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There is one provider that is charging $500 hour to cuddle. I was a wiseass and sent her a note if FS was included. She must have reported me because I got banned. Tried to work around using a vpn but cc doesn't allow vpns. Probably best since cc seems like a waste of time & money.
[QUOTE=SmileySam;7185855]There is one provider that is charging $500 hour to cuddle. I was a wiseass and sent her a note if FS was included. She must have reported me because I got banned. Tried to work around using a vpn but cc doesn't allow vpns. Probably best since cc seems like a waste of time & money.[/QUOTE]You have to register on another computer and ISP. I was able to get back on after getting banned. There is fun to be had but it's not a guarantee.
[QUOTE=Axel6;7186507]You have to register on another computer and ISP. I was able to get back on after getting banned. There is fun to be had but it's not a guarantee.[/QUOTE]That so called platonic site kicks you out the door whenever evidence leaves no room for interpretation that you expressed non platonic interest on the platform, but leaves the window open for you to come back. They want the Johns and the hoes as they are the ones that keep the lights on. If you have a second cell phone that you don't mind resetting, it will clear any ban, and you are good to go over and over again. Even on older cell or tablet that doesn't have cell service though that will limit you to only where WiFi is available. If they didn't want the banned to come back, they would have had an App by now, which would have dramatically improved their ability to permanently ban people. In order to preserve the platonic image, they have to take action in situations such as yours. It is also possible that the pro reported you to protect herself and her image in case she will ever be questioned about the conversation. Just play the game and keep it platonic everywhere. I keep it platonic even when texting on a private line. They know what's going on and they let it happen as long as there is no blatant evidence that they cannot ignore. They will event remove suggestive pictures and suspect text from pros profiles just to make it look more platonic. The more you are here the more you realize its nothing but another version of the Good old craigslist adult sections but with some hoops to jump thru. Be a gentleman, don't be pushy, have a good hygiene, let her lead, and you will be at 70-80% easily. No one can make a living off of playing big spoon little spoon.
[QUOTE=Alchy505;7179417]Pre meet: chatting for 2 days.
The day of the meet: booked for 2 hours session. We got comfy. I got hard. She noticed. Starts with a handjob and turned into a BBBJ. Says she's not like that. Yea, right. Really got into it. Played with her nipples and fingered her. Was not okay for bare. I feel we got along well. Days later, texts asking if I am looking to book another session but I did not. I would repeat but schedule is hard for me to align as I am hardly in chicago anymore and will be moving to austin.[/QUOTE]No dice. Vanessa's either a clear case of YMMV or literally only does platonic cuddles currently.
We spent time cuddling in the Sweetheart, or The Rom-Com position and were talking to get to know each other; good vibes and energy with her even calling me really cute. After the conversation, Vanessa fell asleep due to cuddling and the caressing I was doing to her. I started exploring more of her body (erogenous zones) and after a bit, she woke up and asked if I wanted a spoon and I said yeah because I knew where this was headed.
Jk, it headed nowhere. I was hard and my dick was pressing into her ass. I made my first move by slowly massaging her torso moving my way to her breast. I reached them and spent two seconds playing with her nipple before she took my hand away. Fuck, not good at all. I was tempted to get up and leave right there but stuck it out thinking what I could do to secure some fun (little head thinking). After awhile, I fell asleep and woke up horny. I went for round two by pushing my dick more into Vanessa's ass and trying for her pussy instead. Almost reached her lips before the same thing happened. Effectively turned me off and realized I just wasted my money on some dumb cuddles.
She's a nice person but ain't nothing there unless you get lucky I guess. Nice apartment too. Fault on me for choosing someone with mixed results but I truly thought I had a great chance.
Might shoot my shot with another girl but we'll see. Most of the girls on the site aren't attractive to me. And there are no reviews / discussions for the ones I do find attractive. This subsection is just a little too niche / YMMV for me to keep trying it out long-term.
Much respect to those who've gotten lucky with the more legit cuddlers!
[QUOTE=Soulandis;7190407]No dice. Vanessa's either a clear case of YMMV or literally only does platonic cuddles currently.
We spent time cuddling in the Sweetheart, or The Rom-Com position and were talking to get to know each other; good vibes and energy with her even calling me really cute. After the conversation, Vanessa fell asleep due to cuddling and the caressing I was doing to her. I started exploring more of her body (erogenous zones) and after a bit, she woke up and asked if I wanted a spoon and I said yeah because I knew where this was headed.[/QUOTE]No offense, but all this report seems to indicate is that she is not one of the prostitutes-in-disguise on the site who start to recite their menu once you simply paw at their tits or pussy to silently indicate what you want.
There are basically three categories of pros on CC, IMO:
1. On one end of the spectrum, legit platonic-only cuddlers, usually who believe in its legitimacy as a therapy tool (they're probably right in many cases). The giveaway for these is usually a profile laden with hippie shit, or they are active participants in the CC community, like the forums. A profile that says "platonic only!" is NOT an immediate indication that they fall into this category.
