NoVA SugarBabies

[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6804801]Really great intel and thank you for sharing with the board. You clearly have "the game" to close the deal and get BCD's. I do however question not providing some type of financial gift even though it was not discussed up front. Pay to play is the entire premise of an arrangement. I've had this happen a few times where we smash prior to discussing the PPM and always provide something. I actually like this scenario because I get to set the rate as opposed to having to negotiate.[/QUOTE]In hindsight, I kinda regret not offering something to playfulgnd. And if I had to choose between her & ninahawk, I'd have opted for the former. Both encounters were during back-to-back weekends. I guess my thought process was that maybe they were into me enough to want a non-transactional FWB thing.

I've pulled off such a feat with two separate SBs years ago (regulars that have long since moved on from the site, unfortunately). One had been thoroughly reviewed before & told me to forget PPM after the first or second date. Her only ask was for me to book a hotel near her location & get her dinner every once in a while. The other SB was another regular who asked for PPM up until the third or fourth date before asking for something similar. After at least a dozen meetups apiece, both eventually claimed to have found someone else they wished to be monogamous with. So we parted amicably.

While Seeking is typically a pay-to-play site, it's not impossible to score a unicorn every so often. At no point did I ever suggest to any SB that we ought to ditch the payment. That typically comes about with being a regular john who's patient, communicative, empathetic, and be as accommodating as possible within budgetary limits. Most women appreciate upfront honesty and usually won't hold it against you for having limitations yourself (I say usually because we all know there are some bat shit crazy ones out there, haha)! It really depends on the situation, but if a SB doesn't broach the subject of PPM, my thought process is to not mention it unless they do. Again, that's just me.

[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6804801]Really great intel and thank you for sharing with the board. You clearly have "the game" to close the deal and get BCD's. I do however question not providing some type of financial gift even though it was not discussed up front. Pay to play is the entire premise of an arrangement. I've had this happen a few times where we smash prior to discussing the PPM and always provide something. I actually like this scenario because I get to set the rate as opposed to having to negotiate.[/QUOTE]Yes, there was a guy who used to post a lot on this board. JZLizard - as he said, there is no such thing as free pussy. If you aren't paying for it in dollars, there could be 'expectations' developing on her part that could be much, much more expensive for you in the long run. Of course, we all have to keep this hobby affordable for ourselves. I consider the 'allowance' an insurance premium, among a few different things. Now, I have never had a girl offer to go to a complete FWB setup, but I am a geezer, and there's no way one of the girls I've enjoyed on an ongoing basis would see me as a pseudo-BF.

I do have an ex-SB who gets in touch once or twice a year, just did so on VDay, I think she was feeling lonely (no BF material in her current living setting), and it was flattering she was thinking about me. Even when we were together she said that I treated her better (not particularly financially. Her allowance was 1 K / mo) than any man ever had. Smoking hot sex too.

[QUOTE=JkNova9;6315539]She's back on for like a third time. She was engaged to another chick, but looks like that's off. I had messaged and texted a year+ ago and she sent some ridiculous vids and pics, but never could get her to meet. I'm going to try again, as everyone should. Hat tip to anyone who pulls her!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cdb08ac8-cc0e-4d53-934c-ba5255ec0c7c[/URL][/QUOTE]She's sexy. And totally unresponsive LOL. But online often. Perhaps narrowing the overwhelming interest she must have. Or perhaps becoming the next tibbytabby (hot, always online, inconsistent comms at best).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ac71f5da-43b0-4a7a-b529-bf62eea70a6c[/URL]

Wants allowance but if pressed will ask 750 ppm and other treats and spoiling as mandatory.

I respectfully passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5ed2696c-7b4e-4fd2-9c7a-464079c5b1aa[/URL]

Account is pretty new. Private pics don't reveal much. She is cagey about sharing face pics, but did volunteer her number after a few messages. Eager to setup meets in advance, but feels overall like a pro or local UTR. No ppm or performance details discussed yet. FC visit right after MnG is scheduled for next week. Anybody have more details?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/485a5078-70bc-4c0c-b502-a1158d9a6262[/URL]

Pro vibes. Visiting from out of town and staying near Fairfax. Didn't ask price.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8df93010-3c3a-4f38-b76e-d1b6d99bc7e2[/URL]

DTF $800. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f78f0d7-a6d5-42ba-bdf1-a4d56ddb90fa[/URL]

Quick to give me her number. Number was a local number so would think possibly real. Prob not going to meet as I'm busy with others.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/807f07aa-c75d-4383-acde-ba67d5bf6c9f[/URL]

$600 DTF. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f2f408c-7f65-4227-a528-7bb31bdbc653[/URL]

Not into black chick currently. Messaged me with her number. Never responded.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/7d2a7321-7696-499e-af6b-9630e24fc59b[/URL]

Messaged me and wanted to meet for vday. I never responded. Black and thick. Bad combo for me currently.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/61707b92-92bc-44b1-852e-6a79ef51a9bc[/URL]

Messaged me with her number and wanted to meet. Sent her a text and she never responded. Not sure if someone else is already banging her. Didn't get details.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97cc5e56-064e-455e-acbd-a98b5342f18c[/URL]

DTF $700. After sharing her privates pass not my type.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/04530092-1b08-4293-84f9-977e057510dc[/URL]

