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[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6166719]I forgot a really big one. This is the one that they are proud of and this is probably the biggest one when I ask how they get over on guys.

9) Talking your time away. Many of these girls are chatterbugs just to eat your time away. Some of my ATFs have actually bragged to me how they talked for the entire call and booted the guy out before he got anything. You have to be smart here. I give them no more than a few minutes of their mindless chatter and then say time to get down to business. These girls will run out the clock by talking endlessly. You are not there for their cultured conversation. Make sure you are firm in saying let's get started. If they really want to chat and you don't mind bleeding from your ears, they can chat with you after the call.[/QUOTE]I got one. 10) It's the, It's my Birthday girl! Never met so many girls where I met where it just so happened to be their birthday when I see them.

As soon as you walk into their room, or they jump into your car, they let you know it's their birthday hoping that you give them extra money or do something extra for them like buy them a whole pack of cigarettes or take them out to eat. I have never done anything extra for them after they told me this and have been fine.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6174698]BBFS = Bareback Full Service. Sex without a condom.

So what advice is Tailgun going to give us about BBFS? How it is stupid to bareback these girls?

I have seen about 300 DIFFERENT women in my 10 years of mongering. I say about 300 because I just can't remember them all. I can recall 285 specifically which in and of itself is amazing given that I can't remember what I ate for breakfast. But I know I have seen more and just don't remember. I am probably closer to 350 but lets go with 300. Of those 300 I would say about 100 were just for blowjobs. That leaves 200 girls I had sex with. I only ever used a condom with about 50 of them.

Whoa! You saying you have barebacked 150 of these girls?

Yep. Some I did not do bareback until I had seen them before, sometimes half a dozen times or more. It's a trust issue. It's why when a girl has no BB in her ad it doesn't mean that. You are a trusted regular and they feel you have a brain. They want you to come see them more. Also being washed and groomed helps. You see this more with the well known established girls. They rarely, if ever, bareback the first time you see them. You may have seen a well known no BBFS provider a dozen times or more and she never bb you. If BB is your goal it's either because you never asked or she doesn't trust you for some reason. These girls, at least the ones who still have sense, seem to know who is low or high risk as far as bare.

I had about a dozen who just mounted me bare after giving me a BJ. Most of them had no BBFS in their ad. I remember one guy was on a different forum years ago saying how he brought his papers of being clean and she refused him anyway. I saw this girl right after that and she just mounted me bare. I was laughing inside. I think it goes back to these girls knowing who is low and high risk.

I had some who had the condom out on the bed but I just went in bare and they didn't say a thing. A few others the condom broke but they told me to keep going just don't cum inside them.

This is going to sound odd but when I see guys post on here asking if a girl does BBFS my immediate thought is Are you a Stupid Fucking Moron?

"Who are you to think that Tailgun, you BBFS tons of girls".

Yup. But I don't BB girls who post that they do. I BB the ones who post they don't or don't even mention it. Why? Because that means they are selective in who they do that with and not with every asshole who sees them. I have also mentioned that any girl who says she only BBs you or you and 1 other guy is lying. Almost all of these girls bareback a good number of guys, just not every guy. Why do I want to BB a girl who openly barebacks every guy? I also don't bb any girl who looks like a glorified streetwalker or acts like she doesn't care about anything anymore. See my point?

So the whole question of does she do BBFS is stupid. Whether or not they BBFS is how they feel about you and how you present yourself. Asking if a girl does BBBJ is a valid question. Asking if she does BBFS is stupid. If they openly state they BB anyone you are a fool to see her. If Bobby and Johnny post that Melissa did BBFS with them it doesn't mean she will with you and vice versa. Again, the BBFS question is a stupid one. If you are looking to BBFS every single girl you see because she did it with everyone else you are a moron.

