Rinsers=snowflakes=deluded; but simps feed them
I'm bored so here are two cents; I am lurking from California, I was in S. Florida for about 5 years and had a hot sugar baby ($100) a "sugar chubby ($50) and a hot UTR ($100) These were all free style or introductions from other females (the best way).
The young females do prefer to meet you first because it's a big step for some of them to fuck a stranger for money.
However, I think dinner is unreasonable and would not agree to it for a meet and greet, and I have not done so.
My success in Florida was related to the rumor being spread by females that I had enough dough to spend to make life fun for any girl who hung around me.
It started with my first date with a wild drunk girl but she talked to her coworkers at Home Depot and she bragged; magically two of them started to text me.
I had a gym trainer female for a while and she also spread the rumor to the Jamaican girl who did facials or something. I got her for nothing.
The trick therefore is to let them know that you have money but do not actually part with it; I guess it is a con.
The girls are running a con on you if they promise pussy later "after I get to know you" and you spend $100 on fuckin sushi or in a steak house or similar.
Snowflakes think they are unique; the truth is there are innumerable females selling pussy for $100-$150 . A pussy is about worth what the female could make working at a McJob for a day or two.