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[QUOTE=Mlive123;5229051]The strip mall he is referring to is called the "White Oak Center" and the specific venue is Chinese Touch Massage.[/QUOTE]Thanks for clarifying, haven't been there yet. Which makes the original survival question either very good or bad. Are we talking good as in crazy fucking under disco ball lights all day? Or bad as in ugly girls giving legit massages?
-PM me if its the former.
[QUOTE=Lenny6746;5228151]Bengalman exclaimed I miss her so much!! I thought you only went with high end girls?? After you trying to bash me for 20 dollar girls right?? Well when you live in a glass house don't throw stones. I knew Beautiful Becky as she called herself. I knew her well she lived with me and as you know I don't use condoms That's just me so you also were with a 40 dollar girl and she charged you 100 right. That's Becky she had a trailer in Fairfield and a old house in Hamillton and a House in Forrestpark. She's another one that stopped charging me then she took off to California. She's a addict if you didn't know it H is her drug of choice. Your the same as I am the difference is I know what I'm fucking.[/QUOTE]Thanks for clarifying.
Beautiful Becky had the finest ass and sweetest tasting pussy. So beautiful.
And then came Lenny.
[QUOTE=DoctorAl;5229054]Chinese Spa Shopping Center Cheviot Road White Oak shopping center All all reviews say.
Massage Only.[/QUOTE]Ok didn't see your previous post when I made my previous for some reason. Based on my experience, I think there are alot fewer of these 'legit' AMPs than you would think based on reading reviews. Sorry to say, but some guys getting the extras will post bad reviews to help ensure their lunchtime getaways don't get too crowded. Other times there can be clues to the truth in their descriptions and exaggerations. It can be hard knowing when to read between the lines. My personal take is that defeats the mission here. The investigations that get these places closed down start with complaints from the community, not reading our posts. Uncle comes here to help confirm his suspicions if at all. And by that point the place is probably on the way out so why not always just tell it like it is.
To the extent that there are AMPs with no extras, they require a steady diet of ugly guys with lousy sex lives, low expectations, and eternal optimism. LOL Most of the time going home unhappy comes down to guys expecting their money to open all the doors. Hygiene matters, being groomed, being in at least decent shape and appearance, and having the nerve and ability to flirt and tease. Don't just lay there, and if she doesn't warm up to your touching and talking get up and leave, and don't come back. Survival problem solved.
I have 3 UTRs but my favorite is one that disappeared for a while then I found her about 18 months ago. Been coming to see me twice a week without fail. Beautiful girl. Not just beautiful for a provider but damn good looking period. Whole time she's had a boyfriend, live in, but abusive. No I'm not being a white knight. I looked up his record and he is a bad dude. She has shown me texts he has sent her saying he was going to kill her. Shown up at my place with cuts and bruises. She moved in with her parents but he just stalks her and waits out front. He is aware of me finally after going through her phone. He's not sure what the deal is as she has told him that I am a family member but he suspects. Sends me texts with her phone pretending to be her but her and I have a code so I know when it actually is her. Her father begs her to call the police but she is afraid of him and so is her father and the times the police have been called they do nothing. Its a real small dept. I even on the sly talked to the police about him and they told me that yes he is a really bad person. Bad criminal record for abuse. So now when she can get away from the house or him she'll pop up here basically with about and hour notice. Whole time she is at my place looking outside to see if he somehow followed her to my place. Some will know her name from back when she was a provider on the H. She isn't now. I ran into her at her legit job and couldn't believe how good she looked. She really is a beautiful girl. Her and I talked several times and she said she doesn't do that anymore but agreed to just one time. That was over 18 months ago. Still says she feels guilty but always came over. Just afraid something is going to go really bad with this crazy boyfriend. She now texts me about once a week. She literally has to sneak out of her parents house at night to come to my place and then is afraid he is following her. He of course has no job. At first I wasn't buying all the crap she was saying but getting to know who he is and what I have seen I believe her. I think they may reach a point where she won't contact me or show up anymore because of this nutcase.
