[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3244586]No way any insurance company should issue a car policy to a SB and / or family, the number of crashes is astronomical.[/QUOTE]This guy gets it. My man.
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[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3244586]No way any insurance company should issue a car policy to a SB and / or family, the number of crashes is astronomical.[/QUOTE]This guy gets it. My man.
Another thing I have noticed while talking to POT's is that SD's are a very mobile bunch. About 50% of the SB's I have talked to have only had one long term SD who had to move thus ending the relationship. Also these guys were very generous, not one paid less than $500 per meeting, usually it was a monthly allowance of at least $2,000.
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3244929]Another thing I have noticed while talking to POT's is that SD's are a very mobile bunch. About 50% of the SB's I have talked to have only had one long term SD who had to move thus ending the relationship. Also these guys were very generous, not one paid less than $500 per meeting, usually it was a monthly allowance of at least $2,000.[/QUOTE]HEHE. Read between the lines, bruh!
[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3244932]HEHE. Read between the lines, bruh![/QUOTE]I guess you missed my sarcasm, or I missed yours!
This guy knows the truth!
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3244929]Another thing I have noticed while talking to POT's is that SD's are a very mobile bunch. About 50% of the SB's I have talked to have only had one long term SD who had to move thus ending the relationship. Also these guys were very generous, not one paid less than $500 per meeting, usually it was a monthly allowance of at least $2,000.[/QUOTE]
I got back on SA for the Richmond area last week. Lots of new faces from when I was on in October. Once again even with girls that have been on for a year, some wait 2 or 3 days to reply after opening my message right away. Then it is like they are so excited I messaged them. What's up with that? Why wasn't I exciting when you first opened the message 2 days ago. Generally speaking those end up dead ends anyway.
Got a 24 yo babysitter that just got on 10 days ago lined up for a quick m&g lunch today. We've already discussed moving on to a hotel date next week if lunch goes well. Hope that pans out.
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3244929]Another thing I have noticed while talking to POT's is that SD's are a very mobile bunch. About 50% of the SB's I have talked to have only had one long term SD who had to move thus ending the relationship. Also these guys were very generous, not one paid less than $500 per meeting, usually it was a monthly allowance of at least $2,000.[/QUOTE]Most so called sd's are using sa like BP. They make one arrangement, promise to be back and never heard from again. There are very few on the board who have a committed sd / sb relationship. Moving is usually the number 1 excuse not to continue a lt arrangement. Most girls who have had a ltr relationship have said it lasted anywhere from 1-3 years. These arrangements varied in cost but was whatever it took for an exclusive sd / sb relationship. Another killer of the arrangement was the sd getting to attached and wanting moreof a relationship than the girl wanted. Remember most sb's are looking for financial help, not a bf. As long as the sugar is adequate they are there for ya. Remove the sugar and most sb's are gone.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3242322]Thanks for the warning and you are correct that there are clear risks we need to be aware of. I've had several very good long term experiences with younger women. It can be hard to find, but if you go into with the attitude that "all women are bitches", that is exactly what you will find.
It takes work to sort through all of the fakes, flakes, scammers, crazies and GPS. There are good women, but they are in the minority. Just like there are some good guys, but we are in the minority too.
Everyone is looking for something different. I don't judge what other people are looking for. Just know you get what you set your line for.[/QUOTE]Hello Brothers, I am not new to the Monger world but new to the SD / SB side of things. However in less than a month I have seen some crazy things. However I found that what you said is true. You can't catch sharks with worms as bait so you catch what you set your line for. I am down in the Hampton Roads area where there are only a few guys looking for real SD / SB relationships most use it like a more expensive BP. After at least 5 dates per week each of the 3 weeks I have been signed up on SA, I found honesty to be the best bait for my line. I tell the ladies in my messages clearly that I am looking for the one lady to take care of my needs but I won't know I found her until I have sampled our chemistry inside and outside of the bedroom. Some tell me to fuck off but the vast majority go the extra mile to be my one and only. I will add this caveat: I'm not lying to them I am genuinely looking for just one main lady so all my actions sincerely line up with my messages. However I have fucked 11 out of 15 ladies I have seen. Only one required protection and the agesture range from 18 to 24. One 27 year old and a 37 year old. I am 33 years old so I am having the time of my life. BTW the 27 year old might be the one I have been looking for and she is one who hasn't slept with me yet but I am postponing our second date because if the sex is as good as she claims, I might be giving up the buffet I have been feasting from.
What would you guys say your average allowance offer is? Do you guys do more pay per dates or more monthly allowances? I am averaging 150 on a pay per date scale. And I would appreciate any tips from guys who have had longterm SBs.
[QUOTE=NineGuy919;3245358]BTW the 27 year old might be the one I have been looking for and she is one who hasn't slept with me yet but I am postponing our second date because if the sex is as good as she claims, I might be giving up the buffet I have been feasting from.[/QUOTE]Ah yes, the 'I'm the best there is'. Do yourself a favor and wait until she actually delivers to judge. Some girls like to talk big. In my experience the bigger the talk, the smaller the delivery.
