Non Pro's

I'm considering heading over to SA. I've had an occasional semi pro from WYP. It's generally worth the effort but you have to keep your eyes open for sure. If something seems off, it's off, and don't believe anything you are told otherwise.

[QUOTE=Trux1;5294264]I'm considering heading over to SA. I've had an occasional semi pro from WYP. It's generally worth the effort but you have to keep your eyes open for sure. If something seems off, it's off, and don't believe anything you are told otherwise.[/QUOTE]Others have weighed in on this as well, but I'll throw in my experience with SA and SB. Was a member there for about a year pre pandemic. Definitely some gems in there with some patience. Even though I'm a decent looking guy and my financial health is good enough, I still avoided the glammed up profiles that would obviously be getting a lot of attention. Too much of a time waste. As long as you are willing to do alot of meetngreets, coffee meetings with the potential to walk away with nothing, then its a good system. As always, be conscious of what you say in your first text until you actually meet so not to get yourself in some trouble.

[QUOTE=Alas5877;5294685]Others have weighed in on this as well, but I'll throw in my experience with SA and SB. Was a member there for about a year pre pandemic. Definitely some gems in there with some patience. Even though I'm a decent looking guy and my financial health is good enough, I still avoided the glammed up profiles that would obviously be getting a lot of attention. Too much of a time waste. As long as you are willing to do alot of meetngreets, coffee meetings with the potential to walk away with nothing, then its a good system. As always, be conscious of what you say in your first text until you actually meet so not to get yourself in some trouble.[/QUOTE]Hey gents,

For those of us who insist on a certain amount of discretion due to a gf (or spouse for others, I suppose), how easy is it to maintain that discretion with something like SA or SB? I was thinking non-face pics if I dip my toes in that water, that or blurry face pics. How many questions do the girls ask, and do the sugar babies care? Or are they likely to try to hang you over a barrel for extra cash?

I've had the AMP girls ask me if I have a GF, am I married, want to know if I have kids, etc., I never know whether being single to them or not is the right answer?

Or am I the only rotten dog on here? LOL.

[QUOTE=Jd058;5299996]Hey gents,

For those of us who insist on a certain amount of discretion due to a gf (or spouse for others, I suppose), how easy is it to maintain that discretion with something like SA or SB? I was thinking non-face pics if I dip my toes in that water, that or blurry face pics. How many questions do the girls ask, and do the sugar babies care? Or are they likely to try to hang you over a barrel for extra cash?

I've had the AMP girls ask me if I have a GF, am I married, want to know if I have kids, etc., I never know whether being single to them or not is the right answer?

Or am I the only rotten dog on here? LOL.[/QUOTE]The semi pro sites have everything from legitimate, good twenty somethings needing help with rent to convicted felons who just got out of prison. I found all of those on WYP including one young lady who lied about having been arrested for beating her kid and was trying to get pregnant by me since she'd lost custody of the kids she already had.

If I had anything to lose by being on a site like that I wouldn't do it.

As for hiding your identity, I went to a doppelganger site, found a dude in Ireland that looked more like me than my brother. Took a screen shot, edited the pic into a local background. Thought it was a solid effort. Uploaded it to SA and they immediately notified me the pic was a fraud and deleted my account in the span of less than 5 minutes.

Just use a pro, as the saying goes you aren't paying them for sex you are paying them to leave after sex.

[QUOTE=Jd058;5299996]Hey gents,

For those of us who insist on a certain amount of discretion due to a gf (or spouse for others, I suppose), how easy is it to maintain that discretion with something like SA or SB? I was thinking non-face pics if I dip my toes in that water, that or blurry face pics. How many questions do the girls ask, and do the sugar babies care? Or are they likely to try to hang you over a barrel for extra cash?

I've had the AMP girls ask me if I have a GF, am I married, want to know if I have kids, etc., I never know whether being single to them or not is the right answer?

Or am I the only rotten dog on here? LOL.[/QUOTE]Oddly, you're in a similar position as many of the women on SA or SB, which is why so many have profiles that say things like "let's respect each other's space and boundaries when we're apart".

A LOT of girls there want the cash, and the fun, and are not looking to have a proper 'relationship' out of it, so there's a good chance you'll be able to find someone who is okay being the 'other woman' so long as you're upfront with her that it's her role in your life.

[QUOTE=Mizunate;5301787]Oddly, you're in a similar position as many of the women on SA or SB, which is why so many have profiles that say things like "let's respect each other's space and boundaries when we're apart".

