Upcomming Trial of X. Will You Attend?
So the trial of X is set to commence on April 13th, two days before Tax day! So who is planning on attending?
I guess if there is enough interest we could rent a party bus and go down and see the proceedings. Not sure it would be a good idea to bring a bunch of ladies along on the Party Bus, but it is a thought! Central meet up, will be conveniently located just off the expressway at the Days Inn on Belle Hill Road.
A memorial with drinks & refreshments will be served afterwards at the Days Inn, Room 209! Not sure how many girls plan to attend the Memorial, but I am sure We will Have a Fun Time!
Party goers are requested to park in front of the room, exit their vehicle, turn and wave to the pole cam and then proceed to the room! Oh and party proceedings will be video taped using GoPro cams, strategically located in the room.
I know for many it will be a sigh of relief and others a chance to mourn their loss. We could book adjacent rooms for those who need to get away from the proceedings for a bit or those who forget to bring a designated driver.
Entry to the party will be free, just need to verify you, so send a picture of you and you ID and one of just your ID to the party line to get confirmation and a [U]slot[/U] in this party.
So who is in?
Message Board Use: Interesting Approaches
I see there are quite a few screen names with low post counts engaging the conversation these days. Hey, that is great! Either we have some new blood or these are new IDs created as a result of the WHFT fiasco. Hey new blood is great and new perspectives are always needed and welcome.
Now that said, I see some "interesting" trends in the way many post here. Perhaps I won't state this well, but here goes a try. Seems like, like azzh*les, everyone has an OPINION and thinks it valid to share that opinion. OK, I get that. But when one is just plain wrong or ignores the history of the threads when posting that opinion then Hmmmm.
Not to pick on anyone poster but an example comes from a recent post where a dude posted a picture of a girl and asked for information on her. Apparently the dude had a picture with two girls in it and cropped out one girl and asked about the other, the girl on the right of the picture. That probably was a mistake, poster should have posted the pic of both girls and asked who was the girl on the right AND identiy the girl on the left. But some monger comes along and states with conviction that the girl's name was ABC when in fact that was not true: the girl who was cropped out of the picture was ABC. OK, so the dude had wishful thinking and was excited: been there & done that! No worries. But what I found "interesting" was that this started a huge debate with many wrong "opinions" being posted and it wasn't until three or more dudes confirmed facts that the debate ended. Oh and in the middle of it, a few thought it was a good idea to take shots at others. So for a while we had the blind leading the blind. But hey, I guess if one is of the internet culture then this is the way they chose to live their lives and think. History has no value and all posters are scammers until proven otherwise in real time? Ignoring history or ignoring experience can be detrimental to one's safety. I'd caution others to think deeper, use history and understand that some of the LT posters are here to be helpful, they don't need to post, but do so to help others. So if you want to discount what someone says based on style, that is your prerogative. Boards would be much more useful if 'exercises in futility' were kept to a minimum, ego was checked and personal attacks eliminated.
Then I see a trend toward posting an opinion or what one "could do" which is theoretical in nature and something which the poster has no direct knowledge of or experience with. OK, new ideas are good and help dudes adapt as needed. But are these posts from a place of being helpful or seeing one's post in print? Are we seeking admiration and accolades from others? Are we getting some satisfaction from challenging others or taking counter-points from them? I have always said, [U]this is only wh*rem*ngering![/U] As such who cares if one gets accolades from some anon mongers on a MB? Nothing you can add to your resume, share with your friends or hold up in the town square. Maybe there are many who love this kind of "Survivor" mentality and take credence with those who counter punch the most? Hey that is anyone's choice to believe and act that way. I think it leads to the blind leading the blind, which in my experience is poor risk management approach.
Then I see dudes setting up strawmen only to turn around and knock them down. Again, what is the purpose in doing that? How does that advance the discussion? More self engrandization? More Survivor mentality?