So for someone who has BBFS so many girls I am talking a lot of trash. Well BBFS can be problematic anytime you do it whether with real girls or escorts. But you reduce your risk if you use some common sense. I avoid the crackwhore ultra skinny ones. I avoid any that are total trainwrecks. I avoid any who have given up caring or look sickly in any way. I avoid any that have so much as a pimple any place on their body. Take a careful look at who you are doing before you do them. I also have a cleaning regiment. When you are done run right to the bathroom and clean your dick off with soap and water. I then keep hand sanitizer or a bottle of alcohol in my car. Use it once you get in. I then shower when I get home. I get tested every year for STDs when I have my annual checkup. So far all of this has worked as I have remained clean.

Use your brain and some common sense when it comes to BBFS. Not all girls are meant to do that with. And stop asking if she does BBFS. If she looks low risk and you have your shit together you can BBFS any working girl. if they still won't with you they somehow know you are high risk.[/QUOTE]How does a chick know someone is low or high risk you can pm me or post the info I keep myself clean shaved ass and balls dick smelling good been a while since I had a rimjob Lmao.

[QUOTE=HunterJay;6175011]How does a chick know someone is low or high risk you can pm me or post the info I keep myself clean shaved ass and balls dick smelling good been a while since I had a rimjob Lmao.[/QUOTE]LOL Bro, I have no idea how they know. Maybe it's a 6th sense or their street smarts. There has to be something behind it since if that wasn't the case just about every one of us would have caught something by now. I doubt I am the only one who gets to do that so much. Maybe I have a very trusting face. Who knows. But I think BBFS is VERY common and these wacky girls somehow know who is safe or not.

As for your rimjobs. You are one of the smartest mongers here and I like your posts. But no way in hell am I knowingly seeing a girl right after she has seen you, LOL. I am just guessing but I imagine it's easier for a guy to get BB than it is to get their ass licked. I don't see the joy in that act but we all have our own thing I guess. But I am still never knowingly seeing a girl right after you do. Heck maybe I would wait a week or a month or just never. LOL.

What is your success rate with getting rimjobs? I see a lot of girls have it in their ad to receive but don't see many say they give. I have had girls try to stick their finger up my ass but I say NOOOO. But some guys say it feels good on the prostrate.

[QUOTE=TailGunner1;6175077]LOL Bro, I have no idea how they know. Maybe it's a 6th sense or their street smarts. There has to be something behind it since if that wasn't the case just about every one of us would have caught something by now. I doubt I am the only one who gets to do that so much. Maybe I have a very trusting face. Who knows. But I think BBFS is VERY common and these wacky girls somehow know who is safe or not.

As for your rimjobs. You are one of the smartest mongers here and I like your posts. But no way in hell am I knowingly seeing a girl right after she has seen you, LOL. I am just guessing but I imagine it's easier for a guy to get BB than it is to get their ass licked. I don't see the joy in that act but we all have our own thing I guess. But I am still never knowingly seeing a girl right after you do. Heck maybe I would wait a week or a month or just never. LOL.

What is your success rate with getting rimjobs? I see a lot of girls have it in their ad to receive but don't see many say they give. I have had girls try to stick their finger up my ass but I say NOOOO. But some guys say it feels good on the prostrate.[/QUOTE]My success to getting rimjobs I make sure I'm not hairy ass shaved balls shaved I flush myself out with the enema I do not eat within 12 plus hours of a date I ask the chick in person can I have a rimjob the chick will charge extra I'll agree to the upcharge if it's reasonable or negotiate to a reasonable price. Some chicks do not upcharge will give the rimjob and enjoy hearing me moan and watching me shake I always bring extra money if I have the urge to receive a rimjob from a chick I like giving hot looking chicks rimjobs watch their eyes roll and shake again and again been a while damn Christmas is coming.

I can't stand you J 😂.

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I'm looking to get my feet wet in the Sugar Baby and hookup site game (like Ashley Madison and secret benefits). I'm sure there is a lot of bullshit to wade through, but it can't be any worse then the bullshit on STG. Any advice on which site may be better? I also don't mind throwing around a few dollar to do some exploring. However, how the fuck do you pay for these sites anonymously? I tried prepaid cards but they don't seem to work. Any other work arounds? No fuckin way I'm putting these sites on my credit card with a SO I have to worry about.

