NoVA SugarBabies

Thanks a lot. Wonderful information.

[QUOTE=FatWhiteGuy;6824076]50 for a month, 90 for 3 months and 150 for 6 mos. Since you're new to the site do the 3 month subscription. It will take patience to weed through the bs and learning to navigate the site. Platform is annoying compared to SA and the search feature is wide ranged, 50 miles minimum, not dialed in like on seeking where you can check your own neighborhood.

When it comes to messaging, you'll need a subscription, (premium), to message people. Premium allows you to msg anyone. However if your not a member you can always comment on their profile on the bottom but its pointless. If you want to be considered a SD as they say, you'll def need the subscription.

Also if your not premium you cannot view who likes your profile or who has viewed your profile. Same goes for girls who arent premium members. They can't see that you viewed them. Its best to msg them so they can hit you back, which you need premium for anyway.

SDM has an app. Its gay. I suggest the browser instead. Better features.

There are chatrooms as well on this site. They are ALL useless except for the main chat. I'm in there quite a bit. People just shoot the shit from all over the globe, its harmless and entertaining. You have to be premium in order to use the main chat though.

No clue about prepaid cards.

Do whatever you want for a profile pic. Suggest you validate your profile too- lets girls know its you behind the profile and not some hack. Diamond isn't necessary, no need to validate your salary unless ya want to.

I've been on and off SDM for almost 3 yrs. No more SA for me, banned for soliciting sex (go figure). I join for 1 month and take a break for 2 months. I can get enough numbers and if I meet 1 or 2 girls in a month, I'm content. I don't expend as much energy on these sites as I used too.

Lastly its slim pickens in the DC area regarding women on SDM. Quality is lower than SA. I've started to expanded my search up to 200 mi to find someone new and worthy for my own entertainment. Good Luck to you and everyone else.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the info. I will try it out.

[QUOTE=JustLikeThe;6823824]1. What is the monthly fee? - 50 Monthy or lower if you opt for 3 month.

2. Is messaging unlimited or have to pay or use tokens to message? - Messaging is unlimited.

3. Is a profile photo an absolute requirement? - You can crop your face out for privacy.

4. How easy to use a prepaid card to make the payment? - I haven't used a prepaid card, so sorry no inputs on that.

I have had less productive outcomes on SDM in the recent past. I met two SB's 3 years back which turned out good but after that its been a dry run compared to SA. I guess it's the probability of being in the right place at the right time. Other people here have had better luck in SDM. YMMV.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;6825025]NOTHING like that, she sent the same exact pics. I was so disappointed. When I texted her about how messed up I thought it was to catfish to that extreme. She turns it around on me and says Im not a looker and how she doesnt send tricks her real pic.[/QUOTE]It's amazing to me how they pseudo escorts try to make us feel like the bad guys. I truly believe that most of these women have some sort of mental issue. I've been insulted many times for asking them to proof they are real or just refusing to send "deposits".

Even the real ones might at times have boyfriends that seem to be running their messages because of the tone of them. I had one do a complete 180 on me shortly after hanging out even though everything went great. I might have to start being an asshole if this keeps us. They try to make us feel like we are begging to pay for p you s s why, they are the ones that should be begging us to hang and pay them. I assume most of us have a good career or business to be able to afford these girls that can't even hold a good job so they have to resort to this. Sorry for the rant and generalization. This post just struck a nerve LOL.

[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;6818858]Vanessa or whatever the hell her real name is. The pics were very intriguing and she went straight to texting and schedule a date. I pick her up from the hair salon she's working at and she looks nothing like the pics. She is much older, in her late 30's maybe early 40's. Droopy tits that her outfit partly revealed. Not a looker at all. I attempt to salvage something by trying to see the good in it and drive with her to the restaurant. Once we got to the table I was planning my exit. Before we ordered she excuses herself to the bathroom and I excuse myself out the restaurant. Beware. She texted me from an iPhone ending in 1794.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5b3c324f-7ecd-4e7c-84ed-73a0763453ee[/URL][/QUOTE]Hilarious. I had date set up 5 mins from her place. Agreed to meet at OConnels in OldTown. I drove an hr to meet. She then says its too late to come out. It was 9 p. I ripped her a new one, ordered a steak, 2 shots and a beer and watched the Caps game. Twat.

When I started doing the SD thing, I started at the beginning of the Richmond SB board and read and read some more. One of the early SDs offered words that truly resonate.

"Play the Game, don't let the Game play you. ".

[QUOTE=AnonDemon69;6825092]It's amazing to me how they pseudo escorts try to make us feel like the bad guys. I truly believe that most of these women have some sort of mental issue. I've been insulted many times for asking them to proof they are real or just refusing to send "deposits".

