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In the late '90's I was dating an escort, in fact she lived with me for a year. She found herself without a place to live one night, and wound up moving in with me. After about a week, she went out on a date which turned out bad, the client beat her up and sicced his dog on her. She was bitten in a couple places and had some lacerations. I wound up taking her to the ER to get patched up, and she wound up staying with me for a year.

It didn't bother me that she went out to work from time to time, however I told her that if she was going to work while she stayed with me, she would have to check in with me before and after an appointment. That worked out OK. She had other problems, though, she wouldn't listen, and eventually she screwed up and got my house robbed, and got herself put in prison. Not a good time. But, it was good while it lasted.

Cheech.

[QUOTE=Streetwize;2017161]Would anyone of you guys ever consider dating an escort? I mean fully accept what it is that she does. No trying to change her. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Why bother? Your wallet will stay fatter seeing them the hobby way. Plus you won't have to put up with their ridiculous drama or habits.

[QUOTE=Streetwize;2017161]Would anyone of you guys ever consider dating an escort? I mean fully accept what it is that she does. No trying to change her. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]I guess it depends on how tight you want to define "dating." One can be dating someone or be in a relationship with someone without any long-term commitments. By this definition, then yes, I've dated a couple of escorts while she did her gig. Both were fun, had very high sex drives, and basically were 'hot sluts' to be blunt. In these 2 cases, for the amount of sex involved, it definitely was cheaper to be "dating" them if you didn't monetize time. However, I chose to date these 2 women because I didn't have a better option then. There was no way I would have made any long-term commitments to them.

If one looks at dating as an honest attempt to build a relationship into something long-term like marriage, than there is no chance in the world I would date an escort that does it willingly and happily. My view is that there are a lot beautiful women out there that are great at sex and don't have hundreds of dudes having sex with her day in and day out. Sure, I'll date an escort but I would never be able to love someone unconditionally that wouldn't be willing to stop that kind of work. I've dated a couple of escorts and it is nothing more than trading benefits with each other even though we cared for each other to a certain degree.

Having said all of that, something to keep in mind is that one's view of love or whatever feelings one has for these escorts gets unproportionally magnified a bit purely due to the fact that there is a classical conditioning that takes place when one associates positive sexual feelings with a person. This positive magnification dwindles as time goes by, her body isn't that exotic playground anymore as you play on it everyday, and one begins to see the truer perspective outside of sex (the bitching, the time commitment, her kid (s), etc. Having hobbied for a while, I certainly understand where this question comes from though and have ventured there certainly.

Regardless, I think it all just comes down to what someone wants out of a relationship and this can be affected by different situations even like age, how happy someone is, and conversely how lonely someone is. I mean, I was willing to date, short-term, a couple of escorts purely because I was a bit lonely and I didn't have the motivation to go out with friends and meet people. It was just an easier play to pay an escort and then date her. So, I can definitely see moments or times in someone's life where dating an escort and letting her do her gig would be fine because it is better than the alternative.

[QUOTE=LonelyGuy1976;2017592]Why bother? Your wallet will stay fatter seeing them the hobby way. Plus you won't have to put up with their ridiculous drama or habits.[/QUOTE]Well, I understand that. The one I'm thinking of honestly doesn't have much drama. And she doesn't do drugs. As for the wallet, I don't think that really would be an issue with her. Basically I would have to be faithful and her clients would be "just business".

[QUOTE=Streetwize;2018116]Well, I understand that. The one I'm thinking of honestly doesn't have much drama. And she doesn't do drugs. As for the wallet, I don't think that really would be an issue with her. Basically I would have to be faithful and her clients would be "just business".[/QUOTE]Really? Because she is being so faithful?

[QUOTE=PipeFighter94;2018137]Really? Because she is being so faithful?[/QUOTE]No. Not because she is being faithful. But it would be my sacrifice to be with her.

[QUOTE=Streetwize;2018978]No. Not because she is being faithful. But it would be my sacrifice to be with her.[/QUOTE]I get it bro, you give up the mongering lifestyle but she does not. Not sure I could do that.