[QUOTE=BigDickRick;6350284]I'm looking to get my feet wet in the Sugar Baby and hookup site game (like Ashley Madison and secret benefits). I'm sure there is a lot of bullshit to wade through, but it can't be any worse then the bullshit on STG. Any advice on which site may be better? I also don't mind throwing around a few dollar to do some exploring. However, how the fuck do you pay for these sites anonymously? I tried prepaid cards but they don't seem to work. Any other work arounds? No fuckin way I'm putting these sites on my credit card with a SO I have to worry about.[/QUOTE]I've done Secret Benefits a few times and it wasn't that great. The girls or bots-hard to tell-string you along and the way payment works, credit based, isn't as flexible as the pay monthly that Seeking has. Seeking, Seeking Arrangements as it was once called, is pricy, but once you pay you can contact as many girls as you want. It really depends what you want to spend. SBs are generally more expensive but could be higher quality.

I've also done What's Your Price where you offer and agree upfront to pay the girl some amount of money. If she agrees in theory you'd pay her that amount on your first "date". Obviously this format has issues, but I did meet a lady off, a messed up single mom, but never went beyond a meet up to talk.

From what I've heard is the hot and slutty college girls are moving to Only Fans etc and Seeking has mostly hookers and bots.

You'd need a second credit card or an online bank like Chime so you can have a debt card. If you're a iPhone user consider Apple Card. No paper statements are sent. But you'd have to make sure your SO doesn't see the mail when your physical cards are sent or you need a PO Box. Yes none of this is easy. You basically have to live like you're undercover and always leave no trace. You'll also have to get hotels to see your SB. Most can't or won't host. Having a SB is an odd combination of sex worker and mistress. You pay them to f*u*k but they don't see themselves as hookers.

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From what I've heard is the hot and slutty college girls are moving to Only Fans etc and Seeking has mostly hookers and bots.

You'd need a second credit card or an online bank like Chime so you can have a debt card. If you're a iPhone user consider Apple Card. No paper statements are sent. But you'd have to make sure your SO doesn't see the mail when your physical cards are sent or you need a PO Box. Yes none of this is easy. You basically have to live like you're undercover and always leave no trace. You'll also have to get hotels to see your SB. Most can't or won't host. Having a SB is an odd combination of sex worker and mistress. You pay them to f*u*k but they don't see themselves as hookers.[/QUOTE]That's what I'm afraid of. I can't leave a digital or physical footprint for fear my SO will find out. People poke at the strip club scene as being too high priced. But man it's clean and easy. Honestly it's ok if most of these women are hookers, they have to be better than the crack heads and scammers on STG.

Thanks for your input. I'm going to keep seeking a way to make this happen.

[QUOTE=BigDickRick;6351417]That's what I'm afraid of. I can't leave a digital or physical footprint for fear my SO will find out. People poke at the strip club scene as being too high priced. But man it's clean and easy. Honestly it's ok if most of these women are hookers, they have to be better than the crack heads and scammers on STG.

Thanks for your input. I'm going to keep seeking a way to make this happen.[/QUOTE]You're welcome. Hiding the digital footprint is possible depending on how comfortable you are with technology and how uninformed your SO is, and how locked down, you have your devices. If you have fake e-mail addresses and phone numbers and nobody looks at your phone, you can get away with it, if you're careful. Really depends on your situation. Good luck.

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I used Seeking several years ago and more recently Secret Benefits and What's Your Price. Neither led anywhere good. Just curious if anybody tried Seeking in the past few years? The local girls look good, but I've heard most have Golden Pussy Syndrome and I don't want to deal with that. I'm pretty much given up on Skip and looking for new outlets. Thanks.

[QUOTE=Klance;6377512]I used Seeking several years ago and more recently Secret Benefits and What's Your Price. Neither led anywhere good. Just curious if anybody tried Seeking in the past few years? The local girls look good, but I've heard most have Golden Pussy Syndrome and I don't want to deal with that. I'm pretty much given up on Skip and looking for new outlets. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Reviews on TER is a little more reliable. If I don't want to miss I take more notes on here.

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