[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3244929]Another thing I have noticed while talking to POT's is that SD's are a very mobile bunch. About 50% of the SB's I have talked to have only had one long term SD who had to move thus ending the relationship. Also these guys were very generous, not one paid less than $500 per meeting, usually it was a monthly allowance of at least $2,000.[/QUOTE]It never ceases to amaze me what we hear for numbers from these girls. Where does that come from anyways? All these 6 and7/10 claiming 400-600 $ per meet from their prior arrangements. Anytime I hear it from a girl a little voice in my head goes "this girl thinks you're a complete fool, a moron". It takes a lot of restraint to not laugh at them but then I remember I'm the grown-up in this exchange and wish them luck.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3245228]Most so called sd's are using sa like BP. They make one arrangement, promise to be back and never heard from again. There are very few on the board who have a committed sd / sb relationship. Moving is usually the number 1 excuse not to continue a lt arrangement. Most girls who have had a ltr relationship have said it lasted anywhere from 1-3 years. These arrangements varied in cost but was whatever it took for an exclusive sd / sb relationship. Another killer of the arrangement was the sd getting to attached and wanting moreof a relationship than the girl wanted. Remember most sb's are looking for financial help, not a bf. As long as the sugar is adequate they are there for ya. Remove the sugar and most sb's are gone.[/QUOTE]It's possible to get a LTR from SA. I'm late 30's, and have dealt with 1 SB for the past 2 years. There's been so ups and downs, but a bit cheaper in the long run. Sugar is minimal; her main benefit is sharing my lifestyle. As things progress, you're meeting family and spending a lot of time together. We're debating what happens when she moves.
My sugar basically got her through a 2 yr grad school with no worries about housing, transportation, hair and nails. We travel together every few months as well. Her mother is closer to my age. A lot of my spending is mainly for her to have bragging rights amongst her mom and gfs her age.
It hasn't been all peachy, you're dealing with a young 20 something that's filtering guys out constantly and looking for a true ALPHA male. It's a balancing act you have to have confidence in. Things got testy when I had a suspicion she had a BF. I pried and discovered some convo were she's discussing me (not as an SD), but more like a rich bf. Instead of getting insecure, I found it made me feel more of the prize and the leader in our relationship. Suspicions of her seeing other guys faded and we started to spend more time together and she started to share emotionally. As an SD, these girls are looking for guidance and understanding. With some patience these girls will become totally dependent and place you in the center of their life.
Most girls are on SA for the cash. They aren't looking for guidance. Most are know it all millennials. They think they deserve to be spoiled because they simply exist. They think Christian Grey is on SA just waiting for them. The better looking and younger you are, the less they will take as in cash. Most have bfs but get tired of them at times because they are broke, immature, and selfish.
*now I am going to say, yes there are diamonds in the rough*.
Lots of fake diamonds and lots of rough.
Keep the hunting up just think smart!
[QUOTE=NineGuy919;3245368]What would you guys say your average allowance offer is? Do you guys do more pay per dates or more monthly allowances? I am averaging 150 on a pay per date scale. And I would appreciate any tips from guys who have had longterm SBs.[/QUOTE]It depends and awful lot on the area you are in. My experience is that the more appealing SBs start by asking for 500+. I offer 150, but have occasionally gone to 200 and rarely to 250/300. The 250/300 were the worst. Girls were smoking hot, but knew it. Experiences were very bland. Most of my best experiences have been at 150 with a girl who is smoking hot, but humble and genuinely attracted to me.
I now only offer 150 telling them I'm sure they can get more, buy that is what I can budget. If they like me they go for it and the experience is usually great!
Impressive. Your success rate is over 73%. So what was your average spend per SB. Especially among those that agreed to go to the FC.
[QUOTE=NineGuy919;3245358]Hello Brothers, I am not new to the Monger world but new to the SD / SB side of things. However in less than a month I have seen some crazy things. However I found that what you said is true. You can't catch sharks with worms as bait so you catch what you set your line for. I am down in the Hampton Roads area where there are only a few guys looking for real SD / SB relationships most use it like a more expensive BP. After at least 5 dates per week each of the 3 weeks I have been signed up on SA, I found honesty to be the best bait for my line. I tell the ladies in my messages clearly that I am looking for the one lady to take care of my needs but I won't know I found her until I have sampled our chemistry inside and outside of the bedroom. Some tell me to fuck off but the vast majority go the extra mile to be my one and only. I will add this caveat: I'm not lying to them I am genuinely looking for just one main lady so all my actions sincerely line up with my messages. However I have fucked 11 out of 15 ladies I have seen. Only one required protection and the agesture range from 18 to 24. One 27 year old and a 37 year old. I am 33 years old so I am having the time of my life. BTW the 27 year old might be the one I have been looking for and she is one who hasn't slept with me yet but I am postponing our second date because if the sex is as good as she claims, I might be giving up the buffet I have been feasting from.[/QUOTE]