2. On the other end, prostitutes who are just using the site as another place to book and find mongers.
3. The fat middle (like half of the site or more). Some combination of semi-active or aspirational SBs (e. G. On Seeking), women who just need money, women who like cuddling (and want to get paid), women who are lonely (and want to get paid), or some or all of the above.
The fun of the site for many is Category 3. These women are willing to get into a bed with you for hours and get about as intimate as you can with a stranger without sex, and maybe even more so. All of the ingredients are there for fun if you play your cards right. They are human too. The keys are basically the same as getting lucky in real life: be respectful (and charming / funny), try to follow their lead, and hopefully have some game and understand the art of escalation.
Sample routine in a two hour session: first 30-45 minutes, at least, is just chatting while cuddling. Small talk, ask them questions, make them laugh. Get them to drop any guard they have and get more comfortable with you. All the while, gradually touch them more in G-rated places. Rub their back, trace your fingers on the nape of their neck or their arms, etc. Ask if it's okay at each step along the way. Keep escalating ever so slightly. By the time hour two starts there's likely starting to be some serious sexual tension. Don't hide your arousal or interest at all, and send subtle signals, but let her eventually be the one to act on it if you can. At a certain point, it's going to be very clear on both sides where it's going (think of the quote "if you think you can kiss her, you probably could have ten minutes ago" Then it's game on from there. (Some may charge more at this point, but many will not).
You're going to end up in some cases discovering that you actually ended up with a Category 1 Non-Platonic cuddler, but that's part of the fun in my opinion. (EDIT: it could very well be that Vanessa is now just Category 1. I've never seen her, just saying that this report isn't necessary proof that she is).
This is a very different game than traditional mongering, but it can be super hot if done right.
[QUOTE=DaveSanto2;7191542]No offense, but all this report seems to indicate is that she is not one of the prostitutes-in-disguise on the site who start to recite their menu once you simply paw at their tits or pussy to silently indicate what you want.
There are basically three categories of pros on CC, IMO:
1. On one end of the spectrum, legit platonic-only cuddlers, usually who believe in its legitimacy as a therapy tool (they're probably right in many cases). The giveaway for these is usually a profile laden with hippie shit, or they are active participants in the CC community, like the forums. A profile that says "platonic only!" is NOT an immediate indication that they fall into this category.
2. On the other end, prostitutes who are just using the site as another place to book and find mongers.
3. The fat middle (like half of the site or more). Some combination of semi-active or aspirational SBs (e. G. On Seeking), women who just need money, women who like cuddling (and want to get paid), women who are lonely (and want to get paid), or some or all of the above.
The fun of the site for many is Category 3. These women are willing to get into a bed with you for hours and get about as intimate as you can with a stranger without sex, and maybe even more so. All of the ingredients are there for fun if you play your cards right. They are human too. The keys are basically the same as getting lucky in real life: be respectful (and charming / funny), try to follow their lead, and hopefully have some game and understand the art of escalation.
Sample routine in a two hour session: first 30-45 minutes, at least, is just chatting while cuddling. Small talk, ask them questions, make them laugh. Get them to drop any guard they have and get more comfortable with you. All the while, gradually touch them more in G-rated places. Rub their back, trace your fingers on the nape of their neck or their arms, etc. Ask if it's okay at each step along the way. Keep escalating ever so slightly. By the time hour two starts there's likely starting to be some serious sexual tension. Don't hide your arousal or interest at all, and send subtle signals, but let her eventually be the one to act on it if you can. At a certain point, it's going to be very clear on both sides where it's going (think of the quote "if you think you can kiss her, you probably could have ten minutes ago" Then it's game on from there. (Some may charge more at this point, but many will not).
You're going to end up in some cases discovering that you actually ended up with a Category 1 Non-Platonic cuddler, but that's part of the fun in my opinion. (EDIT: it could very well be that Vanessa is now just Category 1. I've never seen her, just saying that this report isn't necessary proof that she is).
This is a very different game than traditional mongering, but it can be super hot if done right.[/QUOTE]I would bet that Vanessa is in category 3. Only because there's a report of her being on seeking arrangements and the one guy who did get lucky with her. However, most reviewers, including me, have not gotten lucky. From my POV during the experience she gave signs (I didn't go into great detail in my review) that she was comfortable and enjoyed / liked me but not enough to begin anything sexual. Additionally, if no one had brought her up on here then I wouldn't have reached out due to all the karma she has.
However, I agree with your assessment and appreciate your response. After my experience, I fully realized that this area of the hobby doesn't appeal to everyone (especially me) since you're intentionally trying to find sex workers / girls open to sex on a site that is publicly against those actions and houses plenty of women who are also against it. And you're also essentially paying to attempt to seduce a woman in some cases. A game for sure, and not much different from an actual date but with a much different context.
And I know beauty is subjective but I just don't think there's a lot of eye candy on this site in Chicago. So it's slim pickings for me to find someone attractive, not expensive, recently active, and a guarantee for fun.