[QUOTE=Hooter12;5236993]I have 3 UTRs but my favorite is one that disappeared for a while then I found her about 18 months ago. Been coming to see me twice a week without fail. Beautiful girl. Not just beautiful for a provider but damn good looking period. Whole time she's had a boyfriend, live in, but abusive. No I'm not being a white knight. I looked up his record and he is a bad dude. She has shown me texts he has sent her saying he was going to kill her. Shown up at my place with cuts and bruises. She moved in with her parents but he just stalks her and waits out front. He is aware of me finally after going through her phone. He's not sure what the deal is as she has told him that I am a family member but he suspects. Sends me texts with her phone pretending to be her but her and I have a code so I know when it actually is her. Her father begs her to call the police but she is afraid of him and so is her father and the times the police have been called they do nothing. Its a real small dept. I even on the sly talked to the police about him and they told me that yes he is a really bad person. Bad criminal record for abuse. So now when she can get away from the house or him she'll pop up here basically with about and hour notice. Whole time she is at my place looking outside to see if he somehow followed her to my place. Some will know her name from back when she was a provider on the H. She isn't now. I ran into her at her legit job and couldn't believe how good she looked. She really is a beautiful girl. Her and I talked several times and she said she doesn't do that anymore but agreed to just one time. That was over 18 months ago. Still says she feels guilty but always came over. Just afraid something is going to go really bad with this crazy boyfriend. She now texts me about once a week. She literally has to sneak out of her parents house at night to come to my place and then is afraid he is following her. He of course has no job. At first I wasn't buying all the crap she was saying but getting to know who he is and what I have seen I believe her. I think they may reach a point where she won't contact me or show up anymore because of this nutcase.[/QUOTE]As good as it is to be the shoulder she runs to and fucks, I'd sever ties instead of waiting for her to. Pretty and damaged is a seductive combination for guys, we're wired to fuck and protect. But given her provider history, drug history, guy history, only professional help is going to fix what puts her into these situations. The safest bet is that history is going to keep repeating itself and anyone that doesn't want to get sucked in should get out of the way. Unless you're the type that likes starring in your own soap opera, possibly ending with serious injury or worse to you.
Just realized it's now been a full 10 years since I've been back in the hobby. It was around March 2011 that I broke the ice by going to see Gypsy Rae (there's a blast to the past for those who have been around a while). I saw her in a crappy notel, but the environment didn't change the fact that she was hot and about 20 years younger than me, which was all it took for the hobby to sink its hooks into me.
I've tried getting out of the hobby at different points, but apart from COVID, never could stay away for long. I've done the math before on how much I can remember spending in the past 5 years or so. The number wasn't pretty. Maybe someday, when I feel like a glutton for punishment, I'll do my best estimate on how much I've spent over the full 10 years. But what's the point, as I haven't spent all that much on it during COVID, and the money is gone anyway.
And some of that money was well spent. I've enjoyed women in their 30's, 20's, including a few 21 and 20 year olds, and even one 19 year old. There were times I almost had to pinch myself because I couldn't believe I was about to enjoy the company of who was in front of me. The hobby helped keep me sane at times when little else worked to keep me sane.
But there were also close calls. I'm amazed I never caught a disease after all this time, although I had my share of false alarms. I've always used protection for everything, but covers aren't 100% foolproof. Am also amazed I've never encountered our least favorite uncle or that I was never robbed or ended up with a black eye I wouldn't be able to explain. This forum and my sixth sense saved me more than once.
In the post COVID world, I plan on occasional meetups with providers, but probably not to the extent of 4-5 years ago. The urge to hook up isn't as intense as it once was. There are several reasons why. I think part of it is I've known for a while that I'm a sex addict, but I didn't really accept that I was until recently. Not fighting it anymore has ironically made me chill out a bit.
Just felt like being a bit nostalgic here, as this forum greatly helped my enjoyment and safety for a long time.
[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;5239152]Just realized it's now been a full 10 years since I've been back in the hobby. It was around March 2011 that I broke the ice by going to see Gypsy Rae (there's a blast to the past for those who have been around a while). I saw her in a crappy notel, but the environment didn't change the fact that she was hot and about 20 years younger than me, which was all it took for the hobby to sink its hooks into me.