A LOT of girls there want the cash, and the fun, and are not looking to have a proper 'relationship' out of it, so there's a good chance you'll be able to find someone who is okay being the 'other woman' so long as you're upfront with her that it's her role in your life.[/QUOTE]Thanks, gents. I appreciate it.

Fuck I hate spending the money, but I love the pussy!

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;5336763]Fuck I hate spending the money, but I love the pussy![/QUOTE]I got an email around 8 am today with a 33% Summer Discount link in it to upgrade my membership. I'd check the email you registered with to see if you got something similar. Not sure why they would limit to a subset of users unless they were doing A / B testing with different discount rates and the resulting subscription yields.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15df53a6-fcdf-4be4-aa4e-4c788a1905d6[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2778c42e-c760-44eb-9e5f-a21f10e596ca[/URL]

2 profile show up for her. I figured it out she bailed.

I recently (about 2 months) took membership on SA and met few good ones for dates and hotel hangouts. Is anyone else active on SA and would like to trade info via PM?

I don't want to directly post in here because if the SB's sees it then they might be able to identify me and don't want to mess up anything. But I encountered a lot of fakes / scammers / pro's and will post them here to help the community.

[QUOTE=SimpleHuman;5287501]I don't have any experience with SB but from what I've heard, SA gets better results for the money. It is expensive though. And there are a lot of fake profiles to weed through. But I'm thinking that's true with both sites. They're pretty easy to figure out though.

There are a lot of girls in the area who are active on SA. From shy introverts to boisterous party girls. Just remember, regardless of what is actually happening or being discussed, they don't want to be treated like an escort.[/QUOTE]You get so much more value for the money with SA girls and most are fine with what TNA girls wouldn't do or would charge a lot more to do. The $99/ month is a bargain for the results if you approach it with the right game IMHO.

She's been messaging me non-stop and I let her until she asked me to cashapp her some dough. No chance of that happening. Does anyone have any intel on her? TGTBT? Scam?

Thanks in advance.

PC.

[QUOTE=PoontangChaser;5495628]She's been messaging me non-stop and I let her until she asked me to cashapp her some dough. No chance of that happening. Does anyone have any intel on her? TGTBT? Scam?

Thanks in advance.

PC.[/QUOTE]When a pic is that grainy, it's likely stolen. This in particular looks like it was a screengrab of a video.

Scammers do this to create unique images scanning platforms like Tineye can't immediately identify. They will often screengrab, crop, and / or strip all metadata from an image to further confuse the platforms.

NEVER send anyone money for any reason unless you have an established, personal relationship with them. There are a LOT of sob-stories and most of them are scammers looking to make a quick buck.

[QUOTE=Baddaddy2021;5495370]You get so much more value for the money with SA girls and most are fine with what TNA girls wouldn't do or would charge a lot more to do. The $99/ month is a bargain for the results if you approach it with the right game IMHO.[/QUOTE]What is the normal going-rate for SA pickups? You say $99 is a value so I'm curious what the monthly commitment looks like: time, allowance, etc. I know it's likely dependent on the woman, but I'm heavily weighing-in starting up an SA account or diving into the TNA game and trying to determine which would offer the most bang for my buck. Discretion is valuable.

[QUOTE=Mizunate;5496524]When a pic is that grainy, it's likely stolen. This in particular looks like it was a screengrab of a video.

Scammers do this to create unique images scanning platforms like Tineye can't immediately identify. They will often screengrab, crop, and / or strip all metadata from an image to further confuse the platforms.

NEVER send anyone money for any reason unless you have an established, personal relationship with them. There are a LOT of sob-stories and most of them are scammers looking to make a quick buck.[/QUOTE]Here is what I learned from SA:

1. Meet in person over coffee or something in a public safe place for all. No money exchange at this point. Don't waste her time either. Get to one know one another and make sure that it is a fit.

2. Discuss arrangement possibly. I found that most of the girls are hoping for a couple thousand in allowance. That can be ppm or some direct monthly / weekly transfer. Almost everyone wanted to start ppm.

3. A Sugar baby typically doesn't like the idea of being an escort. Like any time you ongoingly date someone you can pretty much assume you will end up in bed at some point. But a lot of the SAs want to feel cared for. Basically treat them with respect and enjoy their company.

4. Everyone knows adult activities will take place. Just pretty much never at their place. There is really no such thing as incall. So keep that in mind too.

5. There are scammers, but they are so easy to spot. The women who will meet you for a quick tea / coffee / walk / etc. are the ones to continue with. Sending any money ahead of time is just stupid.