It's clear now. Sorry, dudes.

[QUOTE=Streetwize;2017161]Would anyone of you guys ever consider dating an escort? I mean fully accept what it is that she does. No trying to change her. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]I'm there. Everything comes to an end eventually. If you feel the ride is worth it, just hang on for as long as you can.

Met a girl via a sugardady website. One I barely used and with ZERO pictures... I barely put any effort into the profile. Woke up one morning to a message from this hot blonde who lives in Parma. She just shot me a quick message and sent me her number. I responded back.. A day or so after. After texting and I did blow her off a couple times I met up with her. 26, Blonde, tall around 5'9"- huge natural DDD boobs, fun, charismatic. Picked her up after work, had two drinks with her and a lot of chit -chat. Went back to my place... Stayed up until about 4 am talking with her. (never do this). Woke up the next morning, she watched me get ready. I paid her... Per our agreement.Took her home, and we immediately started texting. Saw her the following Saturday, spent most of Sunday together as well. Did it again this past week. Sounds great, right?

She's from parma. Has a 'apt' in Miami. Showed me pictures. Its a REALLY nice one. Says she has a BMW there as well. No problems. But, she's a 'dance' Choreographer, she.

Barely works. She was recently gone working somewhere in S.Ohio and was in a 'really bad cell service area' and couldn't "respond" for like 18 hours. All her GF's are super hot and from Miami to LA, to Vegas. Says she contracts for all sorts of events. She's done the SD / SB thing prior, and she's been really forthright with me. But.

She also jokes about certain stuff. While with her having drinks her friend wants her to meet up. She's with two other guys, but says one of them is 'older and rich' - her sarcastic response was "perfect, give him my picture". I know she likes invoking reactions.. But, the conversation went further saying she wants $ and he agreed. I ended up taking her home and fucking the piss right out of her... But her friend (whom I've met) wanted her to meet up. I dropped her off.. And she started texting that the men want her to go back with them...and she's not having it.

She's never asked for anymore $$ and said she was embarrassed that I gave it to her. She wants to date me, legit as in be my GF... But my gut tells me that there's a lot more to her story.

True irony having been in this hobby for a while I can't really tell if she's a high end escort or receiving funds from other SD... But I'm freaking head over heels for this girl.

Anyone have incite?

Cheers mates.

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Buddy. I'm just guessing because I had a hard time understanding some of what you wrote and of course I don't know the whole story but lots of the hot chicks out there are masters at playing men. Some of them started when they were spoiled little girls learning how to act to get their fathers or uncles to buy them what they wanted then honing their craft in high school through their teenage years. By the time they are adults they've become so adept at deception that even the best of us can't tell if we're being played or not, what's real and what's fake.

I was on a sugar daddy site a couple years ago and I had several chicks contact me that I just knew were sending out mass contacts to every guy on the site like throwing a net into a school of fish hoping to catch the big one.

She was probably doing something similar with another guy during that 18 hour blackout where you lost contact with her. It's easy to get mesmorized by a hot chick that knows how to push the right buttons, it happened to me recently and no doubt will happen again someday.

My feeling is that if it seems TGTBT it probably is. I'm sure you're right about there being a lot more to her story. Be careful and try not to get in too deep but enjoy the ride while it's there.

This site is worth reading just for the laughs alone. And my advice on the current subject is to not be a sucker. You will not meet a woman that you'll live happily ever after with in this hobby.

[QUOTE=LonelyGuy1976;2079292]This site is worth reading just for the laughs alone. And my advice on the current subject is to not be a sucker. You will not meet a woman that you'll live happily ever after with in this hobby.[/QUOTE]Unless she returns your money, will NEVER happen, she is just trying to get more in a different way. It is tough to reform a hooker. I know t that is not what you wanted to hear, but it is the truth.

[QUOTE=Cloaked;2078735]Met a girl via a sugardady website.
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Anyone have incite?
Cheers mates.[/QUOTE]Wasn't there a movie about something like this called "Pretty Woman"?

[URL]http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0100405/[/URL]