club.
[QUOTE=OlderFunGuy;2739002]...in regard to not so UTR Kate...[/QUOTE]
And we all know you don't talk about Fight Club.
So what makes a "UTR" an actual UTR? I'm wondering what the consensus is among members. Is it a provider who doesn't advertise? Is she word of mouth only? If they post ads, how does it make them UTR?
Is it simply a provider you don't share, unless you're trading unicorns?
What does that make the mongers??
[QUOTE=OlderFunGuy;2742609]IMO a provider who creates a profile on here and posts stuff is pretty pathetic. Happy New Year![/QUOTE]You say that is pretty pathetic but you are one that likes to partake in this. Does this mean that you think all those with profiles and reviews are pretty pathetic also? I have seen the video and pictures on here but haven't visited her or had her over so I have no opinion of her services but seeing how so many have and enjoyed the visit it would appear to me that you may have had a falling out. I know everyone wants more on their end but there are also reasonable limits. That is between you and her but it would seem proper to keep that between you and her. When you go from enjoying the service to almost trashing a person it doesn't help you out. Just my opinion about what I see and nothing personal since I don't know either involved.
Don't forget the boyfriend of the 5 mo pregnant
Provider who drives her to her outcall locations. How can anyone get hard when a naked pregnant provider is laying on your bed and her boyfriend is sitting in the car outside your home? I wonder if she will keep see guys until someone helps breaks her water?
[QUOTE=Star67;2788593]I am not on a soap box and I am not above anyone here. The fact that I am on this site proves I am a pig and of low morals. I have issues and I admit it.
With that said, I am shocked at the level of depravity on this website lately. Its one thing to be a sex addict and can't get enough sex but some of the stuff I am reading here lately blows my mind.
Someone bragging about pounding the crap / destroying a good friends daughter. How good of a friend are you if you do that?
A mother who is a provider posting pictures of her daughter bragging about her performance at a local strip club and even posting pictures of her. Parent of the Year material there.
Guys seeing a provider going on 6 months pregnant doing BBFS and anal with her. Mind numbing. Hope the fetus jerks you off in the act. GROSS!
A providers number is googled and turns up a male escort and a female escort using the same number. When a member here inquires why, he is told "that's how my boyfriend and I make our money"... If that ain't love I guess I don't know what love is. LOL
I wish some of what I read was fantasy or fiction but its not. It wasn't that way when I joined. But its clearly getting worse. Not calling out any member by name. But wow. Just when you think it can't get any worse it does. Some of this stuff is sub-human. Animals treat each other better. Kind of reminds me of the Movie SE7EN with Morgan Freeman, Brad Pit, and Kevin Spacey. Near the end of the movie in the unmarked squad car Brad Pit (the detective) and Kevin Spacey (the serial killer) are having a conversation. And Pit says to Spacey:
[b]"I've been trying to figure something in my head, and maybe you can help me out, yeah? When a person is insane, as you clearly are, do you know that you're insane? Maybe you're just sitting around, reading "Guns and Ammo", masturbating in your own feces, do you just stop and go, "Wow! It is amazing how fucking crazy I really am! Yeah. Do you guys do that?"[/b][/QUOTE]
Agreed, Completely "Normal"
[QUOTE=DieselMike;2791715]It all depends on your point of view. If one defines "perverted" or "insane" as "outside the mainstream of general society"; then all of us here probably fit one of those descriptions to some degree. It's just a question of how far over the line we are. And my view, in the short time I've been here, is that the people here are fairly "normal". I've seen enough of real life to realize that the things we discuss here are not that far from the mainstream, which doesn't really fit the classic stereotype anyways.[/QUOTE]I agree with Mike. I would say that we are just acting out on our deeply engrained caveman instincts. That's why prostitution is referred to as the second oldest profession on Earth (first being hunter / gatherer). "Here's some food. Now bend over. " I wonder if there was "cash and dash" back in caveman days? Our instincts to sow our seeds into as many different desirable females is what allowed the human race to evolve to where it is today. Just a fact of nature.
Given the right opportunity, I think a very high percentage of males would indulge. I bet the number of infrequent mongers is far greater than one might suspect. Most don't have the time to do enough research so they wind up taking a few shots in the dark and having bad experiences or getting ripped off. Unfortunately, fantasy and reality are often quite different.
Is it Moral? That's a different Q. IMO it is, but that point could be argued both ways.
So, since today is Ash Wednesday, who's giving up Mongering for Lent?
If so, then I hope you got laid well on Fat Tuesday.
Mongering for Lent? YGBK!
[QUOTE=BadGr54;2791938]I agree with Mike. I would say that we are just acting out on our deeply engrained caveman instincts. That's why prostitution is referred to as the second oldest profession on Earth (first being hunter / gatherer). "Here's some food. Now bend over. " I wonder if there was "cash and dash" back in caveman days? Our instincts to sow our seeds into as many different desirable females is what allowed the human race to evolve to where it is today. Just a fact of nature.