I've tried getting out of the hobby at different points, but apart from COVID, never could stay away for long. I've done the math before on how much I can remember spending in the past 5 years or so. The number wasn't pretty. Maybe someday, when I feel like a glutton for punishment, I'll do my best estimate on how much I've spent over the full 10 years. But what's the point, as I haven't spent all that much on it during COVID, and the money is gone anyway.
And some of that money was well spent. I've enjoyed women in their 30's, 20's, including a few 21 and 20 year olds, and even one 19 year old. There were times I almost had to pinch myself because I couldn't believe I was about to enjoy the company of who was in front of me. The hobby helped keep me sane at times when little else worked to keep me sane.
But there were also close calls. I'm amazed I never caught a disease after all this time, although I had my share of false alarms. I've always used protection for everything, but covers aren't 100% foolproof. Am also amazed I've never encountered our least favorite uncle or that I was never robbed or ended up with a black eye I wouldn't be able to explain. This forum and my sixth sense saved me more than once.[/QUOTE]I have been in the hobby over 25 years and I have not had a SO the past 20 years but I still enjoy the company of a sexy woman. I don't have the same sex drive that I once did because of my age (67). One thing I don't care for is people labeling us mongers in the hobby as sex addicts. We love sex which is normal for human beings especially men so let the world be aware!
[URL]https://www.the-sun.com/news/2528850/porn-blocked-phones-tablets-utah-law/[/URL]
Than to argue with a fool, but you are apparently dumb enough to follow-up with someone who is obviously using fake pictures.
If you knew the pics were bogus why would you even contact the number in the first place?
What a maroon.
[QUOTE=SexTalkFor1000;5262732]You must think you are the only person on this site wit any brains, who in their right mind would follow up on anything if they thought the pics were fake.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SexTalkFor1000;5261552]I don't disagree with you about the pics, however I was given a physical address on 5th st in Covington, so I still believe it was a LEO setup.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SexTalkFor1000;5261255]I contacted this one from mega personals and right away I was given the address in Covington.
Pretty much like she / he was telling me just to come there with no other discussion.
However, the texting stopped when I ask if this was a cop.
Be careful out there.
[URL]https://megapersonals.eu/public/post_detail/12979088[/URL][/QUOTE]
I don't believe for a minute that I am a sex addict given my circumstances, but I am sure some might argue the point. I am in sexless situation so I go elsewhere, mainly SB's only now but have used pros in the past for my needs. I too like the company of a sexy woman from time to time, but a few times a month is usually fine for me. I think to be declared an addict, it tends to have to be an activity that you are obsessed with every day of your life? If I had an SO that was interested in sex I think I would be fine and not on the hunt much at all (but I am north of 60 so...). I was a bit of a dog when younger, but I traveled a lot and some of that was just being younger and on the road with opportunity. A lot of traveling men today and woman as well struggle with this situation - many get bored on the road when alone and horny, it happens. And as mentioned, most men do love sex with woman! Very normal I think.
[QUOTE=BigCat44;5239211]I have been in the hobby over 25 years and I have not had a SO the past 20 years but I still enjoy the company of a sexy woman. I don't have the same sex drive that I once did because of my age (67). One thing I don't care for is people labeling us mongers in the hobby as sex addicts. We love sex which is normal for human beings especially men so let the world be aware![/QUOTE]
Here's a question for everyone: Of all the girls you've seen through mongering, how many would you actually trust in a "what if" situation? My idea of "trust" in this context would be someone I would invite to my home for an outcall. I realize some mongers do outcalls regularly but, for me, I would NEVER invite an escort to my home (except for two) nor would I ever give them my last name. There are some girls I've seen numerous times and I've never said my last name in front of them, used a credit card while they were with me, etc. Occasionally, I drive someone to pick up groceries or whatever and I always make sure there's nothing in my car that shows my name.
I keep a list of the girls I've met through the hobby and I'm up to 120. Out of those 120 girls there's only two that I would be OK if they knew where I lived and / or knew my last name--Lady J and SincyCinnamon. I'm curious what you guys have to say on the subject if you're willing to share.