[B]These boards can be what you make of them.[/B]
My advice, based on my experience over many years and many learning experiences is to use the history and advice here to learn and develop some skills. Any hobby has a learning curve. Many experienced dudes who have gone before you have left bread crumbs and good advice. There are risks in this hobby and how one chooses to manage that risk is a choice one makes or ignores. Have seen too many become statistics because of ignorance (lack of knowledge) when indeed the knowledge was right on this site for them to learn.
So a few thoughts on the trends I see here. Hope this trend doesn't continue as constant engagement on this level is of little interest.
Good luck & stay safe Amigos!
STDs The Third Rail of this Site
Gents wake up! You can not talk about STDs on this site but in few select threads and you are specifically prohibited from posting that any girl is has an STD " in the forum unless substantiated by links to internet-accessible public records. ".
For those who missed it, a few years ago there was a law passed called HIPPA. One of the things this law does is protect you from having your medical records released to anyone unless you give specific authorization.
But because there is no discussion of STDs on the information threads, should in no way lead gents to let their guards down on the subject.
Good luck to all and stay safe!
The rest on my thoughts are here:
Post #1125.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?4227-Safe-Sex-Information-and-Advice&p=4651432&viewfull=1[/URL]#post4651432.
I respectfully disagree Amigo
[I] moved this convo here since this is the closest thing I could find to a fight thread on this site and as to not cross any lines with the mods. Hope the thread Mod doesn't object and delte the post?[/I]
[QUOTE=RugByMan;4849390]Shew, the wrath of Shampoo. Yes, I have found many sites. Most girls have not. There is no new blood, just the same old same olds posting on them. I think we can all agree it has slowed things down and its rough out there. I was just making a very general comment. Sorry it offended you so my friend. I'll buy you an Asian Massage so you can get some of your pent up anger out. 😄.[/QUOTE]I respectfully disagree. There is lots of "new" pussy to be found and since things opened up, things have picked up.
That list has hundreds of girls on it in all price ranges, not just the same girls. Oh sure there are a few sites that are consolidators or re-posters, but if one looks around there are many girls that are real that are available. Shoot, every time I do DD I find one of those sites and often do a little look around on the site. I set aside a girl who looks interesting and as a result have tens of possibilities on my 'list' as POTs.
I guess if one has to conclude there is no new blood, that they have not cast a very wide net or are fishing in the same fishing hole. [u]Be like the Marines, adapt, improvise and overcome![/u]
* When the sites were slow because of lock downs, the streets were bustling. (adapt) I keep seeing reports of "new" girls on the strolls all of the time.
* I see a few DE mongers on the Philly boards and I too include that in my search area. (adjust) Shoot the airport is a short drive up 95. No need to go to NE Philly, plenty in SW Philly or the burbs between here and there (upto and including West Chester).
* Or one can go upscale and try some of the pricier sites: eros, tryst as the "same girls" aren't there as on CXG! (crazy but do-able).
* Oh and if one wants new girls there are always the SB sites, but hey that takes some effort. (adapt).
* Then of course I have a stable of regulars I can go to AND who often can find me a new girl on demand. (improvise).
* If you want truly "new" and unreviewed go hit the GPB stroll! (adjust).
* Oh and from time to time there is a creative monger that reports success picking up Single Moms in Wally World or Wawa or where ever (improvise).
So from my view I can find many more girls that I could ever date and I am baffled by so many guys bemoaning the loss of CXG!
So I didn't get up on the wrong side of the bed. [b]Got to wonder what is one's criteria such that they see the glass half empty?[/b]
If you want help why not state what are your search criteria? Size, shape, color, attributes. Where are you looking is it a narrow area? What is your price range?
Sorry for not agreeing and not being all Kumbyah, just many dudes in the same boat. Can't find anyone because the one site they used is down. [b]What is the real issue here?[/b]
This site is about helping others find girls. I have done that by pointing out resources. If one wants specific type of girl then state what you are looking for and perhaps another will share?