Messaged me and wanted to meet. Not into Gothic girls. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9733c345-62ce-4598-b446-cbb82dabd255[/URL]

Wants $300 PPM Platonic. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dd0e4e85-12ad-40ea-a189-496cd8b29f2d[/URL]

Messaged me wants to meet. Pass too thick for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a7db774f-8ac5-4825-a43c-c7ff09f8afc2[/URL]

Messaged me and say she loves me. Pass not into black chicks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db7a80c6-2257-4704-9f9f-a0653f601b40[/URL]

DTF $800. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b3eeb27-4244-4cad-8602-8130ea663d60[/URL]

Chatted a bit on text and sounded boring. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6d16fc56-5a04-4ef4-9bcd-ae093fdc6976[/URL]

DTF $1 k. In NY. Too far and expensive.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/94ba4c8b-dfeb-4f38-b49f-00f19480e17b[/URL]

DTF $800 in NY. Too far.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80df21a7-8fcb-4a59-b5a5-6e799171de5f[/URL]

DTF $700 in NY. Not pretty enough after sharing privates. Too far.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af37b075-2721-4352-8c39-b171bc159960[/URL]

Went to text. Seemed ADHD and too much work. DTF but didn't discuss price as she was all over the place. Give me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a77650b6-76bd-4fb3-928a-26b1e38b1bee[/URL]

Wants to travel for IG it seems like. DTF but wants PPM and monthly. Airheaded to didn't further discuss.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c864fe54-b75a-4360-a76d-2bd1793fc1f0[/URL]

Willing to come visit me in DC. $1 k plus flights. After second thought too old for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8a055a-5bed-490c-a75a-5215a0bac21d[/URL]

Wanted to meet for free for dinner. Face looks too old for me. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97d3e697-cbc7-4156-85bc-8de4fe54fe67[/URL]

Willing to meet for free to see if theres a connection for dinner if I'm in NY. Too far.

I have a lot more but not enough time currently. Will upload more later.

Anyone meet or have any experience with Sunny?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/797617f4-29b5-450b-821e-703e574e9fad[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;6806906][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5ed2696c-7b4e-4fd2-9c7a-464079c5b1aa[/URL]

Account is pretty new. Private pics don't reveal much. She is cagey about sharing face pics, but did volunteer her number after a few messages. Eager to setup meets in advance, but feels overall like a pro or local UTR. No ppm or performance details discussed yet. FC visit right after MnG is scheduled for next week. Anybody have more details?[/QUOTE]I got "it depends 5 to 8.

[QUOTE=Pe250;6807395]I got "it depends 5 to 8.[/QUOTE]Can you elaborate more?

[QUOTE=Kpop1;6807181][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6d16fc56-5a04-4ef4-9bcd-ae093fdc6976[/URL]

DTF $1 k. In NY. Too far and expensive.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/94ba4c8b-dfeb-4f38-b49f-00f19480e17b[/URL]

DTF $800 in NY. Too far.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80df21a7-8fcb-4a59-b5a5-6e799171de5f[/URL]

DTF $700 in NY. Not pretty enough after sharing privates. Too far.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af37b075-2721-4352-8c39-b171bc159960[/URL]

Went to text. Seemed ADHD and too much work. DTF but didn't discuss price as she was all over the place. Give me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a77650b6-76bd-4fb3-928a-26b1e38b1bee[/URL]

Wants to travel for IG it seems like. DTF but wants PPM and monthly. Airheaded to didn't further discuss.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c864fe54-b75a-4360-a76d-2bd1793fc1f0[/URL]

Willing to come visit me in DC. $1 k plus flights. After second thought too old for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8a055a-5bed-490c-a75a-5215a0bac21d[/URL]

Wanted to meet for free for dinner. Face looks too old for me. Pass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97d3e697-cbc7-4156-85bc-8de4fe54fe67[/URL]

Willing to meet for free to see if there's a connection for dinner if I'm in NY. Too far.[/QUOTE]If you've already determined NY is too far then why the fuck are you interacting with so many chicks from

[QUOTE=ShortMan22;6807425]Can you elaborate more?[/QUOTE]I have nothing more. Not sure what the diff is between 500 and 800.

Good Morning, Any info. On this one, looks like she's been around since 2018, but couldn't find anything about her on the board?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b0c74545-f3b0-481a-8c93-3626a9ea553c[/URL]

[QUOTE=Dimples572;6807554]If you've already determined NY is too far then why the fuck are you interacting with so many chicks from[/QUOTE]Simple. They messaged me first. Curious to see how the market is in NY.

[QUOTE=Kpop1;6807898]Simple. They messaged me first. Curious to see how the market is in NY.[/QUOTE]Ah gotcha. Do you guys not have your profile online status set to hidden? Otherwise if I don't I get a thousand spam messages. So since I'm on hidden I only interact with women I choose to message first. Assumed most did it that way, I guess not LOL.

I believe this has been discussed but is anyone else having trouble renewing their membership? I paused mine for a month or two as commitments made it impossible to "date" anyone, however, it will no longer accept new or old payment methods. I had this error once before but it finally took. I've emailed support but also haven't gotten a response. Curious if anyone has had the problem and found a solution.