[QUOTE=Reman3289;5263331]I don't believe for a minute that I am a sex addict given my circumstances, but I am sure some might argue the point. I am in sexless situation so I go elsewhere, mainly SB's only now but have used pros in the past for my needs. I too like the company of a sexy woman from time to time, but a few times a month is usually fine for me. I think to be declared an addict, it tends to have to be an activity that you are obsessed with every day of your life? If I had an SO that was interested in sex I think I would be fine and not on the hunt much at all (but I am north of 60 so...). I was a bit of a dog when younger, but I traveled a lot and some of that was just being younger and on the road with opportunity. A lot of traveling men today and woman as well struggle with this situation - many get bored on the road when alone and horny, it happens. And as mentioned, most men do love sex with woman! Very normal I think.[/QUOTE]In terms of diagnosis, addiction is NOT that you do a substance or activity. It is that you continue to do so despite clear evidence that it is damaging your health, your finances, your relationships, causing legal issues, etc. Someone who goes to the casino say once a week with a fixed amount of cash, that they can afford to lose, and plays till it's gone is not a gambling addict. Someone who has run up 50 grand in credit card debt and keeps going is. Mongering could be either- the "joker" in the definition is that you could be fine according to all the criteria- but what if the word got out? What if you walked into a sting, or caught an STD? I enjoy riding a high performance motorcycle quite fast on the twisty roads of NK, but I wear quality protective gear, run on good tires, and slow down for blind corners. Is it risky? Yes, but I understand the risks and don't do stupid things that I see way too many other riders do. What is your definition of "acceptable risk" to do something you enjoy? BTW I basically haven't hobbied since COVID started, and now have had my vaccinations and am thinking about testing the waters again.
The good dr.
[QUOTE=Kenal1;5272068]Here's a question for everyone: Of all the girls you've seen through mongering, how many would you actually trust in a "what if" situation? My idea of "trust" in this context would be someone I would invite to my home for an outcall. I realize some mongers do outcalls regularly but, for me, I would NEVER invite an escort to my home (except for two) nor would I ever give them my last name. There are some girls I've seen numerous times and I've never said my last name in front of them, used a credit card while they were with me, etc. Occasionally, I drive someone to pick up groceries or whatever and I always make sure there's nothing in my car that shows my name.
I keep a list of the girls I've met through the hobby and I'm up to 120. Out of those 120 girls there's only two that I would be OK if they knew where I lived and / or knew my last name--Lady J and SincyCinnamon. I'm curious what you guys have to say on the subject if you're willing to share.[/QUOTE]No trust from me, no exceptions. There may be a couple who can be trusted in that way, but I feel better not take chances. I don't even use my real first name, although I did one time by accident. I've never even done an outcall to my hotel room if I had one. To each his own.
[QUOTE=Kenal1;5272068]Here's a question for everyone: Of all the girls you've seen through mongering, how many would you actually trust in a "what if" situation? My idea of "trust" in this context would be someone I would invite to my home for an outcall. I realize some mongers do outcalls regularly but, for me, I would NEVER invite an escort to my home (except for two) nor would I ever give them my last name. There are some girls I've seen numerous times and I've never said my last name in front of them, used a credit card while they were with me, etc. Occasionally, I drive someone to pick up groceries or whatever and I always make sure there's nothing in my car that shows my name.
I keep a list of the girls I've met through the hobby and I'm up to 120. Out of those 120 girls there's only two that I would be OK if they knew where I lived and / or knew my last name--Lady J and SincyCinnamon. I'm curious what you guys have to say on the subject if you're willing to share.[/QUOTE]I have been seeing the same lady for over 10 years now and yes I trust her. Always go to her incall but I would trust her to come to my place. Trust is something you develop over time.
[QUOTE=Dillsborodave;5272472]I have been seeing the same lady for over 10 years now and yes I trust her. Always go to her incall but I would trust her to come to my place. Trust is something you develop over time.[/QUOTE]10 years with the same gal, is she seeing new folks? Cause that's the provider type I'm seeking.