Given the right opportunity, I think a very high percentage of males would indulge. I bet the number of infrequent mongers is far greater than one might suspect. Most don't have the time to do enough research so they wind up taking a few shots in the dark and having bad experiences or getting ripped off. Unfortunately, fantasy and reality are often quite different.
Is it Moral? That's a different Q. IMO it is, but that point could be argued both ways.
So, since today is Ash Wednesday, who's giving up Mongering for Lent?
If so, then I hope you got laid well on Fat Tuesday.[/QUOTE]My Lenten duty is to expand my charitable giving. I deny myself small pleasures so that I can give freely to mothers feeding their children and crackheads feeding their habits. I recently picked up a young black woman I swear was on the big "H". Why do I think that? Because I have never pinched a nipple harder than I pinched hers. I thought the end might pop like a zit. It did remind me, however, of the sufferings of Jesus as he made his way up the hill of Calvary. So I pinched harder. She never flinched, thus I was impressed by her religious zeal enough to shout "Oh godd, I'm coming!" through clenched teeth. It was as close as I've had to an epiphany in a long time.
Coochie (Lenten Duty) Eater.
God Bless You All.
P.S. I have given up watermelon and popsicles, durian, and fermented tea for Lent as well. Don't tell me I'm not religious. Oh, and 80 year old pussy. Praise the Lord.
Coochie, You take the cake!
[QUOTE=CoochieEater;2793707]My Lenten duty is to expand my charitable giving. I deny myself small pleasures so that I can give freely to mothers feeding their children and crackheads feeding their habits. I recently picked up a young black woman I swear was on the big "H". Why do I think that? Because I have never pinched a nipple harder than I pinched hers. I thought the end might pop like a zit. It did remind me, however, of the sufferings of Jesus as he made his way up the hill of Calvary. So I pinched harder. She never flinched, thus I was impressed by her religious zeal enough to shout "Oh godd, I'm coming!" through clenched teeth. It was as close as I've had to an epiphany in a long time.
Coochie (Lenten Duty) Eater.
God Bless You All.
P.S. I have given up watermelon and popsicles, durian, and fermented tea for Lent as well. Don't tell me I'm not religious. Oh, and 80 year old pussy. Praise the Lord.[/QUOTE]Coochie, LOL, Your posts are hillarious. You don't know how many times I have LOL'ed at your stories. In the Rectory? Amazing, Unbelievable & yet, for some reason I believe it. The other day my wife hollered down the basement steps: "What the hell is so funny down there?" I almost yelled back: "Just another one of Coochie's stories. " but I stopped myself in the nick of time.
OK, so now I understand. Instead of eliminating my Mongering for Lent, the charitable thing for me to do is actually increase my donations to those that need it. And Lord knows, any girl that wants to turn a trick with me must REALLY need it.
If you're like the rest of us
[QUOTE=SlickBanister;2798664]Thanks SC, I do enjoy the variety, and wouldn't mind a little security (In the encounter. I know what you mean when you say "college girlfriend ". But I don't think I've got what it takes to meet a Cgf yet. (.[/QUOTE]Brother Banister! Are you Roger Banister who set the record for finishing in under 4 minutes? (Actually, his name was Bannister, and his record was for running the mile).
Anyway, I hope you are not as sick as most of the rest of us. Why would someone, on their way to meet a regular who is pretty, clean, and safe, why would that someone pull over for a strung-out dope fiend on a street corner for a quick car date where the cops could apprehend them or a set-up could shake him down for his money, wallet or other valuables? Why would a guy do that?
Damned if I know why I do it. Because of danger? Because of some deep-seated psychological need to punish himself? Because he likes the look and thought of a total stranger debasing herself by sucking his smelly dick? Because he's going to pay $20 for a quick blow-job instead of the $100 he'd drop on a regular? Because the regular has gotten regular and the thrill is gone? Because when he goes home to his wife and she sucks his dick, it tickles the shit out of him that some chipped tooth crackhead was just sucking on it? Because his wife won't blow him at all, so fuck her? Because in his heart of hearts he knows he's worthless and it makes him feel good to use and debase another person? Because he's going to cum in the SW's mouth, then go on to his regular anyway, knowing that he'll last twice as long as he usually does, and he'll fuck the shit out of that girl and REALLY get his money's worth?
Any and all of the above?
I'd love a regular if they were different every time.
Coochie (sick fuck) Eater.
God Bless You All.
That's some deep shit right there
And I generally don't think about the dirty side of the hobby, it just makes it easier, and I feel less guilty. It also doesn't help the fantasy of momentarily thinking some cute chick wants to suck my dick etc.
It's kinda funny though. Yesterday I was reading a post by a provider (in the PNW) about how she prefers clients that treat her like a dirty * and doesn't like men who want some kinda fantasy. I thought "hey, maybe that's why I'm not clicking with the girls I usually meet". I try to treat them with some common decency, and they don't want that, it throws them off their game, and they aren't comfortable.