Even the real ones might at times have boyfriends that seem to be running their messages because of the tone of them. I had one do a complete 180 on me shortly after hanging out even though everything went great. I might have to start being an asshole if this keeps us. They try to make us feel like we are begging to pay for p you s s why, they are the ones that should be begging us to hang and pay them. I assume most of us have a good career or business to be able to afford these girls that can't even hold a good job so they have to resort to this. Sorry for the rant and generalization. This post just struck a nerve LOL.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/86a3a4ba-3a22-4889-b56b-2d5d6917bfc4[/URL]

Pics are not her. Good news is that she is pretty hot. Like Elite Models hot. Also like Elite girls, limited English. Unlike Elite girls, was super rushed, didn't kiss but a few pecks, let me daty but skipped any BJ and just stroked me, wrapped me, and took a pounding. V was tight, view was great, especially her ass. Overall tho was a waste of 5 and time. To be fair, she was in a rush to get to work but I get the sense that things will not improve with future visits.

[QUOTE=JojoSamDinelli;6825233]New to SA. How do you all handle the photo situation? I imagine many of you are trying to do this with discretion so you don't have your face attached to your profile. Do the ladies respond to blank profiles? At what point do you show them a pic of yourself before meeting?[/QUOTE]I have a new profile that I just opened to test a theory I had. I put a picture of some random guy I found on the internet, but with sunglasses. I messaged a few girls and went to texting fairly easy. Once I was there, some asked for another pic so I came clean and showed them a real one. We met and everything went fine. I have had others not even bother to ask for another pic, just went straight to business. They need the money and as long as you are not hideous or look dirty, they don't care.
Forgot to add, make sure that any pic you send them is one from IG (but have your IG on private so they can't reverse search you). That way if they try to blackmail you, just say someone stole your pic from your followers list.

[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6700264]This lady is incredibly beautiful, smokin hot and really nice. Her ask is $1500 PPM, insists on covers, and desires to meet in Ashburn. All 3 are deal breakers for me, but she quickly went to $1 K, so figured I would meet her and continue to negotiate. My goal was $750, no covers w / testing, and meet between Ashburn and Tysons. Drove out to Ashburn and met for coffee. Prior to meeting, she suggested that if we clicked, I should ensure that I had time allotted to play afterwards.

She was firm on condoms until we "got to know each other better" and would not budge off $1 K. She did offer to host at her house (have to work around when she has her kid) and / or she would drive to Tysons. Told her I would consider and departed with a nice hug.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/73c57027-dff3-40ae-a09d-194c8a1a0c92[/URL][/QUOTE]They are real and spectacular.

[QUOTE=WorkYard;6826928]They are real and spectacular.[/QUOTE]Please elaborate. "they" were real and spectacular, but not she?

[QUOTE=WorkYard;6826928]They are real and spectacular.[/QUOTE]How spectacular are we talking? Worth it for a one-time $1 K hit, or worth $1 K in general?

Anyone ever taken the plunge with this one? Yeah she doesn't come cheap, I'm aware. Just curious if anyone's got any experience of actually meeting her. Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e7ddffad-e61b-48b2-a026-aaf7b922afe4[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;6825851][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/86a3a4ba-3a22-4889-b56b-2d5d6917bfc4[/URL]

Pics are not her. Good news is that she is pretty hot. Like Elite Models hot. Also like Elite girls, limited English. Unlike Elite girls, was super rushed, didn't kiss but a few pecks, let me daty but skipped any BJ and just stroked me, wrapped me, and took a pounding. V was tight, view was great, especially her ass. Overall tho was a waste of 5 and time. To be fair, she was in a rush to get to work but I get the sense that things will not improve with future visits.[/QUOTE]I hit her up, quoted me 6 for 1 hr. I replied asking 1 hr is all I get? She confirmed, so I don't think her rushing you had anything to do with her needing to get to work.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/533d0957-8b1c-4c18-a975-93a8dce89ae6[/URL]

Says the account was only started on 2/16/24 but I have seen her pics before on SA. Anyone remember her or what her old screen name was? I'm almost sure there were reports on her in the past.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;6828080]I hit her up, quoted me 6 for 1 hr. I replied asking 1 hr is all I get? She confirmed, so I don't think her rushing you had anything to do with her needing to get to work.[/QUOTE]So I guess she is 6 for 1 hr, and 5 for 15 min? She was hot but totally not in to it. It felt much like a QV with a backpage-esque provider. I'm sure she does in fact have a job since she declined meetups due to her work schedule prior to this.

[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;6828222]So I guess she is 6 for 1 hr, and 5 for 15 min? She was hot but totally not in to it. It felt much like a QV with a backpage-esque provider. I'm sure she does in fact have a job since she declined meetups due to her work schedule prior to this.[/QUOTE]Oh wow. You were in and out (literally. LOL) in 15 minutes? Jeez, that's terrible man. Sorry you had to be the guinea pig.