I may have one more swing at this but I think escorts and AMPs are more of my speed. Though I am actively trying to cut down on this hobby's spending this year cause things are looking spooky in the world right now; I didn't even buy eggs the last time I went to the grocery store.
[QUOTE=Soulandis;7191969]I would bet that Vanessa is in category 3. Only because there's a report of her being on seeking arrangements and the one guy who did get lucky with her. However, most reviewers, including me, have not gotten lucky. From my POV during the experience she gave signs (I didn't go into great detail in my review) that she was comfortable and enjoyed / liked me but not enough to begin anything sexual. Additionally, if no one had brought her up on here then I wouldn't have reached out due to all the karma she has.
However, I agree with your assessment and appreciate your response. After my experience, I fully realized that this area of the hobby doesn't appeal to everyone (especially me) since you're intentionally trying to find sex workers / girls open to sex on a site that is publicly against those actions and houses plenty of women who are also against it. And you're also essentially paying to attempt to seduce a woman in some cases. A game for sure, and not much different from an actual date but with a much different context.
And I know beauty is subjective but I just don't think there's a lot of eye candy on this site in Chicago. So it's slim pickings for me to find someone attractive, not expensive, recently active, and a guarantee for fun.
I may have one more swing at this but I think escorts and AMPs are more of my speed. Though I am actively trying to cut down on this hobby's spending this year cause things are looking spooky in the world right now; I didn't even buy eggs the last time I went to the grocery store.[/QUOTE]And. Just like that, Vanessa is paused. I don't know if this post contributed to this, but I do know that CC is watching this forum closely as exhibited by the inability to click on CC links directly from here.
[QUOTE=MeNU469;7191972]And. Just like that, Vanessa is paused. I don't know if this post contributed to this, but I do know that CC is watching this forum closely as exhibited by the inability to click on CC links directly from here.[/QUOTE]Crazy timing. Probably did bring attention to her account. But the pinned post by Admin2 pretty much says it all.
[QUOTE=Soulandis;7191969]...you're...essentially paying to attempt to seduce a woman in some cases. A game for sure, and not much different from an actual date but with a much different context.
[/QUOTE]This pretty much sums it up right here, regardless of the "cuddler", just varying degrees of probability.
[QUOTE=Soulandis;7191969]A game for sure, and not much different from an actual date but with a much different context.[/QUOTE]Pretty much spot on.
Also, for anyone looking for something that seems like a sure thing: I traded messages with SnuggleHaven88 around the start of the year and didn't end up seeing her, but got two unsolicited messages a few weeks apart on the site from a random user who shares that she offers extras / has a menu. Not sure if she is the one planting the messages, or if it's someone who just wants to share with the masses, but passing the info along. [URL]https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/SnuggleHaven88[/URL].
[QUOTE=MeNU469;7191972]And. Just like that, Vanessa is paused. I don't know if this post contributed to this, but I do know that CC is watching this forum closely as exhibited by the inability to click on CC links directly from here.[/QUOTE]In most cases, a pause is due to an issue with charging the payment method CC has on file for the house fee. Could be as simple as an expired card or a gift card that ran out of $$. For investigating suspicions activities, you would see her Timed Out rather than Paused.
[QUOTE=DaveSanto2;7192775]Also, for anyone looking for something that seems like a sure thing: I traded messages with SnuggleHaven88 around the start of the year and didn't end up seeing her, but got two unsolicited messages a few weeks apart on the site from a random user who shares that she offers extras / has a menu. Not sure if she is the one planting the messages, or if it's someone who just wants to share with the masses, but passing the info along. [URL]https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/SnuggleHaven88[/URL].[/QUOTE]I got this message from some random guy.
Cat fish alert: Šńüğ289;316;èĦàvě324; 88 in stream wood.
Says she's 32 but she's 38. Criminally transmitted Hpv to her previous partners too. Don't get caught up in it bruv.
[QUOTE=AlwaySmiling;7193181]I got this message from some random guy.
Cat fish alert: ńğ289;316;Ħvě324; 88 in stream wood.
Says she's 32 but she's 38. Criminally transmitted Hpv to her previous partners too. Don't get caught up in it bruv.[/QUOTE]I messaged her yesterday asking if she was on SA, knowing full well she was. She told me I had the wrong person and blocked me. I vividly remember her wanting $700 for an outcall, everything covered. Streamwood isn't necessarily a hotbed for action, she's not fooling anyone.
[QUOTE=DaveSanto2;7192775]Also, for anyone looking for something that seems like a sure thing: I traded messages with SnuggleHaven88 around the start of the year and didn't end up seeing her, but got two unsolicited messages a few weeks apart on the site from a random user who shares that she offers extras / has a menu. Not sure if she is the one planting the messages, or if it's someone who just wants to share with the masses, but passing the info along. [URL]https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/SnuggleHaven88[/URL].[/QUOTE]Tried talking to this one despite the warnings LOL at least with me she's pretty firm on no extras at all, no grinding or groping at all. Mentioned tipping but didn't get much further really. So I dunno. If we do meet up it's not for awhile so maybe things will change. Will update as needed.